” The Biggest Gift You can give Your Loved ones is Your Time “….

Often , most of us forget to count our blessings which are none other than the people who love us and care about us. Their happiness depends on our happiness . Their encouragement is the reason for our success. Their well wishes and prayers are the reason why bad luck and lightning never struck us. But in our ego we forget about their importance in our lives and just to satisfy our own selfish motives – either to earn more name , fame , success , power or money-we take our loved ones for granted. We end up hurting the people who love us the most. We make our loved ones cry by letting them know that they do not deserve to be a part of our lives and their importance in our lives just does not exist anymore .We do everything to make them leave our lives thinking that we will be a happier person after they depart from our lives .
But, I guess by the time we realize that we ran and won the race of achieving all our ambitions and dreams– it was too late.. There was nobody around us to be happy for us and celebrate our success with us. There was no one to cheer us or be proud of our success. And no one to say I truly love You and you mean the world to them. There was no one who was truly happy for you..
I really hope that such a time never comes in anyone’s life where you will be the biggest looser even after winning the whole world.. 
But after reading this mail if you think that you have indeed somehow managed to throw your loved ones out of your life  — Now is the time–Its never too late to correct your mistake. One Sorry – One Smile- One Phone call- One Sms — One step towards your loved ones will take care of all the misunderstandings .. Appreciate the presence of your loved ones in your life before its too late .Your vision might have been a little blurred all this time but if you start counting Baba’s blessings and Grace on you– You will be in the company of people who Love you and Live for you. You will have less enemies , less negativity , more peace and true happiness around you. Think about it..
The biggest gift you can give your loved one is your time, your appreciation, your love, your understanding, your support , your faith and above all your self surrender..
If you can not love, trust or understand your loved ones who you can see and hear- what makes you think that you will be able to love or trust your Sadguru who you can not see or hear with your worldly eyes.
May Sai help you to realize your mistake and give you the courage to accept your foolishness of betraying your loved ones, without whom everything about you is incomplete.
 
We take everything for GRANTED…..
 A constantly worried Mom
 A strict Dad
 An annoying Brother
 A rude Sister
 A chipku Friend
 A demanding Wife
 A complaining Husband
BUT when we Lose them- then we miss them as:
     My Caring Mom
 My Concerned Dad
 My Best Brother
 My Loving Sister
 My Real Friend
 My Wife, My Life
 My Hubby, My World…
Don’t take them for granted. Life never gives a second chance. So just value your relations  before Losing them!!!!! Its Time to Wake Up…..
Quote of BABA:
I did not expect anything from devotees but grateful remembrance, unchanging faith and devotion. 
source:::H.Deepa in
natarajan

Message For The Day…”Your Real Nature is Purity, Peace and Joy…”

You may sometimes feel you are a sinner, and are essentially wicked. But if someone were to think like you and calls you “Hello sinner!”, you will resent it! Why? Because, your real nature is purity, peace and joy. You are divine. You are a manifestation of God! Your mind, intellect, memory, egoism and the senses (Manas, Buddhi, Chitha, Ahamkara, Indhriyas) are like the bricks, iron rods, cement and wood that go up to make a house for your soul to live in. They are not you; the real you is the Divine Soul (Atma). You will truly appreciate this only by constant meditation, moving in good company, listening to the talks of the realised ones, and by following certain prescribed course of discipline. That is why I lay so much emphasis on discipline

Sathya Sai Baba

” God Will Never Leave You Empty ” ….

 

THE BOILING FROG SYNDROME..!!
Human Beings and frogs are the two creatures in nature who have tremendous power to adjust…Put a frog in a vessel of water and start heating the water. As the temperature of the water rises, the frog is able to adjust its body temperature accordingly. The frog keeps on adjusting with increase in temperature. Just when the water is about to reach boiling point, the frog is not able to adjust anymore. At that point the frog decides to jump out. The frog tries to jump but is unable to do so, because it lost all its strength in adjusting with the water temperature. Very soon the frog dies.
What killed the frog?
Many of us would say the boiling water. But the truth is what killed the frog was its own inability to decide when it had to jump out.
We all need to adjust with people and situations, but we need to be sure when we need to adjust and when we need to face. There are times when we need to face the situation and take the appropriate action. If we allow people to exploit us physically, emotionally or financially, they will continue to do so.We have to decide when to jump. Let us jump while we still have the strength…
God has given us a Heart and a Brain.. May Sai give us the courage to use them both wisely at the correct time and for the correct reasons..
source::::H.Deepa in http://debu7370.blogspot.com/
natarajan

What About the Right to Pre- School Education ?

Under the Right To Education Act, it is not mandatory for the state to provide for the care of the children until the age of 6 years when most social, emotional and cognitive skills are formed by this age.  

A cursory glance at the streets of urban Indian cities and towns will show you the increasing number of infants and toddlers in the country. While most of them are perched on their mother’s hips, thereby being used as an indirect source of income for the family, the elder ones can be found playing on the pavement. One fine day, I had the opportunity to observe such a group of children. Until my auto came to an halt at a signal, they were playing among themselves. It was more of a role play, I could see from far. I could not really make out what roles they were assuming but I could vividly see their eyes full of glee and myriad expressions. Once the vehicles halted, they immediately came begging with the same glee stuck to their face. Many of the onlookers would have even wondered – are they really hungry? Why are they here? Sometimes I think it’s not just food. Theater and role play techniques are being taught in teacher training courses in order for those to be used as effective teaching tools for the preschool children. Who taught these kids on the streets ?

Once again, the words of Maria Montessori flashed in front of my eyes. “Education is a natural process carried out by the human individual and is acquired not by listening to words but by experiences in the environment”. But have we provided the right environment for these children – an environment which will help them realize their potential to the fullest?

The Right to Education Act of 2009 was implemented recently in the country. I have, myself, been a part of many discussions about the act and how effective it has been to reduce the dropout rates. But a part of me was always skeptical. This was because I was interested in children of the age group 2-6 years. All articles and reports wrote about free education from the age of 6 to 14 years as a fundamental right. What I feared turned out to be true. Article 45 of the constitution has been amended to say “Provision for early childhood care and education to children below the age of six years — The State shall endeavour to provide early childhood care and education for all children until they complete the age of six years.” One more endeavour added to the list of the state. It is not mandatory for the state to provide for the care of the children until the age of 6 years. I personally thought this was a major setback. Why? Because everyday we are striving to eradicate crimes like thefts, gang rapes, murders and so on. A closer look at why these happen will reveal to us a disturbed childhood.

When I say childhood, I am referring to their early childhood here. Scientific studies have revealed that most social, emotional and cognitive skills are formed until the age of 6 years. Early childhood development has emerged as one of the prime research areas in most nations in order to build a stable society for the future. Sure, it does make sense. If we can invest in our children of today, we expect to reap the benefit of a truly civilized society tomorrow. The earlier we invest, the more economical it is. Also, fostering a nourishing environment for the toddlers and the preschoolers will instill in them an interest to continue their schooling, which in turn will make the job of the state easier by actually reducing the dropout rates.

I also stumbled upon the history of preschool education in India. I was awestruck. Social and educational reformer Tarabai Modak was fondly referred to as “India’s Montessori”. She started the Balwadis, which are now operational in many states across India. She applied Montessori principles to suit the local conditions. The concept of neighbourhood schooling coupled with the non-formal nature of the education provides for the social, physical and mental health of the children. Her co-worker Anutai Wagh is also well known for her work to educate the tribal population. Gandhi’s framework of pre-basic education is highly relevant in today’s conditions. He envisaged an inexpensive preschool system in the neighbourhood community of children, where they are free to develop themselves by engaging in multitude of creative activities. Such an interaction with the environment is also expected to strengthen their moral as well as cultural values. Isn’t this what education is all about?

Well, it’s about time we recognized that they are not just preschoolers but the building blocks of tomorrow’s nation!

source:::: a thought provoking article by Aarthi Nandakumar in  “The Alternative ”  ….
Aarthi is a preschool educator at Jakarta. She is trained in the Montessori method of education and is passionate about working with children in the age group between 2 and 6 years. She believes that children are bestowed with endless potential and loves to explore them in her journey. As Maria Montessori says “The child is both a hope and a promise for mankind.”

natarajan

 

 

 

Message For The Day…. “Every Single Individual in the Planet is Divine “…

Usually when you are asked where God is, you point to the sky or some distant place of worship and say He is there, as if He is just a person and has a definite place of Residence. Every single individual in the planet is essentially Divine. It is delusion that has induced one who is Naraayana swarupa (embodiment of God) to imagine and behave as if he is just a nara (human). To remove that delusion, there are various means suited to the needs of each sufferer. But all the treatment and all the struggle is to achieve the experience of being Naraayana, and discard the limited, bound, and relative entity, nara. That is the one harvest yielded by all the various processes. Until one understands oneself, the delusion and the resultant grief cannot be ended. Make use of this precious opportunity, invest time to understand yourself.

 Sathya Sai Baba

” Live Simply…Walk Humbly…and Love Genuinely” ….

A group of students were asked to list what they thought were the present “Seven Wonders of the World.”
Though there were some disagreements, the following received the most votes:
1. Egypt’s Great Pyramids
2. Taj Mahal
3. Grand Canyon
4. Panama Canal
5. Empire State Building
6. St. Peter’s Basilica
7. China’s Great Wall
While gathering the votes, the teacher noted that one student had not finished her paper yet. So she asked the girl if she was having trouble with her list. The girl replied, “Yes, a little. I couldn’t quite make up my mind because there were so many.”
The teacher said, “Well, tell us what you have, and maybe we can help.” The girl hesitated, then read, “I think the ‘Seven Wonders of the World’ are:
1. to see
2. to hear
3. to touch
4. to taste
5. to feel
6. to laugh
7. and to love.”
The room was so quiet you could have heard a pin drop. The things we overlook as simple and ordinary and that we take for granted are truly wondrous!!
If wealth is the secret to happiness, then the Rich should be dancing on the streets.
But only Poor Kids do that.
If power ensures security,then top Officials should walk unguarded.But people who live on roadside feel more secure.
If beauty brings ideal relationships, then celebrities should have the best marriages.
But they have one of the worst relationships.
That’s why… Live simply…Walk humbly and Love genuinely!!!  
May Sai bless us all with the wonderful qualities of a child once again. May we learn to trust our loved ones once again. May we all learn to love unconditionally once again .May we all learn to respect our elders once again. May we all have that sweet smile and the warmth of innocence around us once again. May we always be in a cheerful mood once again. May  the ego , jealousy and greed in our hearts be replaced by compassion, faith and  devotion .May we all be Sai’s good children once again and above all May we all be blessed with Sai’s grace and love in all our lives to come..  
source::::: H.Deepa in http://debu7370.blogspot.com/
natarajan

Message For The Day…If God is Invisible to You, Fault lies within You …

Nothing is ever born without the will of God, nothing ever happens without His will. This is the message of the Vedas. Understand the scriptures well and this lesson will be instilled in you. Fleas suck and taste only the blood of the cow, but we draw from her, sweet nourishing milk. So too, you must draw and learn from the scriptures, the potency of the will of the Lord. If fixed in that faith, you will be able to brave all dangers. In Ramayana, not all the stones that Lord Rama stepped on, turned into a human being. Only one stone changed into the form of Ahalya, for repentance and penance had elevated that stone to win the Grace of the Lord. If God is invisible to you, the fault lies within you. You are unable to recognize His various manifestations. You yourself are His very own manifestation. Fix your vision!

 Sathya Sai Baba

” I Say My Prayers When It is Calm ” ….

 

There is a story of about a sea captain who in his retirement skippered a boat taking day-trippers to Shetland Islands.
On one trip, the boat was full of young people. They laughed at the old captain when they saw him say a prayer before sailing out, because the day was fine and the sea was calm.

However they weren’t long at sea when a storm suddenly blew up and the boat began to roll & pitch violently. The terrified passengers came to the captain and asked him to join them in prayer.

But he replied, “I say my prayers when it is calm. When it is rough I attend to my ship.” 

Here is a lesson for us……
If we cannot seek God in quiet moments of our lives; we are not likely to find him when trouble strikes. We are more likely to panic.

But if we have learnt to seek him and trust him in quiet moments, then most certainly we will find him when the going gets rough !
source:::: input from a friend of mine
natarajan

“Which is The Best Day to Pray ” ? ….” It is Today ” !!!

One day, A young boy asked an old man,”Sir, which is the best day to pray?”
The wise old man replied, “My son, the best day to PRAY is the day before you DIE.”
The boy was astonished and replied,”Sir, how can I know the day of my death?”
And the old man answered,”No one knows the day of our death,
THAT’S WHY WE NEED TO PRAY EVERY DAY!”

It is always believed that in order to take the name of the Lord , in order to have a peaceful conversation with God which basically means to pray to God , in order to feel His bliss– we definitely need His grace.. So today , Let us all join our hands and pray together with all our love and devotion to Thank Sai for all the blessings that He has showered upon us and at the same time let us also ask Him to forgive our sins and give us the strength and courage not to repeat our mistakes and sinful actions ever again. May we all accept the bitter truth that the tomorrow may never come in our lives and so every single day let us try our best to move one step closer in the path of His kind grace and His wonderful blessings ..
Sai Bhakt,
source:::::H.Deepa in  http://debu7370.blogspot.com/
natarajan

 

Message For The Day…Without Purity of Heart, No Purity of Mind and Intellect…

Spiritual knowledge cleanses the mind and helps us undertake good actions. But that is not enough. The heart also should be pure. In the absence of purity of heart, there can never be purity of the mind and intellect. We should not give scope to the creepers of bad qualities to entangle the heart. A creeper that goes around covering the tree ultimately smothers the tree itself. One should ensure that the creepers of lust, anger, greed, and infatuation do not get entangled to one’s own Self. The society will ultimately value purity of heart more than all other achievements. One can escape from the house on fire, but not from the senses which are ignited by the fire of evil qualities. It is the foremost duty of every individual to keep their senses under control.

 

Sathya Sai Baba