“Explain Your Anger…Don’t Express It …”

Angry people tend to jump to—and act on—conclusions, and some of those conclusions can be very inaccurate. The first thing to do if you’re in a heated discussion is slow down and think through your responses. Don’t say the first thing that comes into your head, but slow down and think carefully about what you want to say. At the same time, listen carefully to what the other person is saying and take your time before answering.
Personally , according to me good communication is very important in any relationship-whether it is with your spouse, your parents, your children , your siblings or your friends. If you take the time and effort to listen to what the other person has to say and understand his doubts – a lot of problems can be solved before they even rise. A lot of us believe in themselves so much that we think we can never be wrong and we start arguing with people just to prove that they are wrong.
I talk to my mom in India every evening and when the sunsets over here- she sees sunrise at her end.. So strange and So true.. We both can go on and on with the argument – she trying to convince me that sun is just rising — and I trying to prove that the sun is setting .. We don’t realize in an argument sometimes that the other person is right keeping in mind her experiences from life and the circumstances that made her understand those kind of situations and facts and at the same time we are also right depending where we are standing. Expressing your anger or having mindless arguments over such matters will just drift us away from our loved ones and give rise to the negative energy.
May Sai give us the wisdom to understand other people and learn to communicate with them in a proper manner  .May He help us to realize that anger and arguments will never solve any problems. They just give rise to ego and make our lives complicated..  
 
 
Quote of BABA:

 Look at me with undivided attention; so will I look at you. This is the only truth that my guru had taught me. 

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natarajan

” Look Alike ” ? !!!…Not Real one ? !!!

Dressed in a reindeer costume, Prince George enjoys his first Christmas, surrounded by all four generations of the Royal Family.

As well as delighted parents William and Kate, there’s uncle Harry in the role of Santa Claus.

And the Queen, Prince Charles and the Duchess of Cornwall also make an appearance.

At first glance, you’d be forgiven for thinking you are privy to an advance sneak peek into the Royal family’s Christmas album.

But not is all as it seems. For this Sandringham scene has been created by spoof photographer Alison Jackson, using lookalikes.
Prince George grabs hold of a cuddly toy Corgi as his doting parents the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge and great-grandmother the Queen look on adoringly

 

 

Santa's little helper, Prince George peers around the door with his parents and great-grandmother the Queen, as Prince Harry dressed as Father Christmas delivers gifts for his nephew

 

Tiny Prince George squeals with delight as his father Prince William hands his son yet another present, as grandparents Prince Charles and Camilla join the festivities

 

As Prince William and Kate prepare to move into their new home Anmer Hall on the Sandringham estate, the Duke ensures his young son will be fully kitted out with the right footwear for life in the countryside

  • Spoof photographer Alison Jackson imagines Prince George’s first Christmas
  • You could be forgiven for thinking the snaps are straight from the Royal family’s album

source::::mailonlineuk.com

natarajan

Message For The Day…Love All and Serve All…

You are under the mistaken notion that you are rendering service to others. You should give up such a feeling. Only then does the service you perform become real service in the strict sense of the term. Service does not merely mean helping others. The best way to love God is to love all and serve all. Your acts of service should be suffused with the spirit of love. Without the positive aspect of love, all service you render becomes negative in nature. All bodies are like bulbs and love is the main switch. Only when the main switch is pressed, will the bodies radiate light and happiness to one and all. You are switching off the main switch and trying to enjoy happiness. It is impossible! Hrid + Daya(compassion) = Hridaya (heart). Your heart should be filled with compassion. All your activities should be suffused with love. There is no strength superior to love.

 Sathya Sai Baba

Christmas Miracle !!!….Pleasant Present Surprise For West Jet Air Passengers!!!

THIS could be the best thing you’ll see all week. It could even make you believe in Santa again.

Pl click the link below for video and story as appeared in news .com.au on 11.12.13 !!!

http://www.news.com.au/travel/travel-updates/westjet-airline-delivers-christmas-miracle/story-e6frfq80-1226780369421#ooid=pramZlaTou_eMolPvOjBgo61kxso9jQP

Instead of hitting passengers with flight delays, lost luggage dramas or other holiday horrors, an airline has provided a different kind of Christmas travel surprise.

Many are even calling it a Christmas “miracle”.

Canadian airline WestJet asked a group of 250 passengers at Toronto and Hamilton International Airports what they had on their Christmas wishlists via an interactive Santa Claus.

Requests ranged from underwear to a big-screen TV.

When the passenger boarded their flight, airline staff took off – but they didn’t join the passengers in the air, instead they dashed to the shopping centre.

More than 150 WestJet employees played the part of Santa’s elves by purchasing personalised gifts, wrapping them and getting them to the Calgary airport before the passenger landed.

The passengers were truly surprised when they made their way through baggage claim to find their dream gifts waiting for them.

The four-month-long project was turned into an ad for the airline.

WestJet announced they will also five away holiday flights to families in need if the video exceeded 200,000 views. It has achieved well over that, and is currently at over two million hits.

source:::::news.com.au

natarajan …11.12.13

Message For the Day…” What is True Love ?”…

 

Today there are many who are highly educated. But what help are they rendering to society? Practically nothing! They are acquiring degrees for the sake of earning money. Modern students are taking to the wrong path in the name of love. They do not understand what true love is. People often use the word saying, “I love you, I love you.” You should be prepared to sacrifice for others all that is dear to you. That is true love. Love is God, live in love. Only then will you be able to understand the true nature of love. Do not misinterpret love in a worldly sense. Love is the gift of God to every individual. It should be utilized for the service of society. You must share your love with others through constructive service. Only then you will have the right to be a part of society.

 

Sathya Sai Baba

 

Airports With Catchy Interiors !!!

MASSIVE, beautiful, weird, wonderful, futuristic and fun.

Here are some of the world’s best – and the downright craziest – airport interiors, according to travel website Skyscanner.com.au .

1. Suvarnabhumi, Bangkok, Thailand

Ancient meets modern minimalism in the main concourse of Bangkok’s Suvarnabhumi Airport, designed by Helmut Jahn. Suvarnabhumi – “the airport of smiles” – has the proud claim to fame of the world’s tallest freestanding control tower (123 metres if you were wondering).

 

Suvarnabhumi, Bangkok. Picture: Ztij0, Flickr

Suvarnabhumi, Bangkok

 

2. Beijing Capital International, China

Beijing’s Terminal 3, built in time to cope with the extra millions of passengers coming for the 2008 Olympic Games, is the second largest airport terminal in the world after Dubai International Airport’s Terminal 3 (more of that later).

Beijing Airport. Picture: Simon.Brunozzi, Flickr

Beijing Airport.

3. Chicago O’Hare, US

Moving walkways are cool, but colourful moving walkways, like this one in Chicago, are cooler. Along with going on the monorail back and forth between terminals, jumping off the end of “travelators”, as they’re sometimes called, is one of the most fun ways to spend your time at an airport.

Chicago O'Hare. Picture: Pfala...

Chicago O’Hare.

 

4. Singapore Changi

The departure lounge at Singapore’s Changi airport looks like it was modelled on an imaginary retro-futuristic fast food outlet. Or Universal Studios. Or maybe a flying saucer landed on the first floor food court? Check out the matching floor and ceiling too.

Changi Airport. Picture: TravelOurPlanet.com, Flickr

Changi Airport.

Changi Airport. Picture: Kobetsai, Flickr

 

 

5. Dubai International, UAE

Terminal 3 at Dubai International Airport is, you guessed it, the single largest building in the world by floor space. It’s Dubai, what do you expect, small and subtle?

Dubai Airport. Picture: Augapfel, Flickr

Dubai Airport.

 

 

6. Lyon St. Exupery, France

If you arrive at Lyon’s St. Exupéry Airport by TGV or the Rhône Express from the city centre, it’s a long walk to check-in, especially if you’re laden down with bags and you’re leaving from Terminal 3. But do look up to appreciate the architecture

Lyon St. Exupery Airport. Picture: Exupery Bob, Flickr

Lyon St. Exupery Airport. Picture: Exupery Bob, Flickr

 

7. Madrid – Barajas, Spain

If you can get over the sensation that you are under attack from a swarm of alien jellyfish, and that you have landed in Madrid in 1968, appreciate the wonder of the arrival hall at Barajas, which looks like an unused set from 2001: A Space Odyssey.

The 11 most outrageous airport interiors

 

8. Munich, Germany

Horizontalators don’t come much more D.I.S.C.O. than this example at Munich Airport. They really should pump out Stayin’ Alive. You’ll catch Saturday night fever even if it’s Monday morning.

Munich Airport. Picture: Pterjan, Flickr

 

 

9. Charles de Gaulle, Paris

If, like the author, you missed your flight home from Paris because you were toasting your engagement with a bottle of champers on a bench outside Charles de Gaulle, then spent five hours drinking gin, slumped staring at the ceiling, this view will be familiar.

Charles de Gaulle. Picture: Thombo2, Flickr

 

 

10. Shanghai Pudong, China

Asia boasts some of the world’s most architecturally-exciting airports, and Shanghai Pudong International is no exception. The exterior of Terminal 1 is shaped like waves, while arrival by escalator feels like an ascent into a sci-fi flick version of heaven

Shanghai Pudong Airport. Picture: Kent Wang, Flickr

 

 

11. Ronald Reagan Washington National, US

There’s no mistaking which country you’re in, however jet-lagged you’re feeling. The Reagan’s classical style, redolent of tearful goodbyes in a 1920s railway station, eschewts the futurism of most major international airports.

Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport. Picture: Elvert Barnes, Flickr

Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport.

source::::news.com.au

natarajan

Message For the Day…” Realise Brotherhood Of Man & Fatherhood of God ” …

What is true humanness? You should treat your fellowmen as your own brothers and sisters. You deserve to be called a human being only when you cultivate the spirit of unity. Where there is no unity, there you find enmity and hatred. Consequently, the principle of love is lost altogether. Your foremost duty is to share your love with others. Only then can you realise the dictum: ‘Brotherhood of man and fatherhood of God’. You may or may not believe in the fatherhood of God, but you must have faith in the brotherhood of man; practise it and experience bliss therefrom. It is only when we share our love with our fellowmen, can we experience Divinity.

  Sathya Sai Baba