” My Girl ”

'My Girl'

Photo and caption by Adelina Iliev

It would have been my parents 50th wedding anniversary but my dad didn’t make it by two months only. I was spending some precious time with the two of them last summer when my dad, now bed-bound, got hold of my mum’s hand and with great affection said: ‘my girl’. I promptly got my camera to capture this bitter-sweet moment. It was to be the last time I ever took photos of dad. He was, amongst many things, a keen photographer. I think I got the bug from him.

Location: Burgas, Bulgaria, Europe

source::::National Geographic.com

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“Just a Slip … Not a Fall”….:” No Question of Giving Up”….

Climbing a ladder of success is definitely not an easy task. There is a saying that goes, “Rome was not built in a day,” similarly there is no successful person who has got the name and fame overnight. It’s not like successful personalities have never failed but they dared to stand against all odds, which can only attain through hard work and sheer determination. Let us take a look at these  personalities who have never accepted defeat to achieve their goals, as compiled by listdose.com

1. Lionel Messi:

Argentinian striker, Lionel Messi is widely regarded as one of the greatest players of the modern generation. He plays for FC Barcelona and the Argentina national team. He has been described as Diego Maradona’s successor because of his prolific goal scoring record and ability to dribble past opponents. Widely recognised as the best player in the world and rated by some commentators, coaches and players as the greatest footballer of all time, he is the first football player in history to win FIFA world player of the year four times. Despite his successful career today, Messi as a child was diagnosed with a growth hormone disorder, or GHD. It is often called idiopathic short stature, but there are problems that go beyond being shorter than average. The treatments were expensive, a $900 monthly expense that his modest family could not afford. So his parents decided to move to Barcelona, Spain for the treatment.

2.Sudha Chandran:

Sudha Chandran is a well known Bharatanatyam dancer from Chennai, India. She completed her Masters in Mumbai, and while travelling from Mumbai to Chennai, she met with an accident. The wound on her right leg got affected by gangrene, which resulted in the amputation. But despite her injury, Sudha went on to become one of the most highly acclaimed dancers. She is recognized in many countries and has been honored with numerous awards and still receives invitations to perform dance in all over the world.

 

3 Ludwig van Beethoven:

Ludwig van Beethoven, a German composer and pianist is one of the most famous and influential composers of all times. Some of his best known compositions include 9 symphonies, 5 concertos for piano, 32 piano sonatas, and 16 string quartets. Miraculously, this great composer went deaf during his course of life as a musician. Then on, he was unable to hear his own compose music. In spite of his physical shortcoming, music made him carry on and gave the world some of the best music ever.

 

4. Thomas Alva Edison:

Thomas Alva Edison was an American inventor and businessman who developed many devices that greatly influenced life around the world, including the phonograph, the motion picture camera, and a practical electric light bulb. He was also called ‘The Wizard of Menlo Park’. This extraordinary inventor, failed over ten thousand times on his attempt to invent the light bulb. For this Edison states, “I have not failed. I’ve just found ten thousand ways that won’t work.”

 

5. Abraham Lincoln:

Abraham Lincoln, The 16th president of the United States, was a self educated person. He faced many obstacles and fought it with determination to come up as a well known and successful leader respected all around the world. His success as president was particularly interesting because of the amount of personal and professional failure he had in his entire life. Lincoln had two business ventures fail, lost 8 different elections and had a complete nervous breakdown before becoming president in 1860. His story is indeed a great inspirational story which shows how one should keep moving towards one dream to eventually achieve it.

 
6. Helen Keller:

Helen is an American author, political activist, and lecturer and was the first deaf-blind person to earn a Bachelor of Arts degree. Her teacher Anne Sullivan played a very important role in Helen’s life by teaching her how to communicate. Hellen Keller has also campaigned for women’s suffrage, workers’ rights, and socialism, as well as various other progressive causes. Keller has met almost every President during her life and was friends with Keller famous personalities such as Alexander Graham Bell, Charlie Chaplin, and Mark Twain.

 

7. Nick Vujicic:

Nick Vujicic is an Australian Christian evangelist and motivational speaker who was born with no arms and legs. He was suffering from tetra-amelia syndrome, a rare disorder characterized by the absence of all four limbs. But this doesn’t stop him from taking his life ahead. The early days were quite difficult for him. Throughout his childhood, Nick not only dealt with the typical challenges in school, but he also struggled with depression and loneliness. But eventually, he came in terms with his disability and, at the age of seventeen, Nick started his own non-profit organization, ‘Life Without Limbs’. Today, he gives motivational speeches all across the world about life with a disability, on hope, and on finding meaning in life. He also talks about his belief that God can use any willing heart to do his work and that God is big enough to overcome any disability. It is his small foot on his left hip that helps him balance and enables him to use his one foot to type, write with a pen and pick things up between his toes.

 

8.  Glenn Verniss Cunningham:

Glenn Cunningham was one of the United States’ fastest runners who shines against the greatest odds. At the age of 8, Glenn met with a horrible accident at school that left him with complete loss of skin around his knees and shins. So, doctors urged his parents to amputate his legs, but his parents refused it. The doctors told his parents that he would never walk normally again. However, Glenn and his family refused to accept such claims and with much determination and unwavering faith, he not only walked but also ran faster. In 1932 Summer Olympics, Glenn stood at fourth place in the Men’s 1500m and in 1936 Summer Olympics, he bagged silver in the same 1500 m.  Then in 1934, he set the world record by finishing a mile in 4:06.8. Glenn received the James E. Sullivan Award for top amateur athlete in the United States in 1933. Such kinds of achievements would never happen without extreme will power and faith.

source::::: siliconindia .com

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Doctors are Not Bound by Hippocratic Oath !!!

Myth: Doctors are bound by the Hippocratic Oath.

stethescopeA binding agreement, as much a social contract as Social Security or Medicare, the traditional Hippocratic Oath holds those who swear to it to a strict code of professional and personal conduct. Contrary to popular belief, though, most doctors never take this oath, and, actually, most of us are probably glad they never do.

Original Hippocratic Oath

Although scholars disagree about when it was written, or even who wrote it, the general consensus is that the Hippocratic Oath was penned about 2500 years ago. Most commonly attributed to Hippocrates, the father of modern medicine, the ancient vow demands a lot from doctors, including a certain level of chastity, charity and swearing to pagan gods. It provides in pertinent part:

I swear by Apollo the physician, and Asclepius, and Hygieia and Panacea and all the gods and goddesses as my witnesses that, according to my ability and judgment, I will keep this Oath and this covenant . . . to teach them this art . . . without fee or covenant.

I will use those dietary regimens which will benefit my patients . . . and I will do no harm or injustice to them.

I will neither give a deadly drug to anybody who asked for it, nor will I make a suggestion to this effect. Similarly I will not give a woman an abortive remedy.

I will not use the knife. . .

Whatever houses I may visit, I will . . . remain free of sexual relations with both female and male persons . . .

What I may see or hear in the course of treatment . . . I will keep to myself.

If I fulfill this oath and do not violate it, may it be granted to me to enjoy life and art, begin honored . . . . if I transgress is and swear falsely, may the opposite of all this be my lot.

Although ancient, swearing the oath was not used as a rite of passage at medical schools until 1508, when the University of Wittenberg first administered it. By 1804, it had been incorporated into the graduation ceremony of the medical school in Montpellier, France. However, it was still not commonly administered, and by the early 20th century, not even 20% of U.S. medical schools included the oath as part of their commencement ceremonies.

Outmoded Requirements and Prohibitions

The restrictive, ancient vow poses several problems for the modern practitioner. First, the oath forbids physician use of a knife, a key instrument involved in nearly every medical practice. Second, its prohibition against abortion violates U.S. law, and would alienate over 40% of the population. Third, its restraint on euthanasia runs counter to the modern trend toward physician-assisted suicide.

Fourth, who swears to Apollo anymore, let alone the much lesser known Asclepius, Hygieia and Panacea?

Fifth, many doctors treat, or at least give medical advice to, those close to them, including spouses and sexual partners, which is prohibited by the oath.

Sixth, the oath is potentially a binding contract, which, in our litigation-heavy society, could provide a dissatisfied patient with yet another avenue to sue her doctor.  [Typically, when a patient sues a doctor, it is for malpractice – a claim that often must be brought within 1-3 years. Contrarily, when someone sues for a breach of contract, they often have a longer time period in which to sue.]

Modern Oaths

Although most do not swear to the original Hippocratic Oath, the majority of doctors do take an oath – often when they graduate from medical school. Despite early disinterest, physician oaths began to come into vogue after World War II.

During the Holocaust, doctors in Nazi concentration camps committed previously inconceivable atrocities against prisoners. Experimenting with extreme temperatures, radiation, untested drugs and vaccines, unnecessary and sometimes bizarre surgeries and infecting captives with deadly diseases, the exploits of concentration camp physicians shocked and horrified the world. Sane doctors realized stricter rules, and a code of ethics, were needed.

In 1948, the 2nd General Assembly of the World Medical Association adopted theDeclaration of Geneva, appearing below as amended:

“AT THE TIME OF BEING ADMITTED AS A MEMBER OF THE MEDICAL PROFESSION:

I solemnly pledge to consecrate my life to the service of humanity . . . 

I will practice my profession with conscience and dignity;

The health of my patient will be my first consideration;

I will respect the secrets that are confided in me . . .

I will not permit considerations of age, disease or disability, creed, ethnic origin, gender, nationality, political affiliation, race, sexual orientation, social standing or any other factor to intervene between my duty and my patient;

I will maintain the utmost respect for human life;

I will not use my medical knowledge to violate human rights and civil liberties, even under threat . . . .”

Similarly, in 1964 a modern version of the Hippocratic Oath was penned by Professor Lasagna of the School of Medicine at Tufts University. Although the modern oath retains many of the themes of the original, it omits the troublesome parts about surgery, euthanasia, abortion and sexual relations.

A number of other, similar oaths have also been written, and today, nearly every medical school requires some sort of oath of its graduates, although most are seen as “ceremonial and nonobligatory . . . compared to that taken by a judge, president, or other politician when he or she is sworn into office.”

Future of Medical Oaths

Seen as essentially providing only general moral and ethical guidance, many physicians today find physicians’ oaths lacking. Some point to the number and diversity of specialties in modern medicine and note that one, generalized oath is inadequate. Others identify that the oaths often conflict with necessary medical experiments, or simply do not address them.

Still others find the oaths lacking when it comes to managing infectious, fatal diseases. Strict adherence to an oath would demand that physicians treat patients infected with lethal, highly contagious diseases, like the Ebola virus, regardless of circumstance or preparedness. Likewise, an oath may prohibit a doctor from sharing patient information that would help epidemiologists and others during an epidemic.

Despite their shortcomings, doctors’ oaths are likely here to stay. As Dr. Howard Markel recently noted:

“It is unlikely to become superannuated. It serves as a powerful reminder and declaration that we are all a part of something infinitely larger, older, and more important than a particular specialty or institution . . . . The need for physicians to make a formal warrant of diligent, moral, and ethical conduct in the service of their patients may be stronger than ever.

source:::: today i foundout.com

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Message For the Day…Make ” Namasmarana ” a Daily Habit….

Singing the glory of the Lord is highly sacred. When you sing the Names of the Lord (Namasmarana), the snakes of bad qualities will come out. Namasmarana is like the piped musical instrument (Nadhaswaram), that attracts the snakes of evil qualities and draws them out and away from you. You must repeat the Lord’s Name in order to get rid of your negativities. Sing unto Him from the depth of your hearts, without any inhibition, with total dedication. Only then you can experience divine bliss. Today the Universe is facing a lot of problems due to lack of this habit. Young or old, rich or poor, educated or otherwise, everyone must do Namasmarana. Make this habit the very breath of your life. Let each and every cell of your body be filled with the Divine Name. Nothing else can give you the bliss, courage and strength you derive from singing the Lord’s Glory. 

Sathya Sai Baba

 

விபூதி உருவான கதை !!!

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ஸ்ரீமகாலஷ்மிக்கு உகந்தது திருநீறு

 

பர்னாதன் என்பவன் உணவையும் தண்ணீரையும் மறந்தவனாக சிவனை நினைத்து கடும் தவம் புரிந்தான்.ஒருநாள் அவனுக்கு கடுமையான பசி எடுத்தது. தவம் கலைந்தது. கண்ணை திறந்தான். அப்போது அவனை சுற்றி சிங்கங்களும் புலிகளும் பறவைகளும் என பல வன உயிரினங்கள் யாவும் காவலுக்கு இருந்தது. பசியால் முகம் வாடி இருந்தவனை கண்ட பறவைகள் பழங்களை பறித்து பர்னாதன் முன் வைத்தது.

இது ஈனின் கருனையே என்று மகிழ்ந்து பசி தீர கனிகளை சாப்பிட்டு முடித்து மீண்டும் தவத்தை தொடர்ந்தான். இப்படியே பல வருடங்கள் கடந்தோடியது. தவத்தை முடித்து கொண்டு சிவவழிபாட்டை தொடங்கினான். ஒருநாள் தர்பைபுல்லை அறுக்கும் போது அவன் கையில் கத்திபட்டு ரத்தம் கொட்டியது.

ஆனால் அவனுக்கோ எந்த பதற்றமும் இல்லை. குழந்தைக்கு ஆபத்தென்றால் தாய் பதறுவதை போல பதறியது ஈசன்தான்.

சிவபெருமான் வேடன் உருவில் தோன்றி, பர்னாதன் கையை பிடித்து பார்த்தார். என்ன ஆச்சரியம்…. ரத்தம் சொட்டிய இடத்தில் விபூதி கொட்ட ஆரம்பித்தது. வந்தது தாயுமானவர் என்பதை அறிந்தான். “ரத்தத்தை நிறுத்தி சாம்பலை கொட்ட செய்த தாங்கள் நான் வணங்கம் சர்வேஸ்வரன் என்பதை அறிவேன். இந்த அடியேனுக்கு தங்கள் சுயஉருவத்தை காணும் பாக்கியம் இல்லையா?“ என்று வேண்டினான் பர்னாதன். ஈசன் தன் சுயரூபத்தில் காட்சி கொடுத்தார்.

 

“உனக்காகவே இந்த சாம்பலை உருவாக்கினேன். அதனால் இந்த சாம்பல் இன்று முதல் விபூதி என்று அழைக்கப்படட்டும். உன் நல்தவத்தால் விபூதி உருவானது. அக்னியை எதுவும் நெருங்க முடியாததை போல விபூதியை பூசி அணிந்து கொள்பவர்களின் அருகில் துஷ்டசக்திகள் நெருங்காது. விபூதி என் ரூபம். அதற்கு நீயும் துணையாக இருந்த வா“ என்று ஆசி வழங்கினார் சிவபெருமான்.

விபூதியை கட்டை விரலாலும் மோதிர விரலாலும் சேர்த்தெடுத்து மோதிர விரலால் நெற்றியில் இட்டுக்கொள்ள வேண்டும். ஆனால் கட்டை விரலும் நடுவிரலும் சேர்ந்து விபூதியை எடுக்கக்கூடாது. கட்டைவிரலாலும் நெற்றியில் விபூதியை வைக்க கூடாது என்கிறது சிவபுராணம்.

விபூதியால் என்ன நன்மை? என்று ஸ்ரீ ராமர், அகத்திய முனிவரிடம் கேட்டார். “பகை, தீராத வியாதி, மனநல பாதிப்பு, செய்வினை பாதிப்பு இப்படி எது இருந்தாலும் தொடர்ந்து விபூதியை அணிந்து வந்தால் அந்த பிரச்சனைகள் விலகும்“ என்று அகத்திய முனிவர் ஸ்ரீ ராமருக்கு உபதேசம் செய்தார். ஸ்ரீமகாலஷ்மிக்கு உகந்ததும் விபூதி. அதனை விரும்பி விபூதி கலந்த நீரில் தினமும் அவள் நீராடுகிறாள். திரு என்றால் மகாலஷ்மி. அதனால்தான் விபூதியை திருநீறு என அழைக்கிறோம்.

“மந்திரம் ஆவது நீறு வானவர் மேலது நீறு
சுந்தரம் ஆவது நீறு துதிக்கப் படுவது நீறு
……….
வேதத்தில் உள்ளது நீறு வெந்துயர் தீர்ப்பது நீறு
காண இனியது நீறு கவினைத் தருவது நீறு
தேசம் புகழ்வது நீறு திரு ஆலவாயான் திருநீறே“

 

source :::: Reblogged from  mahaperiavaa.wordpress.com of Mahesh

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“எனக்குத் தெரியுமே …நான் அங்கே வந்தேனே” !!!

எங்கேயும் வியாபிக்கும் பேரருள்

1956ம் வருடம் ஒரு டாக்டருக்கு ஏற்பட்ட அபூர்வ அனுபவம். அவர் இந்திய ராணுவத்தில் மெடிக்கல் ஆபீஸராக பணியாற்றியவர். ஜப்பானை எதிர்த்து பர்மாவில் போர் நடந்தபோது அங்கே பாதிக்கப்பட்ட சிப்பாய்களுக்கு சிகிச்சை அளிக்கும் பணி புரிந்தார்.

அப்படி இவர் போர் களத்திலிருந்த சமயம் ஒரு குண்டு இவரையும் தாக்கியதில் மயக்கமுற்று விழுந்து விட்டார். நினைவின்றி விழுந்து கிடந்தவர் தான் ஒரு முதல் உதவி ஆஸ்பத்திரியில் படுத்துக் கொண்டிருப்பதை உணர்ந்தார். உடனே தன் கீழ் வேலை செய்த ஒரு சிப்பாயிடம் என்ன நடந்தது என்று கேட்டார்.

அவனோ படிப்பறிவில்லாதவன். டாக்டருக்கு உதவி செய்ய அனுப்பப்பட்டவன். ஆனால் டாக்டர் மயக்கமடைந்து விழுந்ததும் நிலை குலைந்து நின்றுவிட்டான்.
என்ன செய்வதென்று புரியாமல் நின்று கொண்டிருந்தவன் முன் ஒரு சந்யாசி, காவி உடையுடன் தோன்றினாராம். “ஏன் இப்படி ஒண்ணும் செய்யாம நிக்கறே… உடனே டாக்டரை உன் தோளில் தூக்கிக் கொண்டு பக்கத்தில் இருக்கும் ஆஸ்பத்திரிக்கு ஓடு” என்று சொல்லி மறைந்து விட்டாராம்.

உடனே ஒரு உத்வேகத்துடன் அந்த சிப்பாயும் டாக்டரை கொண்டுவந்து சேர்த்ததாகக் கூறினான். ஏதோ படிப்பறிவில்லாதவன் கூறுகிறான் என்று டாக்டர் அலட்சியமாக இருந்து விட்டார்.

சில மாதங்களில் இவர் பூர்ண குணமானார். போர் முடிந்ததும் ஸ்ரீஸ்ரீஸ்ரீ மஹாபெரியவாளை தரிசிக்க வந்தார்.

ஸ்ரீபெரியவாளிடம் அந்த சிப்பாய் சொன்ன அபூர்வ நிகழ்ச்சியை கூறலாமென்று தோன்ற டாக்டர் மெதுவாக ஆரம்பித்தார். “எனக்குப் போர்களத்திலே குண்டடி பட்டு மயக்கமா விழுந்துட்டேன்” என்று தொடங்கி மற்றவைகளை சொல்வதற்கு முன் சர்வ வ்யாபியான ஈஸ்வரர் முந்திக் கொண்டவராய், “எனக்குத் தெரியுமே…. நானே அங்கு வந்திருந்தேனே… நீ என்னைப் பார்க்கல்லே” என்றதும் டாக்டருக்குப் பெரும் திகைப்பு! அடடா! அந்த சிப்பாய் சொன்னது அத்தைனையும் உண்மை என்பது புரிந்தது. எங்கும் நிறை பிரம்மமாய் ஸ்ரீமஹாபெரியவா வியாபித்தருளி தன்னைக் காப்பாற்றியுள்ளதையும் அதை அந்த ஈஸ்வரரே சாட்சி சொல்லி மெய்ப்பித்து அருளியதையும் உணர்ந்து உருகினார்.

அந்த மிலிடரி டாக்டர் இந்த மெய்சிலிர்க்க வைக்கும் சம்பவத்தை கண்களில் நீர் வழிய விவரித்ததாக டாக்டர் கல்யாணராமன் கூறுகிறார்.

இப்பேற்பட்ட பெருங்கருணை தெய்வத்தின்மேல் நாம் கொள்ளும் பூர்ண சரணாகத பக்தி நம்மையெல்லாம் சகல தோஷங்களிலிருந்து விடுபடச் செய்து எல்லா நலன்களையும் ஈந்து சகல சௌபாக்யங்களுடனும், சர்வ மங்களங்களுடனும் காப்பாற்றி அருளும் என்பது சத்தியம்!

ஜெய ஜெய சங்கர! ஹர ஹர சங்கர!!

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natarajan

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Laughter The Best Medicine ….” Double-up Your Cashew Intake ” !!!

Good folks Mike and Yvonne were 85 years old and had been married for sixty years. Though they were far from rich, they managed to get by because they carefully watched their pennies.
Though not young, they were both in very good health, largely due to Yvonne’s insistence on healthy foods and exercise for the last decade.
One day they went on a vacation and their plane crashed, sending them off to Heaven.

They reached the pearly gates, and St. Peter escorted them inside. He took them to a beautiful mansion, furnished in gold and fine silks, with a fully stocked kitchen and a waterfall in the master bath. A maid could be seen hanging their favorite clothes in the closet. They gasped in astonishment when he said, ‘Welcome to Heaven. This will be your home now.’ Mike asked Peter how much all this was going to cost. ‘Why, nothing,’ Peter replied, ‘remember, this is your reward in Heaven.’
Mike looked out the window and right there he saw a championship golf course, finer and more beautiful than any ever built on Earth..
‘What are the greens fees?,’ grumbled Mike..
‘This is heaven,’ St. Peter replied. ‘You can play for free, every day.’

Next they went to the clubhouse and saw the lavish buffet lunch.
‘Don’t even ask,’ said St. Peter to Mike. This is Heaven, it is all free for you to enjoy.’
Mike looked around and nervously asked Yvonne ‘Well, where are the low fat and low cholesterol foods and the decaffeinated tea?’
‘That’s the best part,’ St. Peter replied. ‘You can eat and drink as much as you like and you will never get fat or sick. This is Heaven!’
‘No gym to work out at?’ said Mike
‘Not unless you want to,’ was the answer.
‘No testing my sugar or blood pressure or…’
‘Never again’

Mike glared at Yvonne and said, ‘You and your  Bran Flakes. We could have been here ten years ago!’

Moral: Folks destined for Heaven should double-up their cashew intake!    

source:::: input from a friend of mine
 natarajan