Where Are You Mom ???

A Thought provoking article ….Must Read >>>>

Natarajan

“When I’m sick, you are tending to your patients.

When I’m tired, you are promoting an energy drink.

When I’m hungry, you are catering in a 5 star hotel.

When I need you for my tough algebra, you are teaching your students.

When I long for a sand castle on the beach, you are discussing a multistorey.

When I’m down and depressed, you are counselling your clientele.

When I have peer problems, you are tackling issues elsewhere.

When my computer fogs my brain, you are setting right a system.

When I’m hurt and need a hug, you are in a meeting.

When I’m confused and need you, you are enlightening a crowd.

When I’m lonely, and badly need you, you win accolades for your team work.

When I’m doubtful and discouraged if I’ll make it, you are up your career ladder.

Where are you mom?”

(The writer is Professor in Ophthalmology, PSG Hospitals, Coimbatore. Email: jevdav85@yahoo.co.in)

Keywords: Open page, working mothers

source::::Dr.Mala David in THE HINDU

Natarajan

தயிர் பாலாக மாறுமா?!!!….கேட்டார் மகாபெரியவர் !!!!!

வெள்ளைக்காரன் புத்திசாலி!

கல்வித்துறையில் ரொம்ப பெரிய போஸ்டில் இருந்தவர் ஒருவர் மடத்துக்கு அடிக்கடி வருவார்.

ஒருதடவை அப்படி வரும் போது தன்னுடன் இரண்டு வெள்ளைக்காரர்களை அழைத்து வந்தார். வந்தவர், வெறுமனே அவர்களுடன் வரவில்லை, கூடவே “தன்னை நாடி இங்க்லாண்டிலிருந்து மாணவர்கள் வந்திருக்கிறார்கள்!” என்ற பெருமிதம் தலைக்கேற வந்தார்.

பெரியவாளுக்கு நமஸ்காரம் செய்து விட்டு “இவா ரெண்டு பேரும் லண்டன்ல ரிஸர்ச் பண்ணிண்டிருக்கா…. almost எல்லா சப்ஜெக்ட்லேயும் புகுந்து வெளையாடியிருக்கா….பொதுவா இங்க்லீஷ்காராளே ரொம்ப புத்திசாலிகள்! அதுலேயும் இவா ரெண்டு பேரும் ரொம்ப intelligent! பிஹெச்.டி பண்ணியிருக்கா… இங்க்லீஷ்லதான் வர்ஷாவர்ஷம் புதுசுபுதுசா வார்த்தைகள் சேர்ந்துண்டே போறதே! புது scientific வோர்ட்ஸ் நெறைய கண்டு பிடிச்சிருக்கா. அதான், அந்த பாஷை தேங்கிப் போய் பாஸி பிடிக்காம pureஆ இருந்துண்டு இருக்கு…”

இங்க்லிஷுக்கு ஒரு ஸ்தோத்ரமே பண்ணிவிட்டார் !

யார் முன்னால் பேசினாலும் டம்பம் இல்லாமல் அடக்கமாகப் பேசவேண்டும். அதுவும் ஞானக்கடலான பெரியவா மாதிரி மஹான்கள் முன்னால், தெரிந்தாலும் பேசாமல் அடக்கமாக இருப்பதுதான் சிறப்பு.

தலைகால் தெரியாமல் அதிகம் பேசுவது நம்முடைய மடமை. ஏனென்றால் யார் முன் பேசுகிறோம்! ஒரு வழியாக அவர் மூச்சு விட சற்று நிறுத்தியதும், ஞான சாகரத்திலிருந்து ஒரு துளி வெளியே வந்து விழுந்து அங்கிருந்தோரைத் திணற அடித்தது.

“ஆமாமா….இங்க்லிஷ்காரன் ரொம்…ப புத்திசாலிதான்! நாம என்ன பண்றோம்? பாலைத் தயிரா ஆக்கறோம். அது ஸ்வபாவமா நடக்கறது. ஆனா, தயிரைப் பாலா மாத்தறதில்லே; ஏன்னா…..அது முடியாத விஷயம்.

அதுனாலதான் அக்ஞானிகளான நாம, அந்த மாதிரில்லாம் முயற்சி பண்றதில்லை. ஆனா, இங்க்லிஷ்காரன் புத்திசாலியோன்னோ…. “இதோ, தயிரைப் பாலாக்கி காட்டறேன்”..னான்! Butter Milk ன்னு ஒரு வார்த்தையை கண்டுபிடிச்சுட்டான்! பாத்தியா! எவ்ளோ..வ் சுலபமா butterஐ மில்க் ஆக்கிட்டான்!

நாம என்னவோ அதை “மோர்”ன்னு சொல்றோம்; milk ன்னு சொல்றதில்லே”…. புன்சிரிப்புடன் பெரியவா சொன்னதும் கல்வித்துறையின் முகத்தில் ஈயாடவில்லை. சுற்றி இருந்தவர்கள் இந்த விளக்கத்தை கேட்டு, அதிலிருந்த “இதுநாள் வரை காணத் தவறிய” உண்மையை உணர்ந்து புன்னகைத்தனர்.

அந்த வெள்ளைக்கார மாணவர்களோ, பெரியவா சொன்னதை மொழி பெயர்த்து கேட்ட பின்,

“Oh ! My God ! It is not a butter research; but a better research!!!!!என்று ஆச்சர்யப்பட்டு மிகவும் ரசித்தார்கள்….

source::::periva.proboards.com
Natarajan

Read more: http://periva.proboards.com/thread/4173/butter-milk-research/#ixzz2Rf0RcKEJ

Abraham Lincoln”s Letter To His Son”s Teacher !!!

He will have to learn, I know, that all men are not just, all men are not true.
But teach him also that for every scoundrel there is a hero;
that for every selfish Politician, there is a dedicated leader…
Teach him for every enemy there is a friend,

Steer him away from envy,

if you can, teach him the secret of quiet laughter.

Let him learn early that the bullies are the easiest to lick…
Teach him, if you can, the wonder of books…
But also give him quiet time to ponder the eternal mystery of birds in the sky,
bees in the sun, and the flowers on a green hillside.

In the school teach him it is far honourable to fail than to cheat…
Teach him to have faith in his own ideas, even if everyone tells him they are wrong…
Teach him to be gentle with gentle people, and tough with the tough.

Try to give my son the strength not to follow the crowd when everyone is getting on the band wagon…
Teach him to listen to all men…
but teach him also to filter all he hears on a screen of truth,
and take only the good that comes through.

Teach him if you can, how to laugh when he is sad…
Teach him there is no shame in tears,

Teach him to scoff at cynics and to beware of too much sweetness…
Teach him to sell his brawn and brain to the highest bidders

but never to put a price-tag on his heart and soul.

Teach him to close his ears to a howling mob and to stand and fight if he thinks he’s right.
Treat him gently, but do not cuddle him, because only the test of fire makes fine steel.

Let him have the courage to be impatient…
let him have the patience to be brave.
Teach him always to have sublime faith in himself,
because then he will have sublime faith in mankind.

This is a big order,
but see what you can do…
He is such a fine little fellow,
my son!

 source::::input from a friend of mine…

Natarajan

Message For The Day….God Is Sculptor Willing to Transform You into an Idol….

Offer your heart and your entire life to the Lord. Then your adoration will transform and transmute you so fast and completely, that you and He will be merged into One. You will be transformed, as a rock is transformed by the sculptor into an idol, deserving the worship of generations of sincere people. In the process you will have to bear many a hammer stroke, many a chisel-wound, for He is the sculptor. He is but releasing you from petrification! Do not defile time or waste this life and body seeking paltry ends. This life is part of the long pilgrimage you entered when you were born, which may not end even when you die. Never forget this fact. Be pure, alert and humble as pilgrims are. Treasure the good things and the truths you see and hear. Use them as props and promptings for further stages of your soul’s journey.

 Sathya Sai Baba

Message For The Day….In Silence You Can Hear The Voice Of God !!!!

Unfurl in your heart, the flag of infinite peace(Prashanthi). It should remind you to overcome the urge of low desires, anger and hate when your plans are thwarted; it must exhort you to expand your heart, to embrace all humanity and creation; let it direct you to quieten your impulses and calmly meditate on your own inner reality. Gradually, the lotus of your heart will bloom, from its centre the flame of divine vision of infinite peace will arise. Practise the disciplines of silence, cleanliness and forbearance. In silence, you can hear the voice of God. Through cleanliness you earn purity. By forbearance, you cultivate love. Feel that each moment is a step towards Him. Do everything as dedicated to Him, directed by Him, as work for His adoration, for serving His children.

Sathya Sai Baba

Message For The Day…Emulate Rama in Your Daily Life …

Rama is the embodiment of Dharma (Righteousness), which is the basis for the entire Universe. However deep and great our scholastic eminence or wealth may be, this birth is of no use without the transformation of the mind. Merely repeating Rama’s name is inadequate without realising the Rama Thathwa (Principle). A true human being is one who consistently practices the principle of dharma. Burning is thedharma of fire. Coolness is the dharma of ice. Fire is no fire without burning. Similarly the dharma of man lies in performing actions with the body, following the commands of the heart, deeply rooted in Divine Love. Every act performed with thought, word, and deed in harmony is an act of dharma. From today, emulate Rama in your daily life and transform yourself by following the path of Love.

 Sathya Sai Baba

Just For Laugh !!!!……Moral of The Story !!!!!!

And the Moral Is…

A teacher told her young class to ask their parents for a family story with a moral at the end of it, and to return the next day to tell their stories.

In the classroom the next day, Joe gave his example first, “My dad is a farmer and we have chickens. One day we were taking lots of eggs to market in a basket on the front seat of the truck when we hit a big bump in the road; the basket fell off the seat and all the eggs broke. The moral of the story is not to put all your eggs in one basket..”

“Very good,” said the teacher.

Next, Mary said, “We are farmers too. We had twenty eggs waiting to hatch, but when they did we only got ten chicks. The moral of this story is not to count your chickens before they’re hatched..”

“Very good!” said the teacher again, very pleased with the response so far.

Next it was Barney’s turn to tell his story: “My dad told me this story about my Aunt Karen…. Aunt Karen was a flight engineer in the war and her plane got hit. She had to bail out over enemy territory and all she had was a bottle of whisky, a machine gun and a machete.”

“Go on,” said the teacher, intrigued.

“Aunt Karen drank the whisky on the way down to prepare herself; then she landed right in the middle of a hundred enemy soldiers.

She killed seventy of them with the machine gun until she ran out of bullets. Then she killed twenty more with the machete till the blade broke. And then she killed the last ten with her bare hands.”

“Good heavens,” said the horrified teacher, “What did your father say was the moral of that frightening story?”

“Stay away from Aunt Karen when she’s drunk.”!!!!!!!!!

source::::babamailnet
Natarajan

A Bitter Battle Turns Sweet at the End …..

L. Ponnudurai

L. Ponnudurai

Dalit boy completes chemical engineering and lands job, despite all odds

Four years ago, L. Ponnudurai was cleaning tables at a restaurant in Rajapalayam bus depot. In a month from now, he will begin work in a reputed cement company, as a chemical engineer.

The story of this gritty Dalit boy from Gopalapuram village near Rajapalayam in southern Tamil Nadu is an inspiring one. When he was barely five years old, his mother had committed suicide. Soon after this, his father remarried and sent him away to his grandmother’s place.

A relative noted his keenness to learn and put him in a government Adi Dravidar hostel. “My relatives were mill labourers and earned very little. To avoid burdening them, I used to stay in the hostel even during holidays,” said Ponnudurai.

He scored 96 per cent in Class X, and friends suggested a vocational course at a polytechnic institute. But, Ponnudurai said, he was keen on studying further.

Scholarships helped him finish Class XII with 93 per cent. He, however, faced a roadblock when he wanted to pursue his dream of going to college, as he did not have money to buy a form and apply for engineering counselling.

One day, his former physics teacher spotted him working at Vasantha Bhavan in Rajapalayam. “The next day, all my teachers landed up there. They had pooled in money to send me to Chennai and apply for engineering,” said Ponnudurai.

But this was not the end of Ponnudurai’s struggle. He tried to apply for an education loan all on his own, but bank officials wanted his father to be present. “He came only after my school teachers pleaded with him and promised to pay for his travel,” he added.

Ponnudurai came to Chennai with Rs. 2,000 and two pairs of clothes, but these were not his concerns. “Having studied in Tamil, learning in English was very difficult,” he said. Taunts over his complexion or his trousers almost broke his will. “I ran away thrice from campus, vowing never to return, but friends persuaded me to go back. In the hostel, I kept to myself,” he said.

But now, life is looking up. He recently cleared a recruitment interview with Ramco Cements and has got a decent offer. “I cannot ask for more.They let me answer questions in Tamil. I did not want to work in an IT company. I studied chemical engineering and I really like the subject,” he said, smiling. He has other plans too. “In villages, even bright students are unaware of opportunities, admission procedures, and scholarships. I want to convince students there to finish college,” he said.

Keywords: L. PonnuduraiDalit boy

source::::  Vasudha Venugopal in The Hindu

Natarajan