5 Things Lucky People Do …

Author Ashwin Sanghi says that it is indeed possible to ‘attract’ good luck! Here’s how!

Ashwin Sanghi is the author of four bestselling books — The Rozabal Line, Chanakya’s Chant, The Krishna Key and Private India, the last of which he co-authored with the American bestselling writer James Patterson.

Sanghi’s next book, like all his previous ones, is also a page-turner. But 13 Steps to Bloody Good Luck also happens to be his first work of non-fiction.

In it, Sanghi suggests that while some people are ‘luckier’ than others, it is also possible to ‘attract’ good luck your way.

Lady Luck, he says, isn’t all that fickle after all because we can ‘train’ ourselves to be lucky!

So what is it exactly that lucky people do?

Speaking to Rediff.com, Sanghi lists out five important things that most lucky people seem to do:

1. Lucky people grow and strengthen their network

Luck hates loneliness. It’s almost impossible to be lucky alone. A story that will illustrate this point is that of Sitar maestro Pandit Ravi Shankar.

Ravi Shankar was a music director with All India Radio (or AIR) from 1949 to 1956. VK Narayana Menon, Director of AIR, introduced Shankar to the renowned violinist Yehudi Menuhin.

Menuhin invited Shankar to perform in America.

In America, Shankar became friends with Richard Bock, founder of World Pacific Records.

Shankar executed several recordings at Bock’s studio.

The American rock band The Byrds who also used to record there heard Shankar’s music and incorporated some of his music into their tracks.

These tracks came to the attention of George Harrison of the Beatles and Harrison soon visited India to study the sitar under Ravi Shankar.

The Beatles went on to use the sitar in their ‘Norwegian Wood’ track.

Shankar’s association with The Beatles got him invited to Woodstock and made him the most famous Indian musician on the planet by 1966.

That’s called the network effect.

2. Lucky people listen to their intuition and develop it

All of us seem to have two voices inside us.

The first is intuition, our ‘inner wizard’.

It tries to tell us what we should be doing and what will be good for us.

The second voice inside us is the ‘inner critic’, which sends a steady stream of destructive thoughts directed towards us and others.

Ignoring the critic and listening to the wizard is a key trait of lucky people.

An example of intuitive good luck is the story of Conrad Hilton, the legendary founder of Hilton Hotels.

Hilton claimed that his incredible success as a hotelier was often due to his lucky hunches.

On one particular occasion, Hilton submitted a sealed bid of $165,000 to buy a rundown Chicago hotel in a sealed bid auction.

The next morning, something didn’t feel right. Acting on his intuition, he submitted another bid of $180,000.

When the bids were examined, Hilton’s was the winning bid.

The next highest offer was $179,800.

3. Lucky people are willing to try new things

The overall willingness of lucky people to try new things simply increases the number of opportunities that come their way thus increasing their good luck.

Consider the story of the great painter Henri Matisse. Matisse went to Paris to study law and started working as a court administrator in Le Cateau-Cambresis after gaining his qualification.

Following an attack of appendicitis in 1889, he underwent a period of convalescence.

His mother bought him some art supplies so that he could keep himself occupied even though Matisse had never painted in his life.

Little did his mother realise that her son would discover ‘a kind of paradise’ as he later described the experience.

He decided to become an artist, deeply disappointing his father by that decision but going on to become one of the greatest painters ever.

The good luck would simply not have kicked in without Matisse’s openness to try a new activity.

4. Lucky people make the best of bad situations, stay positive and persevere

Lucky people are simply those who use every bad situation to the best of their abilities.

The life stories of some of the ‘luckiest’ people reveal that most of them thrived under conditions of adversity.

Beethoven composed his best-known masterpieces after he became deaf while Sir Walter Raleigh wrote History of the World during his 13 years in prison.

The Discovery of India was written by Jawaharlal Nehru during his imprisonment in Ahmednagar Fort from 1942 to 1946 while Martin Luther translated the Holy Bible while confined in the Castle of Wartburg.

With a sentence of death hanging over him, Dante wrote The Divine Comedy during 20 years of exile.

5. Lucky people stay alert and informed

Most lucky people have understood that calming the mind is a key method to increase alertness.

Lucky people find their own unique ways to tame their minds.

Hence they are better able to deal with difficult or stressful situations in their lives.

Often it is this alertness that allows ‘lucky’ people to spot opportunities when they arise.

Consider the case of Ray Kroc, the person credited with creating the McDonald’s franchising system.

The brothers Richard and Maurice McDonald had established McDonald’s, a fast food restaurant.

The restaurant used Castle Multimixers to make milkshakes.

Ray Kroc supplied these machines to McDonald’s among others.

When Ray noticed that the McDonald brothers had purchased eight Multimixers in a very short period of time, he visited their San Bernardino restaurant to investigate.

Seeing their efficient operation convinced Ray that their scientific restaurant processes could be converted into a national franchising opportunity.

He quickly offered to become a franchising agent for the brothers and opened McDonald’s Inc’s very first restaurant in Des Plaines, Illinois.

He eventually bought out the company from the brothers in 1961 for $2.7 million.

Good luck for Ray Kroc?

Yes. But his good luck only happened because he was alert to a sudden spike in the sales of Castle Multimixers!

SOURCE::: http://www.rediff.com

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Message For the Day…” Learn From The WATCH the Lesson it Teaches to us …”

You dread that it is very difficult, nay, impossible, to realise God. It is very simple; its very simplicity makes you feel that there must be some hidden trap. You do not appreciate simple things and habits. For example, there is nothing so simple as speaking the truth; yet how many stick to Truth! If you venture into untruth, you have to invent new stories all along the line and keep in memory all the stories and all the persons to whom you have related them. Each student has a watch on his wrist. And, you look at the watch at least a hundred times a day. Well, learn from the watch a great lesson. When you watch the watch, remember the five letters of the word, WATCH; each is giving you a fine lesson for life: W tells you ‘Watch your Words’; A warns you ‘Watch your Action’; T indicates ‘Watch your Thoughts’; C advises ‘Watch your Character’; and H declares ‘Watch your Heart.’ When you are consulting your watch, imbibe this lesson that the watch is imparting.  

Sathya Sai Baba

 

A Briton Who is Cleaning Up India ….

There is a reason Jodie Underhill is called the ‘garbage girl’.

Archana Masih/Rediff.com meets the young lady who has been dirtying her hands in a crusade against filth.

Jodie Underhill“The first thing I saw were the beautiful mountains, but when I looked over the edge what I saw was — garbage,” says Jodie Underhill remembering her trek to Triund, near McLeodganj a few years ago.

Left: Jodie Underhill, CEO-Founder, Waste Warriors. Photograph: Seema Pant/Rediff.com

After spending three months travelling through Mumbai, Goa, Karnataka, Tamil Nadu, she had made her way to Dharamsala in 2008.

“India is such a beautiful country, but I haven’t seen filth on this scale. People just don’t care,” she continues talking about her battle with garbage in her office-cum-home in Dehradun; which is also a refuge to Bella, a donkey that broke its leg in a car accident across the road.

“I thought Dharamsala would be my salvation. It was the home of the Dalai Lama and would be clean, but I was wrong. I got off the tourist bus at 6 am to see a big pile of garbage at my feet. I couldn’t take it anymore.”

A native of England, Underhill, who had come to volunteer at a Tibetan school, then spent two weeks walking around McLeodganj with a placard saying ‘Volunteers Needed.’

Hundreds of people, mostly foreigners, turned up for her first clean up.

She and the volunteers went on to clean a children’s park that had been made into a dumping ground and started a waste collection system from home and shops in Triund so that people stopped throwing garbage down the mountains.

“With every piece of glass, plastic or trash you picked, it felt you were rescuing nature in a small way,” she says.

Since then waste is collected from 250 households and brought down on mules. Her NGO also maintains an 8-km-long popular trekking trail.

Underhill, who is often called ‘pagal (mad) for her passion for cleaning up and disposing off waste in the correct way, moved to Dehradun in 2012 to start Waste Warriors with funding from Max-India.

One of its projects was Gandhi Park, the only park in the city, which costs Rs 20,000 a month to maintain.

The organisation and its staff of 24 waste workers maintain certain shopping complexes, forest areas and localities in cooperation with shopkeepers and locals. She also conducts workshops in schools and has conducted a programme on waste management with the Indian Army.

“In India, people have a terrible attitude towards those who clear waste. They are the invisible people. Without them India would have disappeared under its garbage,” says the 38 year old, who won Times Now’s Amazing Indian Award in 2012 and a Rs 4 lakh (Rs 400,000) grant from the Mahindra Rise competition that supports new ideas.

In addition, Mahindra also gave Waste Warriors two pick-up trucks. It was the first time Waste Warriors moved on from the sole cycle rickshaw it had used till then to collect waste. Individual donations also help the organisation with funds — one of them being Telugu movie superstar Chiranjeevi’s contribution of Rs 5 lakhs (Rs 500,000).

When Underhill, a CEO without a salary, could not get a reduction in her visa extension fee of Rs 32,000 recently, Michael Dalvi, the former Ranji Trophy player, donated the amount to the NGO.

Waste Warriors charges Rs 100 from a chaiwallah to Rs 5,000 from a bank to collect and dispose the garbage responsibly. In a particular complex in Dehradun, the waste was earlier being dumped into a parking lot.

Struggling to raise funds and at times confronted with local governmental indifference, working with garbage hasn’t been easy for Underhill. It also elicits prejudice. She was once reported as a prostitute to the Foreigners Registration Office because residents disapproved of her living with two sweepers and her clean-up rounds in a cycle rickshaw.

“I shared their home. It was convenient as I worked with them,” she says and is grateful to have found the present space where Waste Warriors does waste segregation, composting and even provides shelter to cows, donkeys and dogs

Jodie with BellaGetting down on her knees as she goes through a pile of garbage her waste warriors had brought in, she picks up a plastic bag with rotting, smelly foodstuff.

“This plastic will take hundreds of years to decompose,” she says, reiterating the 5 important things all of us MUST do:

  • Segregate dry and liquid waste.
  • Stop using plastic.
  • Recycle.
  • Compost food/ garden waste.
  • Stop LITTERING and PEEING anywhere you feel like!

Image: Jodie Underhill with Bella, an injured donkey that she has given refuge. Photograph: Seema Pant/Rediff.com

“To change mindsets and habits is not impossible, but difficult. Stopping littering, dumping, burning is equivalent to giving up alcohol or drug addiction,” says Underhill, whose NGO is also working with six villages surrounding the Corbett National Park and aims to expand to 120 villages in the next five years.

With no awareness or mechanism, villagers have been dumping their waste into the Corbett tiger reserve. Funding for the first year has been provided by Mahindra. Waste Warriors has projects in Dharamsala, Dehradun, Corbett and has recently started work in Rishikesh. It aims at having similar projects around the country.

Underhill is quite obviously, excited about the Swachh Bharat initiative, and is eager to make a presentation to the prime minister. “I’d like to tell him what needs to be done because I work in the field,” she says.

“The PM is doing the right thing, but sweeping is not enough, it also has to be disposed properly. We need infrastructure, technology and mass scale awareness,” says Underhill.

“The municipal solid waste rules that came into being 14 years ago need to be enforced and read by every government official. This piece of legislation is the key to cleaning India.”

Yet she feels no government can work wonders unless the people bring about the transformation themselves.

Back in England, her parents think she has lost her mind to be working with garbage in India. But she feels India is home.

“English parents are like Indian parents. They want you to get married and have kids. I say I want to make a difference for other kids,” says Underhill who hasn’t been home for a couple of years.

“What are we leaving behind for them — a planet that has nothing left? Millions are going to die if we don’t change the way we live.”

Archana Masih/Rediff.com in Dehradun

Natarajan

” Better to be Paranoid Than Careless … ” Woman”s Safety Guide Tip …

‘As I sat down in the cab, I forwarded details of the cab number, driver’s name and phone number to a family member.’

‘I also switched on the GPS on my phone.’

Upasna Pandey, who travels at odd hours in taxis every 15 days, reveals how she stays safe.

Delhi at night

I’m both, a novice and expert on Delhi roads. I am a novice because I have travelled to all parts of Delhi, but cannot give directions if the need arises.

I’m an expert because I have used all possible modes of public transport — from the Delhi Metro to a cycle rickshaw.

When I need to travel long distances at odd hours and have to select a cab service, which may happen at least once in 15 days, the decision is usually a quick one, based on earlier experiences.

I am sharing with you one such experience at night.

It started with a trip to Dwarka for a family event which was to end post dinner. I requested a cab to take me from Dwarka to Noida opting for 10 pm as the pickup time.

Dwarka is one of the biggest residential hubs in Delhi, located close to the Indira Gandhi International Airport. It is densely populated and well-connected through a deep reach of public transport. So when I decided to use a private cab, I was confident it was a safe decision.

The driver turned up at the designated time. He was a middle aged man, heavy built, tall with a heavy voice. This is important to share as I am the opposite of this in size, so an immediate sense of intimidation is almost natural.

As I sat down in the cab, I forwarded the details of the cab registration number, driver’s name and phone number to a family member for reference. I also switched on the GPS on my mobile phone to understand the most suitable route to reach Noida.

There is one more thing which I have been doing for many years, almost instinctively: As soon as I board a cab, I remove all expensive jewellery in case I am wearing any.

We were on our way when I realised that the route shown on the GPS was actually a deserted stretch and my instinct was to move on to the busier roads which may have taken much longer.

Some panic had set in as I worried over this while the driver continued to drive on the GPS route; he also assured me that we would be reaching a busy road soon.

I called up my family member to share the exact location and seek an opinion on whether it was safe to continue on it or to deviate to a busy road.

I noticed that the driver was speaking to someone in Punjabi on his phone. I understood the language so was at ease to know it was his personal call, and nothing with reference to me. It did bother me when he chose to speak in his native language, I would have preferred if he spoke in Hindi or English.

The 5 to 10 minutes drive on a deserted stretch was enough to give me goosebumps; I resolved not to commit myself to any such engagements which would require me to travel alone at night in cabs.

I was waiting anxiously to see a busy road and some streetlights, which are also missing in many parts of Delhi, regardless of these being well developed areas.

Soon we hit a busy National Highway and then the Ring road which is the lifeline of Delhi, heading for Noida. I had the option of taking one more relatively lonely stretch which would help enter Noida via Mayur Vihar or taking a toll road which required payment, I chose the latter.

I was not consistently on the phone with my family member but making repeated phone calls, so I could remain attentive and alert to the route and the driver’s behaviour; this is crucial.

Keeping myself rooted in the reality of being alone with a stranger for a short span on the road made more sense for me instead of talking over the phone with a loved one, as an escape to comfort.

I saw a couple of police patrol vehicles en route, which was also comforting but I was praying I wouldn’t need to reach out for any help.

I reached home in almost an hour, paid the cab fare, and thanked the driver for a service which was more about safety than about distance.

I knew if there is one learning for me from this experience, it was simple: It’s better to be paranoid than be casual and careless.

The driver would normally be a good person, but the risk is too high if he isn’t. It is better to be slightly aloof than being friendly and being misunderstood.

Let’s not take a chance.

SOURCE:::: http://www.rediff.com

Natarajan

Meet the Lesser Known Malalas …

Image: Nobel Peace Prize laureate Malala Yousafzai (centre) poses for a photo with young activists she invited to accompany her in Oslo. From left to right: Amina Yusuf of Nigeria, Kainat Soomro of Pakistan, Shazia Ramzan of Pakistan, Malala, Mezon Almellehan of Syria and Kainat Riaz of Pakistan. Photograph: Suzanne Plunkett/Reuters

“I am Shazia.”

“I am Kainat Riaz.”

“I am Kainat Somro.”

“I am Mezon.”

“I am Amina.”

“I am those 66 million girls who are out of school,” said Malala Yousafzai after she was conferred the Nobel Prize on Wednesday in Oslo. The five names mentioned by the world’s youngest laureate in her Nobel lecture are her friends from across the world and what united them is the campaign for education for every child.

Rediff.com profiles Malala’s five extraordinary young friends and fellow activists.

Kainat Riaz

Kainat Riaz was sitting next to Malala in the same bus when a gunman appeared and opened fire on them. Kainat was shot in the upper right arm, while Malala received a bullet injury in her head on October 9, 2012.

“When you are educated, you are able to do everything,” Riaz said. “If you are not educated, you can’t do anything,” she told the media after the ceremony. “The Malala mission is our mission. She’s my friend. And she inspired us. We will always support her,” she said.

Shazia Ramzan

Shazia, then 13, was sitting in front of Malala and Kainat when the gunman barged in and asked, “Who is Malala?”

The brave identified herself; the gunman shot her. He then turned his gun at Shazia.

He shot Shazia twice — below her collarbone and in her left hand. Finally, he shot Kainat and then jumped off the bus.

Both Shazia and Kainat are now studying in Wales at the UWC Atlantic College and both want to become doctors.

Kainat Soomro

She was only 13 when she was gang-raped in Pakistan’s Mehar. Her struggle to obtain justice drew global attention in 2007.

Soomro’s father was ridiculed by the police. The conservative community in Pakistan said that she should be “killed for honour”; her family stood by her and rejected it outright. Fearing the subsequent backlash, the family left for Karachi.

Defying all norms, she took her alleged perpetrators to court, and has worked tirelessly since then to bring them to justice. The alleged rapists are still at large.

Mezon Almellehan

This 16-year-old Syrian refugee, who lives with her family in a camp in Azraq, Jordan champions for girls’ education within the camps.

She met Malala earlier this year at the large Syrian refugee camp, Za’atari, where Almellehan was living at the time.

Amina Yusuf

Amina Yusuf, 17, is a girls’ education activist from northern Nigeria where the terror group Boko Haram abducted more than 200 schoolgirls during a raid in April 2014.

SOURCE::: http://www.rediff.com

Natarajan

 

Image of the day…” MoonLight Skating in Sweden …” !!!

“Nights like these are almost to good to be true.” See this touching, just-released video.

 

 

Master sky photographer Göran Strand of Sweden – whose beautiful photo The Father, The Son and the Moon is also featured here at EarthSky this week – mentioned a couple of days ago that he soon would have something more “exotic” to show us. Today (December 10, 2014), he wrote with word of a new video he’s just completed and posted at YouTube. He wrote:

Now I finished the movie showing me and a couple of my friends tour skating on a frozen lake near Östersund, Sweden [a couple of nights ago]. This night was really magic, no wind, lots of ice crystals in the air and an almost full moon that shined upon us during our two hours out on the ice. To the right of the moon, you can see the constellation of Orion and, down left of the moon, you can see planet Jupiter shining brightly.

Nights like these are almost to good to be true.

Hope you like it.

Visit Göran Strand’s website: http://www.astrofotografen.se

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SOURCE::: http://www.earthsky.org and You Tube

Natarajan

Message For the Day…” Keep Your Emotions always within Check …”

Do not get too much attached to the world, and too involved in its tangles. Keep your emotions always within check. The waves agitate only the upper layers of the sea; down below it is calm. So too, when you sink into your depths, you must be free from the agitation of the waves. Know that most things are of no lasting value and can therefore be brushed aside; hold fast to the solid substance alone. Use your discrimination to discover and distinguish lumber from treasure. The Pranava japa (recitation of Om and contemplation of its significance) will help to calm the roaring waves. Gita affirms that when the word ‘Om’ (Supreme Universal Reality) is spelt by the dying with their last breath, they attain the Divine. To be able to spell it then, dwell upon its sweetness and significance throughout your life, from today. Then the final Om that emerges from your lips will be an offering that merges in Him!

Sathya Sai Baba

Korean Air Chief Bows In Apology For His Daughter”s Action …

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On Friday, Korean Air and Hanjin Group chairman Cho Yang-ho bowed apologetically and blamed himself for the outlandish behavior of his eldest daughter and former Airline executive Heather Cho.

The younger Cho landed in hot water last week after she ordered a flight she was on to return to its gate at New York’s JFK International Airport. Why? To kick off the head flight attendant due to unhappiness over how she was served macadamia nuts.

The international outcry from to the incident led Cho – who was in charge of in-flight service and catering for Korean Air as well as hotels for a Korean Air subsidiary – to resign her post as executive vice president of her father’s multi-billion dollar conglomerate, the Hanjin Group, earlier this week.

T he Hanjin Group is comprised of major international shipping lines and logistics companies, as well as Korean Air.

In an attempt to regain some of the luster the family lost over the past week, the elder Cho stepped in front of a slew of reporters and apologized profusely for his daughter’s behavior.

He also announced his daughter’s dismissal from any position within Hanjin Group from which she has not already resigned.

“I apologize to the people of [South Korea] as chairman of Korean Air and as a father for the trouble caused by my daughter’s foolish conduct,” the tycoon said, according to Reuters.

“Please blame me; it’s my fault,” Cho said, according to the New York Times. “I failed to raise her properly.”

Korean Air Heather ChoAP/Lee Jin-manHeather Cho apologizes to the press.

In a separate press conference, Heather Cho also took questions from a gaggle of reporters. In a dramatic turn of events, the executive appeared sullen and spoke almost inaudibly as she apologized for her behavior.

The controversy began when the younger Cho, seated in first class of a Korean Air Airbus superjumbo, was served macadamia nuts in its original packaging by a junior flight attendant instead of following the airline’s service procedure, which requires the crew member to ask if the passenger would like some nuts and then serve the snacks on a plate.

Cho then proceeded to grill the flight’s head flight attendant over the company’s service policies. Apparently unhappy with the crew member’s response, Cho ordered the airliner to abandon its place in line for take off and return to its gate at JFK to deplane the head flight attendant. This maneuver cause the flight to be delayed 20 minutes and arrive at its destination in South Korea 11 minutes late.

Korean Air Airbus A380Flickr/John MurphyKorean Air super jumbo

Korean media is reporting that the country’s transport ministry is investigating whether Cho violated any Korean aviation regulations.

According to Marketwatch, Korean aviation regulations state that an aircraft preparing for takeoff should only return to the gate if the pilots determine that there’s an emergency that would threaten the well being of the plane and its passengers. Violators could be subject to 10 years of jail time!

The incident has invited criticism of family owned conglomerates – known as “chaebols”- in the Korean economy. In addition to Hanjin Group, other chaebols such as Samsung, Hyundai, and LG have risen to global prominence over the past few decades.

Many in the public as well as the press characterised the Hanjin’s airline heiress as entitled and inappropriate.

Hopefully, the elder Cho’s apologies have walked back some of the uproar over the ugliness of the incident

SOURCE:::: http://www.businessinsider .in

Natarajan

Message For the Day…” When The False Knowledge ..a-jnana..is Destroyed..”

People have forgotten their real nature and believe that they are the body, the senses, etc. When these (instruments) crave for objective pleasures, people ignorantly convince themselves that this pleasure is wanted by them! Under this mistaken notion, they seek to fulfill the cravings. They delude themselves that they can secure bliss (ananda) by catering to the body and senses. However they are rewarded with disillusionment, defeat and disaster, and reap pleasure and pain. Though the objective world appears real, one must be aware that it is deluding us. As a result, one has to give up the yearning for deriving pleasure from the objects that appear and attract, both here and hereafter. The false knowledge (a-jnana) can be destroyed only when one knows theAtma (the Divine Self) principle. When the false knowledge disappears, the sorrow produced by one’s involvement in the ups and downs of the world of change (samsara) also gets destroyed.

Sathya Sai Baba