A Musical Tribute to our Tricolour…

 

 

 

Kumar Narayanan
Kumar Narayanan…  Photo ….The Hindu

This week, we celebrate our Independence Day and Saintunes, a creative outfit in the city, headed by R. Kumar Narayanan, has composed a patriotic song in Hindi. The number has been sung by him and playback singer Rita, supported by N. Ramanathan and Harish.

“The lyrics of Hey Hindustan are by Uday Meghani, who is with AIR, and I have composed the song as a tribute to our nation. It reiterates that we, as citizens, should value the freedom obtained thanks to the sacrifice of thousands of freedom fighters. It is also a tribute to the defence forces for safeguarding our nation by keeping awake with watchful eyes thereby helping civilians sleep peacefully,” says Kumar.

The song is supported by a video compiled from STOCK images, and uploaded on YouTube. “The visual starts with children, as they are the future generation, and ends with the Tricolour flying high against the blue sky,” explains Kumar.

Keywords: R. Kumar NarayananHey HindustanSaintunesIndependence Day

Source:::: Nikhil Raghavan in THE HINDU and YOU TUBE

Natarajan

Inspiring Story of A Poor Farmer’s Son …Varun Chandran of Kerala …

He fought poverty.

 

He was teased for his funny ‘Mallu’ accent and eating habits. He fought ‘racism’. 

He sacrificed his football career for his family.

Today, Varun Chandran, from a small Kerala village, is the CEO of his own IT company and a dollar millionaire.

Remarkably, he has set up a part of his operations near the same small village he was born in.

If you were to ask me who my hero is, it’s not Nehru or Mahatma Gandhi. It’s I M Vijayan, the boy who, after having started out selling soda at stadiums and playing barefoot, went on to become the best football player in India. He was such an inspiration that I had his photo in my room, and used to pray to him before each game. He was my God!” says 34-year-old Varun Chandran.

Varun Chandran’s own journey, from an impoverished home in a small village in Kerala, to a Silicon Valley millionaire, follows a like pattern.

As a small boy his ambition didn’t go beyond chopping logs in the forests like his father, or following his uncle into the Army.

Varun was born in Paadam, a small village near Kollam. Most of the 800 families were poor landless labourers working in the nearby forest.

But the village owes its growth to Varun’s maternal grandfather, Karam Velal Sadananthan, who moved there to farm tapioca. The pioneering spirit could thus be a family inheritance.

“My grandfather was a local hero — a communist who got roads built and brought the first bus to the village. He even had an eatery where he served free food to people. This resulted in ever more people migrating to the village. He also fed the bus driver and conductor for free so that they were encouraged to come to the village,” Varun recollects.

His grandmother was also a hardworking woman who tapped toddy in the jungle and sold it to the workers who worked in the forest.

“I saw a lot of hard working people in the village; they either worked in the paddy fields or in the forest. But most were illiterate. My father himself had two jobs — he worked in the fields and also went to the jungle to chop logs.”

His mother ran a grocery shop out of their home. A strong-willed, ambitious woman, she insisted that her children attend the English medium primary school in the next town.

“If it weren’t for my mother, I don’t think I would have gone to school, or bothered to study even if I had. She made sure that we were educated, unlike most of the rest of the village.”
He still remembers studying under the light of a kerosene lamp as the village wasn’t connected to the grid until he was 10 years old.

“In fact, I can’t remember ever studying under an electric bulb. Even after we got electricity, power supply was intermittent and afflicted by voltage fluctuations. During the monsoon season we never had any power as the trees in the forest near our village invariably collapsed on to the electricity pylons.”

Money was hard to come by. The grocery store was not doing well. Their indebtedness rose to the point that everything in their house was taken away, and they had to sleep on the floor.

“The school fee was Rs 25 a month but my parents couldn’t pay the fees for six or seven months. I was thrown out of the class many times. I had to go through this humiliating experience many, many times in school.”

Later, he was sent to a boarding school and life changed dramatically for Varun.

“At boarding school, there is a big difference between being a rich kid and a poor kid. You are humiliated by the hostel warden for paying the hostel fees late. Even as a teenager you realise how important a role money plays in our society. Looking back, my experience was truly disgusting.

“I also realised how skin colour plays a major role in who you are. There were teachers who called me ‘the black boy’. It used to make me cry. That became my nickname in school. Some even called me a crow. It hurt me a lot and I hated it. I had more bad experiences than good ones in that school.”

But he used football to channel all his anger. So inspired was Varun by the rags to riches story of I M Vijayan, the well known Malayali football player, that he wanted to be like him. “I saw myself in I M Vijayan,” he says of his idol.

He soon became the school football captain and brought an inter-school trophy back to school. “That was my sweet revenge for all the insults and humiliations heaped upon me. Their attitude changed towards me after that, but it didn’t matter to me any more. I continued to play football with all the pent up anger in me, like one possessed.”

He won a government sports scholarship to enter a college in Trivandrum.

In the first year, he played for the Kerala state Under-16 football team in a tournament held in Uttar Pradesh. For the first time in his life, at the age of 16, he clambered aboard a train.
“That was my first step into the outside world, from a small village in Kerala to the northern part of India. It was an amazing trip to a place that was actually cold. Until then, I was merely a survivor. It was only when I went on that trip that I began to live my life.”

From then on, progress was steady for Varun the footballer. He went on to captain the Kerala University football team. “I started making new friends, learning new languages and meeting people from different communities. These trips made me curious about different experiences, people and cultures.”

His burning ambition was to play football for India and land a secure government job.

That was when he encountered another turning point in his life.

During his travels, he met one Abhoy Singh from Delhi who gave him his email id and asked him to stay in touch.

“I didn’t know what an email was. I found out that it had something to do with computers.”

He joined a private institute to learn about computers. “As a footballer, I had travelled all around India. But the Internet? It took me all around the world. New worlds opened in front of me.”

Just as I M Vijayan had inspired him to become a footballer, Abhoy inspired him to learn computing, and become a programmer and an entrepreneur. “But neither of them knows the influence they have had on my life!” he says.

Just before finishing his college degree, Varun was picked to attend a selection camp for the next Santosh Trophy — his opportunity to play for the Kerala senior side! But when at the camp, he injured his shoulder badly and had to leave.

He was back in his village, nursing his injury. But the situation at home was terrible; there was no food and an air of tension in the family.

“I had dropped out of college without a degree. After my injury, I wasn’t a footballer either. My mother scolded me and told me to get out and find myself a job. If I had ignored her remonstrations and stayed at home, I may well have recuperated and played football again.”

He asked his grandmother for help. She took her GOLD bangle off her wrist and gave it to him along with Rs 3,000, saying, “Go start a new life.”

That is what he proceeded to do, all those years ago, in 2003.

Varun went to Bangalore where a man from his village was a contractor. The man allowed him to stay rent-free in a tiny place that housed seven of his contract workers.

Bangalore was booming at the time and there were lots of call centre jobs available. But his halting English was a problem. He attended around 40 interviews for call centre jobs, but failed because he found it difficult to say a single sentence in English.

“I used to feel terrible about myself for not being able to speak English. After each failed attempt, I used to sit at the Sivaji Nagar bus stop and cry my heart out.”

He went to the public library and began to read and learn new English words with the help of a dictionary. Whenever he could, he watched BBC and CNN, and began to talk to himself in English.

Three months of this and he got himself a job in a call centre.

But it was not what he expected.

I was teased for my ‘funny’ Mallu accent and eating habits. Some refused to touch me because I ate beef. I found it ridiculous and racist. It was horrendous; I didn’t enjoy those two years at all.

“Today, I have visited over 25 countries, and feel that India is the most racist country in the world. Not once was I racially abused in any other country; they all treated me with respect and never looked down on me.”

Varun read everything he could lay his hands on. All the reading paid off. He got a job with Entity Data, a Hyderabad-based company, as a business development executive. He did so well that they sent him to the US after three months.

The boy from a tiny village in Kerala had arrived.

“I found that people in Silicon Valley were fearless and risk-taking. They were quite open too,” he says.

He joined SAP and later Oracle and was sent to Singapore. Silicon Valley had kindled the desire to start something on his own.

“I read a lot about the guys who had start-ups and dreamt of the day I would have one of my own. I knew I had to create something that would solve problems, make people’s lives easier, and be desirable.”

While still working for Oracle, he had started to develop products that would help users identify the best sales and MARKETING approaches by giving them data on potential customers’ likes and dislikes, and the best customers to target their products at. He used the products for a couple of years to see how they worked.

Satisfied with the results, he decided in 2012 to strike out on his own from his house in Singapore.

He registered the company in Singapore — the best place in the world to start a company, according to Varun — in just 30 minutes, and created a website. He named it Corporate 360 as “we take care of organisations’ 360 degree MARKETING profile.”

The product he created is Tech Sales Cloud, a sales and MARKETING tool that analyses large datasets in order to help sales and marketing teams target customers better.

He met some corporate houses and showed them the product, and within three months, he got three orders. “The first order was for $500 from a customer in the UK, and when I got it, I was screaming and jumping up and down in my bedroom.”

The year ended with $250,000 in revenue.

Then he decided to expand by hiring contractors, seven from Kerala and four from Manila.

He had cleared the family’s debts and bought a house in Pathanapuram town for his family. He now sponsors the local football club (Town Football Club Pathanapuram).

In 2012, the company had some 50 customers and revenue of $600,000. In November 2013, Varun started a development centre in Pathanapuram rather than the usual choices of Bangalore or Hyderabad.

“It was initially tough to get good programers. When I advertised for candidates, nobody was interested. Youngsters didn’t want to come and stay and work in a small town. They feel you are not working unless you sit in some Techno Park.”

Today, he works out of his own office building situated on land he purchased in Pathanapuram, and employs 17 people.

He is in the process of building an IT park there. “I want to prove that IT jobs aren’t just in Techno Parks in big cities, that it can be done from anywhere in the world.

“Today, we need product development companies; we need to innovate. Our company, though a fast-growing multinational company with over $1 million in revenue that works predominantly with western companies, is located in a small town in Kerala.”

Varun soon plans to open sales and MARKETING offices in Silicon Valley and London. But his product development will continue to be done in Manila and Kerala, and the head office will continue to remain in Singapore. By 2017, he plans to make it a $5 million company with operations in five countries.

His advice to young entrepreneurs is to innovate products that will be desirable to millions of people.

“Build products that will solve problems. Create the right culture and build your team around it. Improvise every day, gain traction and run — don’t ever stop no matter what happens!”

He says it was sports that instilled competitiveness, fighting spirit, and team spirit in him.

“Sports unite and motivate people. Today, the reason I am able to run a company successfully is because of the foundations I built as a sportsman.”

Source::::Shobha Warrier/Rediff.com 

Natarajan

Message For the Day…” Fill your Heart with Love for God…”

Love is a precious diamond that can be got only in the realm of love and nowhere else. The kingdom of Love is located in every love-filled heart. Love can be experienced only in a mind flowing with love. The precious diamond of Love cannot be obtained merely through meditation or following prescribed sacred rituals. At best they only give mental satisfaction. The greater your love for God, the greater is the bliss you experience. When love declines in you, your joy also declines proportionally. Hence you must fill your heart with love for God. Love will not enter your heart if it is already filled with selfishness and self-conceit. Hence forget your petty self and concentrate your thoughts on God. If you love God, you will see Him everywhere. The essence of all spiritual disciplines is contained in Love.

Sathya Sai Baba

” தயங்காதே…தளராதே…ஒரு தன்னம்பிக்கை தமிழனின் வெற்றி கதை …”

நன்றாக படிக்கக் கூடிய எட்டாம் வகுப்பு மாணவன் அவன்; ஆனால், குடும்பத்திலோ வறுமை. தினம், 10 கி.மீ., நடந்து போய் தான், படிக்க வேண்டும்.
சில சமயம் சைக்கிளிலும், எப்போதாவது பஸ்சிலும் செல்வான். அப்போது, பஸ் கட்டணம் கால் ரூபாய் தான் என்றாலும், அதையும் கணக்கு பார்க்க வேண்டிய குடும்ப சூழல்.
பிராமணர் என்பதால், ஊக்கத்தொகைக்கும், உதவி தொகைக்கும் வழியில்லை; விடுதியில் தங்குவதற்கோ விதி இடம் தரவில்லை. இதனால், பள்ளித் தலைமையாசிரியரிடம் சென்ற அவன், ‘சார்… தினமும் 10 கி.மீ., நடந்து, பள்ளிக்கு வந்து போவது சிரமமாயிருக்கிறது; பஸ்சை எதிர்பார்த்தா, அம்மா பட்டினி கிடக்க வேண்டி வரும். இலவசமாய் விடுதியில் இடம் கிடைக்குமானால், எங்கள் குடும்பமே உங்களுக்கு நன்றி உடையவர்களாக இருப்பர்…’ என்று, கெஞ்சினான்.
அவனது நிலையை அறிந்த ஆசிரியர், ‘உனக்கு உதவணும்ன்னு எனக்கும் விருப்பம்தாம்பா…ஆனா, நான் சிபாரிசு செய்யணும்ன்னா, நீ வகுப்புல முதல் மாணவனாக வரணும்; நல்லா படிச்சு, மார்க் எடு பாக்கலாம்…’ என்றார்.
அவனும் சந்தோஷத்துடன், ‘எல்லா பாடத்திலயும் நிச்சயமாய் முதலாவதாக வருவேன்…’ என்று கூறிச் சென்றான்.
அதே போன்று உற்சாகமாய் படித்து, தேர்வு எழுதினான்.
அன்று கடைசி தேர்வு…
முதுகில் புத்தக மூட்டையுடனும், நெஞ்சில் கனவுகளுடனும் பஸ்சிற்காக காத்திருந்தான். 10:00 மணிக்கு தேர்வு; 9:00 மணிக்கு வர வேண்டிய பஸ், 9:30 மணி வரை வரவில்லை.
‘கடவுளே… இது என்ன சோதனை. நேரத்திற்கு போகவில்லையென்றால் தேர்வு எழுத விடமாட்டார்களே… இனியும் பஸ்சை நம்பி பிரயோஜனமில்ல…’ என்று நினைத்து வீட்டிற்கு ஓடியவன், சுவரில் சாய்த்து வைக்கப்பட்டிருந்த ஓட்டை சைக்கிளை எடுத்து, மிதிக்க ஆரம்பித்தான்.
சுமார், 2 கி.மீ., போயிருப்பான்; டயர் பஞ்சர். இன்னும், 8 கி.மீ., போக வேண்டும். நேரமோ, 10:00 மணியாகி விட்டது.
சைக்கிளை அப்படியே கடை ஒன்றில் போட்டுவிட்டு, முதுகில் இருந்த புத்தக மூட்டையுடன் ஓட ஆரம்பித்தான், ஓடுகிறான்… ஓடுகிறான்… அப்படி ஒரு பேயோட்டம்.
அவன் ஓடிக்கொண்டே இருக்கட்டும்; அவன் இலக்கை அடைந்தானா என்பதை, பிறகு பார்ப்போம்.
உலக நாடுகளில், இந்தியாவைச் சேர்ந்த, அதிலும் தமிழகத்தை சேர்ந்த சாதனையாளர்கள் பலர், நம் நாட்டிற்கு பெருமை சேர்த்துக் கொண்டிருந்தாலும், அரபு நாடுகளில் மட்டும் இந்தியர்கள் தொழில், அறிவியல், மற்றும் கல்வித்துறை போன்றவற்றில் முதன்மை பதவியில் அமர்த்தப்படுவது அபூர்வம். எல்லாமே நாம் செய்து கொடுத்தாலும், பதவி மட்டும் உள்ளூர்வாசிகளுக்குத் தான்!
இதற்கு விதிவிலக்காக இருப்பவர் கும்பகோணத்தைச் சேர்ந்த டாக்டர் ஆர்.சீதாராமன். தோஹா வங்கியின் தலைவராக, உலக அளவில் அவ்வங்கியை வளர்த்து, எல்லாராலும் வியந்து பார்க்கப்படும் மனிதர்.
அவரது மிடுக்கும், கம்பீரமும் பிறரை அசர வைத்தாலும், இந்தியர்கள் என்றால், அதிலும் தமிழர் என்றால் அப்படியே உருகி விடுவார்.
கத்தார் நாட்டில் எந்த இந்திய நிகழ்ச்சி என்றாலும், உடனே கை கொடுப்பார். எளிமையும், இளகிய மனமும் கொண்ட இவர், எளிதில் பிடிக்க முடியாத அளவிற்கு, எப்போதும் பிசினஸ் விஷயமாய் உலகத்தை சுற்றிக் கொண்டிருக்கும் வாலிபர்.
குவைத்தில், ‘பிரன்ட் லைனர்ஸ்’ விழாவிற்கு தலைமை விருந்தினராக அழைத்தவுடன், தன் மற்ற பயணங்களை மாற்றி வைத்து, உடனே ஒப்புதல் தந்தார்.
சீதாராமன் வருகிறார் என்றதும், பல அமைப்பினரும், இந்தியப் பள்ளிகளும் அவரை உரையாற்ற அழைத்தனர். ஆனால், குவைத்தில் அவர் தங்கப் போவது ஒரு நாள் தான் என்றதும், பலருக்கும் ஏமாற்றம்.
இந்த விவரத்தை அவருக்கு தெரிவித்ததும், நிகழ்ச்சிக்கு இரண்டு வாரத்திற்கு முன்பு, சீதாராமனிடமிருந்து அழைப்பு. ‘குவைத்திற்காக நான் மூன்று நாட்கள் ஒதுக்கியிருக்கிறேன்; எங்கள் வங்கி நிகழ்ச்சியை முதல்நாள் ஏற்பாடு செய்யச் சொல்லியிருக்கிறேன். மீதம் இரண்டு நாள், உங்களுக்காக… என்னுடன் என் தாயார், மனைவி மற்றும் மகளும் வருகின்றனர்…’ என்றார்.
அன்று வங்கி சார்பாக, பலரின் அப்பாயின்மென்ட்கள் இருக்க, சீதாராமன் அவர் களுக்கு, ‘கடுக்காய்’ கொடுத்து, இந்திய பள்ளி மற்றும் இந்திய தூதுவர் சந்திப்பு என, நேரம் ஒதுக்கித் தந்தார்.
‘பிரன்ட் லைனர்ஸ்’ புத்தகத்தின், 17ம் தொகுதியை நீதியரசர் ஏ.ஆர்.லட்சுமணன் வெளியிட, சீதாராமன் பெற்றுக் கொள்வதாக ஏற்பாடு; இருவருக்கும் பல ஆண்டு நட்பு இருந்ததால், இருவருமே ரொம்ப ஒத்துழைப்பு கொடுத்தனர்.
காலையில் கலந்துரையாடல்; மாலையில் புத்தக வெளியீடு மற்றும் கலை நிகழ்ச்சிகள். இரண்டுக்குமே சீதாராமனின் தாய், மனைவி மற்றும் மகள் வந்திருந்து ரசித்தனர்.
மலர்ந்த முகத்துடன் காட்சியளித்த அவரது தாயை மேடைக்கு அழைத்து நாங்கள் கவுரவிக்க, கைதட்டல் ஓயவில்லை. அதற்கு காரணம், வறுமையிலும் கூட, சீதாராமனை வளர்த்து, வளப்படுத்தி, உலக அளவில் உயர்த்தியுள்ள அந்த தாயின் சாமர்த்தியமும், கஷ்டத்தை பொருட்படுத்தாமல் படிக்க வைத்து, ஆளாக்கின அவரது வைராக்கிய மாண்பும் தான்!
ஆம்… இன்று தன் உழைப்பாலும், திறமை மற்றும் தன்னம்பிக்கையாலும் சிகரத்திலுள்ள சீதாராமன் தான், அன்று எட்டாம் வகுப்பு தேர்வுக்காக, ஓட்டமாக ஓடியவர். திரும்ப அந்த கதைக்கு வருவோம்…
அன்று —
கை, கால்கள் மற்றும் உடல் தளர்ந்தாலும், அவனது உள்ளம் தளரவில்லை.
வென்றாக வேண்டும் என்ற லட்சியத்துடன் ஓடிக் கொண்டிருந்தவன், பள்ளியை அடைந்த போது, மணி, 10:30; தேர்வு ஆரம்பிக்கப்பட்டிருந்தது. அப்போதும் அவன் தளர்ந்து விடவில்லை; நம்பிக்கையை இழக்காமல் தலைமையாசிரியர் அறையை நோக்கி ஓடினான். அழுகையும், பதட்டமுமாக ஓடி, வந்தவனைப் பார்த்த தலைமையாசிரியர், அவனை அமைதிப்படுத்தி அரவணைத்து அழைத்துப்போய் தேர்வு எழுதச் சொன்னார்.
ஓடிவந்த களைப்பில் கை நடுங்க அவன் எழுத ஆரம்பித்தான். தேர்வு நேரம் முடிய ஒரு மணி நேரம் இருக்கும் போதே முழுதாய் எழுதி கொடுத்துவிட்டு, தலைமையாசிரியரிடம் நன்றி கூறி, அழ ஆரம்பித்தான்.
அந்தத் தேர்வில் அவன் நினைத்தபடியே முதலிடம் பெற்றான்; தகுதி அடிப்படையில் விடுதியிலும் இடம் கிடைத்தது.
அவன் எந்த தருணத்திலும், தன் சூழலையோ, வறுமையையோ நொந்து கொண்டதில்லை. இல்லாததை நினைத்து புலம்பிக் கொண்டிருக்கவில்லை. இருப்பதை ஏற்றுக் கொள்ளும் மனப்பக்குவத்தை அவனது தந்தை, அவனுக்கு கற்றுத் தந்திருந்தார்.
சீதாராமனுடைய தந்தை ஒரு சமஸ்கிருத பண்டிட்!
அந்நாட்களில் தமிழகத்தில் இந்தி எதிர்ப்பு போராட்டம் வலுத்து, வெறுப்புடன் இந்தியை விரட்டியடிக்க, இந்தி, சமஸ்கிருத ஆசிரியர்களுக்கு வேலையில்லாமல் போனதால், அவரது சம்பாத்யம் பறிபோயிற்று. அதன்பின், அவர் பிழைப்பு தேடி பம்பாய் சென்றுவிட, சீதாராமனுடைய அம்மாவும், பாட்டியும் குடும்பத்தை சுமக்க வேண்டியதாயிற்று.
பாட்டியும், இளம் வயதிலேயே முதுமை அடையும் அளவிற்கு உழைத்து, ஓடாய்ப் போனவர். அம்மாவும், பிள்ளைகளுக்கு கஷ்டம் வரக்கூடாது என, அக்கம் பக்கம் வீடுகளில் வேலைபார்த்து, வயிற்றை கழுவும் நிலைமை. அந்த சூழலிலும் கூட சீதாராமனின் விருப்பத்திற்கும், லட்சியத்திற்கும் அவர்கள் குறுக்கே நின்றதில்லை.
எப்போதும் ஊக்கமும், உற்சாகமும் ஊட்டி படிக்க வைத்தனர். சீதாராமனும் வீட்டினரை கஷ்டப்படுத்தாமல், தன்னை விட ஓர் ஆண்டு மூத்த, 10ம் வகுப்பு மாணவர்களுக்கு, டியூஷன் சொல்லித் தருவார். இதனால், காசுக்கு காசும், அடுத்த ஆண்டுக்கான பாடப் புத்தகங்களும் இலவசமாய் கிடைத்தன. பின்னால் சீதாராமன், பி.காம்., முதலாமாண்டு படிக்கும் போதும், மூன்றாம் ஆண்டு மாணவர்களுக்கு பாடம் சொல்லித் தருவார்.
அத்துடன், அதிகாலையில் எழுந்து, வீடுவீடாய் பேப்பர் போடுவது, ஓட்டல்களில் வேலை, சினிமா போஸ்டர் ஒட்டுவது என, பல்வேறு பொருளாதார கஷ்டங்களுக்கிடையே படித்த சீதாராமன், பி.காம்.,மில் கோல் மெடலிஸ்ட். அதன்பின், சி.ஏ., படிப்பை, தன் சொந்த முயற்சியாலே படித்து முடித்தவருக்கு, ஓமனில் வேலை கிடைத்தது.
அதன்பின், கத்தாரில் நலிவடைந்திருந்த, தோஹா வங்கியின் பொறுப்பை ஏற்று, அதன் உயரத்தை உயர்த்திக் கொண்டிருக்கிறார்.
இயல், இசை, நாடகம் என, அவருக்கு சின்ன வயதிலிருந்தே ஈடுபாடு; படிக்கும் போதே, பெண் வேடம் போட்டிருப்பதுடன், பல குரல் வித்தகர். பொதுவாய் ஒருவர் பெரிய பதவியை வகித்து விட்டாலே, கற்ற கலைகளை விட்டு விடுவர்; ஆனால், சீதாராமன் இதற்கு விதிவிலக்கு. குவைத்திலும் மேடையில், சிவாஜி வசனம் பேசி, அசத்தினார்.
வசதி வாய்ப்புகள் இருந்தாலும், அவற்றை பயன்படுத்தாமல் வீணாய்ப் போனவர்களுக்கு மத்தியில், ‘வறுமையும் கஷ்டமும், படிப்பிற்கும், முன்னேற்றத்திற்கும் தடையல்ல…’ என்று நிரூபித்திருக்கும் சீதாராமன், ஒரு முன்னுதாரண தமிழர்; உலக அளவில், இந்தியர்களின் பெருமையை உயர்த்தி பிடித்திருப்பவர்.

என்.சி.மோகன்தாஸ்  ….in Dinamalar…Vaara malar

Natarajan

” When I Started Loving Myself….”

When I started loving myself     ….

A poem by Charlie Chaplin written on his 70th birthday on April 16, 1959:

I understood that I’m always and at any given opportunity
in the right place at the right time.
And I understood that all that happens is right –
from then on I could be calm.
Today I know: It’s called TRUST.

When I started to love myself I understood how much it can offend somebody
When I tried to force my desires on this person,
even though I knew the time is not right and the person was not ready for it,
and even though this person was me.
Today I know: It’s called LETTING GO

When I started loving myself
I could recognize that emotional pain and grief
are just warnings for me to not live against my own truth.
Today I know: It’s called AUTHENTICALLY BEING.

When I started loving myself
I stopped longing for another life
and could see that everything around me was a request to grow.
Today I know: It’s called MATURITY.

When I started loving myself
I stopped depriving myself of my free time
and stopped sketching further magnificent projects for the future.
Today I only do what’s fun and joy for me,
what I love and what makes my heart laugh,
in my own way and in my tempo.
Today I know: it’s called HONESTY.

When I started loving myself
I escaped from all what wasn’t healthy for me,
from dishes, people, things, situations
and from everyhting pulling me down and away from myself.
In the beginning I called it the “healthy egoism”,
but today I know: it’s called SELF-LOVE.

When I started loving myself
I stopped wanting to be always right
thus I’ve been less wrong.
Today I’ve recognized: it’s called HUMBLENESS.

When I started loving myself
I refused to live further in the past
and worry about my future.
Now I live only at this moment where EVERYTHING takes place,
like this I live every day and I call it CONSCIOUSNESS.

When I started loving myself
I recognized, that my thinking
can make me miserable and sick.
When I requested for my heart forces,
my mind got an important partner.
Today I call this connection HEART WISDOM.

We do not need to fear further discussions,
conflicts and problems with ourselves and others
since even stars sometimes bang on each other
and create new worlds.
Today I know: THIS IS LIFE!

Source:::: Ba-ba mail site

Natarajan

” 16 Months Without Mobile Phones…” !!!

‘I went 16 months without my mobile phone and my life

is so much better’…

TOM GROTEWOHL

Is sharing everything we do in our lives stopping us from actually experiencing it?

Is sharing everything we do in our lives stopping us from actually experiencing it? Source: Supplied

I’VE spent the last year and a half without a mobile phone.

You’re probably reacting to that line as if it read, “I’ve spent the last year and a half without breathing air.” Mobile phones have become such a crucial part of our daily lives that most folks rely on them more than the majority of organs in their bodies.

Without it, you cannot expect to have a job, a consistent network of friends or a GPS guiding you to your destination, not to mention porn on-the-go.

For this last period of my life, I haven’t had those things because I’ve been travelling. I’ve been crossing borders too frequently to hold on to friends, and sleeping anywhere that offered a free bed or a bit of floorspace so I didn’t have to work. It’s what has allowed me to conduct this experiment.

I recognise that this is not a lifestyle most people are seeking because for the reasons listed above it simply isn’t practical. Soon I will make my re-entry into the world as a real human being and, though somewhat reluctantly, purchase a phone again.

For now, though, I am a freak among my generation, and that gives me the valuable freak’s perspective.

In the same way that one can only see the lily pads in a Monet painting clearly when standing far away, distance from a mobile phone has allowed me to observe its role in our lives with more clarity than is possible for those who are pressed right up against the blurry brushstrokes.

Read on and I’ll share what I’ve learned:

1. BEING IN TWO PLACES AT ONCE MEANS YOU AREN’T ANYWHERE.

Not taking in the world around him.

Not taking in the world around him. Source: AP

I’ve witnessed countless situations where this occurs, but here’s one in particular: I was in a restaurant eating vegetable fried rice, marvelling at how, in Spain, even cheap Chinese food comes with a full bottle of delicious wine.

Across the room from me was a couple on a dinner date. The guy had his phone smashed up against his cheek like he was trying to merge with it, yammering about a gig he had coming up while the girl across the table stared vacantly at her soggy egg rolls.

When, at last, the call finished, the guy explained the conversation to his date as if she hadn’t just heard the whole thing. Then when he concluded his monologue, the phone rang again, and the same sequence repeated itself.

He got the meal to go and left with his arm around her waist yakking on his phone to his provider about getting a new model.

I couldn’t help but think maybe she was the one who needed to get an upgrade.

People go to the movies and stare at their phones the whole time, reading articles about the film that’s happening right in front of them. But most common is when people pull their phones out in the middle of conversation in order to “send a quick text” or “look something up.”

I wonder how these people would react if, while they were talking to me, I pulled out a book and said, “Just a second,” and proceeded to leisurely read a few pages and then say, “Thanks for waiting, sorry about that.” Would they feel I was devaluing their presence in favour of a bit of reading, which obviously could wait until later?

For me, it’s the same. Technology gives us access to another dimension at the cost of depriving us of the one we come from.

2. INSTANT COMMUNICATION HAS TRANSFORMED US ALL INTO PARANOID, OVER-PROTECTIVE MUMS.

Less than a century ago, if you wanted to talk to someone, you had to either travel directly to his or her house or write a letter. Then, with landlines, at least people were not able to carry their phones with them when they left their homes, and so their lack of response could be attributed simply to having gone out.

Now, the phone clings to us with the unfaltering loyalty of a tapeworm, and it sucks us dry of our excuses. To not respond is nearly the same as plugging your ears and humming when someone asks you a question.

Maybe the same kind of irrational worrying occurred in the days before mobile phones were so universal, but with letters, it was on the scale of weeks and months; with landlines, hours and days; now it’s minutes, seconds and the infinitesimal spaces between delusions.

I’ve never spoken on the phone nor texted with my current girlfriend, and that I believe is one of the reasons it’s been the most rewarding relationship of my life. We’ve rediscovered the pleasure of letter writing.

Letters are like vinyl records: Though technologically obsolete, it has a warmth and romance that should never go out of style. But more importantly, slowing down our communication has forced us to build our relationship on sturdier, less fleeting foundations than machinegun texts.

Plus, it’s way hotter to read dirty talk when you can see a person’s excitement in his or her frantic scrawl and inhale the scent of his or her skin still clinging to the paper, than it is on a cold, impersonal screen.

Let me take a selfie!

Let me take a selfie! Source: Supplied

3. WE’VE MISTAKEN BEING ALONE FOR LONELINESS.

Having a mobile phone is like carrying your friends with you everywhere you go. Say goodbye to contemplative moments on park benches, long walks with nothing to think about or even a bit of peace and quiet while you’re taking a crap.

Even if you aren’t conversing with your real friends, mobile phones provide an endless supply of imaginary friends to distract you from yourself, in the form of rapid fire updates on the lives of celebrities, viral videos of people you’ll never meet, Tinder and so on.

We’ve become so accustomed to this state of semi-being that the second our phones run out of battery, coldness sweeps over us and we feel ourselves teetering over an abyss of loneliness and despair, like when an addict is deprived of his vice.

Humans are social animals. It is normal to want to be surrounded by others; in fact, it’s necessary for our mental health. That’s why solitary confinement is the highest punishment.

A party today is a bunch of people on their screens not interacting, just being alone together. Then it’s an emptier, more chronic loneliness that sets in: the loneliness of only existing in the eyes of others.

That’s the irony: We use our phones to medicate our loneliness, but at the same time our phones are causing it.

For most of us, life is a slot machine slide show of streaming videos, news feeds, texts and tweets and pixelated twats. Where then is the time left to exist as ourselves?

Remember that music is made not just of sound, but silence, and a painting without space to resonate in is impossible for the eyes to navigate. Set aside time to exist for yourself and no one else, for we can only learn to not be lonely through being alone.

IPHONIES ANONYMOUS

Group hug, everybody. I acknowledge mobile phones aren’t going anywhere, so don’t mistake this article as the ravings of an out-of-touch geezer shouting at speeding trains because, hey, I’m only 25.

It’s important to recognise that we are the first generation to become so obsessed by mobile phones and other screen-based gadgets, and that makes us the guinea pigs. We won’t know the effects of any of these technologies on our bodies, minds and souls until it’s too late.

People used to drink mercury because they thought it was a medicine until they found out the hard way that it wasn’t. New is not the same as good, and so everything should be considered guilty until proven innocent.

Rather than passively accepting each gizmo that comes our way, it’s important to criticise and question what it wants from us.

These technologies should be like the garnish to life, perhaps even a side dish, but never the main course. Seek out what makes us human; discover what makes you you.

Then, once you’ve come to terms with those things, feel free to check out that latest YouTube video of the dog walking around on his hind legs dressed as a butler. Just don’t forget your date across the table.

This article originally appeared on Elite Daily.  

TOM GROTEWOHL

Tom is a successful musician. Well, he successfully plays music, though no one pays him for it. After a year of putting his anthropology degree to good use by gardening for rich people in Minneapolis, a sudden existential crisis led to him buying a one-way plane ticket to Colombia instead. He’s spent the last year and a half traveling and now, at long last back in Kansas, is asking the dreaded question: “Uh… what next?”

Source::::news.com.au

Natarajan

” மறக்காம சொல்லுங்க…. உங்க தாய் மொழி தமிழ் என்று …”

 

தடுக்கி  விழுந்தால் மட்டும்  ..அ    ஆ

சிரிக்கும்  போது  மட்டும்  …இ …ஈ …

சூடு  பட்டால்    உ….ஊஊ

அதட்டும்   போது  மட்டும்   …எ   …ஏ ஏ…

மகிழ்ச்சி   மிதப்பில்  ஒலிப்பது….ஐ…ஐ !!!

ஆச்சரியத் தின்  போது   …..ஒ…ஓ…

 வக்கனை  பேசும்போது  மட்டும்  …ஓள ….

 விக்கல்  எடுக்கும் சமயம்  மட்டும் … அக்  அக்…!!!

  என்று  நம் மொழி தமிழ்  பேசி …மற்ற

  பிற  நேரம் எல்லாம்  வேற்று  மொழி

   பேசும்  தமிழ்  நண்பர்களுக்கு  மறக்காமல்

    சொல்லுங்க …. உங்க  தாய்  மொழி

    தமிழ்  தமிழ்  என்று !!!!

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Source:::thangarajkavidhaigal.blospot.in….

Natarajan

Message For the Day…” Without Moral Values Humanity Can not Survive…”

The foundation for everything is morality. Without moral values, humanity cannot survive. Often, people of different religions hold on to different objectives and are unable to see the underlying reality, and as a result have different opinions. For example: one says a rupee consists of 4 quarter rupees and another says it is 2 half-rupees and the third says it is ten 10 paisa. All these denominations mean the same rupee. Only ignorant people, who become dogmatic and fail to perceive this oneness, imagine differences and resort to criticizing each other. Sacred scriptures have taught that there should be no arguments or debates on religious matters. They must be resolved peacefully. The guidelines of all religions lead to the end goal of Truth and Righteousness.

Sathya Sai Baba

Message For the day…” What is the Difference Between Truth and Fact …” ?

There is no God other than Truth. What is the difference between Truth and fact? You may put on a coat today and wear a different dress tomorrow. This is not Truth, it is only a fact, because it is subject to change. But Truth always remains the same. The Gita refers to Truth as Ritham. So Truth is not reporting what you see, hear, and experience. What you see and hear is worldly truth. It is not Truth in the strict sense of the word. It is only external truth (pravritti satyam). But the inward Truth (nivritti satyam) remains the same in the past, present, and the future. In this world of plurality, there is the underlying principle of unity. Of all the numbers 1,2, 3, 4.. the most important number is 1. AIl the other numbers are mere modifications of the number 1. 1+1 becomes 2. 9–1 becomes 8. Thus 1 forms the basis for all the numbers. This is the unity in multiplicity, this Unity is the Truth.

Sathya Sai Baba

Watch the Power of People ….!!!

 

Perth: Dozens of Australians tilted a train Wednesday to free a commuter whose leg was trapped between a carriage and a platform, with authorities praising their efforts as an example of “people power”.

The man was boarding in the Western Australia city of Perth when he slipped and became jammed in the five-centimetre (0.4-inch) gap between the carriage and the station, operator Transperth said in a statement.

Passengers were initially told to move to the opposite side of the train in the hope their weight would shift it away from his leg, a passenger who gave his name as Nic told The West Australian newspaper.

But when that failed, staff told commuters to get off the train and about 50 of them lined up in a row along the platform to tilt the carriage away from the man so he could be lifted out.

“It is the first time we’ve seen something like this happen,” Transperth spokeswoman Claire Krol told AFP.

“We were really fortunate that the staff were there straight away… and all of the passengers not only listened to the instructions from staff, but pitched in and helped.

“This is a real case of passengers of working together… and people power are the perfect words to describe it.”

Transperth said the man was treated by paramedics but was able to catch a later train.

“The end result here is: really lucky for the man involved, but really nice as well to see that everyone came together as a community,” Krol added.

Source::::You Tube  & NDTV.com

Natarajan