” Helping Someone in Need…..”

Driving down a road, a motorist saw a baby horse running around aimlessly on the pavement. The little guy was either abandoned or lost, but the man couldn’t tell what had happened. Where was his mother? How did he get here? As he pulled up to the baby, though, the poor horse was belting out fearful sounds. This kind man had to stop and do something.

He discovered that the horse had somehow become separated from his mom and was too young to leap over the guardrail to meet the anxious mare. If he stayed stuck on the highway, the helpless creature would surely be hit by a passing car. That’s when this man did something so thanklessly awesome, you can’t help but smile.

Source……..www.viralnova.com and http://www.youtube.com

Natarajan

Message for the Day…” Highest and Holiest Spiritual maxim…” Thou-art-That”….

Sathya Sai Baba

Utilize your authority over this body to foster the welfare of the world. This body is but an instrument, an implement given by God. Let it serve its intended purpose. Until the realisation of the purpose for which the implement is given, it is your duty to watch over it vigilantly and protect it from injury and disablement. During winter, woollen clothes are worn to withstand the rigour of the cold gales, but when the cold subsides, they are discarded. So too when the cold gales of material life don’t affect us in the least, the material body will no longer become essential. “Thou-art-That” – this is the highest and holiest spiritual maxim! You are the indestructible Atmic principle (Divine Soul). It is to realise and experience this Atmic principle, you have this body! In the process to realise the Supreme Lord here and now, you must take good care of yourself.

படித்து ரசித்தது … சிரிக்க ….சிந்திக்க !!!

WHATS APP …. WHAT IS THIS UPTO !!!!!’

Not only a Laughing Matter … but also a timely Reminder to all of us that WE SHOULD NOT BECOME A LAUGHING STOCK AT THE END OF THE DAY !!!!!!!

Natarajan

 

 

‘எங்கடி ஃபேஸ்புக்ல ஆளே காணோம்?’

‘கொஞ்சம் பிஸி டி’

‘வாட்ஸப்ல ஆன்லைன்லயே இருக்க, இந்த பக்கம் மட்டும் வர்றதேயில்ல’

‘ஹி ஹி அதுல வேற கொஞ்சம் க்ரூப்ஸ்ல பிஸியா இருக்கேன்டி’

‘அதனால தான் நைட்ல கூட ஆன்லைனா’

‘ஆமா’

‘இப்ப எத்தனை க்ரூப்ல இருக்க‌?’

‘பதினொன்னு’

‘அடிப்பாவி போன மாசம் கேட்டப்ப கூட ஆறோ ஏழோ க்ரூப்ஸ் தான் சொன்ன?’

‘இப்ப புது க்ரூப்ஸ் நெறையடி’

‘என்ன புது க்ரூப்ஸ்? ‘

‘ஸ்கூல் க்ரூப் ஒன்னு’

‘ஆமா அதுல தான் நானும் இருக்கேனே’

‘இல்லடி இது மூணாவது வரைக்கும் வரைக்கும் ஒன்னா படிச்சவங்க‌’

‘ம்ம் அப்புறம்?’

‘ட்யூஷன் க்ரூப் ஒன்னு’

‘ஆமா நானும் இருக்கேனே அதுல‌’

‘இல்லடி இது கெமிஸ்ட்ரி ட்யூஷன் க்ரூப், நீ இருக்கறது ஃபிஸிக்ஸ் ட்யூஷன் க்ரூப்ல’

‘ஓ இது வேறயா? அப்புறம்….’

‘நமக்கு தெரிஞ்ச க்ரூப் அட்மின்ஸ் எல்லாம் இருக்காங்க தான , அவிங்க எல்லாம் சேர்ந்து ஒரு க்ரூப்’

‘எதுக்குடி வேலை வெட்டி இல்லாம? சரி விடு. வேற?’

‘எங்க ஏரியா ஹவுஸ் மெய்ட்ஸ் எல்லாம் ஒரு க்ரூப் வச்சிருக்காங்க’

‘ஹவுஸ் மெயிடஸ் க்ரூப்ல உனக்கு என்னடி வேலை?’

‘இல்ல, நான் தான் அந்த க்ரூப் கோ- அட்மின்’

‘அட கொடுமையே! சரி அப்ப கூட நீ சொன்ன கணக்கு சரிவரலையே, இன்னும் ஒரு க்ரூப் இடிக்குதே’

‘ம்ம்ம் ஆமா’

‘என்னடி க்ரூப் அது?’

‘நீ என்னை பத்தி ஏதாவது நெனச்சுக்குவே’

‘இதுக்கு மேலயுமா? சொல்லித் தொலை’

‘அது போன ஜென்மத்துல ஒன்னா இருந்தவங்க எல்லாரும் இப்ப சேர்ந்து ஒரு க்ரூப் ஆரம்பிச்சிருக்கோம்…’!!!!!
Source….input from a friend of mine
Natarajan

Quitting Facebook Makes People Happier, Shows Study…..

 

Quitting Facebook Makes People Happier, Shows Study

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LONDON:  You might well be addicted to it, but quitting Facebook would actually make you happy, suggests a new study done by Denmark-based think tank Happiness Research Institute.

The study, done in Denmark, enrolled 1095 volunteers (94 percent of them said they visited Facebook as part of a daily routine) and divided them into two groups.

Half of them carried on using Facebook as usual whereas the rest spent their time away from the social network.

After a week, 88 percent of those who had given up Facebook said they felt “happy”, compared with 81 percent of those who had still been checking into their News Feed on a regular basis.

Those who had abstained from Facebook also reported feeling more enthusiastic, less lonely, less worried and more decisive, the study found.

They spent more time seeing family and friends face-to-face and said they found it easier to concentrate too – those are a serious set of benefits to taking some time away from the social network’s apps and websites.

The researchers ascribe anxiety associated with Facebook use to envy at other people’s lives as they are seen enjoying albeit in edited highlights.

“Instead of focusing on what we actually need, we have an unfortunate tendency to focus on what other people have,” wrote the authors of the study.

According to Meik Wiking, CEO of the Happiness Research Institute, Facebook is a “constant bombardment of everyone else’s great news”.

“After a few days, I noticed my to-do list was getting done faster than normal as I spent my time more productively. I also felt a sort of calmness from not being confronted by Facebook all the time,” Sophie Anne Dornoy, 35, one of the volunteers was reported as saying.

Source…www.ndtv.com
Natarajan

This Diwali My Mother Invited My Maid’s Family Home For Dinner ….

Inspired by her friends, my mother started a new tradition in our home last night. She invited the family of our maid Madina to come home for dinner. She had earlier sent dad and me off to buy all the groceries and special food was prepared for them. We all ate together and had a lovely conversation as well.

This is the first time we have ever done anything like this in our family. It felt surreal to see Madina’s whole family sitting on our couch and eating with us on our dining table. This was specially significant for me as I remember having bitter arguments with my mother as a kid about why our staff couldn’t use the same utensils and furniture as us! It would always end in her crying and then I had to back down. So you can imagine how amazing it was for me to see my mom organize this Diwali dinner on her own initiative.

Madina and her family at our home for dinner

Madina and her family at our home for dinner

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It was also a humbling experience for me and made me realize anew what a privileged life we lead. As we spoke to them I learned more about their family and realized some of their struggles. They bought a small home a couple of years back, but the terms of interest were so high that they now owe back as much money as the value of their property itself! Local money lenders often exploit the poor in this way. They are thinking of selling their home as a result. Their elder son could not go to college so he could help pay the loan. He now works late into the night to earn a meager wage. Husband is a laborer. Son has an aptitude for computers but the family is too poor to afford one. Younger son is in the ninth grade but looks tiny for his age. Turns out he almost died of typhoid last year. He was smiling the whole evening. –

Our other maid MeenaThis is our other maid Meena. She lost her husband nine months ago in a car accident. She now works in six houses to support her family. She told me she makes food for her own kids in the morning, then cooks in six houses all day, then returns home to cook dinner for her own family again. She said on most days she has no appetite left after being around food the whole day! This brave woman earns Rs.25,000 a month through sheer hard work. I’ve never seen her frown or complain. Could it be that the great teachers we are all looking for are working in our own homes? –

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As I drove them home I realized how far our maid lives. It took us forty five minutes one way in our car, and she comes without one, managing with public transport or depending on her husband to drop her. She comes early morning and goes home in the evening. I feel if more people visited the homes of their domestic staff and realized the context of their lives, they would not be so quick to judge them for being late or for other things.

On our way back home my mom commented that she had always been invited by Madina for festivals like Eid and the marriage of their daughter. She and dad attended these events to their family’s great delight. Mom said it had never occurred to her that she had never invited their family over to our home! Isn’t it amazing how the hearts of the poor can be so large! They are certainly not poor in love, generosity and spirit. Mom said she felt content and peaceful after having them over for dinner. It was clear that we received more than we gave last night.

It looks like this is the beginning of a beautiful new tradition in our family, which I hope we will only enhance as time goes on. It touched and opened my heart in many ways. I’ve asked their son to send me specs of the computer he needs and I’m going to see how we can arrange that for him. It doesn’t take much to make a big difference in someone’s life!

– Written by Nithya Shanti here and republished with permission in http://www.the betterindia.com

Natarajan

 

Message for the Day….” What is the Lesson ‘ deepavali’ Teaches us …”

Naraka Chaturdasi (or Deepavali) is the festival that teaches you to remember how character decides destiny, designs achievements and demarcates one as divine or demonic! Laziness is a demon that possesses and debilitates an individual. Its brother is conceit. Add anger to it and it will totally debilitate anyone! Anger weakens your nerves and heats up your blood, changing its composition. A simple burst of fury consumes the strength gained in three months! The Lord chose to invade Narakasura’s kingdom repeatedly, forcing him to explode into furious anger again and again! His resistance was thus annihilated. Learn from the Lord’s strategy. On this Deepavali day, people insist on wearing new clothes. Let your hearts too rejoice, clothed in fresh ideals, feelings and resolutions. Relish the sweets of virtues from today, and mould your lives into sweet songs of Love.

Sathya Sai Baba

” Let Them Have a Smile on Their Face….”

A Touching Short Film With an Important Message For Us All

British retail chain John Lewis is famous for releasing seasonal adverts designed to pull at your heartstrings, and this year’s offering is no different. With concerns raised across the world about the rising number of elderly people who are left isolated, this short film entitled ‘Man on the Moon’ reminds us all to reach out to the lonely or vulnerable and ensure that they are left with a smile on their face.

Source….www.ba-bamail.com

Natarajan

The Go-Getters of Dharavi , Mumbai….

Even as plans to redevelop Dharavi continue to gather dust in government files, its young residents have chalked their own course and chosen to fly high. Hepzi Anthony recounts a few inspiring tales.

Other slums may have laid claim to its tag of being Asia’s largest slum, but within Dharavi are stories of India shining despite its squalor, of grit, determination and fighting against odds to overcome barriers.

Transformation is in the air in Dharavi today, and it is not just physical.

Change is manifest not just in the form of the superficial replacement of slums with buildings or in terms of better quality roads, improved hygiene or even the ATMs coming up there; it is evident from the sharp rise in the socio-economic profile of the average Dharavi resident that has seen a massive upsurge.

Indeed, the story of Dharavi today is of not just buildings replacing the slums but the rise of a new generation that is clearly more educated, more informed and more affluent, too.

As a new generation comes up, the success stories from India are now being replaced by stories of its residents working, studying and even settling down in foreign shores.

From being a symbolic representation of the daily struggle for survival of the urban, migrant and Indian poor in Hollywood films, many people raised there now literally crisscross continents for work or study.

Some, like Jasmine Jacob, discovered that her humble origins and surroundings could not clip their wings of ambition.

Her fascination for the scientific world saw her do research in Nanotechnology and take off to countries like the United States and France.

After completing her post-graduation in chemistry from the Institute of Science, Mumbai, she was for a Department of Atomic Energy scholarship that enabled her for a doctoral study of nanosciences at the Bhabha Atomic Research Centre.

Her superior performance there further earned her a government-funded post-doctoral research study trip to Paris for 15 months.

From there on she moved on to do another course at the University of Notre Dame at Indiana, US. Incidentally, her entire higher study was done entirely with the help of scholarships.

Having found her dream, Jasmine Jacob now inspires the children of Dharavi to dream big and pursue their ambitions.

“Money is not everything. I am a good example of how if you are prepared to work hard, and you have it in you, nothing can stop you,” says Jacob.

Her father, who worked in a private firm and was the sole bread earner in her family, could not afford to pay her fees for higher studies.

“But my teachers ensured that my studies were not affected. They knew of my background and went out of their way to help me. They supported me by finding out and recommending me for scholarships,” she says.

Currently, she is doing research in nanotechnology and continues to reside in Dharavi, though her family has now shifted to a building there.

“Till my third standard, we stayed in a tin house that would be roughly about 10×10 sq ft and then we moved into a brick house. There were lots of infrastructure issues at home and around. It was impossible to study at evenings as everyone would be watching television and there would be so many distractions around,” she recalls.

Having found her dream, Jacob now wants to inspire other students, especially from her locality, to dream big and pursue their dreams.

Not to convent schools where the rich children go, she prefers to go to her former alma mater Kamaraj Memorial School at 90-ft Road to deliver motivational talks to students. Jacob had studied here in Tamil medium till the fourth standard and thereafter shifted to English medium in the same school.

She tells her students to concentrate on their studies and not get scared of the roadblocks on the pathway to their dreams.

“I was so focused and good at my studies that I did not know many students in my class. But, my co-students knew me and wanted to befriend me for my notes. My locality did not matter to anyone,” she says.

Jacob says she never dreamt of working or staying abroad and did not fancy a high-paying job or the lifestyle there.

“I always wanted to be in India and am happy to be here,” she signs off.

Amolik Selvaraj is quite open to the idea of staying in Dharavi even now. But he is practical enough to know that it would not be that easy for his family.

Her view is shared by Amolik Selvaraj, who also crisscrossed the US and the United Kingdom before returning to Pune for work.

Brought up in Dharavi, 46-year-old Selvaraj started working as a data entry operator while graduating from the Dr Ambedkar College in central Mumbai’s Wadala locality.

Along with studies and work, he took to learning computer software languages like Clipper, Foxpro, VB.NET and C#.NET.

This helped him get offers to work as a systems programmer and got him a breakthrough in Maryland, US, in 2007 for about two years. Thereafter, he shifted to quality assurance that kept his career on a high and helped him move to other countries.

In 2011, he moved on to work in Didcot, Oxfordshire, in the UK for a little over a year.

Recently, he shifted to Pune where he works as a senior consultant at Systems Plus Technologies.

Despite staying abroad for many years and having visited places like Washington, London and Oxford, Selvaraj says that he is quite open to the idea of staying in Dharavi even now.

In fact, he continues to emotionally connect with the place and to date his passport and Aadhar card still bear his Dharavi address.

“One of the things about Dharavi is that one would end up running into so many people just like that. Abroad, people never turn up impromptu at your place. They would almost always turn up only after fixing an appointment. The doorbell never rings without one knowing who would be at the door.

“Also, I have lost my spiritual connect after I shifted out of Dharavi. There, I could just walk over to the open church nearby almost any time of the day,” says Selvaraj.

But he is practical enough to know that it would not be that easy for his family.

“Were it not it for factors like my children’s education and good influence, I would have happily shifted back to Dharavi. Things have changed so much now. ATMs are accessible there and the facilities are much better now,” he says.

 

Reverend Samuel Christudoss, ex- parish priest of Good Shepherd Church, Dharavi, who has resided in and has been observing the area for over a decade, notices: “It is almost routine to hear old people talking about their children being in the US or Germany these days. Apart from those settled abroad, many people travel abroad regularly for work or for study projects. The new generation has lapped up higher education like never before with the result that almost everyone is literate here now.”

The prosperity has percolated downwards too.

“Long back, when I had to live in Dharavi around 1991, I recall being provided with just mats to sleep with bricks for pillow by the church because the people there themselves lived with such basic, primitive means.

“I would be hauled up even if I took a cab for travelling (autorickshaws are not allowed in Dharavi) and questioned as to why I did not walk the distance. Today, when I am re-posted in this place, I see a marked difference here. The very same church now allows me the option of travelling by air-conditioned cabs, a direct result of the younger generation being exposed to a higher standard of living,” he observes.

So, while the much-touted Dharavi Redevelopment Plan continues to gather dust in the files or drawing boards of the Maharashtra government, the people of Dharavi have chalked their own course and risen to fly up high beyond the boundaries of the nation.

Input….Hepzi Anthony in Mumbai  ….www.rediff.com

Natarajan

 

“” Burn Ego…Not just Crackers…Be Sweet …not just eat Sweets …Wear New Values…not just new clothes…”

Celebrate Life ..Not just Diwali day…
Burn Ego..Not just Crackers…
Be Sweet ..Not just eat Sweets…
Meet and greet Hearts..Not just People…
Wear new Values ..Not just clothes …
Experience Joy and Peace..Not just Play and Fun…
Light Self Knowledge..Not just Lamps…
BE HAPPY…HAVE A GREAT DAY!

 4th Day of DIWALI
“NEW YEAR ”
The Fourth day is called Padwa or VarshaPratipada that marks the coronation of King Vikramaditya and Vikaram-Samvat was started from this Padwa day.
The day after the Lakshmi Puja, most families celebrate the new year by dressing in new clothes, wearing jewellery and visiting family members and business colleagues to give them sweets, dry fruits and gifts.
On this day, Goverdhan Pooja is performed. As per Vishnu-Puran, the people of Gokul used to celebrate a festival in honour of Lord Indra and worshipped him after the end of every monsoon season. But one particular year the young Krishna stopped them from offering prayers to Lord Indra who in terrific anger sent a deluge to submerge Gokul. But Krishna saved his Gokul by lifting up the Govardhan Mountain and holding it over the people as an umbrella.
This day is also observed as Annakoot and prayers are offered in the temples. In temples especially in Mathura and Nathadwara, the deities are given milkbath, dressed in shining attires with ornaments of dazzling diamonds, pearls, rubies and other precious stones.

 source::::http://debu7370.blogspot.com/ 

natarajan

Message for The Day…” When a Genuine ‘Deepavali ‘ is in Sight …”

From this day onwards, you must win over everyone through love and compassion. Nara (man) falls intoNaraka (hell), through over-indulgence. Senses generally run wild and like raging floods, spell destruction. The festival of Deepavali is to express gratitude at the defeat of the demonic (Naraka) tendencies in humans, which drag them down from Divinity. Naraka is the name for hell, and the demon whose death at the hands of Krishna is celebrated today is called Narakasura, the personification of all the traits of character that obstruct the upward impulses of every person. The home (griha)where the Name of the Lord is not heard is a cave(guha), and nothing more. As you enter it or leave it, and while you are in it, perfume it, illumine it, and purify it with the Lord’s name. Light it as a lamp at dusk and welcome it at dawn as you welcome the Sun. That is the genuine Deepavali, the Festival of Lights.

Sathya Sai Baba