“If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.”

 

You may be in daily interaction with negative people, be they friends, family members, a romantic partner or colleague. You love them, you care about them, you can’t just cut them out of your life, but they are negative and their negativity is eating away at you. What can you do?
The best way of dealing with life’s challenges is to take a good look at ourselves and take responsibility for what we think, feel and do.
Never give your power away by blaming others for what you have or don’t have, what you feel or don’t feel. Once you do so, you’ll become a victim of circumstance, and instead of using your time and energy to beat life’s challenges, you’ll sink to a dark and miserable place.
Here are 10 smart, positive and effective ways of dealing with the negativity of the people close to you:
 
1. Give up the need to complain
Make sure you are taking responsibility for your feelings and mood. Don’t go complaining that other people’s negativity is affecting you, because it will only create more negativity. Take responsibility for your thoughts and feelings and see what you can do to make yourself feel better and change the existing situation.
Whoever has limited knowledge of human nature and seeks happiness by changing everything but his own attitude, will waste his life in futile efforts.”
Samuel Johnson. 
2. Similarity Attracts
Good brings about good, bad brings about bad, and if we want to or not, we pull into our lives events, situations and people that reflect our internal state. Ask yourself: “How am I feeling? Am I happy, excited, thankful and calm? Or am I anxious, frustrated and judgmental?”
You may find that you radiate misery to the environment and that part of the negative energy surrounding you is in fact a reflection of yourself.
3. Don’t believe everything you think
This is definitely one of the hardest things to learn. Look closely at the negative people in your life. What is it about them that gets you going? What affects you so much? Is what they are doing really that bad or is your brain playing games with you?
Remember, the brain is configured to look for trouble, and it focuses on other’s negative qualities. It’ll be very hard to get it to see the positive side of things, but it doesn’t mean it’s not there.
4. Focus
Ask yourself: “Am I ready to find the good in these people? Am I able to see their good qualities?” Let the answers come naturally, make sure you are being honest with yourself.
If you feel like you’re insistent and won’t change the way you are looking at people and situations, don’t give yoursef a hard time. This takes time and patience, and when you are ready, you’ll make this step. Remember, we all have good in us.
It’s so hard when I NEED to do it and so easy when I WANT to do it.
Annie Gottlier.
5. Don’t make their problems YOUR problems
For their sake and yours, make sure you are not adopting their problems and becoming negative about them yourself. If you want to cure negativity, sliding down right along with the negative person won’t help, it will just make it worse by validating their thought and behavioral patterns. Rather, focus on solutions, not problems. Offer that and nothing else.
6. Taking ownership
Instead of being a victim and judge, blame and pass criticism, you need to take full responsibility for your thoughts and feelings, and take a different approach.
Everything that annoys us in others can lead us to a better understanding of ourselves.
Carl Jung.
Don’t waste your time obsessing and thinking: “They are ruining my energy, making me miserable, their negative energy is infecting my own…” Instead, say to yourselves: “How can I use this for my advantage? Is there something I’m doing wrong? How can I improve the situation and increase my positive energy to be stronger than their negative energy? What do I learn from all of this?”
7. Come with your own positive energy
Focusing on negative energy cannot create positive energy, and the other way around is also true. Focus on making yourself happy enough that you have great positive energy, and you will see the negativity cringing away from it.
Remember, energy is contagious!
How to put up positive energy? Focus on the things you like about the negative people, focus on things you love about yourselves, life and the world around you. Think of loved ones, of things that make you happy. That way, you will increase the positive energy exponentially.
If you incur negative energy by thinking about bad things, the opposite is also true, and you’ll be able to hopefully ‘wake up’ your fellow workers. You can’t focus on them both at the same time, so choose – happiness or misery.
8. Be part of the change you’d like to see
The world is no more than a reflection of who we are, deep inside. Try to go for a feeling of well-being, to live a positive life, a merry life, that has love, trust, and the pursuit of happiness. We cannot change others, but only ourselves. This is the only way to change the world.
Think of it this way: When you are happy, the world seems happy, and the sky is open and blue. When you are sad, the world seems sad as well, and the sky is grey and uncaring, leaving you alone to deal with your pain.
Flow with life events, don’t resist them, live in harmony and be the change you wish to see in the world.
Never underestimate your power to change yourself. Never overestimate your power to change others.
Wayne W. Dyer.
9. Awareness and acceptance
Work on understanding life’s inevitable duality – accept the negative with the good. Don’t harp on people’s negativity, don’t judge or fight them. Let them be, look and accept. Remember, your world is no more real than a reflection of who you are, deep inside. Don’t try to bring everyone into your own world, accept theirs as no less real than yours, and their point of view as no less valid.
The hardest part of acceptance is accepting that, sometimes, some people cannot be changed. Their negativity is something they will defend to the last drop. Not because it gives them pleasure, but because they think it is a natural part of themselves. Even though it’s never too late to try and change that point of view, some never will. It is up to you to either accept their negativity and react accordingly, or take your distance from them. This is especially hard when it is someone we love.
Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darkness of others.” |
Carl Jung.
10. Move forward
Dealing with negativity and trying your best to disspell it can be exhusting, and at some point you have to move on with your life in a positive way. Find a path that allows you to go on with your life without the negativity of others, but also without the regret that leaving a loved one or friend behind may cause you.
Make your feelings known to them, make them understand they are hard to be around, and slowly decrease your contact. If they want you to stay in their lives, they will be forced to at least pretend to be less negative, and pretending is the first step to actually becoming less negative. The more we act a certain way, the more we believe in it.

Image courtesy of: Michal Marcol / freedigitalphotos.net

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Natural Solutions for White Teeth…

Natural Ways to Whiten Your Teeth

We all love seeing white, pearly smiles, and would love for our teeth to shine. However, our coffee, nicotine and other habits make this extremely difficult, and we end up with either stained or yellow teeth, that make us feel we are not getting our money’s worth out of our smile! Although there are many whitening products, they don’t all work and some have nasty side-effects.

Here are 10 natural solutions that will whiten your teeth without subjecting you to other problems.
1. Hydrogen Peroxide 

Hydrogen peroxide can be used as its own whitening agent if used as a mouth wash. use a mix of 1:1 water and hydrogen peroxide and gargle for about a minute. This will have the added benefit of neutralizing bad odors and cleansing the mouth from bacteria.
2. Aloe
The aloe plant has a long history as a healing agent, and although it is most known as skin medicine, recent research indicates it might be great for our teeth and gums. In 2009, the Academy for general dentistry in the US, found that smearing some aloe gel on the teeth may purify and calm down inflammation, as well as fight bacteria.
In addition, it was found that it can be used as a natural tooth whitener, and its popularity as a tooth whitener has risen in recent years. The best way to use it for teeth whitening is to use an extract of the center of the leaf.
Please Note: Do not swallow the aloe gel as it may cause stomach cramps. Also, it is not recommend for use by pregnant women.
3. Banana
Another natural solution to whitening our teeth is found in the form of the banana peel. Research has found that the minerals inside the peel, such as potassium and bromine, help whiten the teeth naturally without causing any damage.
Cut the peel to little pieces, then rub the internal side of the banana on your teeth and do not wash for 15 minutes. Then rinse your mouth well. Some say the same can be achieved with an orange peel, and the same procedure applies.
4. Drinking Soda
One of the most common natural whitening solutions is drinking soda. Some mix it with regular toothpaste until a lumpy texture is achieved while some mix it with 3% Hydrogen peroxide, which serve as an anti-bacterial agent and keep the teeth and gum safe from bacteria.
5. Carbon powder 
Carbon is an absorbing material, capable of absorbing toxins, chemicals and acidic stains, leading them out of the body through the excretion system. Since it doesn’t get absorbed into the body but only passes the digestion system, it is considered an effective solution to clean toxins. The same effect applies to the mouth cavity. Not only does the carbon help prevent gum disease and kills bacteria in the mouth, it can also whiten our teeth by absorbing the stains that accumulate on the teeth.
Dip a clean wet tooth brush in carbon powder and clean your teeth using little circular motions for 2 minutes. Then carefully and thoroughly rinse your mouth until all the powder is gone. Don’t worry, it comes right off!
6. Strawberries
One of the most popular solutions is the strawberry. The secret to this method is the malic acid found in the strawberry, which removes stains from the tooth’s coating, even hard stains made by wine, cigarettes and coffee. The method is to crush the strawberries to a pulp and then mix with drinking soda to get a thick and homogenous mixture.
Use a soft toothbrush to spread the mixture on the teeth. Leave for 5 minutes and then brush thoroughly with regular toothpaste to remove the rest of the mixture. If needed, use dental floss to get rid of any strawberry seeds.
However, don’t over-use this method, as over time it can damage your tooth coating.
7. Fibers
Many believe that eating foods rich in fiber, like: Apples, pears, carrots, celery, broccoli and lettuce – can be used as a peeling technique for the teeth. The vitamins and minerals in these foods clean the tooth without damaging its coating.
8. Dairy Products
Recent research supports the recommendation to eat a small amount of cheese after a meal, as the calcium and phosphorus increase the tooth mineral coating, creating more white teeth. Milk and yogurt help keep the mouth cavity clean and shiny, and they also strengthen the teeth.
9. Olive Oil
Many will testify to the usefulness of olive oil in whitening teeth. There are 2 ways to use it before brushing our teeth.
One: Add a few drops to your tooth brush.
Two: Drip a few drops of olive oil on a clean hand towel and smear on the teeth. Leave for 10 minutes and then rinse thoroughly.
10. Apple Vinegar
Apple vinegar can get insistent stains out and is especially effective against coffee and nicotine stains. The result is not immediate, but with time (and after thoroughly rinsing to make sure the acidity doesn’t damage the teeth), you will see some nice results.

Images courtesy of: stockimages, adamr, Pixomar, m_bartosch / freedigitalphotos.net

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Humor…and Message in Pictures…

Words and language, more than anything, are forms of giving meaning to things. Most of what we know and understand is there thanks to language, and because of the way it is spoken or written. That is why, as we learn more languages, we understand more and more about the world. Most of all, without language, would we still have a sense of humor?

english funny

english funny

 

english funny

english funny

english funny

funny english

 

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Golden Rules For Golden Years …!!!

Rules For a Good Old Age

Some of us have reached our golden years, and some of us have not. But these suggestions should be read by everyone. They have been collected from many a senior, each with his or her own piece of advice. Some you know, some may surprise you, and some will remind you of what’s important. So read well, share with your loved ones, and have a great day and a great life
older couple
1. It’s time to use the money you saved up. Use it and enjoy it. Don’t just keep it for those who may have no notion of the sacrifices you made to get it. Remember there is nothing more dangerous than a son or daughter-in-law with big ideas for your hard earned capital. Warning: This is also a bad time for an investment, even if it seems wonderful or fool-proof. They only bring problems and worries and this is a time for you to enjoy some peace and quiet.
2. Stop worrying about the financial situation of your children and grandchildren, and don’t feel bad spending your money on yourself. You’ve taken care of them for many years, and you’ve taught them what you could. You gave them an education, food, shelter and support. The responsibility is now theirs to earn their own money.
3. Keep a healthy life, without great physical effort. Do moderate exercise (like walking every day), eat well and get your sleep. It’s easy to become sick, and it gets harder to remain healthy. That is why you need to keep yourself in good shape and be aware of your medical and physical needs. Keep in touch with your doctor, get tested even when you’re feeling well. Stay informed.
4. Always buy the best, most beautiful items for your significant other. The key goal is to enjoy your money with your partner. One day one of you will miss the other, and the money will not provide any comfort then, enjoy it together.
5. Don’t stress over the little things. You’ve already overcome so much in your life. You have good memories and bad ones, but the important thing is the present. Don’t let the past drag you down and don’t let the future frighten you. Feel good in the now. Small issues will soon be forgotten
older couple
6. Regardless of age, always keep love alive. Love your partner, love life, love your family, love your neighbor and remember: “A man is not old as long as he has intelligence and affection.”
7. Be proud, both inside and out. Don’t stop going to your hair salon or barber, do your nails, go to the dermatologist and the dentist, keep your perfumes and creams well stocked. When you are well-maintained on the outside, it seeps in, making you feel proud and strong.
8. Don’t lose sight of fashion trends for your age, but keep your own sense of style. There’s nothing worse than an older person trying to wear the current fashion among youngsters. You’ve developed your own sense of what looks good on you – keep it and be proud of it. It’s part of who you are.
9. ALWAYS stay up-to-date. Read newspapers, watch the news. Go online and read what people are saying. Make sure you have an active email account and try to use some of those social networks. You’ll be surprised which old friends you’ll meet. Keeping in touch with what is going on and with the people you know is important at any age.
10. Respect the younger generation and their opinions. They may not have the same ideals as you, but they are the future, and will take the world in their direction. Give advice, not criticism, and try to remind them of yesterday’s wisdom that still applies today.
11. Never use the phrase: “In my time”. Your time is now. As long as you’re alive, you are part of this time. You may have been younger, but you are still you now, having fun and enjoying life.
12. Some people embrace their golden years, while others become bitter and surly. Life is too short to waste your days on the latter. Spend your time with positive, cheerful people, it’ll rub off on you and your days will seem that much better. Spending your time with bitter people will make you older and harder to be around.
old woman
13. Do not surrender to the temptation of living with your children or grandchildren (if you have a financial choice, that is). Sure, being surrounded by family sounds great, but we all need our privacy. They need theirs and you need yours. If you’ve lost your partner (our deepest condolences), then find a person to move in with you and help out. Even then, do so only if you feel you really need the help or do not want to live alone.
14. Don’t abandon your hobbies. If you don’t have any, make new ones. You can travel, hike, cook, read, dance. You can adopt a cat or a dog, grow a garden, play cards, checkers, chess, dominoes, golf. You can paint, volunteer at an NGO or just collect certain items. Find something you like and spend some real time having fun with it.
15. Even if you don’t feel like it, try to accept invitations. Baptisms, graduations, birthdays, weddings, conferences. Try to go. Get out of the house, meet people you haven’t seen in a while, experience something new (or something old). But don’t get upset when you’re not invited. Some events are limited by resources, and not everyone can be hosted. The important thing is to leave the house from time to time. Go to museums, go walk through a field. Get out there
16. Be a conversationalist. Talk less and listen more. Some people go on and on about the past, not caring if their listeners are really interested. That’s a great way of reducing their desire to speak with you. Listen first and answer questions, but don’t go off into long stories unless asked to. Speak in courteous tones and try not to complain or criticize too much unless you really need to. Try to accept situations as they are. Everyone is going through the same things, and people have a low tolerance for hearing complaints. Always find some good things to say as well.
older couple
17. Pain and discomfort go hand in hand with getting older. Try not to dwell on them but accept them as a part of the cycle of life we’re all going through. Try to minimize them in your mind. They are not who you are, they are something that life added to you. If they become your entire focus, you lose sight of the person you used to be.
18. If you’ve been offended by someone – forgive them. If you’ve offended someone – apologize. Don’t drag around resentment with you. It only serves to make you sad and bitter. It doesn’t matter who was right. Someone once said: “Holding a grudge is like taking poison and expecting the other person to die.” Don’t take that poison. Forgive, forget and move on with your life.
19. If you have a strong belief, savor it. But don’t waste your time trying to convince others. They will make their own choices no matter what you tell them, and it will only bring you frustration. Live your faith and set an example. Live true to your beliefs and let that memory sway them.
20. Laugh. Laugh A LOT. Laugh at everything. Remember, you are one of the lucky ones. You managed to have a life, a long one. Many never get to this age, never get to experience a full life. But you did. So what’s not to laugh about? Find the humor in your situation.
21. Take no notice of what others say about you and even less notice of what they might be thinking. They’ll do it anyway, and you should have pride in yourself and what you’ve achieved. Let them talk and don’t worry. They have no idea about your history, your memories and the life you’ve lived so far. There’s still much to be written, so get busy writing and don’t waste time thinking about what others might think. Now is the time to be at rest, at peace and as happy as you can be!
AND REMEMBER: “Life is too short to drink bad wine.

Photos courtesy of Ambro, Stockimages / freedidigitalphotos.net

Source: Tony L. in http://www.ba-bamail.com

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Images of the Day… Learn From These Cute Little Ones…!!!

how to get through life cute

Don’t forget to enjoy the simple pleasures of life, and the simple games that make it fun to be alive.

Enjoy a good, hot bath, and relax.

 

how to get through life cute

how to get through life cute

And above all – don’t forget to give a big smile!

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Joke of the Day…. Alphabet of Marriage !!!

Joke: The Alphabet of Marriage

After being married for thirty years, a wife asked her husband to describe her.

He looked at her carefully, then said, “You are  A, B, C, D, E, F, G, H, I, J, K.” 
She asks … “What does that mean?” 

He said, “Adorable, Beautiful, Cute, Delightful, Elegant, Foxy, Gorgeous and Hot!”
 

She beamed at him happily and said: “Oh, that’s so lovely! But what about I, J and K?He said, “Just Kidding!

 Bottomline….
The swelling in his eye is going down and the doctors are fairly optimistic about saving his nose and teeth !!!!
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Natarajan

Jokes for the day…

Three drunks hailed a taxi. The taxi driver seeing that they were so wasted when they got in, he just switched on the engine and switched it off, and said we are here. The 1st guy gave him money, 2nd guy said thanks, but the 3rd guy slapped him. The taxi driver was stunned because he was hoping that none of them would have realized the car didn’t move an inch. So what was that for, he asked. Control your speed next time, you almost killed us….

…………………….

It’s all in the punctuation:
An English professor wrote the words, “Woman without her man is nothing” on the blackboard and directed his students to punctuate it correctly.
The men wrote: “Woman, without her man, is nothing.”
The women wrote: “Woman: Without her, man is nothing.

………………………….

After every flight, pilots fill out a form called a gripe sheet, which
conveys to the mechanics problems encountered with the aircraft during
the flight that need repair or correction. The mechanics read and correct
the problem, and then respond in writing on the lower half of the form
what remedial action was taken, and the pilot reviews the gripe sheets
before the next flight.
Never let it be said that ground crews and engineers lack a sense of
humor!
Here are some actual logged maintenance complaints and problems as
submitted by Qantas pilots and the solution recorded by maintenance
engineers.
(P = the problem logged by the pilot.)
(S = the solution and action taken by the engineers.)

P: Left inside main tire almost needs replacement.
S: Almost replaced left inside main tire.

P: Test flight OK, except auto-land very rough.
S: Auto-land not installed on this aircraft.

P: Something loose in cockpit.
S: Something tightened in cockpit.

P: Dead bugs on windshield.
S: Live bugs on back-order.

P: Autopilot in altitude-hold mode produces a 200 feet per minute descent.
S: Cannot reproduce problem on ground.

P: Evidence of leak on right main landing gear.
S: Evidence removed.

P: DME volume unbelievably loud.
S: DME volume set to more believable level.

P: Friction locks cause throttle levers to stick.
S: That’s what they’re there for.

P: IFF inoperative.
S: IFF always inoperative in OFF mode.

P: Suspected crack in windshield.
S: Suspect you’re right.

P: Number 3 engine missing.
S: Engine found on right wing after brief search.

P: Aircraft handles funny.
S: Aircraft warned to straighten up, fly right, and be serious.

P: Target radar hums.
S: Reprogrammed target radar with lyrics.

P: Mouse in cockpit.
S: Cat installed.

Source….www.joke a day.com

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Video of Japan workers cleaning bullet trains in seven minutes goes viral….

 

When a Japanese bullet train makes its final stop, workers have precisely seven minutes to clean the carriages before the next round of passengers board.

Each 100-seat carriage is covered by one worker, who wipes down food trays, clears the seats and sweeps the floor.

The workers have 12 seconds to clean each row of seats.

According to Quartz magazine, the video was recorded by American journalist Charli James, and captures how efficient Japanese workers are and how much pride they take in their jobs.

“I wanted to capture how they work really hard to make sure that the train is nice for people to ride,” said James.

And in an unusual display of diligence unseen in western civilisation, when the cleaners finish their work, they take a bow. “It was really interesting to me that, even though is a cleaning job, they still take a lot of pride in their work,” said James.

The cleaning crew’s manager was quizzed on the bow and it was reported she experienced a Lost in Translation moment where the question was misunderstood. The manager seemed to think “why wouldn’t they?”

Source….Kylie McLaughlin in www. traveller.com.au

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” At 13, Aman Singh is a change-maker…”

Inspiring story of 13-year-old boy who spends his spare time in helping his peers become smarter students 

When one sees a 13 year old boy, chances are most of us would presume that here’s someone who impatiently waits for the final school bell to go so that he can get to do the things he actually likes. While Aman has the same sunny disposition as any other young teenager, when you get to know him, you know that he is an outlier. Aman has passed the BMC(Brihanmumbai Municipal Corporation) scholarship exam with flying colours — he is one of the top 10 rank holders in Maharashtra. And that’s not all. At the tender age of 13, Aman Singh is a change-maker — every day, after school, he conducts a learning circle for his peers at school and other community children who don’t have access to schools.

Aman comes from a humble background from the Khadi community in Borivali. He lives with his father, and gets to sees his mother only twice every year, since she lives in their native village to take care of the rest of the family.

Launching the learning circle

The concept of the learning circles (LC) was born out of an assignment given by their teacher, Mohini Pandey. Mohini is a Teach for India alum, who completed the Fellowship in April 2015. She has taught Aman and other students at the Eksar Talao Municipal School, Borivali for the last two years. She tells us her motivation behind the assignment that gave birth to these learning circles and student leaders.

“I used to plan and conduct a lot of solution-oriented classroom sessions where the objective was to help my students understand the communities they lived in — the problems they faced and the need gaps they had. I wanted them to internalise the fact that we ourselves can work to make the world a better place — all we need to do is step up and take the initiative instead of waiting for someone else to do it.”

According to the ASER (Annual Status of Education Report) 2014 report — school enrollment rates between the ages 6-14 have been consecutively increasing for the last 6 years (enrollment rates have been 96 per cent or above). But there is a dark side to the story. For children enrolled in government schools in Std V, with the exception of 2010 and 2012, reading levels over time are extremely low with the gap between government and private schools increasing every year.

Clearly, a change in pace and approach is needed to make these numbers healthy. Aman and a few of his classmates also felt the gap and came up with the observation that a lot of their classroom peers were not able to cope up with the academic grade level of their class. Mohini adds, “We discussed this at length and through team brainstorming, we hit upon the idea of starting informal learning circles that could be run by the students and for the students.”

Aman (right) chose to run an LC because he wanted to lend a helping hand to his classmates and other children in his community who do not have access to schools

Aman (right) chose to run an LC because he wanted to lend a helping hand to his classmates and other children in his community who do not have access to schools

Aman’s simple reason for being motivated to take up this challenge is indeed endearing. I think my friends in my class who are behind their grade levels may sometimes need a lot more help. Teachers sometimes have a lot of administrative work because of which it might be really hard for them to focus on each and every child in the classroom. Mohini Didi (teachers are referred to as “Didi” or “Bhaiya”, elder sister or brother) has taught us to try and solve the problems we face on a daily basis — so I decided to take up this problem to help my friends and make a difference.

How the student leaders do it

Mohini plays the role of a mentor. Having taught these children for two years, she shares a great rapport with these children. She’s well aware of their challenges and how to engage with them. The idea was first piloted in their school and the result was spectacular. Students in her class had shown a marked improvement in English speaking and critical thinking skills. For the other subjects, all of them have shown at least a 0.5 year of growth in every unit.

Mohini and the students’ camaraderie is another factor that made the project a success. Substantiated by the result, Mohini helped fine-tune the idea and encouraged the kids to scale it up and take it outside school thus, including children who did not have access to schools at all.

Aman (center), flanked by Mohini (right) and a classmate

Aman (center), flanked by Mohini (right) and a classmate

The LC runs every day for about an hour and a half after school. The students go to the student leader’s house. If the student leader is unavailable for some reason, the show still goes on — the session is conducted by the group at any student member’s house.

Aman tells us how the circles work.

“First, we break the group into smaller groups according to their current grade level. We then form the objectives of the day and then join the LC along with all the participants so that everyone can also learn the importance of team work. The participants are given the worksheets to practice their learnings after each session. Then all the student leaders sit together and design the test papers to measure the development.”

What’s more, the participants in the LCs also give feedback about the leaders and the sessions. The LC is also being replicated as it matures. The LC is now aiming at not just bringing students up to speed, but also raising the bar above the expected.

Aman tells us, “In the classroom all the students know each-other’s grade level so we sit together in our LC groups and work harder to not only reach grade level but also raise that level if possible — through goal and vision setting sessions with Mohini Didi. We break down the objectives according to that. Mohini Didi gives us the basic plans that we should use to ensure everyone’s subject base is strong. Now, we have started to make our own plans for our groups as well.”

The paradigm shift

Mohini’s assignment and the underlying motivation was not one that was guaranteed to be a success. Now that it has, she reflects back on how the risks have paid off: “In this whole process, I observed that I made all my students take a risk and think about more than just themselves. This has brought about a sudden change in them — they have started to talk with so much love and respect for their peers and are eager to help in any way they can. They have become independent human beings and I’m confident that as they grow up, they’ll carry their learnings from this exercise to continue helping their communities in the future as well.” Tracing the change that she has seen in Aman, she tells us that Aman has matured into a prudent boy — he understands the situation of others and reacts responsibly. She has also observed a lot of care and concern in him for the students in his LC.

He has grown tremendously in his critical thinking skills as well.

Aman’s dream — equal parts naive, pragmatic, and gargantuan

Aman tells us that because of the LC, he has become a lot more confident now. He adds, “I understand now the importance of self-action.” When asked about what he wants to become when he grows older, pat came the reply, “My dream is to be in politics and become the Prime Minister of India one day.”

For a moment, as an adult, you’d almost think that Aman is not being realistic. But what he says next substantiates that there is thought behind his aspirations. “Even if I don’t, I want to be in politics so I can change the mindset of the people around me — if that changes, India will become a more developed country and a better place for everyone irrespective of their background.” Whether Aman realises his dreams or not is not important. The one significant take away from this story is the heart warming tale of a 13 year old, and indeed many like him, who are spending time understanding the problems their communities are battling and taking steps to mitigate those. So hurrah for Aman and his ilk. May their tribe grow.

Source…www.rediff.com

Natarajan

In The Future, Your Interstellar Tourist Selfies Will Look Like This…!!!

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Imagine a world some time in the semi-distant future where space travel is a banal indulgence not unlike a luxury cruise. What would you do upon stepping on Mars soil, an astronaut helmet over your head and Earth but a small speck in the distance.

Be real, would you take a selfie? It would get soooooo many likes.

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French photographer Julien Mauve juxtaposes the looming potential of space exploration with the stereotypical actions of earthly tourists in his narrative series “Greetings From Mars.” The sci-fi photos combine alien landscapes with behavior that’s all too familiar — performing for the camera, inserting oneself into foreign landscapes, and striking a pose.

“I’ve been fascinated with Mars since I was a child,” Mauve explained to The Huffington Post. “I can picture myself back in college making presentations about it. We hear a lot about NASA, Elon Musk and SpaceX these days. Mars One also, the company that offers people a one way ticket to establish the first human colony on Mars (and intend to create a TV show out of it). Space exploration and colonization is the greatest adventure of the century and the fact that we may witness it in our life-time makes it even more exciting.”

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Mauve couples the possibility of space tourism in the future with the reality of social media influence in the present. “We’ve literally developed a new language to communicate emotions through pictures and that really fascinates me,” the artist said, identifying smartphones as the technology that allows us to write our own stories in real time.

“In the mean time, Earth has become really small. We are only 12 hours and $800 away from the other side of the world. Those easy traveling conditions have made tourism a lucrative activity. People can visit and enjoy places we would have never imagined only 50 years ago… Once transportation issues will be solved and if we don’t encounter any massive disaster, space tourism for middle class people is something we can imagine happening in less than 100 years.”

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Mauve’s series offers a wonderfully deadpan view of the red planet, with anonymous explorers eager to survey the grounds, and, possibly more importantly, document the process. “It’s an observation of our current behaviors and a projection of what we hope for the future,” he explained. “I’m not trying to stick to the scientific truth.”

Of his series, he explains the setting: “It’s a couple experiencing Mars as tourists for the first time and sharing their experience through photographs. They include themselves in front of those landscapes and affirm their presence but the funny thing is that we don’t see their faces. It could be anyone in those suits and, in fact, it goes against the original purpose of taking a selfie or souvenir pictures. It was also a way to illustrate this endless pursuit of self-definition we seek with pictures.”

Check back with us in 100 years to see if Mauve’s grim prediction has come to life. If so, please let us know what filters look best in space. Thanks.

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Source….http://www.huffingtonpost.com/priscilla-frank

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