படித்து ரசித்தது …”ஓட்டை கம்பளி …”!!!

ஒரு கட்டுரையில், கி.வா.ஜ., எழுதியது:

கவிதை, சங்கீதம் மற்றும் நாடகம் போன்ற கலைகள் எதுவானாலும், ரசிகர்கள் இருந்தால் தான், கலைஞர்கள் மகிழ்ந்து, மேலும் தம் திறமையை காட்டுவர். கலைஞர் உள்ளம் வெறும் பணத்துக்கோ, கொடைக்கோ மகிழாது.
மாடு தன் காதை மட்டும் ஆட்டுவதைப் போன்று ஆட்டுவது, கோகர்ண வித்தை; யானை தன் காது நுனியை மட்டும் ஆட்டும்; அதைப் போன்று செய்வது கஜகர்ண வித்தை. ஒரு வித்தையாடி, இந்த வித்தைகளை எல்லாம் செய்வதுடன், மாடு மாதிரி குரல் எழுப்புவான்; யானை மாதிரி பிளிறுவான். பலவகை விலங்குகளைப் போல நடிப்பான்.
ஒருநாள், ஓர் வித்தைகாட்டி, அரசன் ஒருவனின் சபைக்கு வந்து, தன் வித்தைகளை காட்டத் துவங்கினான்; எல்லாரும் பார்த்து மகிழ்ந்தனர். ஒவ்வொரு வித்தை முடிந்தவுடன், அதற்கேற்ப பரிசை அளித்து வந்தான் அரசன். இந்நிலையில், பார்வையாளர் கூட்டத்தில், பசு மேய்க்கும் இடையன் ஒருவன், கோலை ஊன்றி, ஓட்டை கம்பளியை தலைமேல் போட்டு, வித்தைகளை கவனித்தவாறு இருந்தான்.
பசுமாடு மாதிரி நடிக்க துவங்கினான் கலைஞன். வால் போன்ற ஒன்றை, பின்னால் செருகி, அதை ஆட்டினான்; காதை தனியே ஆட்டினான். வேடிக்கை பார்த்த இடையன், வித்தைக்காரன் அருகில் வந்து என்னவோ செய்தான். அடுத்த நிமிடம், தான் போர்த்தியிருந்த ஓட்டை கம்பளியை, அவன் மேல் போட்டு விட்டுப் போய் விட்டான்.
வித்தைகள் எல்லாம் முடிந்தன. வித்தைக்காரன் முதலில் அந்தக் கம்பளியை எடுத்து மடித்து, கண்ணில் ஒற்றி, பெட்டிக்குள் வைத்தான். அதை பார்த்த அரசனுக்கு கோபம் வந்து, ‘என்னை நீ அவமதித்து விட்டாய்…. இடையன் போட்ட கம்பளிக்கு கொடுத்த மரியாதையை, நான் வழங்கிய பரிசுகளுக்கு கொடுக்கவில்லையே… அந்த ஓட்டை கம்பளி உனக்கு பெரிதாக போய் விட்டதா…’ என்று கேட்டான்.
‘அரசே… அந்த கம்பளி கொடுத்தவர், எதை பார்த்து ரசித்தார், தெரியுமா?’ என்றான் வித்தைக்காரன்.
‘நீ மாடு மாதிரி நடந்ததையும், காதை ஆட்டினதையும் பார்த்திருப்பான்; அவனுக்கு மாடு தானே தெரியும்…’ என்றான் அரசன்.
வித்தைக்காரன் நிதானமாக, ‘அரசே… அவர் என் நடிப்பில் ஒரு நுட்பத்தை கண்டு மகிழ்ந்தார். நான் மாடாக நடித்த போது, ஒரு சிறு பருக்கை கல்லை எடுத்து, என் மேல் போட்டார். அந்த இடத்தை மட்டும், நான் சுழித்துக் காட்டினேன். அதன் அருமையை உணர்ந்து, அந்த கம்பளியை அளித்தார். ஓட்டம் அறிந்து வழங்கியதால், அதை பெரிதாக கருதுகிறேன்…’ என்றான்.

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Natarajan

Message for the Day…” Pain is a part of Life and must be accepted at any cost …Pleasure s an interval between two pains …’

The life of Prahlada is a testament of real devotion to God. Though severely tortured by his father, Hiranyakashipu, Prahlada stood firm as a rock, steadfast in his devotion to Vishnu. At a tender age, Prahlada planted God firmly in his heart and withstood every storm and stress. Physical afflictions had no effect on him and did not reduce his devotion. The mind steeped in the Love of God is beyond any shock and strain like the chloroformed patient who is oblivious of the incisions made by the surgical instruments. Only Love of this kind can ultimately be victorious. But today, the devotion of the people wavers with every trying circumstance. When our wishes are fulfilled, we install many photographs for worship; and when our wishes are not fulfilled, we throw out the photographs. Pain is a part of life and must be accepted at any cost. Pleasure is an interval between two pains.

Sathya Sai Baba

Joke of the Day…”Now there are two …” !!!

There was a farmer who grew watermelons. He was doing pretty well, but he was disturbed by some local kids who would sneak into his watermelon patch at night and eat his watermelons.

After some careful thought, he came up with a clever idea that he thought would scare the kids away for sure. He made up a sign and posted it in the field. The next night, the kids showed up and they saw the sign which read, “Warning! One of the watermelons in this field has been injected with cyanide.”

The kids ran off, made up their own sign and posted it next to the farmer’s.

When the farmer returned, he surveyed the field. He noticed that no watermelons were missing, but the sign next to his read: “Now there are two!”

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Natarajan

Message for the Day…” Avoid causing harm to others…Do not speak of ill of anyone…”

Sathya Sai BabaYou spend a great deal of time to acquire some material object or other. How much time do you devote to thoughts of God? You shed tears profusely to experience a pleasure related to the senses. Do you shed a single tear for experiencing God? How then can you realise God? Today Bhakthi (devotion) has become a mass-produced manufactured product. But are the devotees practicing what they profess? Without practice, can the fruits of devotion be realised? The 12th Canto of the Bhagavad Gita clearly describes the qualities of a true devotee. The primary virtue is absence of hatred towards any living thing: Cultivate Universal Love (Advesta-sarva-bhutanam). Avoid causing harm to others. Do not speak ill of any one. Give up pride and egoism. Cultivate purity of thought, speech and action. Spirituality is not separate from other aspects of life. Spirituality permeates everything.

 

Top 10 Steps to Deal with Negative Persons …

If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.

You may interact with negative people daily, be they friends, family members, a partner or a colleague. You love them, you care about them, you can’t just cut them out of your life, but they are negative and their negativity is eating away at you. What can you do?
The best way of dealing with life’s challenges is to take a good look at ourselves and take responsibility for what we think, feel and do.
Never give your power away by blaming others for what you have or don’t have, what you feel or don’t feel. Once you do so, you’ll become a victim of circumstance, and instead of using your time and energy to beat life’s challenges, you’ll sink to a dark and miserable place.
Here are 10 smart, positive and effective ways of dealing with the negativity of the people close to you:
1. Give up the need to complain
Make sure you are taking responsibility for your feelings and mood. Don’t go complaining that other people’s negativity is affecting you, because it will only create more negativity. Take responsibility for your thoughts and feelings and see what you can do to make yourself feel better and change the existing situation.
Whoever has limited knowledge of human nature and seeks happiness by changing everything but his own attitude, will waste his life in futile efforts.”
– Samuel Johnson
2. Similarity Attracts
Good brings about good, bad brings about bad, and whether we want to or not, we pull into our lives events, situations and people that reflect our internal state. Ask yourself: “How am I feeling? Am I happy, excited, thankful and calm? Or am I anxious, frustrated and judgmental?”
You may find that you radiate misery to the environment and that part of the negative energy surrounding you is in fact a reflection of yourself.
3. Don’t believe everything you think
This is definitely one of the hardest things to learn. Look closely at the negative people in your life. What is it about them that gets you going? What affects you so much? Is what they are doing really that bad or is your brain playing games with you?
Remember, the brain is configured to look for trouble, and it focuses on other’s negative qualities. It’ll be very hard to get it to see the positive side of things, but it doesn’t mean there isn’t one.
4. Focus
Ask yourself: “Am I ready to find the good in these people? Am I able to see their good qualities?” Let the answers come naturally, and make sure you are being honest with yourself.
If you feel like you’re insistent and won’t change the way you are looking at people and situations, don’t give yourself a hard time. This takes time and patience, and when you are ready, you’ll take this step. Remember, we all have good in us.
It’s so hard when I NEED to do it and so easy when I WANT to do it.
– Annie Gottlier
5. Don’t make their problems YOUR problems
For their sake and yours, make sure you are not adopting their problems and becoming negative about them yourself. If you want to cure negativity, sliding down right along with the negative person won’t help, it will just make it worse by validating their thought and behavioral patterns. Rather, focus on solutions, not problems. Offer that and nothing else.
6. Taking ownership
Instead of being a victim and judge, you need to take full responsibility for your thoughts and feelings, and take a different approach.
Everything that annoys us in others can lead us to a better understanding of ourselves.
– Carl Jung.
Don’t waste your time obsessing and thinking: “They are ruining my energy, making me miserable, their negative energy is infecting my own…” Instead, say to yourself: “How can I use this to my advantage? Is there something I’m doing wrong? How can I improve the situation and increase my positive energy to be stronger than their negative energy? What do I learn from all of this?”
7. Come with your own positive energy
Focusing on negative energy cannot create positive energy, and the other way around is also true. Focus on making yourself happy, enough that you have great positive energy, and you will see the negativity cringing away from it.
Remember, energy is contagious!
How to put up positive energy? Focus on the things you like about the negative people, focus on things you love about yourselves, life and the world around you. Think of loved ones, of things that make you happy. That way, you will increase the positive energy exponentially.
If you incur negative energy by thinking about bad things, the opposite is also true, and you’ll be able to hopefully ‘wake up’ your fellow workers. You can’t focus on both of them at the same time, so choose one – happiness or misery.
8. Be part of the change you’d like to see
The world is no more than a reflection of who we are, deep inside. Try to go for a feeling of well-being, to live a positive life, a merry life, one that has love, trust, and the pursuit of happiness. We cannot change others, but only ourselves. This is the only way to change the world.
Think of it this way: When you are happy, the world seems happy, and the sky is open and blue. When you are sad, the world seems sad as well, and the sky is grey and uncaring, leaving you alone to deal with your pain.
Flow with life events, don’t resist them, live in harmony and be the change you wish to see in the world.
Never underestimate your power to change yourself. Never overestimate your power to change others.
– Wayne W. Dyer
9. Awareness and acceptance
Work on understanding life’s inevitable duality – accept the negative with the good. Don’t harp on people’s negativity, don’t judge or fight them. Let them be, look and accept. Remember, your world is no more real than a reflection of who you are, deep inside. Don’t try to bring everyone into your own world, accept theirs as no less real than yours, and their point of view as no less valid.
The hardest part of acceptance is accepting that, sometimes, some people cannot be changed. Their negativity is something they will defend to the last drop. Not because it gives them pleasure, but because they think it is a natural part of themselves.
Even though it’s never too late to try and change that point of view, some never will. It is up to you to either accept their negativity and react accordingly, or take your distance from them. This is especially hard when it is someone we love.
Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darkness of others.
10. Move forward
Dealing with negativity and trying your best to dispel it can be exhausting, and at some point, you have to move on with your life in a positive way. Find a path that allows you to go on with your life without the negativity of others, but also, without the regret that leaving a loved one or friend behind may cause you.
Make your feelings known to them, make them understand they are hard to be around, and slowly decrease your contact. If they want you to stay in their lives, they will be forced to at least pretend to be less negative, and pretending is the first step to actually becoming less negative. The more we act a certain way, the more we believe in it.

Image courtesy of: Michal Marcol / freedigitalphotos.net

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Natarajan

Message for the Day…” Place your Trust in God…”

Sathya Sai Baba

Without faith in God, all other possessions are of no avail. Take the example of Duryodhana, who was the lord of an empire. Both Duryodhana and Arjuna went to Krishna before the Kurukshetra battle. Duryodhana wanted only Krishna’s army on his side. Arjuna was content to have Krishna alone on his side. This was enough to secure for him victory in the war. All the armies Duryodhana had were of no avail. Duryodhana relied on the clever strategies of his uncle, Shakuni. He had no faith in the divine intelligence of Krishna. The lesson that everyone must learn from this episode is that they must rely, not on their cleverness but on the guidance of their higher intelligence, which transcends ordinary reason and thinking. They should seek the support of That which sustains everything in creation. Place your trust in God.

இந்த வாரக் கவிதை……” அணையட்டும் சாதீ …”

 

அணையட்டும்  சாதீ ….
…………….
“சாதிகள்  இல்லையடி பாப்பா” … பால பாடம் படித்தோம் அன்று!
பாடம் பாலருக்கு மட்டும்தானா ? மற்றவருக்கு இல்லையா ?
காலம்  மாற  மாற வாழ்வின் கோலம்  மாறுதே !
சாதியும் மதமும் நம் வாழ்வின் வேதமாய் உருமாறுதே
சாதித்தது என்ன நாம் இத்தனை காலம் ?
சாதிக்  கட்சி ஆயிரம் … சாதியின் பெயரில் வாக்கு வங்கி பல்லாயிரம்!
வீதிக்கு வீதி சாதியின் பெயர் சொல்லி அரசியல் செய்ய
தனித்  தனி தலைவர்கள் கூட்டம் ! அவர் பின்னால்
தன்  தனித்துவம் தொலைத்த மனிதரின் ஆட்டம் பாட்டம் !
சாதிக்கப்  பிறந்த  குழந்தைகள் அய்யா ..நாங்க  !
சாதியின் பெயரால் பொசுக்கலாமா எங்க வாழ்வை நீங்க ?
வேதம் ஓதும் சாத்தான் பேச்சுக்கு மயங்கலாமா  நீங்க ?
பாதம் பணிந்து கேட்கிறோம் நாங்க… எங்க  வாழ்வில்
ஒளி வீசும்  தீபமாய் இருக்க வேண்டிய  நீங்களே
சாதித்  தீயாக மாறி  எரிக்கலாமா   உங்க சந்ததியை ?
கருக்கி சுருக்கலாமா அவர்தம் வாழ்வை ?
பணிவன்போடு வேண்டுகிறோம் நாங்க …சாதித்தீ
வளர்த்து நீங்க சாதிக்கப் போவது என்ன அய்யா ?
உங்க சந்ததியைத் தொலைப்பது ஒரு சாதனையா ?
சற்றே யோசியுங்க ! இந்த வேதனை தொடரவேண்டுமா இன்னும் ?
அணைய வேண்டும் அய்யா …சாதித்  தீ !!!…இணைய வேண்டும்
மனித குலம் ஒரே அணியில்  தம் சாதி  மத  பேதம் மறந்து !
natarajan

Message for the Day…”What is True Love …? “

There is no love between the husband and the wife before they are married. There is no love between the mother and the child before the birth of the child. The son, though he loved his mother with all his heart, flings her body onto the burning pyre and consigns her to the flames without any mercy after death. How can such love be called true Love? All such relationships can at best be termed attachment and not Love. Attachments come in the middle and pass off in the middle. But Divine Love existed even before birth and will last after death. Attachments are like passing clouds that sail away quickly. True Love is uncontaminated, unsoiled, unadulterated, unpolluted, eternal, perennial, pure and unsullied. It is only Divine Love that is not tainted by selfishness and self-interest, and exists before birth and lasts after death. All other kinds of love are stained by selfishness.

Sathya Sai Baba

Message for the Day…” Remember …Everyone must face the consequences of their misdeeds…”

Everyone must face the consequences of their misdeeds, one day or other, because every action has a reaction, resound and reflection. The awareness of this fact on the part of one and all will bring abundant peace and harmony. Human beings are endowed with endless strength. Your body is indeed a massive generator. Your face is like a television-set, with vivid expressions. But human beings have lost their value in the world today. It is human beings who lend value to a diamond. It is a human being who unearths a raw stone and turns it into a priceless diamond after processing and polishing it. Though people have been able to transform a cheap raw stone into an invaluable diamond, they themselves choose to have no intrinsic value in spite of contributing much to the value-addition of the diamond.

Sathya Sai Baba

Behind The Success of Rajasthan’s Star Female Athlete Is a Woman: Her Mother-In-Law…!!!

Meet Sneha Jain, one of Rajasthan’s best female athletes – national and Asian record holder, winner of 149 gold medals in Masters tournaments, and the mother of two.

The track has been an integral part of Sneha Jain’s life for decades now. As one of Rajasthan’s best female athletes, she has worked hard to build a successful sporting career. From representing her state nationally in 100 metre sprint, long jump and triple jump competitions, to setting national and Asian track and field records, to winning 149 gold medals in Masters tournaments, this 40-something mother of two has done it all. But here’s an interesting fact – she became a sporting sensation after her marriage.

Unlike many Indian sportswomen for whom nuptials essentially mark the beginning of the end of their career, Jain has blazed her own trail of gold glory with the support of one woman – her mother-in-law.

Sneha Jain has represented Rajasthan nationally in 100 metre sprint, long jump and triple jump competitions

Sneha Jain has represented Rajasthan nationally in 100 metre sprint, long jump and triple jump competitions

Recently, when Jain couldn’t make it to Sri Lanka to participate in the International Masters Athletics meet to make a bid for achieving a landmark personal medal tally of 150 golds because an uncle suffered a massive cardiac arrest, it was a déjà vu moment for her. A decade ago, in 1996, she had missed the opportunity to become part of the national athletics squad as she had to rush back home from the national sports camp at Bengaluru after her mother, who was suffering from uterine cancer, passed away suddenly.

When this tragedy struck her young life, Jain had established herself as a foremost female sportsperson in her state and had, in fact, been a regular at the nationals since 1989. She was ready to distinguish herself in the big league but fate had something else in store for her.

Jain had already given up on education having dropped out of college after the first year. She had more pressing obligations at home, taking care of her mother and younger brother besides travelling to Mumbai on and off as her mother was being treated there. There was simply no time to go to class. Then she lost her mother and her sporting career also came to a near standstill. Between 1996 and 2000, she wasn’t able to do anything concrete to further her dream of playing for the country.

It almost seemed like the end of her career – and then she got married.

“My elder sister, Lata, decided that I should get married so that I can move on from the loss of my mother and start life afresh. It did turn out to be a wise thing to do because it was my mother-in-law who motivated me to revive my career. Unlike most mothers-in-law, mine offered to lend me a helping hand in the household chores if I agreed to return to the track! Could I ask for more,” shares Jain, who began practicing regularly once again and even managed to get into the nationals in the very next year –and in the subsequent years thereafter.

“However, I didn’t win any medals because my body needed some more time to return to form,” she elaborates. Of course, by the time she regained full fitness she had turned 35 and became ineligible for professional sporting events.

As one of Rajasthan’s foremost female athletes she has worked hard to build a successful sporting career.

As one of Rajasthan’s foremost female athletes she has worked hard to build a successful sporting career.

“I hadn’t heard about the Masters competitions back then. I was quite disappointed that in my second stint I was unable to hit my earlier performance levels,” she says. It was in 2007 that she came to know about the Masters tournament and that gave her fillip to go on. “I took part in my first Masters National Games, which was held in Jaipur, where I created a national record in long jump,” she says, adding that this record remains unbeaten.

Back in form and full of confidence, Jain restarted her hunt for medals. During the 15 years of marriage, she has won 149 gold medals and holds a national and an Asian record in her name. Last year, in Vidisha, Madhya Pradesh, during the 37th Masters National Games, she was adjudged the best athlete after she won five golds – in 100 metres, long jump, triple jump, 4×100 metres and 4×400 metres relays.

In many Indian families, it’s not all that easy for daughters-in-law to continue pursuing their passions – especially if they are related to sports. Yet, Jain is conscious of the fact that she has been fortunate because the elders in her marital home not only supported her career but also pushed her to become the best and win laurels.

“My husband accompanied me when I participated in my first Nationals post marriage in Hyderabad. Once my daughter was born, in 2002, I took her along with me everywhere,” she says, adding, “I’m out of town for nearly three to four months in a year participating in some competition or the other but the family has never complained.”

In fact, as Jain had started running by the time she turned five she has inspired her two children – daughter Aarchie and son, Vansh – to follow in her footsteps and get an early start.

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Whereas Vansh, 10, is doing well on the track in school, Aarchie, who is in Class 9, has already been part of two under-14 national events held in Ranchi, Jharkhand, and Hardwar, Uttarakhand, respectively. “She’s been practicing with me for the last two years. I’m her coach. I want her to continue my legacy. She participated in the 100 metres sprint and 100 metres hurdles competitions,” says the proud mother. Aarchie joins her mother at the Barkatullah Stadium, two kilometres from their home, every evening at four to put in a three-hour practice session. By the time Jain is back after this gruelling routine, her mother-in-law has already done the preparations for dinner so she has “to just cook”.

Apart from her two children, no one in the family is into sports. Her sisters-in-law’s children are studying to be chartered accountants or company secretaries. Her husband is into transport business and her brothers have their own businesses as well. Jain got a job in the Post and Telegraph Department in 1993, when she was in the first year of graduation, under the sports quota and has been representing the Department ever since.

She’s currently posted at Jodhpur’s head post office located on Station Road where she shows up in tracksuit because she has to head to the stadium directly after office.

“As a sportsperson who has won medals, I get two hours off in duty. My office hours are from 10 am to 4 pm,” she informs. Apart from that Jain is on the executive body of the Masters Athletics Federation of India and is involved in organising national events. Today, she is gearing up to fulfil a long cherished dream. in May, Jain will head to Singapore to participate in the Asian Masters championship in the hope that she will finally be able to achieve the 150 medal mark.

Source….Written by Renu R. for Women’s Feature Service (WFS) and republished here in arrangement with WFS.

Tanaya Singh  in http://www.the betterindia.com

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