One Sikh Man Tweeted This Message Of Humanity After The Paris Attacks …

The recent Paris attacks have left over 120 people dead and more than 350 people injured. –

Source: Getty Images

Source: Getty Images

As a gesture to help out people seeking shelter during the attacks, the phrase “#PorteOuverte” started trending on Twitter. PorteOuverte means ‘Open Door’ and meant that anyone using that hashtag was offering their shelter for the stranded people.

Twitter User @RohanSinghKalsi tweeted this:

  1. Anybody who’s stranded in Paris and needs shelter and somewhere safe, any Sikh Gurdwara (temple) will be happy to accommodate e

    This got retweeted over 13,000 times and received a tremendous response! –

    Source….www.the betterindia.com

    Natarajan

Message for the Day…” Let the Field of our Heart be Pure and Sacred thro Good and Holy actions to Yield the Fruit of Divine Wisdom…”

It is not easy for the human mind, immersed in worldly concerns to turn to God. It is only when the mind is transformed and brought under the control of the Soul (Atma) that the body experiences Divine Bliss (Ananda). The means by which the mind is transformed is devotion (Bhakthi – intense love for God). Progressively, turn your mind towards God until it merges in God. Meditation, repetition of the names of the Lord, group singing of devotional songs (bhajans), reading of scriptures and other such activities are designed only to purify the mind so that it can concentrate on God. As a field has to be properly ploughed and prepared for sowing so as to reap a good harvest, the field of our heart has to be rendered pure and sacred through good and holy actions and spiritual discipline(sadhana) if it is to yield the fruit of Divine Wisdom.

Sathya Sai Baba

படித்து ரசித்த கவிதை….” அவதாரம் ஒன்று நான் எடுத்து பாவம் களைதல் எவ்வாறு …” ?

 

புதியபூமி

சிறகு முளைக்க வில்லையை
பிறகு எப்படி சாத்தியமிது

உயர உயரப் பறக்கிறேனே
பயம் சிறிதுகூட இல்லாமல்

நொடிப் போதில் விண்வெளியில்
நீண்ட தூரம் பயணிக்கிறேன்

நீலபூமியின் அழகு கண்டு மகிழ
நீள்விழி இரண்டு போதவில்லை

சுற்றும் கோள்கள் தாண்டி
சற்றும் களைப்பில்லாது ஏகினேன்.

சூரிய மண்டலம் கடந்து – பல
அரிய காட்சிகள் கண்டு

இன்னமும் மேலே மேலேயென
மின்னல் வேகத்தில் பயணித்தேன்.

ஆயிரமாயிரம் நட்சத்திரங்கள்
ரயில் பயண மரமாய் மறைய

மேக க் கூட்டமொன்று கண்டு
வேகம் குறைந்தது பயணம்

குழந்தை போல் சிரித்திரிந்த
அழகியதோர் புதியபூமி கண்டு

காணக்கண் கோடி இல்லையே
கவலை கொண்டேன் இப்படி.

மெதுவாய்த் தரையிரங்கி அந்தப்
புது பூமியில் கால்பதித்தேன்

பூமரங்கள் இருபுறமும் நின்றாடி
சாமரங்கள் வீச நடக்கலானேன்.

ஒரு கோடி சூரியப்பிரகாசம்
உருவமில்லா உருவமாய் ஆங்கு

திருவருளாய் நிற்கக் கண்டு
உருகிய உள்ளம் கசிந்தேன்.

“வருக வருக பக்தா இப்படி
அருகில் வா, கேள் கேள்வியை

காண வேண்டுமென நீதானே
காலம் பல தவமிருந்தய்”

ஆண்டவனின் வாக்கு கேட்டு
அடிபணிந்து எழுந்தேன் நான்

” கொடுமைகள் கோலோச்சினால்
எடுப்பீர்கள் அவதாரம் பூமியில்

நெடுங்காலமாய் கொடுமை ஆடித்திரிய
எடுக்கவில்லையே பிறப்பு ஏன் “

கேட்க நினைத்ததை எப்படியோ
தட்டுத்தடுமாறி கேட்டு வைத்தேன்

கெடுமதியோர் சிலர்தானென்றால்
எடுக்கலாம் அவதாரம் வரை அழித்திட.

பிறந்தோரெல்லாம் பிழை செய்தோராகி
அறம் வீழ்ந்து கிடக்கும் பூமியில்

அவதாரம் ஒன்று எடுத்து நான்
பாவம் களைந்திடல் எவ்வாறு ?

தன்னைத்தானே செதுக்கிக்கொள்ளும்
தனிக்குணம் தந்தேன் மனிதனுக்கு

தனக்குள் இருக்கும் என்னை அவன்
கண்டுகொள்ளுவான் என எண்ணி.

இத்தேடல் விடுத்து பணம் தேட
அத்தன பாவமும் அளவில்லாது செய்து

பொன்னானபூமியையும் தன் இனத்தையும்
சின்னாபின்னமாக்கி அழிக்கிறான் அவன்

படைப்பினிலே தவறு செய்தேனப்பா
பாழாய்ப்போன மனிதனைப் படைத்து.

எத்தனை முறை அவதாரம் எடுத்தாலும்
அத்தனையும் வீண் என உணர்ந்தேன்

இப்புது உலகில் மனிதனைப் படைக்கும்
தப்பு செய்யாது தனியே இருக்கிறேன்.

எனக்கு அப்பூமியில் இனி இல்லை வேலை
உனக்குச் சொன்னேன் என் பதிலை”

எல்லாம் வல்லவன் சொல்கேட்டு
உள்ளம் நொந்து திடுக்கிட்டு

பட்டென்று விழித்துப்பார்த்தால்
கட்டிலின் கீழே வீழ்ந்து கிடந்தேன்.!!!
Source and Input…. Shri Sadasivam , Coimbatore
Natarajan

Night Time Affirmations for the Soul…….

Each night before I sleep, I repeat these affirmations to myself, to help ease and relax my soul. They remind me that I am safe, and they prepare me for a new day and all the gifts that it will bring. After repeating these to myself, I feel a deep sense of peace, enabling me to fall asleep effortlessly.

I hope that after reading through these affirmations, you too will sleep soundly, leaving all the troubles of the day behind.

Night Affirmations

Night Affirmations

Night Affirmations

Night Affirmations

Night Affirmations

Night Affirmations

Night Affirmations

Night Affirmations

Night Affirmations

Night Affirmations

Night Affirmations

Night Affirmations

Night Affirmations

Night Affirmations

Night Affirmations

Source….www.ba-bamail.com

Natarajan

Watch Who Loves Water Towels ….!!!

To most of us, paper towels are used for cleaning. That’s that. You’ll find them in most homes, probably in the kitchen or cupboard, and they’re not terribly exciting.

But do you know who loves paper towels? This little bird. There’s nothing else in the world that makes this tiny fella skip and dance like a double roll of Bounty towels

Check him out, he can't get enough!

I would love to know a joy like that. Maybe I’ll start playing with paper towels, too. This might be the cheapest key to happiness ever.

Source…..www.viralnova.com and http://www.you tube.com

Natarajan

This IT Analyst Started a Tea Stall on Bangalore’s Footpaths. For a Very Special Reason….

It’s 5:00 pm on a Saturday evening and work is just getting started for a group of 12 to 15 young people in the BTM area of Bangalore. Standing on a pavement, dressed in white t-shirts, they look more like friends hanging out and unwinding on a weekend. There is laughter, there are interesting discussions, and there is music. But walk closer and you will see the main reason this sidewalk is bustling with energy – it’s tea!

Welcome to the ‘I Support Foundation’ tea stall, one of the most pleasantly offbeat chai shops in Bangalore.

All set and ready to roll!

All set and ready to roll!

There is a small table set up neatly with two thermos flasks, some peanuts, a few earthen pots, and a banner saying ‘I Support Foundation.’ The stall owners welcome you with smiling faces and gratefully take your order – masala or plain tea, earthen cups or paper cups, some peanut masala to go – the choice is yours.

And while you sip, cheerful music from a guitar overcomes the loud honking of cars on the road as one of the team members, Utkarsh, strums along.

Tea plus music

Tea plus music

But this small arrangement is a lot more than just a fun tea stall and a bunch of youngsters whiling away time. Every weekend, volunteers of the ISF organization gather on the sidewalk. Their aim? To spread awareness about autism among as many people as they can with the help of this tea stall.

In a congenial environment created with tea and music, they talk to their customers about autism, its meaning, its presence in India, and more if the curious want to know.

A perfect environment for conversation

A perfect environment for conversation and awareness

Ask ISF’s co-founder Juhi Ramani about her motivation behind starting something like this, and she says, “My brother, 19-year-old Shivam Ramani, lives with autism. I was eight when we found out about his condition. I come from the small city of Raebareli in UP, and at that time, there wasn’t much awareness about autism. It took us five years just to be informed that he is autistic. Then, finding a good school for him was a very big challenge. There were schools, but autistic children need special care, so we had to be very careful in finding the best place where he could study. Growing up, my elder sister and I witnessed these struggles. Hence we decided to do something for such children.”

Thus began ‘I Support Foundation’, a joint venture between 25-year-old Juhi and her sister Bobby Ramani, with the purpose of working for the education and overall development of children living with autism, as well as for underprivileged children.

In January 2014, they started a school in Lucknow where children with autism and underprivileged children could get a chance to study together. Today, the school has 45 children, and a group of special educators and caretakers. Students receive assistance in the form of free education, computer training, career counselling, and sports training, along with basic necessities like clothes and hygiene kits. The caretakers include Juhi’s mother and sister as well. All expenses of the school are taken care of by Bobby, from her own pocket.

While her sister continues to work in UP, Juhi, an IT professional, started a chapter of the Foundation in Bangalore in November 2014.

With a team of about 40 volunteers who came on board with the help of her friends, colleagues and social media, Juhi has successfully set up an organised base in the city. –

Juhi Ramani with her students

Juhi Ramani with her students These are the different activities the Foundation conducts: –

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Sessions about child sexual abuse for underprivileged children and parents of children with autism. Juhi and her team of volunteers go from school to school, talking to as many children, parents and teachers as they can, to make them aware about CSA and how to fight it.

“For underprivileged kids, we take sessions with interactive videos and explanations, and then provide them with a feedback form where they can write about any issues they might be facing and are hesitant to talk about to anyone. After this, we also have one on one sessions with those children and their guardians,” explains Juhi.

Career counselling sessions. These are also conducted in the form of sessions at different schools where children get to learn about the various career options they will have after school or college and how they can prepare for them.

“We are doing this because many children remain uninformed about the kind of options they have, and hence miss out on opportunities. For such sessions, we visit orphanages too.”

Football training for children with autism, and computer classes for all children at different low income schools, organised by the volunteers with their own laptops.

However, in order to fund these sessions and activities, the Foundation requires money.

The volunteers come for the stall every weekend

The volunteers come for the stall every weekend

Juhi and the volunteers initially pitched in from their own pockets, but in March this year, Juhi came up with a unique idea for raising funds. ISF started the sidewalk tea stalls with two purposes in mind – raising funds and creating a platform to make people aware about autism.

“Every weekend, about 10-12 of us gather at any one person’s place and prepare tea together. After that, we reach the venue, set up the stall, and get started. Plain tea is sold for Rs. 10 and masala tea for Rs. 15. And sometimes, people who come to the stall as customers, end up getting associated with us as volunteers,” says a proud Juhi.

They often set up the stall on different sidewalks in BTM itself, but sometimes shift to regions like Koramangala too to increase their reach.

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“I came across Juhi through a common friend, and before being associated with ISF, I did not know much about autism. Working here is a very different experience. It is not like a task but more of a passion. I get to do what I love and, as a by-product, my work also makes a difference in society,” says Karthik, a volunteer who comes from a sales background and looks at the financial and business aspects of the Foundation.

“Whenever I have a commitment on Saturdays and Sundays, it is mostly a commitment for ISF,” says Ajitesh, another volunteer.

“Here I have realised that it’s not just monetary help that needs to be given to society, you can also give time and that makes a lot of difference.”

A lot more than money

A lot more than money

According to Juhi, ISF earns profits between Rs. 1,100 and 1,600 daily from the tea stall. The team conducts activities and sessions during the mornings, and sets up the stalls in the evenings. To date, ISF has visited 15 schools and interacted with about 5,000 children. “The best part is that the volunteers enjoy this a lot and are excited about being here every weekend,” says Juhi.

“It is very important to spread awareness about autism. People don’t know much about it, and it is very difficult for parents and siblings like me when people look at our loved ones differently. We have to bridge the gap,” concludes Juhi.

Source………Tanaya Singh….www.thebetterindia.com

Natarajan

 

Message for the Day….” Lesson , Every Student and Spiritual Seekers Must Learn From a Farmer…”

The farmer ignores food and sleep, and focusses on ploughing, levelling, scattering seeds, watering, weeding, guarding and fostering crops. He knows that the harvest he brings home is critical for his family’s subsistence and if he fritters away the precious season in idle pursuits, his family will be confronted with hunger and ill-health. So he prioritises all his attention on farming alone and defers all other pursuits. He bears all difficulties and deprivations, and toils day and night, watches over the crops and garners the grain. As a result, he happily spends the months ahead, in peace and joy with his family. All students and spiritual seekers must learn this lesson from the farmer. Youth is the prime season for mental culture. Use these years intensively and intelligently for your progress irrespective of difficulties and overcome every obstacle. Silence the clamour of your senses, and control hunger and thirst; the urge to sleep and relax also be curbed until spiritual harvest is obtained.

Sathya Sai Baba

” The sentences you need to stop saying to your kids…”

The might come naturally, but there are some sentences you should never say to your kids. Picture: iStock

THERE is no rule book when it comes to parenting.

We say things to our kids that come naturally. And often we say things that our own parents said to us. But unfortunately research has indicated that some of these simple sayings can have negative long-term effects.

Innocent sayings like “naughty boy” or “don’t be stupid” can be bad for a child’s self esteem because it teaches them to label themselves, explains Gregg Chapman, Psychologist and Clinical Manager at Strategic Psychology. He further adds that this may lead to a child developing poor self-concept.

Now you might be thinking, ‘But my parents said this to me and I turned out fine.” But as Dympna Kennedy, founder of Creating Balance, a parenting organisation that encourages parents to connect more closely with their children, points out: research and knowledge has come a long way in recent decades.

“It’s not about looking back and thinking my parents did the wrong thing by me,” says Dympna. “It’s about looking back and saying, ‘OK, they did the best they could with what knowledge they had at that time. But I now have the advantage of research and knowledge that they didn’t have.’”

And that research and knowledge says we should stop saying these things to our children.

1. “You naughty boy/girl!”

Instead address the situation. Gregg Chapman suggests a better statement might be: “Was what you did helping or hurting? If it was hurting let’s see how we could turn that around”

2. “How many times have I told you?”

Clearly your current approach isn’t very effective. Plus, do you really expect your child to answer this question? Gregg suggests saying something like: “I’m upset that I’m not getting my message across to you. How do you think that you could make better choices that don’t hurt you and/or others?”

3. “How could you do this to me? After all I do for you!”

Gregg explains that the child is not doing things out of a sense of obligation to the parent. They are acting to meet their needs and get what they want. He suggests not focusing on oneself as parent but instead helping the child understand the impact of their actions on others.

4. “You wait until you get home!”

As a parent you want to build a close relationship with your child but, according to Gregg, threats generate fear and insecurity and certainly don’t strengthen the parent-child relationship. Gregg says a better statement might be: “We will need to discuss this at home. I’d like you to think what you could do to put this right”

5. “Don’t be Stupid.”

Once again, children will label themselves as they have been taught. And negative labels such as ‘stupid’ do not foster a happy, healthy relationship with themselves.

6. “You make mummy very happy when you eat all your dinner.”

Dympna Kennedy says it is important not to teach children to do things for external praise. This teaches them to be people pleasers, which may lead to them doing things they may not want to do during their school years just to be accepted. Dympna suggests just saying “thank you” when a child does something you want them to do, or encourage internal self praise and say “you should be proud of yourself for eating all your dinner.”

But it goes without saying, sometimes in the heat of the moment a situation might get the better of you and what you say isn’t the best choice of words. And that’s OK because it is impossible to be a perfect parent all of the time.

“It is not about being the perfect parent because children don’t learn from a parent who is perfect,” explains Dympna.

“They learn from a parent who makes mistakes because that shows your child it’s not about being perfect but it’s about reflecting and learning and trying again the next.”

So the next time you go to say one of these sayings to your child, stop, reflect and try to speak to them in a way that will encourage them to become resilient, compassionate and confident.

Source…..Nicole Thomson-Pride news.com.au

Natarajan

A Street Store Where the Poor get to ‘Choose’ What they want for Free…

We all have the luxury to go to a shop and buy the clothes we like; we have the privilege of choice. But not everyone is as lucky as we are. Organizing a street store is an endeavor to give the people who don’t have the privilege of choice, a unique shopping experience. Bhubaneswar recently hosted a Street store where you can come, pick whatever you want and leave.

The third edition of the event organized in Bhubaneswar on 1st November, 2015 saw an overwhelming number of people drop into what is known as the “world’s first rent-free, premises-free” pop-up clothing store. Started in 2014, the Street Store has previously hosted editions in 33 other cities across the world.

The concept here is that homeless and needy citizens are allowed to browse a selection of clothing and other items donated by people in the city, and pick whatever they need.

The beneficiaries were given token, which they could exchange for a product of their choice.

The beneficiaries were given a token, which they could exchange for a product of their choice.

“It is in giving that we receive the ultimate joy.”

Building upon this thought, the Social Responsibility Cell at XIMB-XUB decided to organize a street store to give a unique shopping experience to the needy and underprivileged.

To get the full value of joy you must have someone to share it with and the XIMB community donated with open hearts during the Joy of Giving week, organized in the first week of October.

A strong team of 150 members from the Social Responsibility Cell (SRC) of Xavier Institute of Management Bhubaneswar (XIMB-XUB) collected clothes from students and locals and displayed them at the street store.

From apparels to footwears, the store has many products.

From apparels to footwear, the store has many products.

The interesting store was set up in front of XIMB campus from 10 am to 2:30 pm and saw a regular footfall the entire day.

“The concept of the street store is that anyone who cannot afford much can come to the store, choose any attire that he/she likes and take it home for free. Usually the underprivileged don’t have any choice when they receive donations or charity. Here they can choose and take whatever they like,” says the XIMB SRC team.

About 500 less privileged people lined up that day to pick clothing, footwear and other donated items for themselves.

It was third time that such street store was organized in Bhubaneswar.

It was the third time that such a street store was organized in Bhubaneswar. Stalls were set up and divided into different sections where various types of apparel were displayed. People were given a token at the counter and could exchange it for the garment of their choice. In addition, there were hangers and paper bags designed using eco-friendly products by the team.

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The event also received a heart-warming response across media circles, with a call for similar initiatives to be held in other Indian cities. Through this event, people could truly experience the ‘Joy of Giving’ by bringing smiles on the faces of hundreds of underprivileged people. It is not how much we give but how much love we put into giving that matters.

– XIMB Students

Source….Shreya Pareek ….www.thebetterindia.com

Natarajan

Why Guddu Baba Spent His Entire Life Fighting for a Clean Ganga …?

From cremating unclaimed cadavers found floating in the Ganges to helping activate dysfunctional sewage treatment plants along its course, Vikas Chandra a.k.a. Guddu Baba has dedicated himself to to cleaning up the holy river. This is his awe-inspiring story.

“Millions of people revere her as Ganga Maa (Mother Ganga), we need to make her sacred again,” he stressed.

Chandra’s mission began in 1998. “A middle-aged man was bathing in the sewage-filled waters of river Ganga in Patna, when Chandra, an environmental activist, chanced upon him. “He told me that he was there to perform his wife’s last rites. But he did not have the money for a boat ride to the main stream of the river, which was cleaner,” Chandra recalled.

The incident shocked Chandra and built up his resolve to fight for a cleaner Ganga.

 “I lost my mother when I was just four. Since then, I have considered the earth as my mother and I have been a dutiful son of Ganga Maa too. I could not bear to see the river in such a filthy and unholy state and hence decided to dedicate my life to cleaning up the holy river, ” said Chandra.

His crusade for a cleaner Ganga started with the Ganga Bachao Andolan in 2000. The aim was to draw the attention of the authorities towards the appalling condition of the holy river — the sewage, the filth, the floating dead bodies on the river banks.

VIkas Chandra started his mission to save Ganga in 1998.

Vikas Chandra started his mission to save Ganga in 1998.

Photo: Facebook

He went on a 48-hour fast in Patna. Later, he organised various campaigns and rallies in order to drum up public support for his cause. His efforts were not in vain and he went on to file his first Public Interest Litigation (PIL) in the Patna High Court in July 2000, holding the State and the Centre (and other departments) responsible for the horrifying condition of the river.

His efforts took a more aggressive turn when he found hundreds of dead bodies lying on the banks of the river near the Patna Medical College and Hospital (PMCH).

“The sight was disgusting. The bodies emitted a foul smell, some had even been ravaged by dogs and other scavengers. I wrote to the state government to arrange for the respectful cremation of those dead bodies as I believe everybody deserves that much,” he said.

Vikas is also requesting the government to not leave sewage drains in the river.

Vikas is also requesting the government to not leave sewage drains in the river.

Photo: gangabachaoabhiyan.blogspot.in

PMCH denied dumping the bodies in the river and and claimed that the dead bodies were flowing from Danapur (a place that lay upstream) “However, the dead bodies showed clear marks of post mortem having been performed on them. So we continued our fight for a proper cremation for those unclaimed dead bodies,” recalls Chandra.

He clicked pictures of three bodies and organised a human chain of about 100 people who in turn, carried those photographs across the streets of Patna asking the government to cremate the dead respectfully.

His efforts paid off when the High Court finally took notice of the issue after a long fight and passed an order in March 2001 that the unclaimed bodies were the responsibility of the state government. PMCH decided to pay Rs. 300 for the cremation ceremony of each dead body and increased the amount to Rs. 1,000 in 2007.

Later, Rogi Kalyan Samiti, a state-administered organisation, also decided to provide money for the cremation of unclaimed bodies.

So far, Chandra has filed over 38 PILs in the High Court and other courts in connection with this issue. Today, he claims that there are no dead bodies found in the holy river in Patna. –

Vikas organizes rallies and awareness campaigns to save the holy river.

Chandra organizes rallies and awareness campaigns to save the holy river.

Photo: gangabachaoabhiyaan.blogspot.in

He also focused attention on the dumping of medical waste into the river. Now, an incinerator has been installed for the treatment of waste near PMCH.

That is not all. Chandra has also played a pivotal role in reviving three dysfunctional sewage treatment plants set up in 1986 under the Late Prime Minister Rajiv Gandhi’s Ganga Action plan. Today, the STPs at Beur, Saidpur and Pahari are functional again, thanks to Chandra.

“These three plants treat 105 mld sewage water every day. Since these plants are very old, their capacity has decreased over time, but it is still better than having them lying dysfunctional,” pointed out Chandra.

Today, he is not alone in his cause. There is an army of equally dedicated volunteers who work with him on a regular basis to keep the holy river clean.

He also has a team of volunteers of who support his cause rigorously.

He has a dedicated team of volunteers who support his cause whole-heartedly.

Photo: Facebook

Together, they ensure that people do not defecate near the river. These volunteers also pick up plastic and other waste from the river banks and support Chandra in all his endeavours.

The activist admits his journey has often, been a challenging one. “I have received several threats and been pressured to stop, but I am determined to make a difference and nothing can stop me from doing that,” he stressed. Chandra, in fact, has been so committed to his cause that he only got married this year in July, at the age of 52. But he continues to give his all to this mission.

He once received a prize money of Rs. 5 lakhs from a renowned media group in 2009. The entire prize amount was used to scale up his project.

Vikas performs last rites of the unclaimed dead bodies found in the river.

Vikas performs last rites of the unclaimed dead bodies found in the river.

Photo: YouTube

Chandra, who hails from Allahabad, is a double post graduate in public administration and political science. He has also worked as a priest. “I haven’t received any other help, monetary or otherwise. I put in whatever I earn as a teacher and priest. Lack of funds has never come as an impediment to my work. I am strictly against the NGO culture and do not believe in charity. This is purely voluntary work and I don’t ask for donations,” he said.

His supporters help him pay for the court fees and other basic costs attached to his mission.

Today, the Ganga is slowly but surely regaining the status of a clean river. But Chandra is not willing to rest. He still has miles to go with his mission, he added.

Source….Shreya Pareek …www.thebetterindia.com

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