Message for the Day…” Time to shed your ego and greed …”

Sathya Sai Baba

Egoism and greed are still rampant; hatred has not abated and envy eats into the vitals of society. There is no dearth of scriptural books telling you how to be free from grief. All sacred and holy books including Gita, Bhagavata and Ramayana are available in all languages at a very low cost and most books are sold in more than thousands of copies per day; but there is nothing to indicate that they have been read and assimilated. The breath of the mouth must give an inkling of the food partaken, is it not? But the habits, the conduct, the character of the readers of these books have not undergone any change for the better. Hence each of you must examine your own mental make-up and evaluate whether you have used your discrimination and worldly knowledge to clothe yourself in detachment (vairagya),so that you do not suffer from attachment to things that will fade away.

 

9 hard truths about money ….your successful friends won’t tell you….

We all have those friends who seemingly cruise through life, never stressing about money or success, and somehow always have plenty of both.

They have retirement plans, businesses and time to climb mountains or run marathons. Basically, they’re really annoying.

For others, failing to save, going deeper into debt and generally stressing about life is the norm. if you’re wondering what those successful friends of yours are thinking — but not saying — about your money habits, keep reading.

1. You need to budget.

You know the guy who you’re always hitting up for money until you get your paycheck? Well, he’s thinking that you would benefit by creating and sticking to a budget. Fortunately, making a budget is as easy as clicking a mouse.

“Find an app or system that works well for you such as Mint, You Need A Budget or just an Excel spreadsheet,” said Kate Holmes, a certified financial planner (CFP) and founder of Belmore Financial. “Import the last few months of all checking, debit and credit card transactions and see where things are at. You’ll likely be surprised by some of the category totals.”

“Ask yourself how much happiness each item brings. You may find some unnecessary spending you can easily cut out,” she said.

Here’s a strategy she recommended: 50% of your take-home pay goes for food, housing and other necessities; 30% for discretionary spending; and 20% toward paying off debt and building savings. Of course, any money-savvy friend will also tell you that making a budget is easy. Staying with it can be challenging.

2. You don’t save enough.

We all want to retire someday, right? Well, the bad news is most of us won’t be retiring in style if we only rely on Social Security benefits to live. The average Social Security recipient in 2014 got only $1,300 a month. Those golden years are starting to look tarnished already.

So what can you do? Save in your workplace retirement plan and take advantage of your employer’s matching program, said consumer finance expert Kevin Gallegos, vice president of Phoenix operations for Freedom Financial Network. He recommended saving 10 percent to 15 percent of your gross pay for retirement. If you can’t swing that, start with what’s manageable for you.

3. You have too much credit card debt.

The financially savvy see credit cards as a convenience, not a bank account from which to draw. The average credit card interest rate stands at 13%, meaning that everything you buy, from dinner out to a flat screen TV, will cost you 13% more if you don’t pay it off immediately.

That’s why a good friend would tell you to avoid using credit cards except in emergencies. “Few, if any, investments will return as much,” said Gallegos. “Having no credit card debt provides a financial cushion itself.”

So the next time you whip out that Visa to fund your latest impulse buy, add in the interest costs and reassess whether it’s really worth it.

4. You never consider the opportunity cost.

Here’s something that most people know but only the financially savvy apply: Every purchase has two costs. One is the price you pay for a product or service. The second is what you’re giving up when you make that purchase, or in other words, its opportunity cost. You bought the shoes but now you can’t afford the dress or that contribution to your IRA this month.

Billionaire investor Warren Buffett often quotes his friend and partner, self-made billionaire Charles Munger, when speaking about opportunity cost. They see their biggest business mistakes as missed opportunities that kept them from making more money. They call them “mistakes of omission.” They didn’t invest in something when they should have, or they weren’t able to because their money was tied up in another investment.

So what will those shoes cost you in the long run?

5. You give up too easily.

If you weren’t born rich, then you will have to work hard for your earnings and adopt a steadfast attitude that could translate into wealth. “Look at every successful person across a wide spectrum of industries and activities,”  said John Mulry, a GKIC certified business advisor. “All had their obstacles, demons and downfalls, but their desire to succeed and ability to overcome was greater than anything else. They were willing to stop at nothing to achieve.”

Most friends don’t want to tell you that you’re a quitter. So you might have to make the hard call, which is something only winners do. Call it the quitter’s paradox.

6. You eat out too often.

Who doesn’t love to stop at Starbucks for morning coffee, then go out to lunch with colleagues, and later grab a get-me-through-this-day Frappuccino? But do you know what you’re brown-bagging friend at the next desk is thinking? “That’s a waste of $25.” One medium Starbucks a day, five days a week, will set you back about $1,100  per year.

Take note: It costs as little as 27 cents to brew a cup of coffee yourself. If you add milk and sugar, the cost climbs to 75 cents. You still just saved more than $900 a year. How does that Starbucks taste now?

7. You don’t have a clear financial goal.

So you have a friend who runs marathons, climbs mountains and made a million before he turned 30. The first thing he’d tell you is that you need a clear goal to accomplish anything and to manage your money.

“It’s very hard to get where you’re going without knowing where you want to go,” said Gallegos. “Similarly, it’s very hard to save without setting goals. Those goals might include retirement, a vacation, a new piece of furniture, a child’s education or time to train for a marathon.”

Whatever the goal, write it down. Then budget for it. If you get stuck, call your buddy who climbed Mount Everest for advice.

8. You need an emergency fund.

Life has a bad habit of throwing curve balls in the form of emergency car repairs, unexpected medical bills, surprise household repairs and so on. Your friends might be thinking, “Does this bozo not expect anything bad to ever happen?”

Whether it’s a job layoff or worse, you want to ensure you can cover all necessary expenses for three to six months, said Holmes.

9. You spend too much on trends.

You know your friend with the iPhone 4, the Old Navy jeans and the stupid TV? She’s wagging her well-funded finger at your trending Apple Watch, $300 jeans and genius TV.

The trick is to cut down on the impulse buys and in general trust your gut. You know when you’re being indulgent. If not, invite that friend with the ancient iPhone when you go shopping.

Another great trick to curb spending, said Gallegos, is to pay with cash. Two things will immediately happen. It will be much more inconvenient and you will get a very real feel for how much you are truly spending. Gallegos cited research that found that people who pay with cash instead of credit or debit cards typically spend 15 to 20% less. That’s retirement savings money, baby.

Keep Reading: Why Dave Ramsey’s Cash-Only Policy Is Genius for Saving Money

Read the original article on GOBankingRates.Copyright 2015.

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Top Ten Positive Words and Expressions…

Positivity is perhaps the most desired of feelings. We feel unhappy because of all sorts of matters, but little do we realize that we’re missing out on something very minor, but extremely profound. It is not only important to be aware of the words we speak, but all the more the ones we don’t.  Add the following positive words to your vocabualry and you will see how they are actually the simplest words you will ever need to remember.

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A sense of community forms a large proportion of our overall cause of happiness, and how much we cherish it depends on our actions. When you’re in public, there’s no harm in smiling at people and saying a simple “Hello“, when it’s possible. By doing this, you will be prolonging your social bonds rather than neglecting them.

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No one knows what the future holds, but hope is the only thing we have that connects us to it in the most positive way possible. Once we have that, we are more trusting of whatever comes our way, and people will see your optimism shining through from the inside. This also creates good vibes with the people we meet, hence spreading more positivity. Don’t forget to use this word as a key for giving good advice.

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Remind yourself that there is  a solution to everything. Nothing is as bad as you think it is – if it diverges from your expectations, it doesn’t mean you won’t work your way through it. Using “good‘ or “great” enhances your sense of positivity, and besides, they surely sound better to people’s ears rather than a frank “but”.

10 Positive Words You Should Be Using More Every Day-

There’s nothing wrong in wondering about stuff. Having thoughts and questions popping up in your head is absolutely normal. Asking “how” means that you are interested in something, you want to learn, and you want to challenge yourself. As long as it is used for good intentions and in reasonable frequencies, this word can make you seem that you’re taking the initiative in something positively, as in for instance: “How does this work?” or “How can I help?”.

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Things can not simply be good, they can be much more than that! In this situation, we would want to express our excitement about what is turning out to be great in whatever we are doing. This is why words like “awesome” and “excellent” are vital for one’s daily vocabulary. Remember that everything can be excellent, if we rightfully decide it is so!

10 Positive Words You Should Be Using More Every Day-

Show that you can give a “yes” now and again. This doesn’t mean you should accept everything you come across, but adopting a ‘yes’ attitude towards life and its opportunities will make others realize you have a strong and reliable character. Avoid too much of ‘no’ and ‘I don’t know’ in your answers and decisions – look at the bright side and open your mind to other options – there’s always room for a ‘yes’.

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Where has your enthusiasm gone? Have you forgotten how to be awed at something? Idealism is a nasty tendency that blocks the possibility for a meaningful “wow“. Don’t keep looking into how much better something can be, appreciate that it’s already amazing enough and that what is yet to come is something thrilling! Look for the opportunities that make you say ‘wow’ – you’ll realize how many of them we come across every day but never notice.

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We sometimes forget to say the most profound word of all. Let people know how important they are to you by saying the special three-word sentence – “I love you“. Very often, we know it deep down but we fail to say it out loud. Love is something that grows, but also something that can be lost terribly quickly. So before you regret it, spread the incredible feeling within you with your friends, family, and partner in life, not only in words, but also in actions.

10 Positive Words You Should Be Using More Every Day-

Appreciation and gratitude are the greatest gifts of fulfillment you could ever give to anyone. Nothing beats a kind feedback like areward and letting someone know they have done something special. When you use “thanks“, people will feel more significant and respected when around you. Maybe you might realize there are some people in your life to whom you owe a big thank you. Let them know this now before it’s too late, and make sure you put a smile on their faces. You will feel lighter and happier yourself upon doing it.

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Finally, don’t forget “me“. Remember: it’s ok to think of yourself a little more often. Think of how you are feeling and what makes you feel better. When we reflect with ourselves, we like to look at our flaws. Rather than doing this, create the opportunity to feel good about yourself, observe your improvements and know what your skills and talents are. No one will ever know them better than you do. Apart from this, never forget that in order to make other people happy, you need to find happiness within yourself.

Radiate your happiness now, by sharing these positive thoughts with your dear ones.

Source….www.ba-bamail.com

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Joke of the Day…” Porsche Car for $15…” !!!

A fifteen-year-old came home with a Porsche and his parents began to yell and scream, “Where did you get that car?”
He calmly told them, “I bought it today.”
“With what money!?” demanded his parents. “We know what a Porsche costs.”
“Well,” said the boy, “this one cost me fifteen dollars.”
The parents began to yell even louder. “Who would sell a car like that for fifteen dollars!?” they asked.
“It was the lady up the street,” said the boy. “Don’t know her name — they just moved in. She saw me ride past on my bike and asked me if I wanted to buy a Porsche for fifteen dollars.”
“Oh my goodness!” moaned the mother, “she must be a child abuser. Who knows what she will do next? John, you go right up there and see what’s going on.”
So the boy’s father walked up the street to the house where the lady lived and found her out in the yard calmly planting flowers. He introduced himself as the father of the boy to whom she has sold a Porsche for fifteen dollars and demanded to know why she did it.
“Well,” she said, “this morning I got a phone call from my husband. I thought he was on a business trip, but I learned from a friend he has run off to Hawaii with his secretary. Then apparently she stole all his money and stranded him there! Well he called me, without a dollar to his name, and asked me to sell his new Porsche and send him the money. So that’s exactly what I did.”
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Message for the Day…” Light the Lamp of Spiritual Wisdom to understand the Reality of Life…”

Sathya Sai Baba

One cannot escape from disquiet as long as the fundamental ignorance persists; mere change of occupation, prompted by the desire for more comfort or the need for satisfying some passing likes will not give lasting satisfaction. It is like hoping to improve matters in a dark room by a mere readjustment of furniture. Instead if a lamp is lit, passage across the room is rendered easier even without readjusting furniture. There is no need to interfere with the furniture at all. So too, in this world, it is difficult to move about truthfully, correctly, and peacefully without knocking against some obstacle or other. How then are you to succeed? Light the lamp of spiritual wisdom (jnana)! Let it reveal the reality! That will solve all the difficulties. You may claim that you live according to dharma, but have you evaluated if your acts are done in a spirit of dedication to the Divine? If so, they will authentically be stamped as‘dharmic’.

” Message in this video clip is Lot deeper…”

A Pup’s Love: Watch The Touching Loyalty of this Dog

There is a reason why dogs are labelled man’s best friend. They provide us with companionship, protection and are loyal to the people that love them until the very end. This video reflects just that. This dog’s best friend was his owner, he would follow and eagerly wait for him anywhere he went, even when the ambulance showed up, his dog never left his side – but, the message in this video is a lot deeper. Take a moment to watch this touching clip. How did you respond to the message at the end

 

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A Lovely Little Ancedote About Gandhiji….

Gandhi …   A lovely little anecdote about one of life’s more interesting characters …cid:3BB2EBB9039A47DBA24F3A901B99E3F5@homeca5fe1f73f

When Mahatma Gandhi was studying law at the University College of London, a professor by the name of Peters disliked him intensely and always displayed animosity towards him.  And because Gandhi never lowered his head when addressing him, as he expected, there were always “arguments” and confrontations.

One day Mr Peters was having lunch at the University dining room when Gandhi came along with his tray and sat next to him. The professor said,”Mr Gandhi, you do not understand. A pig and a bird do not sit together to eat.” Gandhi looked at him as a parent would a rude child and calmly replied, “You do not worry, professor. I’ll fly away,” and he went and sat at another table.


Peters, red with rage, decided to take revenge on the next test paper, but Gandhi responded brilliantly to all questions.  
Unhappy and frustrated, Mr Peters asked him the following question:  “Mr Gandhi, if you were walking down the street and found a package, and within it was a bag of wisdom and another bag with a lot of money, which one would you take?”  
Without hesitating, Gandhi responded, “The one with the money, of course.”  Mr Peters, smiling sarcastically, said, “I, in your place, would have taken the wisdom.”  Gandhi shrugged indifferently and responded, “Each one takes what he doesn’t have.”


Mr Peters, by this time, was fit to be tied. So great was his anger that he wrote on Gandhi’s exam sheet the word “idiot” and handed it back to him.  Gandhi took the exam sheet and sat down at his desk, trying hard to remain calm while he contemplated his next move.  A few minutes later, Gandhi got up, went to the professor and said to him in a dignified but sarcastically polite tone, “Mr Peters, you autographed the sheet, but you did not give me the grade.”

Source…..input from a friend of mine

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” Thank You God…”

Today, I want to take a moment to say ‘Thanks Be to God’. Today, I want Him to know how grateful I am, for all that I have encountered in my life: the people that have given it more meaning, the opportunities that I have learned much from, the challenges that I have had to overcome, and for each new day that I awake, and am given the opportunity to live my life once again. Thank You God!

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Message for the Day…” Practice Concentration and it will stand you in good Stead…’

Sathya Sai BabaWhen people complain that they cannot concentrate, I laugh, for even the driver of a car is a master of the art of concentration. The taxi driver does not pay heed to the chatter from the seat behind or to the radio. He is watching the road ahead with single-pointed attention. If you have earnestness and faith (shraddha), more than half the battle is won. That is why, Krishna asks Arjuna, “Have you listened to what I have said with one-pointed attention?” Arjuna, even in the midst of the opposing armies in the battle-field, affirmed he listened to the words of the Lord with keen concentration. Practice concentration and it will stand you in good stead. Also, do not mistake the technique for the goal; do not lose your way in the tangle of scholarship. Scholarship and learning are only the means for the mastery of the Mind, to turn it from the Creation to the Creator.

 

This Flower Garden … A Paradise on the Land …!!!

This beautiful flower garden, found in the Al Ain Paradise garden in the United Arab Emirates, is one of the most beautiful and colorful gardens in the world. Every year, thousand come visit this aromatic and colorful place.

Watch a video tour of this incredible garden

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