A Pilot”s Story…Flying High , @ Home and @ Work…

(Credit: Justin Jinn/Panos)

Credit: Justin Jinn/Panos)

Priti Kohal’s love of flying began when she was a 16-year-old living in Mumbai. But her passion for planes started sitting in the driving seat on the open road, not wide-open skies.

As a teenager, Kohal, now age 45, would take her parents’ car, unbeknownst to them, for joy rides around town. She loved being in control of the vehicle and the freedom that came with it.

“I just loved the thought of getting away,” she said.

When Kohal turned 18 and officially received her driver’s license, her passion for driving intensified. “It was great to be able to do things on my own without having anyone ferry me around,” she said. “After the car I moved on to faster modes of transportation.”

Kohal earned her pilot’s license in 1994 and since 1996 has been a pilot with India’s Jet Airways — she’s one of 600 female pilots in India — and she’s been a captain since 2009.

There are only 4,000 female pilots worldwide, versus 130,000 male pilots, according to the International Society of Women Airline Pilots. Kohal’s doctor mother and engineer father taught her and her sister that they weren’t any different from men and could do anything they wanted as long as they had fun doing it.

This family support has helped her excel, but many women entering traditionally male-dominated professions in India encounter more obstacles. Kohal says she hasn’t run into sexism, but other females in the airline industry have and continue to face hurdles simply because of their gender. In 2009, Air India fired ten female flight attendants for being overweight. GoAir, a budget airline in India, said in 2013 that it only wanted to hire small, young females to be flight attendants in order to save money on fuel by keeping the weight of the plane down. And there are stories in the media and social media of notes being left on flights, or complaints being made, by passengers upset that they’ve flown with a female pilot.

However, Kohal never thought twice about being in the airline business. “I never considered being a pilot different from being an engineer or a teacher,” she said. “There were no limits for what we could do.”

Short flights, long days

When her children were younger, Kohal only flew one- or two-hour flights. She woke at 03:30, fed her baby, put him back to sleep and then headed off to the airport by 04:00. She’d work her flight and usually be home by 10:30, having the remainder of the day to spend with her children. By sticking with this system and meticulous planning, Kohal said she has never missed an important milestone or a school meeting for her children, now ages 14 and 11.

When her children were young, Kohal flew early morning. (Credit: Courtesy of Priti Kohal)

When her children were young, Kohal flew early in the morning and was home by 10:30. (Credit: Courtesy of Priti Kohal)

Contrary to how it might appear, being a pilot is a “very good career” for managing home and work life, Kohal believes, but it takes strategic planning. She decided to choose her flights so that she could spend time at home with her children. As long as someone doesn’t mind getting up in the wee hours of the morning, they can be home for long stretches of the day, she said.

As Kohal’s children have gotten older, her schedule has changed a bit, too. She’ll now captain long-haul flights, but tries to be away from home no more than four nights each month. The sacrifice: Kohal doesn’t get to see her husband, who is also a pilot and captains Boeing 777 planes for Air India, as often as she used to. He’s typically away for four days at a time, and then he’s off for six days. When he’s home, she spends her evenings with him — “all six nights are booked for my husband,” she said — but when he’s away, she can do as she pleases.

“It’s freedom for me,” when he’s in the air, she said, with a laugh. “I can do what I want for those 16 hours and he can’t reach me.”

When both are away, Kohal’s parents, who are retired, look after the children. Indian families tend to have strong support systems, she said. When grandkids are young, grandparents are happy to help, but when they are older there’s an expectation that children, in turn, will help their ageing parents.

Having that (wider family) support is important because it eases up an entire part of your life that you would have to constantly monitor,” she said.

Priti Kohal balances her schedule with her husband's. (Credit: Courtesy of Priti Kohal)

Priti Kohal balances her flight schedule with that of her husband, who is also a pilot. He travels more than she does. (Credit: Courtesy of Priti Kohal)

A disciplined approach

These days, Kohal’s typical routine goes something like this: She wakes up at 05:30 and gets ready for work, arriving at 09:00 where she receives her flying assignment. She typically flies for a few hours a day — unless she’s taking an overnight flight. That means she can be home by 14:30. After an hour nap, Kohal is wide-awake to greet her kids when they get home from school.

The family has dinner by 20:30 and bedtime for the children is at 21:30, without exception.

“One aspect of being a pilot is that rules can’t be broken,” Kohal said. “You can’t mess up when you have to be stabilised at 1,000 feet. So I have some hard rules at home. They have it tougher than I did when I was younger.”

She’s usually in bed by midnight, but when her husband is away and she doesn’t have to fly the next day, Kohal will stay up reading until 02:30. “That’s my time,” she said.

Hard work pays off

Kohal attributes her success to one thing: hard work. For instance, only 0.1% of people pass the pilot’s entrance exam — and it’s given only twice a year. She was the only one to pass in her class.

Kohal has accomplished nearly everything she’s set out to do, but looking at her situation, she doesn’t think that she’s done anything extraordinary. Many educated women in India have successful careers, she added.

“Anything you set your mind to do, you just do it,” she said. “Tomorrow it will be something else.”

Source….Bryan Borzykowski in www. bbc.com

Natarajan

” Survival of the Fittest…” … !!!

3 Lessons I learnt Working Corporate

Those who have worked in the corporate world know that it is a kind of jungle, where only some survive. Over the years, a few lessons have been made clear to those who work in the world of big corporations. These 3 lessons are the most valuable of the lot, and I feel that I have to share them with you. Warning, some rude language ahead!

3 Lessons I learned Working Corporate

3 Lessons I learned Working Corporate\

3 Lessons I learned Working Corporate

 

3 Lessons I learned Working Corporate

3 Lessons I learned Working Corporate

 

3 Lessons I learned Working Corporate

3 Lessons I learned Working Corporate

 

Source…www.ba-bamail.com

Natarajan

 

 

” How to Beat Stress and Come out of that sinking feeling….”

Don’t let all those things happening at your workplace get you down. Read on to find out how you can beat stress.

It’s Monday morning and the start of a new week. You get up from the bed with a sinking feeling.

The new boss shouts at you before others, he is never content with the work you do, and quick to pounce on you at the tiniest error.

But this job means a lot to you. You have a housing mortgage on your shoulders.

You are in your mid 40s and it would be extremely difficult to find another job.

Stress spirals into depression

The physical symptoms of stress shows on you: the stomach tightens into a knot, the heart races in panic, breathing becomes shallow and your palms go damp.

The food is tasteless and you worry even in sleep.

There is an emotional quotient too.

A stressed employee suffers from a hurt morale, bruised ego, fears and insecurity.

Instead of job satisfaction there is job revulsion.

If not checked, it could spiral into a depression or a nervous breakdown.

Here’s how to manage your stress:

Don’t make it worse:

Your stress is not going to go away by smoking all the day.

It makes you fall prey to self-pity and seek solace from cigarettes and alcohol.

Don’t crib about your boss to colleagues:

If you are stressed it is better not to spill out the angst to others in the team by painting oneself as a victim or the boss as a devil.

You could lose a lot in the long term including your job.

Identify the sources of stress:

Once you know the cause behind it you need to address it.

Determine how you are going to deal with it and whether it’s something that can be fixed or managed.

Being aware of your own stress level is a worthwhile objective.

Instead of being reactive to situations, try to observe your mind and the emotions as stress in the environment meets you.

Don’t be afraid to talk to your boss or top management about your stress source.

See the big picture:

Experts say that one experiences stress when s/he feels that the situation is out of control.

That vulnerability activates the stress hormone and wears down your confidence and concentration. The first step is to identify the stress factors.

Take breaks:

In today’s fast-paced work environment many people spend their entire day at their desk, even working through lunch.

This may cause heightened stress levels besides strain for the eyes!

Experts advise you to take short breaks, stretch arms while seated in the chair, let eyes wander to the furthest end of the room for respite from staring a computer monitor for hours, have coffee or tea at the pantry or even listen to favourite songs over the headphone.

Short breaks help you in calming your nerves.

Relax at home.

Your lifestyle outside the office plays a big part.

Experts say getting enough sleep, supportive friends and family can help maintain a more stable state of mind.

There are stress relievers like exercise, yoga and music.

Take up a hobby and you’ll find the office blues lose their potency to torment you.

Photograph (used for representational purposes only): Dadang Tri/Reuters

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Natarajan

Message For the Day…” Correct Your Defective Vision and You will experience God in all things…”

Sathya Sai Baba

Love is Divine. You must love all. More so, impart your love even to those who lack love. Love is like mariner’s compass. Wherever you may keep it, it should always point towards God. In every action in your daily life manifest selfless love. Divinity will emerge from that love. This is the easiest path to God realization. But why are people not taking to it? This is because they are obsessed with misconception relating to the means of experiencing God. They regard God as some remote entity attainable only by arduous spiritual practices. God is everywhere. There is no need to search for God. All that you see is a manifestation of the Divine. All the human beings you see are forms of the Divine. Correct your defective vision and you will experience God in all things. The power of love is immeasurable. Hence, develop and practice the sense of the spiritual oneness of all beings.

 

” கலாம் கட் …” …

கலாம் கடைசியாக தைக்க கொடுத்த ஆடைகள்: ஞாபகார்த்தமாக வைத்திருக்க டெய்லர் முடிவு

அப்துல்கலாம் இறுதியாக தைக்கக் கொடுத்த கோட்டுடன், டெய்லர் அமன் ஜெயின் சகோதரர் ஆசிஷ் ஜெயின், படம்: சிவகுமார் புஷ்பாகர்

அப்துல்கலாம் இறுதியாக தைக்கக் கொடுத்த கோட்டுடன், டெய்லர் அமன் ஜெயின் சகோதரர் ஆசிஷ் ஜெயின், படம்: சிவகுமார் புஷ்பாகர்

மறைந்த முன்னாள் குடியரசுத் தலைவர் அப்துல்கலாம், இறப்பதற்கு முன்பாக இரு புதிய ஆடைகளை வடிவமைத்துக் கொடுக்கும்படி, தனக்கு வழக்கமாக ஆடைகள் தைக்கும் டெய்லரிடம் கூறியுள்ளார். ஆடைகள் தயாராகிவிட்ட நிலையில், கலாம் இறந்துவிட்டதால் அவரின் நினைவாக அந்த ஆடைகளை தானே பத்திரமாக பராமரிக் கப்போவதாக அந்த டெய்லர் தெரிவித்துள்ளார்.

டெல்லி ஆரிய சமாஜ் சாலையில் ‘ஃபேர் டீல் ஷாப்’ எனும் பெயரில் தையலகம் நடத்தி வருபவர் அமர் ஜெயின். இவர் கடந்த 20 ஆண்டுகளாக அப்துல் கலாமுக்கு ஆடைகள் தைத்துக் கொடுத்து வந்துள்ளார்.

இவரிடம் ரம்ஜான் பண்டிகைக்கு முன்பாக சென்ற கலாம், இரண்டு கோட்- சூட் ஆடைகளை தைத்துக் கொடுக்கும்படி கூறியுள்ளார். வெள்ளிக்கிழமை பெற்றுக் கொள்வதாகவும் தெரிவித்திருக்கிறார். தைக்கப்பட்ட ஆடைகளை கலாம் டெல்லியில் வசித்த 10, ராஜாஜி மார்க்கில் உள்ள அரசு இல்லத்தில் கொடுப்பது டெய்லர் அமனின் வழக்கம்.

ஆடைகள் தயாராகிவிட்ட நிலையில், கலாம் அமரராகி விட்டார். இதையடுத்து அந்த ஆடைகளை, அப்துல் கலாமின் நினைவாக போற்றிப் பாதுகாக்க அமன் திட்டமிட்டுள்ளார்.

இது தொடர்பாக அமன், ‘தி இந்து’ விடம் கூறியதாவது: சுமார் 20 ஆண்டுகளுக்கு முன்பு என்னிடம் அவர் முதன்முறையாக வந்தபோது, டிஆர்டிஓ-வில் பணி யாற்றி வந்தார். மிகவும் வெளிறிய நிறங்களே அவருக்குப் பிடிக்கும்.

மேல் சட்டையில் தங்க நிற பொத்தான்களும், அதற்கு மேல் அணியும் கோட்டில் வெள்ளி நிற பொத்தான்களும் எப்போதும் இருக்கும். ஆண்டுக்கு, இரண்டு முறை மட்டுமே புதிய உடைகள் அணிவார். உடைகள் சீக்கிரம் கிழியாமல் இருக்க சில சமயம் அதிகமான தையல்கள் போடக் கூறுவார்.

அவர் குடியரசுத் தலைவராக தேர்ந்தெடுக்கப்பட்ட பின்பும் என்னிடமே ‘பந்த் கலா (கழுத்தை மூடியபடி இருப்பது)’ வகை சூட் வடிவமைக்க கொடுத்திருந்தார். அப்போது, அது கழுத்தை இறுக்கியபடி இருந்த அந்த உடை அவருக்கு வசதியாக இல்லை போலும். இதனால், அடுத்த முறை கழுத்துக்கு அருகே சற்று இடைவெளி விட்டே தைக்கும்படி கூறினார்.

காரணம் கேட்டபோது அவர், ‘இப்படி ஒரு குடியரசு தலைவரின் குரல்வளையை நசுக்கினால் இந்த நாட்டின் முன் அவர் எப்படி பேசுவார்? மக்களிடம் தனது கருத்தை எப்படி சொல்வார்?’ என சிரித்தபடி பதில் அளித்தார். அதன் பிறகு பந்த் கலா சூட்டின் கழுத்தில் பொத்தான் இன்றி விடப்படும் இடைவெளிக்கு ‘கலாம் கட்’ எனப் பெயர் வந்தது. இவ்வாறு அவர் தெரிவித்தார்.

Source…www.tamil.the hindu.com

Natarajan

 

” அசையாத சிவனும் அசைவது அம்பாளால் …

அசையாத சிவனும் அம்பாளால்தான் அசைந்து காரியத்தில் ஈடுபடுகிறார் என்று வருவதை சயன்ஸ்படி கொஞ்சம் விளக்கிப் பார்த்தால், ‘மாட்டர்’ என்று பதார்த்தத்தைச் சொல்கிறார்கள். அதன் சுபாவம் ‘இனர்ஷியா’ என்கிறார்கள் அதாவது சலனமில்லாமல் போட்டது போட்டபடிக் கிடப்பதுதான் என்கிறார்கள். அதனால் ‘இனர்ட் மாட்டர்’ என்றே சேர்த்துச் சொல்வதாக இருக்கிறது.

ஆனாலும் அப்படிப்பட்ட `இனர்ட் மாட்டர்` பல தினுசில் சலனப்பட்டு, பல தினுசில் ஒன்று சேர்ந்துதான் பிரபஞ்சம் உண்டாயிருக்கிறதென்று நன்றாகத் தெரிகிறது. அப்படியானால் ஏதோ ஒரு பவர், சக்திதானே சலனமில்லாத `மாட்டரை` சலனிக்கும்படியாகப் பண்ணியிருப்பதாக ஆகிறது? அந்தச் சலனமில்லாத `மாட்டரை` தான் சிவன் என்றும் அதைச் சலனிக்க வைக்கும் சக்தியைப் பாரசக்தி, அம்பாள் என்றும் சொல்லியிருக்கிறது.

நிச்சலனமான சிவனும், கிரக நட்சத்திரங்களில் ஆரம்பித்து அணுவுக்குள் உள்ள பரமாணுவரை எல்லாம் சதா சலனித்துக்கொண்டே இருப்பதற்குக் காரணமான சக்தியும் பிரிக்க முடியாமல் ஒன்று சேர்ந்திருக்கிறார்கள் என்பதை அவர் ‘மாட்டர்’, அவள் ‘எனெர்ஜி’ என்று சயன்ஸ் அடிப்படையில் விளக்கிச் சொல்லலாம். இணைபிரியாத இரண்டு பேர் என்றாலும் அவர்கள் அடிப்படையில் இரண்டுகூட இல்லை, ஒன்றேதான் என்பதையும் அடாமிக் சயன்சில் ‘மாட்ட’ரே ‘எனர்ஜி’யாவதாகச் சொல்லியிருப்பதைக் காட்டி உறுதிப்படுத்தலாம்.

ஆனால் ஒரு வித்தியாசம், பெரிய வித்தியாசம். என்னவென்றால், அங்கே ஒரு மாட்டரை எனர்ஜி ரூபமாக்கிய அப்புறம் மாட்டர் இல்லாமல் போய்விடும். இங்கேயோ சிவனும் சக்தியும் எப்போதுமே சாச்வத சத்யமாக இருக்கிறார்கள். சக்தியோக எனெர்ஜி வெளிப்பட்டுக்கொண்டே இருக்கும்போதும் சிவ `மாட்டர்` அழியாமலே இருந்துகொண்டிருக்கிறது.

ஆனால் ஒரு வித்தியாசம், பெரிய வித்தியாசம். என்னவென்றால், அங்கே ஒரு மாட்டரை எனர்ஜி ரூபமாக்கிய அப்புறம் மாட்டர் இல்லாமல் போய்விடும். இங்கேயோ சிவனும் சக்தியும் எப்போதுமே சாச்வத சத்யமாக இருக்கிறார்கள். சக்தியோக எனெர்ஜி வெளிப்பட்டுக்கொண்டே இருக்கும்போதும் சிவ `மாட்டர்` அழியாமலே இருந்துகொண்டிருக்கிறது.

ஏனென்றால் இங்கே ‘மாட்டர்’ என்பதே ஜடமாக இல்லாமல் உயிரான ‘ஸ்பிரிட்’டாக இருக்கிறது. அழியாத, அழிக்க முடியாத ஆத்ம தத்துவமாக இருக்கிறது. சைதன்ய பூர்ணமாக இருக்கிறது. ஜடத்திலேயே ஆரம்பித்து ஜடத்திலேயே முடிந்துவிடும் சயன்ஸ்படியான மாட்டருங்கூட இந்த சைதன்யத்திலிருந்து வந்ததுதான். இப்போது மெள்ள மெள்ள ஐன்ஸ்டீன், சர் ஆலிவர் லாட்ஜ், எடிங்டன் போன்ற பெரிய சயன்ஸ் மேதைகள் அந்த சைதன்ய ஆதாரத்தின் பக்கமாக சயன்சைத் திருப்பி விட்டிருக்கிறார்கள்.

ஆனாலும் அதை லாபரடரியில் எக்ஸ்பெரிமென்ட் பண்ணி நிரூபிக்கவோ, அநுபவிக்கவோ முடியாது. மதாநுஷ்டானத்தினால்தான் அதன் நிரூபணமும், ப்ரத்யக்ஷ அநுபவமும் கிடைக்கும். சயன்சுக்கும் மதத்துக்கும் மாறுபாடுகள் இருந்தாலும் ஒப்புவமை காட்டும்படியும் அநேகம் இருக்கின்றன. ஐன்ஸ்டீனின் ரிலேடிவிடி தியரியிலிருந்து நடந்துள்ள அணு ஆராய்ச்சிக் கண்டுபிடிப்புகள் மத சாஸ்திரங்கள், குறிப்பாக அத்வைத வேதாந்தமும் சாக்த நூல்களும் சொல்வதற்குக் கிட்ட வந்துகொண்டிருக்கின்றன.

லோகத்தில் ‘டைம்’, ‘ஸ்பேஸ்’ என்பவை உள்பட எதுவுமே தன்னுடைய ஆதாரத்திலேயே சத்தியமாக இருப்பதல்ல, ‘ரிலேடிவா’க இன்னொன்றைச் சார்ந்தே எல்லாமும் ஒரு ஓட்டத்தில் ஓடுகிறபோது அந்த ஓட்டத்தின் தொடர்ச்சியாலேயே அததுவும் சத்தியம் மாதிரி நடைமுறைக்கு இருக்கிறது என்பதுதான் நான் புரிந்துகொண்ட மட்டும் ‘ரிலேடிவிடி தியரி’.

பிரம்மம்தான் ஒன்றேயான ஆதார சத்தியம். அதைச் சார்ந்திருப்பதாலேயே சத்தியம் மாதிரித் தோற்றம் அளிக்கும்படியாக மாயை கல்பித்துக் காட்டுகிறதுதான் இந்த லோகம் பூராவும் என்று அத்வைதம் சொல்கிறது. அந்த மாயையாகவே அம்பாளை சாக்த சாஸ்திரங்களும் குறிப்பிடுவதாகச் சொன்னேன். மாயா தத்துவம்தான் ‘ரிலேடிவிடி’ என்று கொள்வதற்கு நிறைய இடமிருக்கிறதல்லவா? இந்த ரிலேடிவிடிக்கு ஆதாரமான ‘அப்சொல்யூட்’ என்னவென்று சயன்ஸ் கண்டுபிடிக்கவில்லை.

மத நூல்களும் தத்துவ சாஸ்திரங்களும் அதைத்தான் பிரம்மம், சிவன் என்கின்றன. மதம் ‘ரிலிஜன்’, தத்துவ சாஸ்திரம் ‘ஃபிலாஸஃபி’ என்று ஒரு பாகுபாடு சொல்லப்பட்டாலும் நம்முடைய மதத்தில் இந்த இரண்டும் பிரிக்க முடியாமல் சிவ-சக்திகள் மாதிரி ஒன்று சேர்ந்துதான் இருக்கின்றன. புத்தகத்தில் சொன்னது மட்டுமில்லை, அந்த அப்சொல்யூட்டை மகான்கள் ஆத்ம ஸ்வரூபமாக அநுபவித்தும் இருக்கிறார்கள். அதுதான் உயிருக்கெல்லாம் உயிராக இருக்கும் ஒரே உண்மையான உயிர்.

அதாவது ஒன்று மத்தியிலிருப்பது, மற்றது சுற்றியிருப்பது என்பதற்குப் பதில் இரண்டும் பேர் பாதி என்று சொல்லியிருக்கிறது. அதுதான் அர்த்தநாரீச்வர ஸ்வரூபம் – வலது பக்கம் பாசிடிவ் ஸ்வாமி, இடது பக்கம் நெகடிவ் அம்பாள். இப்படிச் சொல்வதிலும் புஷ்டியான காரணம் தெரிகிறது. என்னவென்றால், இடது பக்கம்தானே இருதயம் இருக்கிறது?

தேகம் பூராவுக்குமே அதுதான் சக்தி தருகிறது. ஒரு தேகத்தில் இடது பக்கத்தை விடவும் வலது பக்கம்தான் ஜாஸ்தி பலத்தோடு, ‘பவ’ரோடு காரியத்துக்கு உதவுவதாக இருக்கிறது. வாகாக வேலை செய்ய வலது பக்கம்தான் உகந்ததாக இருக்கிறது. வலது கையால் செய்ய முடிகிற மாதிரி இடதால் முடியாது.

வலது பக்க வியாபாரத்தை மூளையின் இடது பக்கம் கன்ட்ரோல் பண்ணுகிறது என்றும், இடது பக்க வியாபாரத்தை மூளையின் வலது பக்கம் கன்ட்ரோல் பண்ணுகிறது என்றும் தெரிகிறது. அதாவது ஜாஸ்தி சக்திகரமாகக் காரியம் பண்ணும் நம்முடைய சரீரத்தின் சிவ சைடுக்கு அப்படி சக்தி கொடுத்து கன்ட்ரோல் பண்ணுவது மூளையின் சக்தி சைடே என்றாகிறது.

Source…www.tamil.thehindu.com
Natarajan

Joke of the Day…” Jesus is watching You… Be Careful…” !!!

A burglar broke into a house one night. He shined his flashlight around, looking for valuables, and when he picked up a jewelry box to place in his sack, a strange, disembodied voice echoed from the dark saying, “Jesus is watching you.”

He nearly jumped out of his skin, clicked his flashlight off, and froze. When he heard nothing more after a bit, he shook his head, then clicked the light on and began searching for more valuables. After just a few seconds, clear as a bell, he heard “Jesus is watching you.”

Freaked out, he shined his light around frantically, looking for the source of the voice. Finally, in the corner of the room, his flashlight beam came to rest on a parrot.

“Did you say that?” He hissed at the parrot.

“Yep,” the parrot confessed, then squawked, “I’m just trying to warn you.”

The burglar relaxed. “Warn me, huh? Who in the world are you?”

“Moses,” replied the bird.

“Moses?” The burglar laughed. “What kind of people would name a bird Moses?”

Suddenly, he felt a giant shadow materializing behind him.

“The kind of people that would name a Rottweiler Jesus.”

Source….www.ba-bamail.com

Natarajan

“All Human Beings Carry Divinity Inside Themselves….” Says A P J Abdul Kalam …

‘This can lift us out of confusion, misery, melancholy and failure, and indeed guide us when it is contacted.’

‘For us to ignite our spirituality, we need to look inward and transcend our egos. We need to recognize, connect with and integrate the eternal spirit within,’ says A P J Abdul Kalam in his latest book, Transcendence.

President A P J Abdul Kalam, right, with Pramukh Swami Maharaj.

I have vivid memories of my childhood in Rameswaram, but one memory particularly stands out, and comes to mind occasionally. As a ten-year-old boy, I recall seeing three contrasting personalities meet from time to time in our home: Pakshi Lakshmana Shastrigal, the Vedic scholar and head priest of the famous Rameswaram temple; Rev Father Bodal, who built the first church on Rameswaram Island; and my father, who was an imam in the mosque. These three would sit in our courtyard, each with a cup of tea; and they would discuss and find solutions to the various problems facing our community.

Reflecting on this, I can see that my father and his religious counterparts in Rameswaram were expressing a long-standing cultural trait. India has shown a healthy propensity for integrating diverse ideas and reaching a consensus, for thousands of years. And I cannot help but feel that the example of those inter-religious meetings at my family home is most worthy of emulation. Because now, throughout the nation and the world, the need for such frank and genial dialogue among cultures, religions and civilizations is more urgent than ever.

Starting with my father, Jainulabdeen, I have been blessed with some great teachers, who appeared at different stages of my life. My father taught me to view one’s role in life as that of an instrument or vessel, through which one takes with one hand and gives with the other. “There is only one light, and you and I are holes in the lampshade,” he would say.

My father lived a simple life as it unfolded before him but never lost sight of the underlying divinity. Throughout my life, I have tried to emulate my father in this regard. My experiences of eight decades have validated the teaching I received from him.

I do believe that all human beings carry divinity inside themselves, and that this can lift us out of confusion, misery, melancholy and failure, and indeed guide us when it is contacted.

As a young engineer, I worked with Dr Brahma Prakash. He taught me how tolerance of others’ views and opinions is essential in building teams and accomplishing tasks that are beyond the individuals’ capacities.

He taught me that life is a precious gift, but it comes with responsibility. With this gift, we are expected to use our talents to make the world a better place, to live an ethical and well-balanced life, and to prepare for the spiritual life, which is eternal.

Dr Brahma Prakash changed the way I saw the world. He once told me, “Kalam, if you see this world as mean and rude, it will interfere with your concentration. Negative thinking is similar to carrying twenty bags of luggage on a trip. This baggage will make your trip miserable, and progress will be slow.”

As a project director, I worked with Professor Satish Dhawan, who taught me that a good leader takes the responsibility for the failures of his team, but gives the credit of his success to his colleagues.

His academic accomplishments were awesome. He had a Bachelor of Arts in mathematics and a Bachelor of Science in physics, followed by a Master of Arts in mathematics. These were augmented with a Bachelor of Engineering in mechanical engineering, a Master of Science in aerospace engineering.

When I asked him the secret of his brilliance, he told me: “Academic brilliance is no different than the brilliance of a mirror. Once dust is removed, the mirror shines and the reflection is clear. We can remove impurities by living pure and ethical lives and serving humanity, and God will shine through us.”

Later, I met Jain muni Acharya Mahapragya, who made me realize the affirmation of a divine life upon earth and an immortal sense in mortal existence. He taught me that our consciousness is the birthplace of our ethics. He said, “We know something is right when our consciences are clear. Our consciences are our true friends.”

Together we wrote Family and Nation and articulated two steps to the process of listening to our conscience — to become self-aware so that we can connect to our conscience, and to act on what our conscience says.

A P J Abdul Kalam with Pramukh Swami Maharaj.

I met Pramukh Swamiji, my ultimate teacher, unwittingly. Fate and my curiosity had drawn me to him. Earlier, as principal scientific advisor to the Government of India, I had visited Bhuj to review the rehabilitation work in the aftermath of the earthquake.

There, on 15 March 2001, I met Sadhu Brahmaviharidas, a disciple of Pramukh Swamiji. He asked me a startling question which elicited a spiritual response. He asked: “After the detonation of the first atomic bomb, Robert Oppenheimer remembered the Gita: ‘Time I am the shatterer of the world.’ What came to your mind after you detonated India’s first atomic bomb?”

I was puzzled by this question, and said, “The energy of God does not shatter, it unifies,” to which he replied, “Our spiritual leader, Pramukh Swami Maharaj, is a great unifier. He has unified all our energies to regenerate and restore life from the rubble of damage.”

I was moved and expressed my desire to meet such a swami. What began as a chance introduction became a divine destiny.

Over several years and multiple meetings with Pramukh Swamiji, I realized that a divine life can have no base unless we recognize the eternal spirit as the inhabitant of this bodily mansion, and integrate all of which the eternal spirit is comprised.

That all those living on this planet Earth — around me, away from me, in my country, in other countries; even other species and vegetation and minerals — are all different forms of a great unity.

At the most elementary level, all nature is one. Only one noble material weaves constantly different garbs. The nascent convergence of Nano-Bio-Info-Cogno technologies is testimony to this. How can we ensure that this convergence leads to human good and not harm; to the benefit of the marginalized and poor and not to merely an influential few?

With these thoughts on my mind, I travelled to Sarangpur, Gujarat, on 11 March 2014 to see Pramukh Swamiji. This was our latest meeting. We met in a garden inhabited by peacocks, surrounded by beautiful flowers.

In an emotionally and spiritually charged atmosphere, Swamiji held my hand for ten minutes. No words were spoken. We looked into each other’s eyes in a profound communication of consciousness. It was a great spiritual experience.

I have had a few spiritual experiences even earlier. On 30 September 2001, I survived a helicopter mishap. That night, I had a very vivid dream. I saw myself in a desert on a moonlit night, surrounded by miles of sand. Five great men, namely Emperor Ashoka, Mahatma Gandhi Albert Einstein, Abraham Lincoln and Caliph Umar, communicated a mission to me for igniting the minds of the young with hope.

On 28 April 2007, in the cave on Philopappos Hill — the place of imprisonment and self-sacrifice of the great soul Socrates — I saw in my mind’s eye a powerful streak of lighting.

Out of the dark corners of the cave came four apparitions, walking towards me in white robes. Foremost among them was Socrates, who said in a soft voice, ‘Thinking is freedom.’ Next came Abraham Lincoln who said, ‘No human being can be a slave of another.’ Then I saw Mahatma Gandhi, who said, ‘Eliminate violence in all human missions, let peace prevail.’ Finally, I saw Galileo Galilei, who said, ‘Truth is beyond human laws.’

President A P J Abdul Kalam with Pramukh Swami Maharaj. Also seen: Then Gujarat chief minister Narendra Modi.

But at the garden in Sarangpur with Pramukh Swamiji, there was a difference. On the earlier two occasions, I felt that perhaps my own imagination was at play. This time, Pramukh Swamiji was holding my hand. I became oblivious to the people around us, and was drawn into a kind of timeless silence.

I felt that his was the hand of transformation that could bring a change that the world needed today. In these moments, a world vision based on Mother Earth was intuitively communicated to me.

Pramukh Swamiji is Gunatit Satpurush, a spiritual person. He has transcended the ephemeral and the modes of nature. I felt as if through Pramukh Swamiji a divine message was transferred to me about something endowed to mankind by God almighty, but forgotten by humanity.

In a revelatory flash, I realized that the struggle between happiness and unhappiness that had so far been the story of human existence — and the struggle between peace and war that had been the history of the human race — must change.

I heard in the silence of his grip on my hand, “Kalam, go and tell everyone that the power that would lead us to eternal victory amid these struggles is the power of good within us. Communicate to mankind the vision of a harmonious world. This vision would be greater than any other goal ever aspired to by humanity.”

A harmonious world may seem an impossibly utopian vision. But with the guidance of the Divine, and in acknowledging the unity of all creation — and with the helping hand of such transcendent souls as Pramukh Swamiji — the impossible may be achievable. And a harmonious world begins with a harmonious inner world — an unavoidably spiritual quest.

For us to ignite our spirituality, we need to look inward and transcend our egos. We need to recognize, connect with and integrate the eternal spirit within.

There are four steps for this: Search in the right place, Remove the dust, Open your inner eye and See your destiny waiting for your effort to be realized.

Accordingly, I have written this book in four parts. The book starts with my spiritual experiences in the presence of Pramukh Swamiji. The second part reflects on the social work undertaken by the Bochasanwasi Shri Akshar Purushottam Swaminarayan Sanstha (BAPS) under the stewardship of Pramukh Swamiji. The third part shows the way ahead for humanity, with a vision of the fusion of science and spirituality. The fourth part calls for creative leadership, which is essential for the realization of this vision.

The spirit of inclusiveness of BAPS offers a seed to build a glorious crystal of a peaceful and prosperous world, where all civilizations coexist harmoniously and accommodate each other.

Pramukh Swamiji has already made an example, by creating a reflective society living through its cultural heritage. He has taken the glory of India to Africa, Europe, America and the Far East in the form of magnificent Swaminarayan temples, strong fellowship of devotees and well-wishers that encompasses millions world wide.

Let it now expand into public dealings — transparent governance and ethical business — based on truth. Driven by the convergence of Bio-Nano-Info-Eco-Cogno technologies, human beings will have unprecedented power.

A vision is required to ensure that living conditions at the bottom of the social pyramid will improve across social, political and economic boundaries.

A P J Abdul Kalam with Pramukh Swami Maharaj.

When this book was almost complete, my elder brother A P J Muhammad Muthu Meera Lebbai Maracayer called me from Rameswaram one morning after fajr prayers. Such a call so early in the morning initially worried me, but I was relieved upon hearing his cheerful voice. He asked me, “Tell me, brother, what is the most important thing you are doing these days?” I had told him about this book. I expressed my doubt to him: Whether it is appropriate for me as a Muslim to write about the leader of another religion.

I have much respect for my brother Maracayer’s judgement. He is fourteen years my senior and had lived a very pious life, grounded in Islamic religion and service. He said, “Kalam, when Prophet Muhammad, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, arrived in Medina, there were Jewish and Christian tribes living there. He entered into a treaty with them within a larger framework dealing with inter-Muslim relationships. One of the clauses laid down in the treaty required that each party hold counsel with the other. Mutual relations shall be founded on righteousness; sin is totally excluded.”

My brother concluded by asking me to go ahead with the book, and share with everyone details of the pious and virtuous life of Pramukh Swamiji. Thus, the book was finally completed.

I dedicate this book to all the righteous people of the world wherever they are. The Swaminarayan temples and Akshardhams are indeed the sanctuaries of pious and virtuous living. They are abodes of peace and beacons of hope, rescuing people from the bottomless pit of self-indulgence, and, through service, reminding them of their true selves and allowing them to become wholesome human beings.

An increasing number of people, particularly in the developed world, are finding freedom from superficial relationships, trivial communications and the constant noise that pervade the modern world, in the counsel and guidance of BAPS saints.

May this divine presence increase!

Excerpted from Transcendence, by A P J Abdul Kalam and Arun Tiwari, with the kind permission of publishers, Harper Element, an imprint of HarperCollins Publishers.

IMAGES: President A P J Abdul Kalam with Pramukh Swami Maharaj. Kind courtesy: Trancendence.

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Natarajan

 

Message for the Day….” The Trinity is Present in the form of Three ‘gunas’ in Every Human Heart…”

The true meaning of Guru is, ‘One who is beyond attributes and forms, the Supreme Self (Brahman)’. When this Self is within you, where is the need to search for a Guru? A teacher who teaches others has had a teacher himself. The one who has noGuru above him is the true Guru. The Sanskrit stanza which hails the Guru as Brahma, Vishnu and Maheshwara and asParabrahman is misinterpreted. The right approach is to consider Brahma, Vishnu and Maheshwara as the Guru. These three are symbolised by the three gunas or attributes: Brahma is Rajas, Vishnu is Satwa and Shiva represents Tamas. The whole cosmos is constituted by the three gunas and the gunasare present in you. The Trinity are present in the form of the three gunas in every human heart. Hence, you are your ownguru. You need not seek him elsewhere. You have to feel at all times your inherent divinity, which is also present in everyone. When you help or feed someone you must feel that the Divine in you is feeding the Divine in others.

Sathya Sai Baba

Do You Know These Facts …?

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The hottest place in the world….Death Valley National Park, U.S.A. – The highest recorded temperature, was taken on July 10, 1913, and it reached 134°f (56°c).

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The coldest place in the world….Antarctica – In August 2010, the lowest recorded temperature was recorded in the East Antarctic Plateau. The record temperature was -135.8°f (-93°c).

 

The most populated city in the world

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Shanghai, China – With a population of over 24 million residents.

The least populated city in the world

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Vatican City – With a population of 842 residents, Vatican City also boasts the title of smallest state in the world.

 

The wealthiest city in the world

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Tokyo, Japan – The city of Tokyo has the highest GDP ($1,520 billion) of any other city in the world.

The poorest city in the world

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Kinshasa, D.R.C. – The Democratic Republic of Congo is the poorest state in the world, and its capital, Kinshasa, is the poorest city. It has a GDP of $55 billion, and most of its residents live on less than $1 a day.

The most photographed place in the world

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Guggenheim Museum, New York, U.S.A. – By running an algorithm that scanned through the internet’s immense collection of photos, the Guggenheim was found to be the most photographed place on earth.

The wettest place in the world

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Mawsynram, India – This region in the Indian subcontinent enjoys an average of 467.35 inches (1187cm) of rain per year. (In 1985, it had an amazing 1000 inches, or 25.4 meters of rain!)

The driest place in the world

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Atacama Desert, South America – It may be hard to believe, but the Atacama Desert gets about 4 inches (10cm) of rain every 1000 years. (Yes, 1000 years!)

The most expensive city in the world

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Singapore – In 2014, Singapore dethroned Tokyo and earned the title “world’s most expensive city”. An American travelling to Singapore will be shocked to see that the prices of cars are 4-6 times more expensive than in the U.S.

The least expensive city in the world

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Mumbai, India – A stark contrast to Singapore, Mumbai is 2014’s cheapest city. On average, a person would need to spend 4 times as much in Singapore, compared to Mumbai.

The Oldest city in the world (still exists)

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Damascus, Syria – While there are many older cities that no longer stand, the city of Damascus has evidence of civilization going back 11,000 years, and is the oldest city that still stands.

The newest country in the world

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South Sudan – Following a bloody genocide, the southern part of Sudan, which consists mainly of Christians, split from the northern part (Muslim majority) in 2011, making it the youngest country in the world.

The most visited city in the world

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London, England – London sees 18.69 million international visitors every year, making it the most visited city in the world.

The country that drinks the most coffee in the world

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Sweden – If you thought it would be the U.S.A. then you’d be wrong. The average Swede consumes 388mg of coffee per day.

The country that drinks the most alcohol in the world

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Belarus – On average, every person above the age of 15 drinks 4.62 gallons (17 liters) per year, earning Belarus this dubious title.

The most bicycle-friendly city in the world

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Groningen, Netherlands – Around 50% of the population of Groningen commutes on bicycles every day, making it the city with the most bicycles per capita.

The most energy efficient city in the world

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Reykjavik, Iceland – All of the energy in the capital of Iceland comes from geothermal power plants and hydropower. The city aims to be completely free of fossil-fuel by 2050.

The country with the highest longevity in the world

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Monaco – The World Health Organization (WHO) found that the average life expectancy in Monaco is 87.2 years.

The country with the lowest longevity in the world

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Sierra Leone – Sadly, with an average life expectancy of 47 years, Sierra Leone is the country with the shortest life expectancy in 2014.

The country with the highest IQ in the world

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Honk Kong – The average IQ score in Hong Kong is 107 points.

The country with the lowest IQ in the world

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Equatorial Guinea – The average IQ score in Equatorial Guinea is 59 points.

The city with the best internet connectivity in the world

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Seoul, South Korea – South Korea has been enjoying some of the most advanced technology when it comes to internet connectivity, and with 10,000 government-sponsored free Wi-Fi spots in the city, it easily earns its title.

Sources….www.ba-bamail.com

Natarajan