படித்து ரசித்தது …” குளியல் ” !!!

குளியல் !
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உண்மையில் நம்மில் பல பேருக்கு எதற்காக குளிக்கிறோம் என்றே தெரியவில்லை.

அழுக்கு போகவா…..! நிச்சயம் கிடையாது…..!

மாத மளிகை பட்டியலில் சோப்பு டப்பாவை வாங்கி அடுக்கி வைத்து கொள்கிறோம்.

சோப்பு எதற்காக கண்டுபிடிக்கப்பட்டது தெரியுமா… கப்பலில் இயந்திரத்தோடு இயந்திரமாக வேலை செய்வோருக்கு உடலில் திட்டு திட்டாக ஆயில் படிந்துவிடும்.

இந்த கடின எண்ணெய்யை நீக்குவதற்காக சோப்பு பயண்படுத்தினார்கள். கப்பலில் மட்டும் அல்ல எண்ணெய் புழங்கும் மற்ற இடங்களிலும் கூட இது பயன்பட்டது.

சோப்பு போடுவதற்கு நாம் எந்த கப்பலில் வேலை பார்த்தோம். எந்த சேறு, சகதி எண்ணெய்க்குள் புரண்டு எழுந்து வந்தோம்.

வணிக பெருமுதலை கும்பல் சும்மா இருப்பார்களா, ஆயிலில் புரண்டெழுந்து வேலை செய்வோர் மட்டுமே பயண்படுத்தி வந்த இந்த சோப்பை,

எல்லோரும் பயண்படுத்தும் படி பல திட்டம் தீட்டி. கிருமி உருவாக்கி, அதன் மேல் பயம் உருவாக்கி.
நடிகர்களை நடிக்க விட்டு. நம் தலையில் கட்டிவிட்டார்கள்.

இதன் மூலம் என்ன ஆனது..

சோப்பு போட்டு நம் தோல்களின் மேல் இயற்கையாக உருவாகும் மெல்லிய பாதுகாப்பு கொழுப்பு படலத்தை நீக்கி விட்டேம், இப்பொழுது பாதுகாப்பற்ற நிலை உருவாகிறது. இதை திரும்ப சீர் செய்யவே உடல் பெரும்பாடுபடுகிறது.

நமக்கு வாய் முகத்தில் மட்டும் அல்ல தோலின் மேல் இருக்கும் ஒவ்வொறு வியர்வை துவாரங்களும் வாயே. சோப்பை போடுவதன் மூலம் வியர்வை துவாரம் வழியே இரசாயண நச்சு இரத்தத்தில் கலந்து கல்லீரலை பாதிக்கிறது.

சோப்பு போடுவதன் மூலம் தோல் மூலமாக நம் உடல் கிரகிக்கும் பிரபஞ்ச சக்தி தடுக்கப்படுகிறது.

இன்னும் இதன் தீமைகள் பல உண்டு. சொல்லி மாளாது.

நாம் சோப்பு போடுவதற்கு எந்த சேறு, சகதி, எண்ணெய் இயந்திரங்களுக்குள் புரண்டு வருவதில்லை.

சரி பின் எதற்கு தான் குளிக்கிறோம் என்று கேட்கிறீர்களா….?

குளியல் = குளிர்வித்தல்

குளிர்வித்தலோ மருவி குளியல் ஆனது.

மனிதர்களுக்கு உள்ள 75% நோய்களுக்கு காரணம் அதிகப்படியான உடல் வெப்பம்.

இரவு தூங்கி எழும்போது நமது உடலில் வெப்பக் கழிவுகள் நேங்கியிருக்கும்.

காலை எழுந்ததும் இந்த வெப்பகழிவை உடலில் இருந்து நீக்குவதற்காக குளிந்தநீரில் குளிக்கிறோம்.

வெந்நீரில் குளிக்க கூடாது. எண்ணெய் குளியலின் போது மட்டுமே மிதமான வெந்நீர் பயன்படுத்த வேண்டும்.

குளிர்ந்த நீரை அப்படியே மொண்டு தலைக்கு ஊற்றிவிடக்கூடாது. இது முற்றிலும் தவறு.

நீரை முதலில் காலில் ஊற்ற வேண்டும், பின், முழங்கால், இடுப்பு, நெஞ்சு பகுதி, இறுதியாக தலை.

எதற்கு இப்படி. காலில் இருந்து ஊற்றினால் தான் வெப்பம் கீழிருந்து மேல் எழும்பி, விழி மற்றும் காது வழியாக வெளியேறும்.

நேரடியாக தலைக்கு ஊற்றினால் வெப்பம் கீழ் நோக்கி சென்று வெளியில் போக முடியாமல் உள்ளேயே சுழன்று கொண்டிருக்கும்.

இப்பொழுது நம் முன்னோர்களின் குளியல் முறையை கண்முன்னே கொண்டு வாருங்கள்.

குளத்தில் ஒவ்வொறு படியாக இறங்குவார்கள். காலில் இருந்து மேல் நோக்கி நினையும். வெப்பம் கீழ் இருந்து மேல் எழுப்பி இறுதியில் தலை முங்கும் போது கண், காது வழியே வெப்பக் கழிவு வெளியேறிவிடும்.

இறங்கும் முன் ஒன்று செய்வார்கள் கவனித்ததுண்டா. உச்சந்தலைக்கு சிறிது தண்ணீர் தீர்த்தம் போல் தெளித்துவிட்டு இறங்குவார்கள்.

இது எதற்கு… உச்சந்தலைக்கு அதிக சூடு ஏறக்கூடாது. சிரசு எப்போதும் குளிர்ச்சியாக இருக்க வோண்டும்.

எனவே உச்சியில் சிறிது நினைத்து விட்டால் குளத்தில் இறங்கும் போது கீழ் இருந்து மோலாக எழும் வெப்பம் சிரசை தாக்காமல் காது வழியாக வெளியேறிவிடுகிறது.

வியக்கவைக்கிறதா… !  நம் முன்னோர்களின் ஒவ்வொறு செயலுக்கும் ஆயிரம் அர்த்தங்கள் உண்டு.

குளித்துவிட்டு சிறிது நேரம் ஈரத் துணியோடு இருப்பது மிக நல்லது.
அதே ஈரத்துணியோடு நாம் அரச மரத்தை சுற்றி வந்தால் 100% சத்தமான பிராணவாயுவை நமது உடல் தோல் மூலமாக கிரகித்துக்கொள்ளும்.

பித்தம் நீங்கி பிராணவாயு அதிகரித்தால் அனைத்து நோய்களும் ஓடிவிடும்.

புத்தி பேதலிப்பு கூட சரியாகும்.

குளியலில் இத்தனை விடையங்கள் இருக்கும் போது. குளியல் அறை என்றாலே அதில் ஒரு ஹீட்டர் வேர, இப்படி சுடு தண்ணீரில் சோப்பும், ஸ்சேம்பையும் போட்டு குளிச்சிட்டு வந்தா நாம நோயாளியா இல்லாம வேற எப்படி இருப்போம்.

குளிக்க மிக நல்ல நேரம் – சூரிய உதயத்திற்கு முன்

குளிக்க மிகச் சிறந்த நீர் – பச்சை தண்ணீர்.

குளித்தல் = குளிர்வித்தல்

குளியல் அழுக்கை நீக்க அல்ல

உடலை குளிர்விக்க.

இறைவன் கொடுத்த இந்த உடல் மீது உங்களுக்கு அக்கறை இருந்தால் மாற்றிக்கொள்ளுங்கள்.

நலம் நம் கையில்

நன்றி

Source…input from a friend of mine

Natarajan

Message for the Day…” True Ugadi is the day when you give up bad qualities…”

Ugadi is the beginning of a New Year. You have celebrated many Ugadis, but have you given up your bad qualities? Do not limit the celebration of Ugadi to merely putting on new clothes and partaking of delicious food. Today you may wear a new shirt, but how long will it remain new? Our life is like a newspaper. Once you have finished reading a newspaper, do you like to read the same newspaper again and again? You have been given this birth, and you have gone through varied experiences of pleasure and pain. Pray to God to take you across this ocean of life and death, and grant you liberation. True Ugadi is the day when you give up bad qualities, fill your heart with love, and take to the path of sacrifice. Stop criticizing others. Respect even those who hate you. Hatred is a bad quality. It will ruin you. Hence get rid of this evil. Love everyone.

Sathya Sai Baba

Message for the Day…” A person swayed by Ego will receive blows until they are devoid of ego…”

Sathya Sai Baba

A game of football is played by two teams with ten players in each team playing on each side of the field. Each team strives to score a goal by shooting the ball between the two goal posts. Life is a game in which you must lead your life between the two goal posts of secular and spiritual education. While playing football, one kicks the ball as long as it is filled with air. Once the football is deflated, nobody will kick it. The air in the football signifies the presence of ego. A person swayed by ego will receive blows until they are devoid of ego. A deflated ball is taken by the hands, while an inflated ball is kicked mercilessly. Similarly a humble person is well respected, whereas an egoistic person becomes the target of all sorts of attacks. Secular things come and go, whereas spiritual gains stay forever. Hence let spirituality constitute the basis of all your activities.

Students at This School Cannot See. But They Can Dance, in a Group, with Perfect Coordination!

At Bengaluru’s Shree Ramana Maharishi Academy for the Blind, visually impaired children learn how to dance.

Rohini, a Class 9 student, has been learning dance from the age of six. Her dance training includes rigorous practise for coordination and flexibility, through a unique touch-and-feel style of teaching. Passionate about Kuchipudi, her ears are attuned to the rhythm of this dance form and its music. Her hands take up their positions automatically and her feet thump loudly. The fact that she can’t see the audience, the stage, or her fellow performers, does not stop her from following her dream of wanting to become a professional dancer.

She is one of the many blind students in Bengaluru who are learning to dance at the Shree Ramana Maharishi Academy for the Blind (SRMAB).

A holistic centre that provides education for the blind, this academy is one of the first of its kind in India to teach dance to visually impaired students.

SRMAB dance

In 1969, T V Srinivasan and his friend Thirumoorthi began SRMAB in a small room with one blind student and many big dreams. “I once visited Tiruvannamalai along with my friend, Thirumoorthi. While meditating we received a distinct vision that we should serve the disabled. This inspired us to start the academy.”

Srinivasan, who was trained in special education at Narendrapur, Kolkata, started the school to ensure those who are blind recognise their own potential and live their lives fully. Almost 200 students are enrolled annually. They are given free lodging and medical facilities.

Since its inception, more than 5000 students have passed Class 10 from the school, with Braille as their language.

Vocational training and extracurricular activities, such as dance, music and sports, are considered essential at SRMAB. “We always motivated the disabled, and encouraged, trained them in various fields like agro-based farming, poultry, vocational training, yoga, dance, table, and more,” says Srinivasan.

In 1973, dance and music were initiated into the school as an extracurricular activity.

But it was only in 1982 that the unique technique of touch and feel teaching was introduced by Gurus Sharadha Natarajan and Ambica Natarajan.

SRMAB

Besides opening up new possibilities for the students, such activities give them confidence and purpose. “Dance helps them feel motivated, empowers them with confidence to meet challenges. They are exposed to different places, people and society, which educates them to live life with dignity and self-esteem,” adds Srinivasan.

Dharmaraju, 29, is an ex-student of SRMAB and has been teaching dance at the academy since 2009. He had joined the school as a student in 1994, at the age of nine. His talent for dance was recognised at the academy right from the beginning. In 1997, he began taking classical dance lessons from Guru Shri K. Narayan.

While it was challenging to follow rhythm and postures owing to his visual impairment, the dedicated efforts by the guru paid off. The same year, in his first stage performance at Chennai, the audience showered him with praise about his precision and grace. That was all the appreciation that he needed. After school, he completed a diploma in dance and performed across the globe. “Among my most cherished moments was my first stage performance abroad in 1999,” he says, “It was in Adelaide, Australia, and I was representing India at a folk festival. A few years later, in 2008, I performed for Akka Sammelan in Chicago, USA. They were both exhilarating performances.”

Today, he teaches students like himself and choreographs classical dance routines for them to perform around the globe.

SRMAB

With Dancemaster Dharmaraju (Left picture, at the centre)

Srinivasan, who was awarded with the Karnataka State Award for Social Worker of the Year 2008, is more than proud of his students.

“As ambassadors of Indian culture and the abilities of people with disabilities, the group has been regularly sponsored to tour UK, USA, Australia, and Italy,” he says. “Tours like these raise awareness on the issues faced by persons with disabilities, while highlighting their abilities in delighting audiences with their spectacular performances.”

But, how do the visually impaired learn dance without watching someone perform? Srinivasan elucidates, “First, the concept is explained to students. The gurus make them understand the bhaavam and they visualise the whole situation before they start learning the dance.” Adds Dharmaraju, “Coordinating the movements in a group is quite challenging and it takes a longer time to learn to perfection.”

SRMAB is involved in several other activities that are all aimed at empowering the visually impaired and their families.

TV Srinivasan SRMAB

For instance, the Community Based Rehabilitation (CBR) programme was started in 1990 in Kanakapura Taluka, and later in Malavalli, Hubli, Ramnagara, and Mandya districts. Severely disabled farmers and their families are provided CBR. Through self-help groups, training and school-based intervention, CBR aims to raise awareness about health, education and economic betterment. It also organises health and nutrition camps.

In 2013, Rohini performed Kuchipudi at the Kanteerava stadium in Bengaluru. The performance bagged a Guinness record, with 1054 dancers, of which 20 were visually challenged. This is only one of the many awards and performances by the students of SRMAB. As Srinivasan puts it, “Through the universal language of art, young, visually impaired dancers send out a strong message: the light, extinguished in their own eyes, is relit in the dance, affirming that there are no people with disabilities, only those who are differently abled.”

Source….Neeti Vijaykumar in http://www.the betterindia.com

natarajan

Message for the Day….”To make proper use of scientific knowledge we must have the wisdom and discrimination.”

Bear in mind that youth is the most precious years in one’s life and should not be wasted or misspent. To let children watch television from 6 to 10 p.m. is to make them forget all that they have learnt at school or college. In addition, they learn many evil things. If TV is used for teaching good things, it can serve a worthy purpose. But that is not the case, younger generation is being ruined by undesirable films and programs. Their minds are being poisoned. It is not a sign of parental love to let children grow in this manner. Even parents should avoid going to cinemas. All crimes and violence we witness today are largely the result of the evil influence of films on young minds. While science and technology may appear, to confer many benefits, they also have many harmful effects. To make proper use of scientific knowledge we must have the wisdom and discrimination.

Sathya Sai Baba

Cabin Pressure and Oxygen Supply Aboard Commercial Aircraft….

How Cabin Pressure and Oxygen Supplies are Maintained Aboard Commercial Aircraft

Because the economics of having large oxygen tanks aboard airliners simply doesn’t work out (not to mention that the air quality inside the plane would rapidly become unpleasant if fresh air wasn’t constantly supplied, regardless of the oxygen levels), commercial airplanes have a very clever system installed to solve the problem of ultra-low pressure atmosphere at cruising altitudes.

In most modern airliners (the Boeing 787 Dreamliner not withstanding), outside air is “bled off” from the compressor stage of the turbine engines and eventually piped into the passenger areas. However, a bit of processing is needed first as the compressed air is extremely hot (on the order of nearly 400 degrees Fahrenheit

or 200 degrees Celsius) at this stage. Thus, before it enters the passenger compartment, it is first allowed to expand and is run through a heat exchanger and air cycle system to cool it off sufficiently. This system also can work as a heater, with some of the hot air mixed in with the cooled air to regulate cabin temperature.

1280px-Turbofan_operation.svgOnce cooled and filtered, the pressurized air, which now has sufficient oxygen density to keep people happily conscious, is piped into the cabin area, usually at levels around 12 psi (about equivalent to atmospheric pressure at 7,000 feet).  Why 12 psi instead of something like sea-level pressures of about 14.7 psi? 12 psi is sufficient for the majority of passengers while simultaneously reducing the structural strain on the aircraft itself over something like sea level atmospheric pressures.

As for the air already in the cabin, this is vented out through an outflow valve (or multiple valves in larger aircraft), usually located near the rear of the plane. (FunNote: Before smoking was banned on commercial aircraft, the area around this outflow valve was generally stained dark brown from tobacco smoke.)

This outflow valve opens and closes automatically to maintain a steady pressure inside the cabin, while the entire system is ensuring that fresh air is continually being piped into and eventually blown out of the aircraft. In fact, while many complain of airplanes seeming “stuffy,” this system ensures that all the air in the aircraft is being completely replaced on average every 2-3 minutes. Yes, that means that your car, house or office is likely significantly more “stuffy” than a commercial airplane flying at 35,000 feet.

(Note: the Boeing 787 Dreamliner handles cabin pressurization a little differently, using a modernized version of the old, somewhat inefficient, electric compressor system seen on many older aircraft.)

Unfortunately, sometimes planes lose cabin pressure. Whatever the cause, the loss of pressure (usually set at atmospheric pressures past 14,000 ft) will result in oxygen masks deploying. From here, useful consciousness may only last as little as 5-15 seconds, depending on remaining cabin pressure, which is why it’s critical to immediately put your mask on, rather than helping someone else first. You can help them much better when you’re not unconscious or dead.

So how do these airline oxygen masks actually work? It turns out, the economics of having a centralized oxygen tank to provide even emergency oxygen for passengers likewise simply doesn’t add up. Similarly, having tiny individual pressurized oxygen tanks also isn’t feasible. In fact, these masks aren’t hooked up to any tank or air line at all. So how are you able to breathe oxygen through them?
Science.

While designs can vary slightly, in general, when you pull on the device to place it over your face, the tug on the mask’s lanyard releases a spring-loaded mechanism that sets off a small explosive charge. (Yep.) The resulting spark triggers a mixture of lead styphnate and tetracene to generate heat, which will eventually cause a chemical reaction that produces oxygen for your mask. (This is why they tell you to tug on the mask to get the oxygen flowing- you’ve got to set off the explosive charge to get the whole thing going.)

That’s right. What you breathe through the mask didn’t begin as pure oxygen. Rather, the plane is equipped with numerous small chemical oxygen generators (also known as “oxygen candles,” about the size of a small package of tennis balls) which contain a mixture of mostly sodium chlorate (NaClO3), less than 5% barium peroxide (BaO2) and less than 1% potassium perchlorate (KClO4). When these chemicals are heated by the lead styphnate and tetracene, each undergoes a reaction that ultimately results in a fair bit of filtered, life sustaining oxygen running through the tube to you.
Of course, you might also smell a faint burning odor, but this is nothing to be alarmed about; it just assures you that the system is working. In fact, if the plane is actually on fire, the masks usually won’t deploy, so as not to make the fire worse with the extra oxygen.

This brings us to the question of why the plastic bag on the breathing apparatus won’t necessarily inflate as you’re using the device. More than just cosmetic, the bags serve as something of a reservoir for oxygen. If you aren’t taking a breath at all (and have a good seal with the mask tight against your face) the bag keeps the precious, continuously flowing oxygen from escaping into the thin air around you, enabling more of the collected oxygen to be taken in when you do take a breath.  When this is happening, or you are breathing out with the valves on the mask releasing much of the used air, the bag may begin to inflate as oxygen collects. When you breathe in, it will deflate.

So why won’t it always inflate at least a little to show its working? To begin with, you may not have a great seal with the mask on your face, particularly if you have facial hair.  This will allow any produced oxygen (and air you exhale) to more readily escape. (As long as the mask is reasonably secure on your face,

this should still provide you with sufficient oxygen to get by on as long as the plane isn’t flying above 40,000 feet and the pilot does his or her job and gets the plane down below 10,000 feet as rapidly as safely possible.)

Even if you have a good seal, however, the rate at which the oxygen is generated is often not enough to fully inflate the masks’ bag before you take deep, potentially panicky breaths, deflating it. This is simply because the oxygen generation isn’t on-demand (for the passengers anyway), but simply a continuous-flow production of oxygen.

Despite the potentially slow production, the chemical oxygen generators do provide oxygen at a sufficient rate to sustain passengers, generally designed such that peak oxygen production occurs right away (when the plane may be at very high altitude) with the oxygen production rates tailing off over the course of approximately 12-20 minutes before the system burns itself out.

This should be long enough for the pilots to get the plane low enough so that the air pressure is high enough for (relatively) normal atmospheric breathing. And if you’ve ever been lucky enough to be in this sort of situation, you know that those pilots can get the plane from altitudes like 35,000+ feet to safer atmospheric levels alarmingly quickly in an emergency; while it may not be literally true, it at least can seem like roller coasters have nothing on them, which is a good thing in this case.

Source….www.today i foundout.com

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The Black Dot: A Beautiful and Inspiring Story…!!!

This beautiful story has a simple, yet important message. I hope as many people as possible give it a read. I know I am happy I read it, as it gave me a few things to think about in my own life. Sometimes it is the simplest of stories that make us ponder the most.

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Source…..www.ba-bamail.com

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Secret Rooms Inside Abandoned Sewers….!!!

Italian street artist Biancoshock has just finished installing a couple of secret, miniature rooms, hidden under manhole covers, inside an abandoned sewer somewhere in the streets of Milan. This satiric “intervention” —a word that the artist uses for all his artworks— was inspired by the hundreds of people who are forced to live in extreme conditions, such as inside sewers, as in Bucharest where some 600 people live underground. Biancoshock calls this tiny project “Borderlife”.

If some problems can not be avoided, make them comfortable. -Biancoshock

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Source…..www.amusingplanet.com

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He is 24, blind, and CEO of a Rs 10-crore company…Meet Srikanth Bolla !

Srikanth Bolla, CEO of Bollant Industries, has set his sights on changing lives

Get rid of him. That was the first thing that neighbours told Srikanth Bolla’s parents when they came to see him soon after his birth in a remote village in the east coast of Andhra Pradesh 24 years ago. Bolla was born sightless.

That’s what, he says, scores of parents ordinarily did and still do – abandon babies born with disabilities. Instead, Bolla’s parents, who owned a small piece of land in the village and earned only about Rs 20,000 a year, chose to give him an education.

Today, Bolla is the CEO of Hyderabad-based Bollant Industries, a company with a turnover of around Rs 10 crore that employs uneducated and physically challenged people to manufacture eco-friendly, disposable consumer packaging solutions out of natural leaf and recycled paper.

Recently, Ratan Tata invested an undisclosed amount in the company. Other investors include Srini Raju of Peepul Capital, Satish Reddy of Dr Reddy’s Laboratories and Ravi Mantha, one of India’s more prolific angel investors.

Bolla started out by accompanying his father to the farm but found he could not be of much help. So his father decided to send him to school, which was some 5 km away from home. For two years, he says, nobody acknowledged his presence in school and he was made to sit on the last bench. Fellow students did not accept him during physical training periods.

For the first time in his life, he says, he felt he was the poorest child in the world because he was so lonely.

His father then moved him to a school for special children in Hyderabad, where he started topping his class and also played chess and cricket. Later, he worked with former president APJ Abdul Kalam on the Lead India project, a movement to empower the youth through value-based education.

However, despite scoring 90 per cent in Class X, he was not allowed to take up the science stream because, he claims, he was blind. “I was made blind by the perception of people,” he says. With the option of science refused to him, everybody thought he would settle for the commerce stream. Instead, Bolla sued the state government. “Moving away from the problem is not in my blood,” he says.

After six months of fighting it out, he was allowed to take up science with the rider that he was doing so “at his own risk”. By this time, half of the academic year was over and Bolla did not have books or any other study material.

A mentor at the college he joined converted all lessons into audio books. Bolla passed with 98 per cent. But another hurdle followed. He says he was not allowed to apply for competitive exams because he was blind.

So, he started applying to universities in the United States and got admission in four of them, including the Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT) and Stanford University. He opted for MIT and was its first international blind student.

In 2012, after graduating from MIT, he launched Bollant Industries. The company now has around 450 employees, 60 per cent of whom are differently-abled.

The company, with five plants in Andhra Pradesh, Telangana and Karnataka, has started work to set up a larger facility at Sri City in Andhra Pradesh with an investment of Rs 10-15 crore. It currently exports 10-15 per cent of its produce to the US, Australia and Germany.

Life, he says, has taught him many lessons. Compassion is one of them. “Compassion,” he says, “is not about giving a coin to a beggar at the traffic signal. It’s showing somebody the way to live and giving them the opportunity to thrive.”

The world looked at him and said you can do nothing, says Bolla. “But I look up at the world and say I can do anything.”

Photograph, kind courtesy: Massachusetts Institute of Technology

Source…..www.rediff.com

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How one story of the betterindia.com generated impacts all around …Read This One ..

Every time our readers like and share TBI stories they are not just spreading positivity and hope, they are also creating an impact that may not at first be visible. Here’s one such story, of a young adoptive parent to a special child, which went viral and created ripples greater than we had imagined.

On January 1, 2016, Aditya Tiwari became the youngest single adoptive parent in India by legally adopting a special child Binny. He named him Avnish.

Aditya fought a 2-year-long battle against the system and society to become a single father.

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On January 12, 2016, we wrote about ‘How Aditya Fought All Odds to Become India’s Youngest Single Parent to Adopt a Special Child’ and, like always, our readers helped us spread this positive story like wildfire. The article got lakhs of views and 33,000+ shares too (so far).

Avnish turned two on March 16, 2016. On this occasion, his father Aditya could not thank you all more for the huge impact you created simply by clicking ‘share’ on his story.

Here are some of the things that have happened in his life since the story was published on TBI:

1. Parents of children with Down’s Syndrome reached out to him for inspiration and help.

2. Aditya benefitted too. NGOs and physiotherapists reached out to support him.

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The NGOs that had special kids helped him learn more about the disability and ways to deal with it, whereas many physiotherapists offered to treat Avnish for free.

“Ms. Rekha Ramchandran from Down Syndrome Federation of India called me after reading your article. Since then she is supporting me in any way possible to nurture Avnish,” Aditya informed The Better India.

3. The legal struggle and victories inspired many citizens.

In our previous article we had explained how Aditya had to fight a legal battle because the age bar for single adoptive parents in India was 30 and he was just 27 when he decided to adopt Avnish. He kept fighting the system until the age limit was reduced to 25.

“Atul Vidyalaya, Valsad, Gujarat, invited me as a chief guest on January 26, 2016. I was surprised by this and asked them why I was selected, as I had done nothing other than just adopting a child. The Principal replied that it was not just an adoption but it was a trend-setting decision and the struggle behind it makes me a hero. He said he would like the children of his school to become like me. That was the biggest compliment I could ever get,” says Aditya.

4. Thirty other children like Avnish, who were at the same orphanage as him, were also impacted.

During his struggle to adopt Avnish, Aditya came to know about 30 other kids who were illegally being sent to foreign countries. The adoption agency was reported and its licence was cancelled.

These 30 kids are legally registered now and a few of them have also been adopted.

5. HIV positive children will also have a home now.

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After word spread, an NGO called Palawi from Pandharpur, Maharashtra, which had 98 HIV positive children, called Aditya. They told him these kids were not allowed to go to regular schools and were not accepted by society either, so the NGO had an in-house school and orphanage for them. However, these kids also long to have families but the NGO does not have permission to give them for adoption. Aditya, who is well-versed with adoption proceedings and laws by now, asked them to send all the documents immediately. He then forwarded them to CARA and the Central Government. Aditya is now fighting for the rights of these kids.

“It used to be that previously, if a child was born to an HIV positive mother, he/she used to be infected too. But now, with proper medication and good care, these babies become negative within 18 months. There are many parents who are ready to adopt these kids but we do not have the permission to give them for adoption. Being in a remote area, we explained our concern to the local authorities but did not know any other further procedures. My mother read the article about the legal battle that Aditya Ji fought for Avnish. So we called him to seek help. And he has been a great support since then,” says Dimple Ghadge of Palawi.

6. Law students got to learn a lot.

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Aditya’s story became an interesting project for law students, who found an opportunity to learn about the adoption law through him. A few documentaries have already been made by law students on Aditya and Avnish – among these are two by LLM Pune University and Jai Hind College, Mumbai. Bhopal Jagran Lake City University is also making a film on them.

7. Foreign nationals sought help for adoption.

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Aditya’s story reached foreign shores, and was also published in several magazines of UK and U.A.E, after which many foreign nationals called him to seek help with the adoption procedure in India. Aditya was more than happy to help them.

8. Aditya was the first man to be presented the ‘Real Life Hero’ award by his company, Barclays, on Women’s Day recently. Aditya takes pride in telling this to us.

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9. Film makers have started contacting Aditya.

You might soon watch a film based on the life of Aditya and Avnish – a well-known Bollywood production house and a regional production house too have contacted him for the same.

10. The most wonderful impact.

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Binny, who is Aditya’s son Avnish Tiwari now, has shown tremendous improvement since he became a part of Aditya’s family.

“I met the parents of a 10-year-old child with Down’s Syndrome before I adopted Avnish. They told me how difficult it is to raise such children. Avnish had 70-80% Down’s Syndrome. The doctors told me that he would never be able to walk in his life. But in just three months it seems his Down’s Syndrome is just 15-20%. He can hold and stand and tries to stand without support too sometimes. The parents of the 10-year-old child were surprised to see this and have invited me home to help them. My son has set an example for everyone,” says Aditya with a smile.

Source….Manabi Katoch in http://www.the betterindia.com

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