Thalassemia Could Not Stop Her from Achieving Her Dream of Becoming a Novelist…. Meet This Dynamo….

Jyoti is a thalassemia patient. But, she says, she is more than an illness—she believes in her identity as a novelist, a blogger, a speaker, and a woman.

Jyoti’s childhood was different in many ways. She remembers reading books under a small lamp while her sisters slept. She also remembers going for regular blood transfusion while her friends went to school.

Jyoti Arora was three months old when she was detected with thalassemia, which was long before she understood the full meaning of her ailment. Her parents, though shell shocked, wanted Jyoti to have a happy and fulfilling childhood.

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They sent her to the same school that all the neighbourhood children went to. Her school was disrupted often, and for days together, when she had to be admitted to the hospital.

This continued for a few years and when Jyoti was in Class 7, she had to drop out of school. This was a huge setback. But Jyoti was not going to let her illness win over her. She not only completed her school through correspondence but also got a Master’s in English and Applied Psychology.

Jyoti loved reading. Books were her best friends and she devoured every genre; she would submerge herself in classics that were written hundreds of years ago. She would dream about stories, about writing stories, about other children reading her stories. While thalassemia stunted her growth and regular blood transfusions increased the iron content in her body, what did not change was her love for books. She started nurturing a dream, a dream to write her own book.

Jyoti started her professional career as an English tutor, while simultaneously writing articles for a couple of magazines. After that, she worked for a few years as a freelance writer and content developer. Her primary role was to abridge classics and make them suitable for pre-teens to read. She also wrote fiction/adventure books for children. After working in the freelancing space, Jyoti took up full time employment with a US-based recruitment firm where she was awarded the best employee of the year award for 2014.

The battle with thalassemia continued. However, there was no stopping Jyoti. She was convinced that her soul lies in writing and her first novel — Dream’s Sake — was published in the year 2011. –

The novel is based on the psychological conflict of physically challenged people. She went on to self-publish her second novel — Lemon Girl — in the year 2014. The theme of Lemon Girl is women’s abuse and oppression. Both her novels have garnered positive reviews from readers as well as critics. While her love for reading and writing is second to none, she is fascinated by technology too, and writes about various gadgets and products at http://www.technotreats.com.

Jyoti’s undefeatable grit and go-getter attitude have won her many laurels. She was recently invited to be a speaker at an event on World Thalassemia Day on May 8, 2015, which incidentally is also her birth date.

Jyoti used that platform as an opportunity to talk about thalassemia, and today advocates awareness about thalassemia on various other forums. –

Jyoti feels that even today, awareness about thalassemia and its prevention is minimal. Thalassemia is a genetically inherited disease, is not infectious, and cannot be passed on from one individual to another through personal or any other contact. In India, about 3.9 percent of people are carriers. Thalassemia Major patients require life long blood transfusions and costly medicines for their survival. Often, the blood transfusion needs to be carried out on monthly or even fortnightly basis.

Apart from regular blood transfusions and costly medicines, thalassemia patients are also given Desferal injections that need to be infused over a period of several hours. This means that the patient has to keep the injection and the infusion pump attached to the body over a period of ten-twelve hours, several days a week. The only treatment available for this disease is a bone marrow transplant, which is very expensive and risky.

While the treatment of thalassemia can get complicated and expensive, the best solution is to prevent the occurrence of the disease. In fact, a child can be Thalassemia Major only when both parents are Thalassemia Minors. The probability of the child being a Thalassemia Major in such a case is 25 percent and can be detected during the early stages of pregnancy.

Jyoti feels that society at large needs to accept and assimilate people like her in the mainstream. She is not sick or feeble or unintelligent just because she is a thalassemia patient. She, in fact, advocates the importance of considering herself equal to one and all. Jyoti feels that she is more than an illness—she believes in her identity as a novelist, a blogger and a woman.

For more information, write to Jyoti at: write2jyoti@gmail.com

About the author: Neha Dua is a graduate from St Stephen’s College, Delhi and completed her MBA degree from MDI, Gurgaon. She is currently working with a large Indian MNC bank. She is an avid reader, dance enthusiast and likes to write. Her personal blog can be accessed at: http://www.allexpressions.blogspot.com. In her pursuit to write beyond her personal experiences, she has volunteered to be a writer of happy and inspiring stories of The Better India. –

Source….Neha Dua …. http://www.thebetterindia.com

Natarajan

Message for the Day…” What is True Friendship …” ?

Sathya Sai Baba

True friends are those who help in uplifting your life by cleansing your ideals and emotions. Those who drag you into pomp, pedantry, paltry entertainment and petty pranks are enemies, not friends. True friends cannot be won by social status, external scintillation or verbal assertions. A friendship knit by monetary bonds is disrupted as soon as you ask the loan to be repaid. So, when you oblige your friend with a loan, the friendship too is broken at that very moment. How can friendship be cemented by words or by coins? The feeling of friendship must activate every nerve, permeate every blood-cell, and purify every emotional wave; it has no place for the slightest trace of egotism. The companionship which seeks to exploit or fleece for personal benefit cannot be elevated into the noble quality of friendship. Perhaps, the only friend who can pass this rigorous test, is God.

These ” Hunger Heroes ” are Feeding the Needy ….With the Excess and Wasted Food …”

It all started with Ankit Kawatra getting upset because food for a thousand people was wasted at a wedding. So he created a network of 750 Hunger Heroes in 20 cities, who have fed 2.5 lakh hungry people already.

“It was a fancy party at my friend’s place. The buffet had over 30 varieties of dishes and sweets. The hosts left no stone unturned to make sure the party was a big success. Being a close friend, I decided to stay back after the party and help them clean up. And I saw so many plates of food getting wasted. The caterer just dumped all the leftover food in a huge garbage bag and threw it away. We initially thought of donating the food to the needy but didn’t know how and where,” recalls Kriti Gupta from Jaipur.

There are many of us like Kriti who often don’t know what to do with food leftover from a wedding or party. Ankit Kawatra from Delhi was one such person. Until he attended a wedding where he saw food that could feed 1000 people getting wasted.

The sight of so much food being thrown away gave him the idea of starting a service that would pick up leftover food from events and donate it to the needy.

Feeding India team has provided over 2.5 lakh meals across India.

Feeding India team has provided over 2.5 lakh meals across India.

We sometimes give money to the homeless to buy food or even buy it ourselves for them. But the idea behind this service was not to buy food but use what is already available in abundance,” says Ankit.

The idea soon got converted into action and Ankit launched Feeding India in August 2014. The plan was simple — to collect excess food from parties, events and weddings and then distribute it in shelter homes.

He started by getting volunteers, or Hunger Heroes, as he named them. These heroes were selected from different locations in the city.

Ankit then launched a 24×7 helpline that people could call whenever they wanted to donate excess food.

The Hunger Heroes make sure no food gets wasted.

The Hunger Heroes make sure no food gets wasted.

But this wasn’t enough. We needed a way to get a regular supply of food, which wasn’t possible with just launching a helpline,” recalls Srishti Jain, one of the core members of Feeding India.

Therefore, for a more systematic approach, Feeding India partnered with various catering companies that would inform Ankit and his team in advance about various events. And at the end of the event, they would give them a call informing them about the amount of excess food available.

The Hunger Heroes who lived near that particular location would collect the food and, if possible, distribute it the same night in shelter homes. In case the food cannot be distributed the same day or night, it was kept in cold storage and donated the next day.

“We mostly distribute it immediately after collecting it. There are various shelter homes open 24×7,” says Srishti. The Feeding India team also has a team of experts who test the food’s quality before it is donated.

We have a very systematic approach which makes the entire process very simple and doable. People can call us anytime and we will be there to collect the food,” says Srishti.

Feeding India has now built a strong network of over 750 Hunger Heroes in 20 cities of India; they do not hesitate in performing their duties, even at odd hours.

Feeding India works in over 20 cities of India.

Feeding India works in over 20 cities of India.

“There was a time when we had to collect food for over 5,000 people in one night. We did not even have so many containers. We had to do two trips to get all the food and our Hunger Heroes got back home at 5 am. This is the kind of dedication everyone shows,” says Srishti.

Feeding India does not have any external financial support and currently runs on the personal money of the members. They do ask the caterers and event managers to pay for transport if possible.

This has been a challenge. The caterers and managers say: ‘We are giving you food, why should we also pay for the transport?’ If they don’t agree to pay, we bear the cost,” says Srishti.

Thanks to the commitment of the team, Feeding India has donated over 2.5 lakh meals across India.

To get regular access to food, the organization now partners with different corporate houses (to pick up excess food from their canteens and office parties) and restaurants. Feeding India also organises events to spread more awareness about the cause and to help people understand the value of excess food.

Ankit and his team even got India’s star chefs on board for one of their campaigns, where they talked about their love for food and how it should be used for a good cause.

“We organize small events where we make people pledge that they will not waste food. Through these small interventions we are trying to change the mindset of the people,” says Srishti.

In the future, Feeding India wants to reach out to over 50 cities in India and get more corporate partnerships so that the hungry can get food.

A 24x7 helpline number can be used to put the excess food to a better use.

We make sure that the needy get proper meals; very often people give biscuit packets and bread and think that they have donated food. But this is not enough. We want to make sure every homeless person gets a proper meal,” concludes Srishti.

If you would like to become a Hunger Hero and work with the team at Feeding India, check out their website, join their Facebook page or mail them at – feedingindia2025@gmail.com

Call the helpline for Feeding India to donate any excess food that you may have – 098711 78810

Source….Shreya  Pareek … http://www.the better india.com

Natarajan

Meet the Two Security Guards Who are Giving Everyone Life Goals….

Meet the Two Security Guards Who are Giving Everyone Life Goals

Two separate posts on Facebook describe the inspiring security guards – Balinder Singh on the left and Sagar Ashokrao Bhagat on the right.

If finding some kind of Monday motivation has been your goal, this is where you park your search. We’d like to introduce you to two very inspiring security guards – one who uses the streetlight outside the ATM he guards to study, and another, an engineer by qualification, who reads books on Java programming while manning his post at the entrance of a housing complex.

Facebook users Harsh Vats and Sreejesh Krishnan from Haryana and Mumbai respectively narrate their experiences of meeting these two inspiring security guards in separate posts.
Harsh Vats bumped into 20-year-old Balinder Singh, reading a book under a street light, when he went to an ATM to withdraw cash before Raksha Bandhan.

Curious, he asked the security guard what he was reading. Turns out he was preparing for a set of upcoming entrance exams.

Harsh asked Balinder why he chose to sit under the street light and not inside the well-lit ATM, which also had air conditioning. The young guard informed him that the AC was turned off post-midnight, and that he didn’t really mind sitting outside.

Very moved by the 20-year-old, Harsh posted on Facebook asking people to share study material to help the security guard further his dream. So far, his post has been shared by more than 10,000 people.

Like Balinder, Sagar Ashokrao Bhagat, a security guard at Woodland Heights in Mumbai’s Chandivali, has huge aspirations.

In his post, Sreejesh Krishnan explains he met Sagar when he noticed him reading a book stealthily placed between the complex’s vehicle entry register. It was a book on Java programing.
Sagar informed Sreejesh that he was in fact an engineer with a BE degree and was working as a security guard “to keep things going” while he looked for a suitable job.

An impressed Sreejesh also asked him for a resume. Many of those who’ve seen the post have requested Sagar’s CV so as to help him a better job.

Source……….www.ndtv.com and facebook
Natarajan

Message for the Day…” Trust in the God and March to the best of your Ability…”

Sathya Sai Baba

Virtues must be cultivated in each home; each member sharing in the joy with the rest, each one seeking for opportunities for helping others. This attitude must be stuck to, so that it may stay as character. How can a vessel kept with a closed lid be filled with water? It must be open to receive good impulses! In all your efforts, trust in a Higher Power which is ever ready to help you. Then your work is made easy. This comes out of devotion, and reliance on the Lord who is the source of all Power. When you travel by train, you only have to purchase the ticket, board the proper train and take a seat, you can leave the rest to the engine. Do you carry your luggage on your head? So too, trust in the Lord and march to the best of your ability. Have faith and earn the Lord’s grace by using the intelligence and the conscience He has endowed you with.

Message for the Day….” Ways to attain Bliss…”

Sathya Sai Baba

Your heart should be like glass, with the spiritual light inside illuminating the world outside. The inner urges on interacting with the world outside should make one lean towards service, empathy and mutual help. Presently, people read and study all kinds of unintelligible Vedantic texts and struggle with commentaries and translations to grasp their sense. Knowledge is being poured down their throats; but the potion does not get down to soften their heart. The spiritual truths should not be put on for mere public exhibition, as in a drama, where appropriate dresses are worn on the stage but taken off when the actor moves off the stage. They must be adhered to all the time to derive the Atma ananda (Bliss of the Soul) which they genuinely confer. Bliss is easily attained by careful, well-timed and regulated discipline; it cannot be got by spurts and skips. You must take the effort to learn each lesson of virtue through systematic study and diligent application to attain success.

” நீங்கள் திட்டுவதால் , நாங்க தீட்டப்படுகிறோம் , ஆசிரியர் பெருமக்களே ….”

அறியாமை இருள் விரட்டுங்கள்!

கரும்பலகைகளில் வெளிச்சம் விதைத்து
அறியாமை இருள் விரட்டி
சூரியப் பிரதிகளை உருவாக்கும்
‘ஆ’ சீரியர்களே…

அறிவு மாளிகைக்கு
அஸ்திவாரம் அமைத்து
திறம்படக் கட்டி
திறப்பு விழா நடத்தி
விளக்கேற்றி வைக்கும்
வெள்ளை மனக் கோட்டங்களே…

நீங்கள்
முள்காட்டை செப்பனிட்டு
முல்லை மலர் வளர்க்கிறீர்கள்
சிப்பிகளில் மட்டுமல்ல
நத்தைகளிலும் முத்து விளைவிக்கிறீர்கள்
கூழாங்கற்களை வைரங்களாய்
வடித்தெடுக்கிறீர்கள்!

நீங்கள்
வியர்வை வெப்பத்தில் புழுங்கி
வேதனை துளிகளை விழுங்கி
சாக்பீசில் முகங் கழுவி
சரித்திரம் படைக்கிறீர்கள்!
நீங்கள்
நெற்றிக்கண் திறந்து
நெருப்பை உமிழ நேரினும்
கொதித்து வரும் தீயினிலும்
குளிர்ச்சி உறைந்திருக்கும்
புயலாய் சீறுகிற போதிலும்
புன்னகை மறைந்திருக்கும்!

நீங்கள் திட்டுவதால்
நாங்கள் தீட்டப்படுகிறோம்
உளிபடாமல், துளிச்சிதறல் இல்லாமல்
எதிர்கால இந்தியாவை
சிரத்தையாய் செதுக்கும் சிற்பிகளே…
உங்களை
சிரம் தாழ்த்தி வாழ்த்தி
வணங்கி மகிழ்வதில்
பெருமிதம் கொள்கிறோம்!

Source…சுப்புராஜ், திருமுல்லைவாயில்…..www.dinamalar.com

natarajan

 

Message for the Day…”Truth Emanates From Truth….

Sathya Sai Baba

Practical dharma, or rules of good behaviour (achara-dharma), relates to temporary matters concerning our problems and physical needs, to our passing relationships with the objective world. The very instrument of those rules, the human body, is not permanent, so how can then these rules be eternal? How can their nature be true? The Eternal cannot be expressed by the evanescent; light cannot be revealed from darkness. The Eternal emerges only from the Eternal; truth emanates only from truth. Therefore, follow the objective codes of dharma relating to worldly activities and daily life, with the full knowledge and consciousness of the inner basic Atma-dharma. Then only can the internal and external urges cooperate and yield the bliss of harmonious progress. If in your daily avocations, you translate the real values of eternal dharma into love-filled acts, then your duty to the inner reality, the Atma-dharma, is also fulfilled. Always build your living on the Atmic base; then, your spiritual progress is assured.

Message for the day….” Always keep the Highest Goal …”

Sathya Sai Baba

When you do not discriminate the process and purpose of every act, and go ahead doing them with no understanding, you reduce them to a funny fossilized routine. Once even Prahlada observed, “Since it is difficult to destroy egotism, people take the easier option to offer dumb animals at the altar. Animal sacrifice is the manifestation of the quality of inertia (tamo guna); it is the path of bondage. Sacrifice of the animal of egotism is the purest sacrifice (satwic yajna) on the Godward path of liberation.” Thus the highest goal(paramaartha) of the past is turned into the fool’s goal(paaramaartha) of these days! Similarly every one of the ancient practices, which were once full of meaning has grown wild beyond recognition. It is now impossible to pluck the tree by the roots and plant a new one. So the existing tree must be trimmed and trained to grow straight. Always remember the highest goal and never dilute it into the lowest.

Message For ONAM Day…” Strive to Manifest , Cultivate and Express Love, Suppressing Ego and Pride …”

Sathya Sai Baba

When you eat a banana, you have to first remove the skin; so it is with other fruits as well be it a mango or an orange. The sweet substance has to be reached after removal of the bitter skin. For Emperor Bali to be received and accepted by God, the bitter cover of egoism and power-mania had to be removed. Ignorance,maya (delusion), illusion, pride, etc. are the components of the skin. The festival of Onam comes and goes, but you are no way nearer to God. This is because while Onam is thoroughly welcomed and enjoyed, generosity, renunciation, love and the spirit of service are not given an equally hearty welcome. Take this as the Onam Message – strive to manifest, cultivate and express Love, suppressing pride and egoism, so that you win the Grace of God.