” Renu Raj…2nd Rank Holder in Civil Services Exam…Has Exploded Civil Services Myths…”

The popular belief is that unless they come from English speaking, sophisticated and affluent families, prepare at a young age, get educated in a first rate college, go to a coaching class in one of the metro cities, take the examination several times, the aspirants cannot make it to the civil services list, particularly its very top.’

Ambassador T P Sreenivasan — who serves in an honorary capacity at the NSS Academy where Renu coached for the IAS — on how she surprised even herself by topping the UPSC exam.

Renu Raj, 2nd rank-holder in UPSC exam, with her parents

Image: Dr Renu Raj, who stood 2nd in the UPSC exams, celebrates with her parents. Photograph: PTI.

By securing the second rank in the UPSC civil services examination this year, a 27-year-old married medical graduate, born in a Kerala village to a bus conductor father and educated, but unemployed mother, Renu Raj has exploded many civil services myths.

The popular belief is that unless they come from English speaking, sophisticated and affluent families, prepare at a young age, get educated in a first rate college, go to a coaching class in one of the metro cities, take the examination several times, the aspirants cannot make it to the civil services list, particularly its very top.

Renu Raj is not the first to explode some of these myths. Several other women have registered major successes. Two years ago, Haritha Kumar, from a similar background, an engineer, made it to the first rank.

Many years earlier, Nirupama Rao had secured the first rank. Last year, Divya Iyer, a doctor, did well and joined the coveted Kerala cadre. A rank holder throughout her academic life, a high achiever in many areas and a published author and editor, she was expected to be at the very top.

Renu is undoubtedly a product of the changing civil services scene across the country. The examination was always tough, as it followed the pattern of selection of the Indian civil service officers in the colonial era.

The change came first when the profile of the recruits changed from the urban to the rural. The rural rich landowners in several states lost their old wealth and power on account of land reforms and distribution of wealth. They discovered that the only way for them to recover their lost prestige was to get their children into the civil services, particularly IAS and IPS.

Hordes of young people migrated to Delhi to find short cuts to success in the civil services examination. A virtual IAS industry grew from the elite institutes like Rao’s Study Circle in Connaught Place to sweat shops on Mukherjee Street, where youngsters were spoon fed with readymade answers to old question papers and digested notes on every optional subject.

Aspirants from Bihar and UP began to qualify in large numbers.

Kerala had made a modest contribution to the civil services throughout, but it caught on to the new trend only in the beginning of the 21st century.

 

The first State Civil Services Academy came into being in 2004 and several other coaching centres came up all over the state.

A major facility offered by the government was the ‘adoption scheme’, which provides airfare and accommodation in the comfortable Kerala House in Delhi at the time of the UPSC interview.

The number of entrants from Kerala, which had reduced to a trickle in the 1980s and 1990s, picked up. The trend has continued and Kerala began to produce about 8 per cent of the recruits in the last ten years. This year, there are nearly 40 recruits, many of them with high ranks.

The increase in the age limit and the number of permissible chances changed the scene completely. The upper age limit rose from 23 to 32 and the chances increased from 2 to 6. This enabled doctors, engineers, IIT and IIM graduates and others to take the place of arts and humanities graduates to a great extent.

Instead of a few, who took the risk of not taking up professional studies, the brighter students went to professional courses, secured jobs, worked for a few years, raised families in some cases and then took the civil services examination.

Though the standard expected of the candidates is at the master’s level, graduates began to prepare full time in the academies instead of joining postgraduate courses. Introduction of Hindi and regional languages and literature also contributed to the change of the profile of the candidates further.

The lure of Mukherjee Road took some to Delhi and other metro cities. The theory of ‘catch them young’ was given the go by.

For Renu, who obtained the 4th rank in the Class 10 and 13th rank in plus two exams, it opened up immense possibilities because of the changed circumstances and nature of the examination.

She breezed into a government medical college, passed the MBBS examination in flying colours, married a doctor and began to practice medicine.

Her parents, who had seen her win prizes for elocution and do well in extra curricular activities, developed ambitions to get her into the IAS, shifted to a rented house in Thiruvananthapuram to support her, with the full encouragement of her husband, L S Bhagat, who pursued his own medical studies elsewhere and the backing of her sister, Ramya Raj, also a medical student.

Her mother, V S Latha, a Malayalam literature graduate, trained her for the optional paper. Renu rose to the occasion, prepared on her own, even while working and later joined the State Academy, went to the Pala Academy for her Malayalam literature optional paper and the NSS Academy for the international relations module and model interviews.

She said that the International Relations Module was enough for her to score well in the relevant part of the General Studies paper.

Most aspirants go to several institutions for selected courses, for which they are famous. For instance, Pala has specialised in Malayalam and the NSS Academy in international relations. Everyone signs up with the State Academy to avail of the adoption scheme.

Renu went through the three stages, becoming one of the 13,000 out of 450,000 at the preliminary level, one of 5,000 at the mains level and second out of the 5,000.

She could not believe that she had spectacular success even after she saw her name on the UPSC web site.

An evangelist of the civil services, particularly, the IFS, I have been teaching at the various academies for more than ten years. In the last two years, I have been directing, in an honorary capacity, the NSS Academy.

The UPSC springs surprises every year. Some aspirants, with great promise, do not make it, while others do better than expected. The dynamics of the examination have their own vagaries. But one thing is certain: No one makes it without talent and hard work, even if some of the best do fail.

I noticed Renu at an International Relations Module, a special offering of the NSS Academy. Though she was not showy, she impressed me because of her pleasant demeanour, eagerness to learn and command of the language. In the tests we conducted, she always stood first. I was not surprised when she was chosen for the third stage of the examination and after a couple of model interviews, I was convinced that she would do extremely well.

I chose her, together with another aspirant, Parvathi, for a model interview on television, which went extremely well. Sadly, Parvathi, an economist, did not make it and Renu went on to get the second rank.

Renu Raj with Ambassador T P Sreenivasan at the NSS Academy

Renu Raj with Ambassador T P Sreenivasan, to her right, and her family at the NSS Academy in Thiruvananthapuram. Photograph courtesy, Ambassador T P Sreenivasan.

The civil services examination is truly transformational for those who make it. They are like pupae, which turn into butterflies overnight.

Others begin to see a halo around them and themselves blossom into mature, responsible and sophisticated individuals, as they climb the bureaucratic hierarchy. The nightmare of the preparations for the examination turns into a dream come true.

Renu may not have fully realised the transformation as yet, but all her interviews and speeches are joyous, generous about sharing credit with family, teachers and friends and expressing her concern for the poorest, lowliest and lost.

She attributes her success to commitment and hard work, not to any exceptional ability. She says she had expected to do well, but never dreamt of the second rank, particularly because, as a first timer, she did not have a sense of her capabilities in comparison to the others.

She will realise the full extent of her accomplishment and blessing only when she reaches the Lal Bahadur Shastri National Academy of Administration in Mussourie and meets the many well-healed and talented youngsters, with greater opportunities, whom she overcame.

Kerala is agog with jubilation over the repeated successes of its men and women, who have been joining the civil services in recent years. Among the men who have done extremely well in recent years are V Sriram, Johny Tom Varghese, Alby John and Abhiram Shankar.

One consequence of these successes will be an exponential growth in aspirants and training centres. The nation needs the best civil servants and Kerala is ready to make its contribution with officers like Renu, bright, committed and full of idealism.

source….T.P.Sreenivasan in http://www.rediff.com

Natarajan

 

 

Message for the Day…” Before You Preach Good Conduct to Others, Set Yourself as an Example…”

Sathya Sai Baba

Everyone is liable to make mistakes without being aware of it. However bright a fire may be, there will be smoke emanating from it. So also, whatever good a person might do, there will be a minute trace of evil. Make every effort to ensure that the bad or evil is minimised, and good is maximised. You may not succeed in the first attempt. Carefully think over the consequences of whatever you do or talk. In whatever way you want others to honour you, love you, or behave with you, in the same way you should first behave with others, and love and honour them. Then they will reciprocate. Instead, without you honouring or loving others, if you complain that they are not treating you properly, it is surely a wrong conclusion. Those who advise others about true and good conduct must follow the advice themselves. Then there is no need for advice, others would simply learn the lesson by example.

Laughter the Best Medicine… “Kids Special “….!!!

                                      Kids really do say the weirdest things!!!!
Read on and you’ll discover the joy in it! These have to be original and genuine. No adult is this creative!!
MELANIE (age 5) asked her Granny how old she was. Granny replied she was so old she didn’t remember any more.. Melanie said, ‘If you don’t remember, you must look in the back of your panties. Mine says ‘five to six’.’
STEVEN (age 3) hugged and kissed his Mom good night. ‘I love you so much that, when you die, I’m going to bury you outside my bedroom window.’

 

BRITTANY (age 4) had an ear ache and wanted a pain killer. She tried in vain to take the lid off the bottle. Seeing her frustration, her Mom explained it was a child-proof cap and she’d have to open it for her. Eyes wide with wonder, the
little girl asked: ‘How does it know it is me?’
SUSAN (age 4) was drinking juice when she got the hiccups. ‘Please don’t give me this juice again,’ she said, ‘It makes my teeth cough.’
DJ (age 4) stepped onto the bathroom scale and asked: ‘How much do I cost?’
CLINTON (age 5) was in his bedroom looking worried When his Mom asked what was troubling him, he replied, ‘I don’t know what’ll happen with this bed when I get married. How will my wife fit in it?’
MARC (age 4) was engrossed in a young couple that were hugging and kissing in a restaurant. Without taking his eyes off them, he asked his dad: ‘Why is he whispering in her mouth?’
TAMMY (age 4) was with her mother when they met an elderly, rather wrinkled woman her Mom knew. Tammy looked at her for a while and then asked, ‘Why doesn’t your skin fit your face?

 

Source….unknown…input from a friend of mine.

Natarajan

Message For the Day…” Understand Properly the True and Divine Nature of the AHAM {I}….

Sathya Sai Baba

You may ask: “How am I to declare, Aham Brahmasmi (I am Divine)?” Yes, you can do so. But, first understand the Aham, the ‘I’, the Divine Principle. Scriptures declare – Ekam Eva adhvitheyam Brahma – The Absolute is One without a second. Though people worship the Absolute with different names and forms, the Supreme Reality is only one. Just as the same person is called in different names by different people at different times, God has many names and forms – all these are creations of the human mind. Scriptures emphatically declare that the Lord is the nameless and attributeless Eternal Reality. Understand properly the true and Divine nature of the Aham (‘I’). The ‘I’ is the master of your body, senses and the intellect, and is the power that permeates the entire cosmos.

Message For the Day…” Talk Less…Think or Work More…”

Sathya Sai Baba

Avoid unnecessary and excessive association with all and sundry. People visit Puttaparthi from America, Japan, Germany, Russia, and so on leaving their parents and kith and kin. Why then should you cultivate new relationships? Keep your association with anyone to the barest minimum. Keep your mind pure. There is no need to indulge in chatter. Talk less, think or work more. Cultivate this habit. Unnecessary association with strangers may have undesirable consequences. To join bad company and come to grief is a self-wrought calamity. Genuine spiritual aspirants should be particularly careful in eschewing bad company. They should create an environment conducive to their spiritual progress and mental peace. That is the only thing Swami wants. Do not waste time. Do not give room for useless thoughts.

 

” இதோ அந்த அம்மா லக்ஷ போஜனம் செய்திருக்கா ….பல லக்ஷ தீபம் போட்டிருக்கா …”

“ஏதோ ஒரு கோயிலில் லக்ஷதீபம் போட, நீ திரவியம்

கொடுத்திருக்கே. லக்ஷம் தீபத்துக்கு எண்ணெய் – திரி

போட்டு உன்னால் ஏற்றவே முடிந்திருக்காது”

சொன்னவர்; ஸ்ரீமடம் பாலு.

தொகுப்பாளர்;டி.எஸ்.கோதண்டராம சர்மா

தட்டச்சு;வரகூரான் நாராயணன்.

ஓர் ஏழைப் பாட்டி.பெரியவாளிடம் அபார பக்தி.

கையிலிருந்த சொற்ப பணத்தைக் கொண்டு மிகவும்

சிக்கனமாக வாழ்க்கையைக் கழித்துக் கொண்டிருந்தாள்.

மடி ஆசாரம் பார்ப்பாள். ஏராளமான பக்தி.

தினமும் பெரியவர் இருக்கும் இடத்தைச் சுத்தம் செய்வாள்.

கோலம் போடுவாள். தீபம் ஏற்றி வைப்பாள்.

இரண்டு புடவைகள் தான் அவளுடைய ஆஸ்தி.இன்னொரு

புடவை வாங்கக் கூட அந்தப் பாட்டியிடம் பொருளில்லை.

ஒரு பக்தர் அரிசிக் குறுணையும்,வெல்லமும்

பெரியவாளிடம் சமர்ப்பிந்திருந்தார்.அவற்றை நல்லபடியாக

விநியோகம் செய்ய வேண்டுமே?

பாட்டிக்கு பெரியவா உத்தரவு போட்டார்கள்.

“காஞ்சிபுரத்தில் உள்ள எல்லா எறும்புப் புற்றுக்களிலேயும்

கொஞ்சம் கொஞ்சம் போட்டுட்டு வா. அரை ஆழாக்கு

வீதம் போடு…” என்றார்கள்.

அந்தப் பாட்டியும் பக்தி சிரத்தையுடன் அலைந்து திரிந்து,

பல எறும்புப் புற்றுகளில் அரிசிக் குறுணையும்,

வெல்லமும் போட்டு விட்டு வந்தாள்.

அந்த வேலை முடிந்ததும் பெரியவா அந்தப் பாட்டியைக்

கூப்பிட்டார்கள்.

பெரிய மாலை போலத் திரிநூல் இருந்தது.

ஒரு டின் நிறைய எண்ணெய் இருந்தது.

“திரிநூலை கட் பண்ணி ஒவ்வொரு கோயிலுக்காகப் போய்,

எவ்வளவு விளக்குக்குப் போட முடியுமோ, அவ்வளவுக்குப்

போடு.ஒவ்வொரு நாளும் இரண்டு,மூன்று கோயில்களுக்குப் போய் விளக்கேற்றினாலும் போதும்” என்றார்கள்.

பாட்டிக்குப் பரம சந்தோஷம். பரம சிரத்தையுடன் நாள்தோறும் சில கோயில்களுக்குச் சென்று பெரியவா உத்தரவை நிறைவேற்றி வந்தாள்.சில நாட்களில் இந்தக் கைங்கரியம் நிறைவு பெற்றது.அந்தச் செய்தியையும் தெரிவித்தாள் பாட்டி.

பாட்டியின் பணிகள் முடிந்த சில நாட்களுக்குப்பின்,

ஒரு பெரிய மனிதர், ஆடம்பரமாக மடத்துக்கு வந்தார்.

பெரிய மனுஷத் தோரணை, அகங்காரம்.

“ஸஹஸ்ரபோஜனம் செய்துட்டு வந்திருக்கேன்.

லட்சதீபம் போட்டிருக்கேன்…..” என்று தற்பெருமை

தொனிக்கப் பெரியவாளிடம் சொன்னார்.

பெரியவாளுக்கு அவருடைய அகம்பாவம் புலப்பட்டது.

தர்ம காரியங்கள் செய்துவிட்டு அதைப் பற்றி பேசிக்

கொள்வது புண்ணியத்தைத் தராது. தர்மம் செய்தவருக்கு

நற்பலன்கள் கிடைக்காமல் போய்விடும்.

வினயத்துடன் சொல்லியிருந்தால் பெரியவா

சந்தோஷப்பட்டிருப்பார்கள். ஆனால்,அந்தப்

பெரிய மனிதர் அகம்பாவத்துடன் பேசினார்.

பெரியவா சொன்னார்கள்.

“இங்கே ஒரு பாட்டி இருக்கா. அந்த அம்மா
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லக்ஷபோஜனம் செய்திருக்காள்.

பல லக்ஷதீபம் போட்டிருக்காள்….”

ஆணவப் பணக்காரருக்கு சற்று திடுக்கிட்டது.

‘யார் அந்தப் பாட்டி…அவ்வளவு பெரிய பணாக்காரி?’

என்று தெரிந்து கொள்ள ஆவல் பிறந்தது.

பெரியவா அந்தப் பாட்டியை அழைத்து வரச் சொன்னார்கள்.

“இவள்தான் அவ்வளவு பெரிய உத்தமமான காரியம்

செய்தவள்…”

அழுக்கான கிழிசல் புடவையைக் கட்டிக்கொண்டு

வந்து நின்ற பாட்டியைப் பார்த்து, பெரிய மனிதர்

அயர்ந்து போனார்.பாட்டியின் நெற்றியிலிருந்த

வெள்ளை வெளேரென்ற திருநீற்றுப் பூச்சு,

அவளுடைய இதய சுத்தத்தை விளாக்கினாற்போலிருந்தது.

பெரியவா சொன்னார்கள்.

“ஸர்வ ஜீவனிலும் பகவான் வியாபித்திருக்கிறார்.

பிரும்மா முதல் பிபீலிகம் (எறும்பு) வரை பகவான்

இருக்கிறார். மனுஷ்யாளிடத்திலும் இருக்கிறார்.

“நீ ஆயிரம் பேருக்கு அன்னம் போட்டிருக்கிறாய்.

ஆனால், இந்தப் பாட்டியோ பல லக்ஷம் ஜீவன்களுக்கு

(எறும்புகளுக்கு) ஆகாரம் போட்டிருக்கிறாள்.

“ஏதோ ஒரு கோயிலில் லக்ஷதீபம் போட, நீ திரவியம்

கொடுத்திருக்கே. லக்ஷம் தீபத்துக்கு எண்ணெய் – திரி

போட்டு உன்னால் ஏற்றவே முடிந்திருக்காது. இந்தப்

பாட்டி, பல கோயில்களுக்குப் போயிருக்கிறாள்.

பக்தி சிரத்தையாய் அகல் வாங்கி,எண்ணெய் ஊற்றி,திரி

போட்டு தன் கையாலேயே ஏற்றியிருக்கிறாள்….”

கேட்டுக் கொண்டிருந்த பிரமுகர் தலைகுனிந்தார்.

பெரியவாளிடம் பவ்யமாகவும்,அகங்காரமில்லாமலும்

பேசவேண்டும் என்பதைப் புரிந்து கொண்டார்.பின்னால்

பல பக்தர்கள் வந்து நிற்பதைப் பார்த்து சற்றே நகர்ந்து

இடம் கொடுத்தார்.

சிறிது நேரம் கழித்து, பெரியவாளே அந்தப் பெரிய

மனிதரைக் கூப்பிட்டு, உட்கார வைத்து,பல சமாசாரங்கள்

பேசி, பிரசாதம் கொடுத்தனுப்பினார்கள்.

அடக்கம் கற்றுக்கொண்ட அவர், ஆனந்தமாகத்

திரும்பிச் சென்றார்

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Natarajan

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Message For the Day…” Which Will Help in the Upkeep of Your Body and Mind …” ?

Sathya Sai Baba

People crave worldly happiness; this craving itself is the disease, and sufferings are but the drugs we take. In the midst of these, one rarely entertains the desire to attain the Lord. However, it is necessary to analyse and discriminate, for the spirit of renunciation is born out of such analysis. Without enquiry, detachment cannot be obtained. Miserliness is like the behavior of a dog; it must be transformed. Anger is the first enemy of a spiritual aspirant. Untruth is even worse – it destroys all the vital powers. Theft ruins life; it makes the priceless human life cheaper than rotten food. Moderate food, moderate sleep, selfless love, and fortitude will help in the upkeep of the health of both your body and the mind. Whoever you are, in whatever condition you may be, do not give room for dispiritedness! Be fearless and remember the Lord with unshaken faith and without any ulterior motive, all suffering and sorrow will fall away.

Laughter the Best Medicine….!!!

 

Two 90 year old men, Mike and Joe, have been friends all of their lives.

When it’s clear that Joe is dying, Mike visits him every day. One day Mike says, “Joe, we both loved cricket all our lives, and we played cricket on Saturdays together for so many years. Please do me one favour, when you get to Heaven, somehow you must let me know if there’s bat and ball there.”

Joe looks up at Mike from his death bed,” Mike, you’ve been my best friend for many years. If it’s at all possible, I’ll do this favour for you.

Shortly after that, Joe passes on.

At midnight a couple of nights later, Mike is awakened from a sound sleep by a blinding flash of white light and a voice calling out to him, “Mike–Mike.”

“Who is it? asks Mike sitting up suddenly. “Who is it?”

“Mike–it’s me, Joe.”

“You’re not Joe. Joe just died.”

“I’m telling you, it’s me, Joe,” insists the voice.

“Joe! Where are you?”

“In heaven”, replies Joe. “I have some really good news and a little bad news.”

“Tell me the good news first,” says Mike.

“The good news,” Joe says,” is that there’s bat and ball in heaven. Better yet, all of our old friends who died before us are here, too. Better than that, we’re all young again. Better still, it’s always spring time and it never rains or snows. And best of all, we can play cricket all we want, and we never get tired.”

That’s fantastic,” says Mike. “It’s beyond my wildest dreams! So what’s the bad news?

“You’re in the team for this Saturday’s match !!!”
Face with stuck-out tongue and winking eyeSmiling face with open mouth and smiling eyes
Friends rock! heaven or hell Thumbs up sign😀😀

source….unknown….input from a friend of mine…
Natarajan

Message for the Day….” Do Not Waste Money…Do Not Waste Food…Do Not Waste Time…Do Not Waste Energy…Do Not Forget God…”

Sathya Sai BabaI want you to exercise control over five vital things in life. (1) ‘Do not waste money.’ Realize that misuse of money is evil. If you wish to keep a photo of Bhagawan, have only one. Why waste your money on buying too many? (2) ‘Do not waste food.’ Realize that ‘Food is God.’ (3) ‘Do not waste Time.’ Time is God. Time wasted is life wasted. (4) ‘Do not waste energy.’ Understand that when you see, speak, hear, act or think energy is expended. In all these activities do not waste your energies unnecessarily. (5) ‘Do not forget God’, at any moment whatever you may be doing. God is present wherever you may go. He is with you, beside you and around you always. Hence there is no need for you to go to some temple to pray to God. Your heart is your temple. Turn your vision inward and understand the Atmic Principle.

 

Message for the Day…” No Weapon More Effective than Patience…”

In this world, there is no penance higher than fortitude, no happiness greater than contentment, no good deed holier than mercy, and no weapon more effective than patience. Devotees should consider the body as the field and good deeds as seeds. Then with the help of the heart as the farmer, cultivate the name of the Lord to reap the harvest – the Lord Himself. Like cream in milk and fire in fuel, the Lord is in everything. Have full faith in this. As is the milk, so is the cream; so also, as is the spiritual discipline, so is the direct experience (sakshatkara) of the Lord! As a consequence of taking up the Lord’s name, four distinct fruits will be experienced by sincere seekers. They are: company of the noble, truth, contentment and control of the senses. Through whichever of these gates one enters, whether one is a householder, recluse, or a member of any other class, one can reach the Lord without fail. This is certain.

Sathya Sai Baba