Message For the Day…” By Conscious Effort, One’s habits can be changed and character refined …”

Among the qualities that make up a flawless character, love, patience, forbearance, steadfastness, and charity are the highest and noblest. The hundred little deeds that we indulge in every day harden into habits; these habits shape the intelligence and mould our outlook and life. One’s present is but the result of one’s past and the habits formed during that long period. But whatever be the nature of the character that one has inherited, it can certainly be modified. Nobody’s wickedness is incorrigible. Wasn’t robber Angulimala, turned into a kindhearted person by Lord Buddha? Didn’t thief Rathnakara become Sage Valmiki? By conscious effort, habits can be changed and character refined. People always have within them, the capacity to challenge their evil propensities and to change their habits. By selfless service, renunciation, devotion and prayer, old habits that bind people to earth can be discarded and new habits that will take them along the divine path be instilled.

Sathya Sai Baba

” I had a 5-hour layover at the No. 2 airport in the world, and it was an absolute joy”…A Transit Pax Experience at Incheon International Airport !!!

Incheon

A layover at Incheon International Airport is something you can actually look forward to.

On a recent vacation in Vietnam, I was dreading the flight back to New York — mainly because I wanted to spend more time hiking in the mountain villages and sipping killer iced coffee, but also because I had a five-hour layover on my 22-hour return trip.

Lucky for me, I had a fantastic economy class experience on Korean Air, and my early morning layover was scheduled for Incheon International Airport in South Korea.

Located 30 miles west of the country’s capital city of Seoul, Incheon ranks second on Business Insider’s 2015 list of the best airports in the world. However, I’d done zero research ahead of my arrival in South Korea, so I was unaware of Incheon International’s stellar ranking.

Determined to stretch my legs before the 13-hour flight to New York, I spent my layover walking around and checking out all the airport had to offer for weary travelers like myself.

5:30 a.m. — Welcome to Korea

5:30 a.m. — Welcome to Korea!

I landed in South Korea after a four-hour flight from Hanoi. The overnight flight combined with the time difference between cities left me awfully drowsy.

After connecting to the airport’s free WiFi, I emailed my parents to let them know I was still alive and then groggily followed these super helpful screens through a security check to the international transfer section.

5:50 a.m. — I arrive at the nicest airport gate I’ve ever seen.

5:50 a.m. — I arrive at the nicest airport gate I've ever seen.

At this early, quiet hour, a few signs and directories told me that things would start to come alive at 7:00 a.m, so I headed to the gate for my 10:05 a.m. flight to JFK.

Once there, I was stunned.

Where was the ratty, blue-gray carpet specked with pastry crumbs? Who had replaced the ambiguously stained, maximized-for-lower-back-pain plastic seating with these sleek, comfortable chairs? Why do these hardwood floors looks so clean and spanking new?

I had an hour to kill so I decided to charge up at the gate.

I had an hour to kill so I decided to charge up at the gate.

These charging stations were great for a couple of reasons. Firstly, they had a few different wattage and plug options, which is really helpful for international travelers. And the outlets were spaced to allow for bulky converters, because there’s nothing more frustrating than a perfectly available outlet being covered by the corner of someone else’s plug.

Lastly, the stations are conveniently located in the seating areas, eliminating the need to sit on the floor next to a wall outlet while your kindle charges. Being able to sit at the main gate and keep eyes on your valuables in the charging station (as well as your luggage) is key.

6:20 a.m. — Then I took a bathroom break in the cleanest public restroom ever.

6:20 a.m. — Then I took a bathroom break in the cleanest public restroom ever.

Airport bathrooms are a necessary evil. Get in, get out, and try to forget it ever happened. If you’re lucky, you won’t have to perform the ballet of “trying not to slip on the ever-present mop water covering the entire floor.”

The Incheon experience is a completely different story. The ladies restroom in my terminal was incredibly clean and absolutely beautiful. Stall doors and walls skirted the floor to provide total privacy. The sinks and mirrors were pristine.

There was also a separate mirror and counter for grooming.

7:00 a.m. — Time to explore!

7:00 a.m. — Time to explore!

I grabbed my giant backpack from the gate, filled it with my fully charged devices, and headed toward the terminal.

Interactive directories were common throughout my walk. The airport has a lot to offer and it was really helpful to see it all laid out on these giant LED boards. The search feature — which lets you search for restaurants, shopping, and more — is an extra touch that really en chanced the airport experience.

7:10 a.m. — I ducked into a Korea Traditional Cultural Experience Center to see what I could learn.

7:10 a.m. — I ducked into a Korea Traditional Cultural Experience Center to see what I could learn.

These centers are scattered around the airport’s terminals. They offer authentic souvenirs, interactive activities, and a stage area designated for cultural performances.

Walking through the exhibits and learning about the country’s history was much more enjoyable than wasting an hour wandering an electronics store or duty free shop.

The center’s interactive arts and craft station made me forget I was in an airport.

The center's interactive arts and craft station made me forget I was in an airport.

The best part of the Korea Traditional Cultural Experience Center was its interactive arts and crafts station.

I presented my boarding pass and a woman dressed in traditional Korean garb showed me to a chair and explained the country’s love of painted wood. She then gave me a wooden key chain with a design drawn on it, handed me some paints and brushes, and told me to take as long as I needed.

I spent about 40 minutes working on my keychain and chatting with other passengers. This was easily the best half-hour I’ve ever spent in an airport, mostly because I forgot I was in one.

Here’s my finished craft project. My apartment keys were instantly more cultured.

Here's my finished craft project. My apartment keys were instantly more cultured.

In case you aren’t into DIY accessories, there’s always Cartier.

In case you aren't into DIY accessories, there's always Cartier.

All airports have shops, but Incheon is lined with high-end luxury boutiques. I passed Cartier, Louis Vuitton, Omega, Tory Burch, Tiffany & Co., and Prada in my terminal alone.

7:50 a.m. — To my surprise and delight, the posh Rest & Relax lounge is open to everyone.

7:50 a.m. — To my surprise and delight, the posh Rest & Relax lounge is open to everyone.

I’m familiar with travel lounges. My dad travels a lot for work and sometimes our family uses his corporate card to hang out in the nicer lounges with big comfy chairs and snacks.

But Incheon’s Rest & Relax lounge is free and open to the entire airport population. With a play area for kids, recliner-filled nap area, café, and shower room, waiting in the lounge is way better than wasting away at the gate.

Inside the lounge, these full-body massage chairs can be enjoyed at no charge.

Inside the lounge, these full-body massage chairs can be enjoyed at no charge.

This chair was intense to say the least. All the buttons on the control panel were removed except one. I pressed the button and the chair tipped back into a near horizontal position with my knees slightly bent.

This massage hurt. The back rotors pounded on my shoulder blades and the leg rotors squeezed my calves to the point of discomfort. It lasted around 15 minutes, which is pretty generous for free use. There was no one else around and I definitely could have stayed longer, but I opted out of a second massage due to the pain of the first one.

However, about seven or eight minutes afterward, I felt great, not to mention better prepared to sit on a plane for 13 hours.

I didn’t take advantage of the lounge showers, but I did take a look around.

I didn't take advantage of the lounge showers, but I did take a look around.

The facility was incredibly clean, with towels and shampoo available. If I had a longer layover or hadn’t showered right before the first leg of my trip, I would have absolutely felt comfortable using this airport shower.

And that’s saying something — I was raised by a mother who brought her own sheets to hotels.

The lounge also houses a colorful play area for kids between the ages of 3 and 8.

The lounge also houses a colorful play area for kids between the ages of 3 and 8.

This sizeable play area includes a small ball pit and mats where kids can sit and play. While there’s always an ick factor associated with play areas (thanks, McDonald’s), the overall cleanliness of the airport led me to think that the kids zone would be properly cared for as well.

It looked awesome and the kids inside appeared thrilled.

Time for more free stuff in the swanky Rest & Relax lounge.

Time for more free stuff in the swanky Rest & Relax lounge.

You can check your bags at this desk and pick them up once you’ve had a nap or done some shopping. It’s a nice alternative to sleeping with one eye open with your carry-on in the seat next to you.

Passengers can also rent books, blankets, and even PC tablets.

8:20 a.m. — These reclining lounge chairs helped me log 45 minutes of uninterrupted sleep before my flight.

8:20 a.m. — These reclining lounge chairs helped me log 45 minutes of uninterrupted sleep before my flight.

Nap rooms in the Rest & Relax area promise comfortable chaise lounges that fully recline. The rooms are kept nice and dark so you can get proper shut-eye.

This was a big deal for me, as I’m not one of those people who can sleep anywhere. The low lighting helped me actually fall asleep for a solid 45-minute nap.

9:15 a.m. — I learn that Korean Dunkin’ Donuts is way better than the American version.

9:15 a.m. — I learn that Korean Dunkin' Donuts is way better than the American version.

Heading back to the gate for my 9:35 a.m. boarding time, I caught sight of the familiar neon orange and pink Dunkin’ Donuts logo.

But this was a Korean Dunkin’ Donuts, and the pastry options were like none I’d ever seen. I saw signs for glutinous rice sticks, honey butter New York pies (similar to a Cronut), something called an “olive chewisty” that resembled a donut hole, and “unpretty cheese fritters,” which sound like cheese fritters with low self esteem.

Until next time, South Korea.

Until next time, South Korea.

I waited for about 20 minutes at the gate and got in line to board around 9:40 a.m. Takeoff was on time, pretty much.

Sitting on the plane I was surprised at how much I enjoyed my layover, and I felt relaxed and ready for the journey ahead.

I was seriously impressed by Incheon International Airport. In fact, if I find myself traveling through this part of the world again, I might choose my flight based on whether it stops in South Korea.

Source….

Natarajan

China’s Hidden Treasures of Natural Beauty ….

China, the most populated country in the world, enjoys a long and rich history. China is the birthplace of one of the world’s earliest civilizations, with archaeological remains from around 80,000 years B.C.E. This great eastern nation is also the home for some of the world’s most beautiful places, varying from cold, unforgiving tundra, to endless rice fields, a sea of red reeds, rainbow-colored thermal pools, and many, many more. Here are just few of China’s endless collection of beauty.

Yuanyang Rice Terraces, Yunnan

Treasures of China

Fishermen At Golden Sunset

Treasures of China

Red Beach, Panjin

Treasures of China

Cormorant Fisherman on Li River

Treasures of China

Thousand Islands Lake

Treasures of China

Fenghuang County

Treasures of China

Leshan Giant Buddha

Treasures of China

Larung Gar

Treasures of China

Where The Great Wall of China Ends

Treasures of China

Hidden Mountain Village, Southern China

Treasures of China

Source….www.ba-bamail.com

Natarajan

” The Hug of the Century …” !!!

 

A woman found a badly injured lion in the forest. She took it with her and nursed it back to health. When it was better, she made arrangements with a zoo to take the lion and give it a new and happy home. This video was taken when she returned to the zoo some time later to see how her lion was doing. Watch the lion’s amazing reaction when he sees her!

 

Source….www.vitality101.com and  www.youtube.com

natarajan

Image for the Day… Spacewalk Selfie …!!!

Astronaut photograph reflected in space helmet visor during spacewalk

Expedition 45 Commander Scott Kelly took this photograph during a spacewalk on Oct. 28, 2015. Sharing the image on social media, Kelly wrote, “#SpaceWalkSelfie Back on the grid! Great first spacewalk yesterday. Now on to the next one next week. #YearInSpace”

This was the first spacewalk for both Kelly and Flight Engineer Kjell Lindgren; the two will venture outside the International Space Station for the second time on Friday, Nov. 6. The two spacewalks were scheduled around milestones in space. Today, Oct. 29, Kelly becomes the U.S. astronaut who has lived in space the longest during a single U.S. spaceflight, and on Monday, Nov. 2, the crew celebrates the 15th year of a continuous human presence in space aboard the station.

During the 7-hour and 16-minute spacewalk, Kelly and Lindgren applied a thermal cover on the Alpha Magnetic Spectrometer; applied grease to a number of components in one of the latching ends of the Canadarm2 robotic arm; and began work to rig power and data system cables for the future installation of a docking port to the station that will be used for the arrival of the Boeing Starliner CST-100 and SpaceX Crew Dragon spacecraft.

Image Credit: NASA

Source…..www.nasa.gov

natarajan

A Manipur farmer grows black rice that cures cancer….

Potshangbam Devakanta from Manipur shows the way in conserving the biodiversity of the state, farming around 100 traditional varieties of paddy and rare medicinal plants, finds Manu A B/Rediff.com.

Image: Devakanta has succeeded in persevering 100 traditional varieties of paddy. Photographs, courtesy: Devakanta

When farmers across India are grappling with weather woes and poor yields, Devakanta from Manipur has succeeded in adopting smart and eco-friendly methods of farming to ensure the harvest is satisfactory year after year.

Like thousands of farmers in India, 60-year-old Devakanta too toils in the paddy fields in Imphal for long hours.

What makes him different from other farmers is his passion to conserve a wide variety of rice in his organic farm, including cancer-curing black rice, called ‘chakhao poireiton’ and drought resistant varieties.

Image: Devakanta’s organic farm is an insiration for many farmers.

He has so far succeeded in persevering 100 traditional varieties of paddy and is cultivating 25 varieties of rice in his lush green farm.

Despite India being one of world’s biggest producers of rice, little is known about the rich variety of rice that is grown across the country.

Manipur has a treasure trove of rice varieties, which can be grown in other states, which too face vagaries of nature.

Image: Devakanta won the PPVFRA conservation award.

Devakanta, who won the PPVFRA conservation award (Protection of Plant Varieties And Farmers Rights Act) in 2012, also cultivates 5 varieties of the rare and highly nutritious variety of black rice, called ‘chakhao poireiton’.

He has travelled all over Manipur, collecting different types of rice – from drought-resistant white rice (crop which needs less water), brown rice and black rice. Manipur is famous for black rice, which has several medical properties as well.

“In Manipur, farmers grow about 20 varieties of black rice and chakhao protein is the best variety.

Image: ‘Black rice, ayurvedic medicines and organic food can lead to a complete cancer cure.’

It has a relatively high mineral content, including iron and amino acids. There are several cases where even cancer patients got cured by having this black rice,” says Devakanta.

Devakanta is currently working with about 200 farmers to increase the cultivation of chakhao poireiton in their farms as well. He inspires other Manipuri farmers to grow this rare rice.

“I am recommending chakhao poireiton to cancer patients who seek my advice. Considering the high prices of allopathic drugs which also have terrible side effects, it is advisable to have black rice. Black rice, ayurvedic medicines and organic food can lead to a complete cancer cure,” explains Dr Anjali Pathak, naturopath and organic consultant.

Image: Devakanta sells organically grown black rice from his farm for just Rs 150.

The rice is also good to fight dieases like viral fever, dengue, chikungunya or influenza.

While some e-commerce sites sell black rice for Rs 300-350 a kg, Devakanta sells organically grown black rice from his farm for just Rs 150.

“I have adopted organic methods of farming. I have also succeeded in convincing many farmers to switch to organic farming. It’s high time we stopped using harmful insecticides and fertilisers. The soil here is very fertile and it is our duty to maintain by using only natural manures and bio-agents to protect the crop,” explains Devakanta.

Image: The produce is high on nutritional value and ensures people who consume it are healthy and have a longer life span.

Many people know that he has an organic farm. So they come to him to buy different varieties of rice. However, if he gets the organic certification, he can package the rice better and sell it for a higher price.

“I don’t have the money to get an organic certification done. I don’t look at the profit aspect. I am more focused on how I farm. Now people who know me buy from my farm. Manipur is one of the few states in India where there is great awareness among people to curb the use of chemicals and fertilizers,” says Devakanta.

There are groups formed by local people who charge a penalty if anyone is found using chemical fertilisers in some districts.

“Traditional methods of farming do not give much yield. From a hectare, I get just 2-3 tonnes of rice every year. However, the produce is high on nutritional value and ensures people who consume it are healthy and have a longer life span, explains Devakanta.

Manipur is a hilly area and farming is done at different altitudes. Most villages are not connected by motorable roads.

Most of the time, Devakanta and his assistants walk for 2-3 days to reach the villages to collect plants and seeds of indigenous crops.

Image: An e-commerce site to sell his products would have helped farmers like Devankanta get good exposure.

Besides the infrastructural issues, there is threat from militant groups who can field workers. “I was once caught by militants. They demanded money. Luckily they let me go after I convinced them that I am a farmer,” says Devankanta.

Farmers like Devakanta need a proper godown to store the rice, machinery to clean and sort the rice, packaging machine machine,  computers to keep stock of the inventory, cameras to document the rice varieties and medicinal plants for the benefit of researchers, funds to train the farmers in better methods of organic farming and plant protection.

An e-commerce site to sell his products would have helped farmers like him get good exposure.

Several farmers will stop growing their unique rice varieties unless they have an incentive to grow it on a large scale. Therefore, Devakanta has turned into a small scale entrepreneur to encourage these small farmers to continue growing their indigenous rice varieties. He buys the harvested rice from the small farmers and is willing to supply it in bulk to buyers in any part of India,” says Anjali pathak.

Devakanta and many farmers like him are looking for support to sustain agriculture.

“The government is not doing enough to promote agriculture. Farmers who do organic farming should be given more incentives. Scientists too must work towards growing better varieties of paddy and other crops so that weather will not spread havoc on crop yield,” says Devakanta.

Devakanta also cultivates one of the hottest varieties of chilli called ‘Bhut jolokia’. It is grown in Assam and Nagaland as well but the Manipuri chilli is considered to be better.

Image: ‘Our nature is blessed with plants that can save us from several ailments.’

Though there is a good demand for this chilli, Devakanta needs funds to buy a sturdy drier to dry the ‘bhut jolokia’ chilis during the peak season.

Devakanta is also conserving medicinal plants of Manipur. He runs an NGO called All Manipur Medicinal and Aromatic Plant Growers’ Consortium.

“We have several high medicinal value plants, some of which are good to cure cancer. Several aromatic plants can be used as inset repellents also. It is difficult to grow and maintain medicinal plants. Our nature is blessed with plants that can save us from several ailments. It is important to protest our naturally available medicinal plans before many varieties get extinct,” says Devakanta.

“Devakanta’s major challenge is to find a place to store harvested rice and spices, dry them, clean and grade it according to the quality. With proper infrastructure in place, Devakanta can provide employment to a few locals and also bring Manipur on the organic map of India,” says Anjali Pathak.

If you want to know more about Devakanta’s initiatives, you can reach him at 09862565030 / 09774269517.

Source…….Manu A B  in http://www.rediff.com

Natarajan

” காலை வணக்கம் சகோதர சகோதரிகளே …”

காலை வணக்கம் சகோதர சகோதரிகளே..

* நீ உன்னுடைய வேலையை இறைவனுக்கு நைவேத்யமாக அர்ப்பணித்து விட்டால், தியானம் என்பதே தேவையில்லை. உன் பணியில் நீ செலுத்தும் கவனம் தியானத்தை விட உயர்ந்தது.

* மேகக்கூட்டம் போல் சிரமங்கள் சூழ்ந்தாலும், அவற்றை உன் இதழ்களில் தவழும் புன்சிரிப்பு என்னும் சூரியன் காணாமல் செய்துவிடும்.

* ஆர்வம், விழிப்புணர்வு ஒருவனிடம் இருந்து விட்டால், ஒவ்வொருநாளும் அவன் லட்சியத்தை நெருங்கிக் கொண்டிருப்பான்.

* பிறர் விஷயங்களில் ஒருபோதும் தலையிட விரும்பாதே. கேட்காமல் யாருக்கும் ஆலோசனை வழங்காதே.

* பணியிலுள்ள சிரமத்தைப் பற்றி தொல்லைப்பட்டுக் கொள்ளாதே. மனதில் சாந்தம் எப்போதும் நிலவும்படி செய்.

* “பேசாதே, செயல்படு’… இதை உன் மனதில் குறித்துக்கொள். வார்த்தைகள் ஒருபோதும் தேவையில்லை. செயலே வாழ்வின் ஆதாரம்.

* தன்னம்பிக்கையுடன் இரு. நேர்மையோடு பிரார்த்தனை செய். நீ கேட்டதை இறைவன் தவறாமல் தந்தருள்வார்.

* தாமதமாக தோன்றும் இரக்கம் பாராட்டுக்கு உரியதல்ல. தக்க நேரத்தில் உன்னால் இயன்ற உதவிகளைச் செய்துவிடு.

அச்சம் என்பது பெரும்மாசு. அற்பமானதும், பலவீனமானதுமான சிறுமைக்கு வாழ்வில் இடமளிக்காதே. நீ இறைவனுக்குச் சொந்தமானவன். எதைக் கண்டும் பயப்படத் தேவையில்லை.

* வாழ்வின் வெற்றி என்பது, ஒருவன் உண்மையைக் கடைபிடிப்பதைப் பொறுத்தது.

* நேர்மையாக இருப்பது போல பாசாங்கு செய்யாதே. தன்னை செம்மைப்படுத்திக் கொண்டு நேர்மையை வளர்த்துக் கொள்வதே சிறந்தது.

* பலசாலிகள் வெற்றியைத் தேடி ஓடுவதில்லை. அது தங்களைத் தேடி வரும்போதே ஏற்றுக் கொள்வார்கள்.

* மற்றவர்கள் உங்களிடம் நல்லவர்களாக நடந்து கொள்ள வேண்டும் என்பதற்காக நல்லவர்களாக இருக்கக் கூடாது. நல்லவனாக இருப்பதற்காகவே, நீ நல்லவனாக இரு.

* நோய் எதுவுமே கடுமையானது அல்ல. மருத்துவர் கூறுவதை அப்படியே ஏற்றுக்கொள்ள வேண்டும் என்பதில்லை. நீ ஏற்றுக்கொண்டாலன்றி அந்த நோய் உன்னை எதுவும் செய்ய முடியாது. நோயாளியின் நம்பிக்கை தான் குணமடையும் ஆற்றலைத் தரும் அருமருந்து.

* எவ்வளவு தூரம் கடவுளை நம்புகிறாயோ, அவ்வளவு தூரம் உன் துன்பங்கள் உன்னை விட்டு பறந்தோடும்.

வாழ்வில் சாதிக்க விரும்புபவனுக்கு ஒருமுகப்படுத்தும் திறன் அவசியம். ஒரு மனிதனின் மதிப்பு அவனுடைய கவனசக்தியை பொறுத்ததே.

* முன்னேறுவதற்காகவே நீ பிறந்திருக்கிறாய். அதனால், வாழ்வில் நீ எவ்வளவோ கற்றுக் கொள்ள வேண்டியிருக்கிறது.

* கோபத்தை அடக்கு. முரட்டுத்தனம் கண்ணீரில் தான் முடியும். எந்தச் சூழலிலும் மனம் கலங்காமல் அமைதியுடன் இரு.

* நீ பிறர் மீது ஆட்சி செலுத்த வேண்டுமானால் உன் மீது நீ ஆட்சி செலுத்தும் திறன் பெற்றிருக்க வேண்டும்.

* லட்சியவாதி தன் குறிக்கோளை தம்பட்டம் அடிக்க மாட்டான். தான் செய்து முடித்ததை பிறர் பாராட்ட வேண்டும் என்று எதிர்பார்க்கவும் மாட்டான்.

* துணிவு மிக்கவன் எத்தனை தோல்விகளை சந்தித்தாலும், இறுதிவரை வெற்றிக்காக போராடிக் கொண்டிருப்பான். நல்வழி நிச்சயம் அவனுக்கு கிடைத்திடும்.

ஸ்ரீ அன்னை

Source….input from a friend of mine.

Natarajan

Images of the Day….Hunter’s Moon

See it! Great photos of Hunter’s Moon

Thanks to all friends who shared your fantastic images of the October 2015 full moon – Northern Hemisphere’s Hunter’s Moon – shining down on all the world.

Everything you need to know: Hunter’s Moon 2015

Photo by James Younger at Vancouver Island.

Photo by James Younger who wrote: “Hello and good morning to you! Truly one of my best wild life experiences ever while photographing the moon. I had to keep stopping taking photographs because Smokey my dog was swimming with the whales 30 feet off shore and would not come back to land. I was stuck between exhilarated and freaked out as I could see the whales breaching near Smokey … an awesome night out on the shore of Vancouver Island.” P.S. Smokey came back.

October 27, 2015 moon in Spain by Javier Martinez Moran.

October 27, 2015 moon in Spain by Javier Martinez Moran.

Lynne Pitts took this photo in New Hampshire on October 26, 2015.  Lynne wrote,

Lynne Pitts took this photo in New Hampshire on October 26, 2015. Lynne wrote: “Went to  the lake to enjoy the sunset and the moonrise. Had a beautiful evening with soft colors and a spectacular moon.”

Moonrise, New Delhi, India, October 25, 2015. Photo: CB Devgun

New Delhi skyline seen as a planet – with a moonrise to one side – a panoramic view! Photo taken from New Delhi, India on October 25, 2015 by CB Devgun.

“This is my wife and my two kids watching tonight’s full moon rise above the horizon … The moon is somewhat deformed in the lower half due to atmospheric refraction.” By FotografGöranStrand on Facebook

Moon on a cloud. Photo: Dinh Nguyen

Moon on a cloud. Photo by Dinh Nguyen

“Spooky moonrise behind clouds from southern Wisconsin, October 26, 2015.” Photo by Suzanne Murphy

Boston, Massachusetts Photo: KL Chipman

Boston, Massachusetts Photo: KL Chipman

Monterrey, Mexico, October 26, 2015. Photo: Raúl Cortés

Monterrey, Mexico, October 26, 2015. Photo: Raúl Cortés

Hunter's Moon, taken by Donna Matthie Pray. October 26, 2015 at Mud Lake in DePeyster, New York

Hunter’s Moon, via Donna Matthie Pray. October 26, 2015 at Mud Lake in DePeyster, New York

Source….www.earthsky.org

Natarajan

” Being Happy Depends on us … We Should Not Be Dependent on Somebody for Our Happiness…”

This article is a must read for everyone
👍👍👍👍

After years of hard & dedicated service to his Company, Rahul was being appointed at  an elegant reception as the new Director.

It was a small function where his wife Anita , a Home Executive & some of the wives of the other persons in top management were also present.

In an adjacent room, Ann, the wife of the CEO of the Company, asked Rahul’s wife a very odd & usual question; “Does your  husband make you  happy?”

The husband, Rahul, who at that moment was not at her side, but was sufficiently near to hear the question, paid attention to the conversation, sitting up slightly, feeling secure, even filling his chest lightly in pride & hope,  would definitely not publically lower or degrade her husband, would answer affirmatively, since she had always been there for him during their marriage and generally in life.

Nevertheless, to both his & the others’ surprise, she replied simply; “No, no he doesn’t make me happy…”

The room became uncomfortably silent, as if everyone were listening to the spouse’s response. There was a sudden coldness in the air. The husband was petrified. A frown appeared on his face.
He couldn’t believe what his wife was saying, especially at such an important occasion for him. To the amazement of her husband & of everyone!

Anita sat up firmly & explained in a modest but stern tone to the other wives who were present;
“No, he doesn’t make me happy… I AM HAPPY. The fact that I am happy or not doesn’t depend on him, but on me. GOD has granted each of us intellect & discretion to reason, interpret & decide. GOD made me the person upon which my happiness depends.

I make the choice to be happy in each situation & in each moment of my life.
If my happiness were to depend on other people, on other things or circumstances on the face of this earth, I would be in serious trouble!

Over my life I have learned a couple of things: I decide to be happy & the rest is a matter of ‘experiences or circumstances’ like helping, understanding, accepting, listening, consoling & with my spouse, I have lived & practiced this many times.

Honestly true happiness lies in being content”

Relieved & reassured, a smile was clearly noticed on Rahul’s face.

Happiness will always be found in contentment, forgiveness & in loving ourselves & others.
To truly love is difficult, it is to forgive unconditionally, to live, to take the “experiences or  circumstances” as they are, facing them together & being happy with conviction.

There are those who say I cannot be happy  :
· Because I am sick.
· Because I have no money.
· Because it’s too cold.
· Because they insulted me.

· Because someone stopped loving me.
· Because someone didn’t appreciate me.

But what they don’t know is that they can be happy even though sick, whether it is too hot, whether they have money or not, whether someone has insulted them, or someone didn’t love or hasn’t valued them.

Being Happy is an attitude about life & each one of us must decide!

Being Happy, depends on us!

It Depends on Me.

I fall. I rise. I make mistakes. I live. I learn. I’ve been hurt but I’m alive. I’m human. I’m not perfect but I’m Thankful.
Worth reading.  and Sharing too…

Source…input from a friend of mine

Natarajan

” நான் வாழை மரம் இல்லை …சவுக்கு மரம் …” !!!

நகைச்சுவை நடிகர் நாகேஷ் அவர்களின் தன்னம்பிக்கை மிக்க அருமையான வார்த்தைகள்…

– வானொலிப் பேட்டியொன்றில் நாகேஷ்

வானொலி: நியாயமாக உங்களுக்கு வரவேண்டிய நல்ல பெயர் மற்றவர்களுக்குச் செல்லும் போது உங்களுக்கு எப்படி இருக்கும்?

நாகேஷ்: நான் கவலையே படமாட்டேன் சார்.
ஒரு கட்டடம் கட்டும் போது, சவுக்கு மரத்தை முக்கியமா வச்சு சாரம் கட்டி, குறுக்குப் பலகைகள் போட்டு, அதன் மேல பல சித்தாள்கள் நின்னு, கைக்குக் கை கல் மாறி கட்டடம் உயர்ந்து கொண்டே போய் பல ஆண்டுகளுக்குப் பிறகு அது முடிந்த பிறகு, அந்தக் கட்டிடத்துக்கு வர்ண ஜால வித்தைகள் எல்லாம் அடிச்சு, கீழ இறங்கும் போது ஒவ்வொரு சவுக்கு மரமாக அவிழ்த்துக் கொண்டே வருவார்கள்.

கட்டடம் முடிந்து கிரஹப் பிரவேசத்தன்று எந்தக் கட்டடம் கட்டுவதற்கு முக்கிய காரணமாக இருந்ததோ அந்தச் சவுக்கு மரத்தை யார் கண்ணிலும் படாமல் பின்னால் எங்கயோ மறைத்து வைத்துவிட்டு, வேறெங்கேயோ வளர்ந்த வாழை மரத்தை முன்னால் நட்டு கிரஹகப் பிரவேசம் நடத்தி அனைவரையும் வரவேற்பார்கள்.
அத்தனை பெருமையும் வாழை மரத்துக்குப் போய் விடும்.
இதில் உள்ள உண்மை என்ன தெரியுமா? அந்த வாழை மரம் மூன்று நாள் வாழ்க்கை தான் வாழும். ஆடுமாடுகள் மேயும். குழந்தைகள் பிய்த்தெடுப்பார்கள். பிறகு குப்பை வண்டியிலே போய்ச் சேரும்.

மறைந்து கிடக்கிறதே அந்தச் சவுக்கு மரம் கண்ணீர் விடுவதில்லை. அடுத்த கட்டடம் கட்டுவதற்கு தயார் நிலையிலj் என்றைக்கும் சிரித்துக் கொண்டேயிருக்கும்.!!!

நான் வாழை அல்ல…! சவுக்கு மரம்….
Think positive always👍😊

Source….input from a friend of mine

Natarajan