Chennai’s Story Needs to be heard…

No one imagined that this could happen to Chennai. We were just a happy little town content with our Kollywood and Coffee, but humanity has won over once again, says Pavithra Selvam.

The rains have finally stopped. Relief work is ongoing and Chennai is collectively pooling in its resources to keep its head above the water. Today Chennai-ites are wading through sewage water and broken roads to reach out to strangers in the hope that someone else would do the same to their loved ones. In a matter of few weeks we’ve literally seen our city crumble and drown in front of our eyes. Tamil Sangam literature is rife with references of floods washing away the mythical lands of ‘Kumari Kaandam’ — it somehow feels like history is repeating itself.

I write this not as a victim, but as a witness to a catastrophe of unprecedented magnitude. I write this to tell our story. I write this so that our voices can be heard. I write this from a position of privilege that I feel guilty for possessing — but I write anyway because I can and I must. We need all the help that we can get and to get that we need our story to be heard.

I live near the Mylapore Kapaleeshwarar temple, the oldest part of Chennai. It is among the very few areas in Chennai to not have water-logging. I have electricity, internet and patchy phone connectivity. My dad hasn’t come home from office in two days. My husband, his parents and his mentally ill grandmother have been stranded in their second floor flat for the last four days. They have neither electricity nor telephone connectivity. They are strictly rationing their food supplies to last at least a few more days.

They are not alone. They are trapped with along with hundreds of other people inside their buildings and streets.

Both my husband’s family and my father aren’t seeking to be rescued. The water levels are four feet deep. Ground and first floor residents have moved to their neighbours’ homes in the second floor. They share their food and space and offer support to each other. They don’t seek to be rescued because the situation isn’t as bad as it is in other places. This is the story of millions of others who are stranded but aren’t seeking to be rescued.

The rescue operations that you hear of in the news are only emergencies. These rescue squads rescue people from places where water is neck-deep and belongings and homes have already been fully submerged. Rescuing people like my dad or husband would be a drain on Chennai’s resources right now. They are safe in their second floor spaces.

On Tuesday night, civilian rescuers started independent rescue operations by crowd-sourcing catamarans, life rafts, motorboats and SUVs. We knew people would die if we waited for the government or army to respond — even if they really wanted to respond, there was not much they could actually do — the city was very quickly sinking. Chennai had to take things into its own hands. The hashtags #chennairainshelp backed by Twitter India’s support started to trend. Since most people didn’t have electricity or internet, it was all word-of-mouth — there was no time to verify information.

Actor Siddharth and RJ Balaji went out on the streets with a group of volunteers rescuing people as they heard about it. Rescue operations continued all night. People started opening up their homes and offering shelter. Random strangers on Twitter recharged mobile phones of strangers just by hearsay. A crowdsourced resource sheet was born —www.chennairains.org. It is still being updated by volunteers who’ve hardly slept in 48 hours. Digital volunteers who had electricity and internet tweeted and posted information for people who were on their way home or stranded. Yesterday Sam Paul, Chennai’s Toni & Guy guy, and Shihan Hussain, Chennai’s favourite karate master, along with hundreds of other volunteers were out on the submerged streets until late in the night conducting search-and-rescue missions, putting their own lives at risk.

Many people were rescued, but so many more weren’t.

Was Tamil Nadu ready for this? Absolutely not.

Did help arrive quick enough? No it didn’t.

While the politics of this incident is an important issue that needs addressing, this is the wrong time to do it. The lack of coverage and appalling apathy from the so-called national news channels is disgraceful. Yesterday Rajdeep Sardesai made a video (external link) about the lack of coverage of the Chennai floods by the national news channels. ‘It takes a 180 people dead in Tamil Nadu for us to wake up,’ he said. I made a casual post on Facebook expressing my displeasure at an NDTV headline that alluded to the Chennai floods as a man-made disaster. The post (external link) went viral and received almost 500 likes and 225 shares in a matter of hours. Chennaiites and south-Indians in general are angry with the poor quality of coverage attributed to our region, especially during a national disaster.

There is a lot of talk about poor town planning, marshland encroachment and land reclamation. Let’s not make this politics — this is not the time to play this game. We need solutions right now and quick. We have a situation of dire crises unfolding in Chennai. We have hundreds of thousands of climate refugees taking shelter in schools, malls, theatres, marriage halls and religious establishments. There are tens of thousands more who need to be rescued. These people need food, clothes, sanitation facilities and medicines. There is flooding all over the city — the water isn’t just rain water, it is rain water mixed with sewage. We are at the brink of a disease breakout.

No one imagined that this could happen to Chennai. We were just a happy little town content with our Kollywood and Coffee.

But humanity has won over once again. Caste, creed, religion and social background have become immaterial. Who said we are an intolerant society? Look at Chennai, the collective good is the only thing that matters here on our streets.

Aid is pouring in from our neighbouring states. Strangers from Bangalore are making dangerous road trips with much needed supplies to be on the ground. This is who we are — we stand united in all our diversity — we are Indians. Our governments may fail us but we lift each other up and help each other as our brethren. Yes, we are a disaster zone. But we are going to get back on our feet and wade through the deluge.

Chennai will emerge stronger and wiser, no doubt. But the more important thing for the people reading this is to take charge and tell your governments to clean up their game — because it could be your city next.

Image: People wait for relief material and food packets at the roof of a building in flood-hit Chennai on Thursday. Photograph: PTI Photo.

Pavithra Selvam is a communications specialist born and raised in Chennai. Though she often lives in foreign lands, Chennai is her true love.

Source…..Pavithra Selvam in http://www.rediff.com

Natarajan

 

 

Message for the Day… “Love knows no fear, it promotes truth, it finds peace, it builds faith, and it promotes concord…”

Sathya Sai Baba

The individual ‘I’ believes it is limited; but that is an illusion. It is the same Universal Spirit, imagining itself to be limited. This awareness can come to you either through a flash of intellectual analysis or a flash of Universal Love. The awareness is an act of identification which requires Love. Love is God; Love is the means and end. That is why there are no atheists for there is no being without love of some kind or other. And love of any kind, of any measure, is but a spark of Divinity. Love knows no fear, it promotes truth, it finds peace, it builds faith, and it promotes concord. To develop love, the easiest, highest and the most fruitful sacrifice is that of the ego. Crucify it and be free. Dedicate it to God, and be rich and happy beyond all your imagination.

” I Love you My Darling daughter….”

This beautiful story is a real eye-opener, one that really touched my heart,  making me aware of the many times, I hate to admit, that I took my own mother for granted when she needed me most. The letter offers a heart-wrenching perspective for when ‘the day’ arrives, detailing the many patient moments that this mother had with her child when she was younger- the repeated stories, the forgotten details, the minor inconveniences. She uses these experiences to help her beloved daughter overlook all the difficulties that her mother now faces in old age, asking her to cherish the time they have together.
Read her beautiful story below and share it with someone you love – we all need a little perspective like this every now and again.  

My Dear Girl

The day you see I’m getting old, I ask you to please be patient, but most of all, try to understand what I’m going through.
If when we talk, I repeat the same thing a thousand times, don’t interrupt to say: ‘You said the same thing a minute ago’… just listen please. Try to remember the times when you were little and I would read the same story night after night until you would fall asleep.
When I don’t want to take a bath, don’t be mad and don’t embarrass me. Remember when I had to run after you making excuses and trying to get you to take a shower when you were just a girl?

mother daughter

When you see how ignorant I am when it comes to new technology, give me the time to learn and don’t look at me that way… remember honey, I patiently taught you how to do many things like eating appropriately, getting dressed, combing your hair and dealing with life’s issues every day.
The day you see me getting old, I ask you to please be patient, but most of all, try to understand what I’m going through.
If I occasionally lose track of what we’re talking about, give me the time to remember, and if I can’t, don’t be nervous, impatient or arrogant. Just know in your heart, the most important thing for me is to be with you.

And when my old, tired legs don’t let me move as quickly as before, give me your hand the same way I offered mine to you when you first walked.
When those days come, don’t feel sad… just be with me, and understand me while I get to the end of my life with love. I’ll cherish and thank you for the gift of time and joy we shared.
With a big smile and the huge love I’ve always had for you, I just want to say…

I Love You My Darling Daughter

SOURCE……………www.ba-bamail.com

Natarajan

Message for the Day…” HE Sees, Hears, and Knows Everything…”

The Lord is attained only through supreme devotion (para-bhakthi).Supreme devotion can be acquired only through spiritual wisdom (jnana).Spiritual wisdom can be cultivated only through faith (sraddha), and faith comes only through love. So how is love to be cultivated? Through two methods: 1. Always consider the faults of others, however big, to be insignificant and negligible. Always consider your own faults, however insignificant and negligible, to be big, and feel sad and repentant. By these means, you avoid developing bigger faults and defects, and acquire the qualities of brotherliness and forbearance. 2. Whatever you do, with yourself or with others, do it remembering that God is omnipresent. He sees, hears and knows everything. Discriminate between the true and the false, and speak only the truth. Discriminate between right and wrong, and do only the right. Endeavour every moment to be aware of the omnipotence of God.

Sathya Sai Baba

Sai Spiritual Showers…” In weak moments, we must pray to Swami for His benign grace so that we may always feel His Presence within us.”

As I sit alone in a rather pensive mood, attempting a mental resume
of my student life at His Lotus Feet, the thought overawes me that, in
fact, seven precious summers have passed since I entered the portals
of this paradise. It is unbelievable… for was it not only yesterday
that I joined Bhagawan’s college? Verily one forgets to keep track
of time when one is living with Eternity Itself.

The thought gives me joy with a tinge of sorrow, for when I try to
peep into the inner recesses of my heart to find the glow of His Love,
I at once discover that He has been unfailing in His bountiful love
for me. Inspite of knowing that He is the way and the goal for all of
us without Whom our lives would not bear any meaning or taste, we fail
to understand His Love.

On a number of occasions, He has reminded us to realise the DIVINITY
in Him and not to be deluded by external appearances. Through parables
and examples, jokes and stories He has been constantly trying to drive
home that TRUTH in all of us.

One such golden moment came in my life on a bright morning. The Day
was the 7th of November 1984. All of us were eagerly awaiting
Swami’s Darshan. As He came out, He picked up four boys and I was
one of the fortunate four. Swami directed us to go to the anteroom in
the Mandir apparently to clean and tidy up the room.

As I sit alone in a rather pensive mood, attempting a mental resume
of my student life at His Lotus Feet, the thought overawes me that, in
fact, seven precious summers have passed since I entered the portals
of this paradise. It is unbelievable… for was it not only yesterday
that I joined Bhagawan’s college? Verily one forgets to keep track
of time when one is living with Eternity Itself.

The thought gives me joy with a tinge of sorrow, for when I try to
peep into the inner recesses of my heart to find the glow of His Love,
I at once discover that He has been unfailing in His bountiful love
for me. Inspite of knowing that He is the way and the goal for all of
us without Whom our lives would not bear any meaning or taste, we fail
to understand His Love.

On a number of occasions, He has reminded us to realise the DIVINITY
in Him and not to be deluded by external appearances. Through parables
and examples, jokes and stories He has been constantly trying to drive
home that TRUTH in all of us.

One such golden moment came in my life on a bright morning. The Day
was the 7th of November 1984. All of us were eagerly awaiting
Swami’s Darshan. As He came out, He picked up four boys and I was
one of the fortunate four. Swami directed us to go to the anteroom in
the Mandir apparently to clean and tidy up the room.

After going round the devotees and granting them the much-coveted
darshan, Swami came straight into the room, where we were engaged in
cleaning the place. We all stood in front of Him with folded hands.
Swami in His characteristic and Divine way proceeded to grant us one
of the rarest moments of our lives.

Swami pointed to a deerskin which was rolled and kept on a rack, and
addressed one of the boys, “Take this deer skin to the Himalayas and
do Tapasya there?†For a moment the boy was nonplussed. “Did He
really mean it? Is Swami telling seriously or is it meant to be a
pleasant joke?†There was silence for a few seconds, while Swami
waited for an answer from us. Swami looked at me and asked, “Is it
good to do Tapasya in the Himalayas?†I promptly said, “Yes
Swami.†But this answer did not satisfy Him. He Himself said, “Do
you not realise that the RESULT of all Tapasya is Here?†and pointed
at Himself.

He thus gave us a glimpse of His Divinity and showed that there is no
need to do Tapasya in the Himalayas when the object of all such
endeavours was right in front of us in flesh and blood. He continued,
“Whenever I give darshan to those who are engaged in penance in the
Himalayas, even for a few seconds, they feel extremely blissful for
having attained that Vision Of God. And they regard it as a great
experience. But you all are having My darshan every morning and
evening, yet, you never realise the value of it.

He gave further a beautiful illustration. “Whenever people desire
to see an elephant they go to the forest. And by chance, if they see
even the tail of an elephant whose body might have been hidden among
the bushes and shrubs, they feel immense joy at having seen an
elephant. In your case, there is an elephant (Sai Geeta) in front of
your hostel. But you do not pine to see her, because she is a familiar
sight.â€

We must realise the value of His Divine Darshan from these examples.
Since we are blessed with the opportunity to be near Him, we should
make the best use of each and every moment of our life here.
Sometimes, we may be confused by delusion and despair. In those weak
moments, we must pray to Swami for His benign grace so that we may
always feel His Presence within us.

Source……..Sai Spiritual Showers….www.sssbpt.org

Natarajan

 

அமெரிக்கர் வியந்த தொழில்நுட்பம் – ‘சென்னானேரி’….

குழந்தைகளை நேசிப்பதுபோல ஏரி, குளங்களை நேசித்தவர்கள் நம் முன்னோர்கள். தாங்கள் வெட்டிய ஏரிகளுக்கும், குளங்களுக்கும் பிடித்தமான பெயர்களைச் சூட்டி மகிழ்ந்தனர். மலர்கள் சூழ்ந்த குளங்களை பூங்குளம், அல்லிக்குளம், ஆம்பக்குளம், குறிஞ்சிக்குளம் என்றும், மரங்கள் சூழ்ந்த குளங்களை மாங்குளம், இலுப்பைக் குளம், பலாக்குளம், விளாங்குளம், வாகைக்குளம் என்றும் அழைத்தனர். தெய்வத்தின் பெயர்களிலும் குளங்கள் அழைக்கப்பட்டன.

நீர்நிலைகள் மீது அக்கறையோடு மிகுந்த நேசமும் வைத்திருந்ததால்தான், அதை வெறும் குளம், குட்டை என்று அழைக்காமல் பாசத்தோடு பெயர் வைத்து அழைத்தனர். ஆனால், நவீன தொழில்நுட்பங்களில் முன்னேறிவிட்ட நாம், நமக்கு நினைவு தெரிந்து கடந்த 50 ஆண்டுகளில் ஒற்றைக் குளத்தை யாவது உருவாக்கி பெயர் சூட்டி யிருப்போமா?

ஆற்றின் கால்வாய்கள், வெள்ள நீர் வடிகால்களை எப்படி எல்லாம் சீரழித்தோம் என்று நேற்று பார்த்தோம். ஆயிரக்கணக்கான ஆண்டுகளுக்கு முன்பே உருவாக்கப்பட்ட அந்த வடிகால் கள். அரிகேசரி ஆறு, வல்லபப் பேராறு, நாட்டாறு, பராக்கிரமப் பேராறு இவை எல்லாம் வைகை ஆற்றுக் கல்வெட்டுகளில் கண்டெடுக்கப்பட்ட பெயர்கள். ஆனால், இவை ஆறுகளின் பெயர்கள் அல்ல. வைகையில் இருந்து ஏரிகளுக்கு தண்ணீர் எடுத்துச் செல்லும் கால்வாய்களின் பெயர்கள். கால்வாய்களே ஆறுபோல பெரிய அளவில் வெட்டப்பட்டன என்பதை கல்வெட்டுக் குறிப்புகள் உணர்த்து கின்றன.

இவ்வாறாக மொத்தம் 3 வகை கால்வாய்கள் அமைக்கப்பட்டன. முதலாவது, வரத்துக் கால்வாய் (Supply Channel). இவற்றில் வரத்துக் கால்வாய்களின் தொழில்நுட்பம் அபாரமானது. ஆறுகளில் குறிப்பிட்ட வளைவுகளில் மட்டுமே வரத்துக் கால்வாய்களின் தலைப்பகுதி வெட்டப் பட்டன. அப்படி வெட்டும்போது ஆற்றில் இருந்து தண்ணீர் மட்டுமே கால்வாய்க்குள் செல்லும். மணல் புகாமல் தடுக்கப்பட்டது. தவிர, ஆற்றில் நீர்வரத்து குறையும் காலத்தில்கூட தடையின்றி கால்வாய்க்குள் தண்ணீர் சென்றது. இதற்கு இன்றும் உதாரணமாக இருக்கிறது வைகை ஆற்றில் இருந்து வட ஏரிக்கு தண்ணீர் எடுத்துச் செல்லும் கால்வாய்.

இரண்டாவது, மறுகால் அல்லது வெள்ள வடிகால் (Surplus Channel). வெள்ளக் காலங்களில் ஏரிகளின் உபரி நீரை கலிங்கல் வழியாக வெளியேற்றும் கால்வாய்தான் மறுகால்வாய். இவற்றின் கொள்ளளவும் ஏரியின் நீர்வரத்துக் கால்வாயின் கொள்ளளவும் சமமாக இருக்கும். நீர்வரத்தும் நீர் வெளியேற்றமும் சரிசமமாக அமைந்து வெள்ளப் பெருக்கை தடுக்க உதவிய தொழில்நுட்பம் இது.

மூன்றாவது, பாசனக் கால் அல்லது கழனிக்கால் (Distribution Channel). ஏரி மடையின் வெளிப்புறத்தில் அமைக்கப் பட்ட இந்த கால்வாய்கள் மூலம் பாசன நிலங்களுக்கு தண்ணீர் பிரித்து விநியோகிக்கப்பட்டது. நிலங்களின் அளவுக்கு ஏற்ப அமைக்கப்பட்ட இந்த கால்வாய்கள் கண்ணாறு, வதி, பிலாறு என்றெல்லாம் அழைக்கப்பட்டன. இவற்றின் தொழில்நுட்பத்தைக் கண்டு இன்றைய நவீன நீரியல் நிபுணர்களே வியக்கின்றனர்.

நெல் பயிரிடுவதற்கு மிருதுவான நிலம் தேவை. அதற்காக நிலத்தை மிருதுவாக்கவும், சமப்படுத்தவும் அதிக அளவில் நீர் தேக்கப்பட்டது. சில நாட்களுக்குப்பிறகு, அதை உழுது நீரை வடித்து விட்டு, நெற்பயிரை நடுவார்கள். இப்படி வடிக்கும்போது கிடைக்கும் உபரி நீரையும், கூடுதலாக கிடைக்கும் மழைநீரையும் வடிகால் வாய்க்கால் களில் சேகரித்து, அடுத்தடுத்த வயல் களுக்கு விடுவார்கள். இது மிகச் சிறந்த நீர் சிக்கன மேலாண்மை. இதற்கேற்ற மிக நுட்பமான நில மட்ட அளவுகளில் பாசனக் கால்வாய்கள் அமைக்கப்பட்டன.

இதற்கு உதாரணமாக திகழ்ந்தது சென்னானேரி. இது திருநெல்வேலி மாவட்டத்தில் பணகுடி – கள்ளப்பனை கிராமங்களுக்கு இடையே இருக்கிறது. ஓய்வுபெற்ற பொதுப்பணித் துறை பொறியியல் அறிஞர்கள் ச.மா.ரத்னவேல், கள்ளபிரான் ஆகியோர் இந்த ஏரியை நேரில் ஆய்வு செய்து, இதன் தொழில்நுட்பம் பற்றி ஏராளமான குறிப்புகளை எழுதியுள்ளனர்.

ஏரியின் பாசனப் பரப்புகள் மேற்கில் இருந்து கிழக்காக மிதமான சரிவுடனும், தெற்கில் இருந்து வடக்காக கூடுதல் சரிவுடனும் உள்ளன. கால்வாய்கள் வழியாக பாசன நிலங்களுக்கு தண்ணீர் விடப்பட்டபோது தண்ணீர் வேகமாக பாய்ந்து, வளமான மேல் பகுதி வண்டலை அரித்துச் செல்லாதபடி விடப் பட்டன. தெற்குப் பகுதியின் பிரதான கால்வாயில் இருந்து தண்ணீர் வயலுக்குச் செல்கிறது. வடக்குப் பகுதி யின் வாய்க்கால் உபரிநீரை வடிக்கிறது. இன்றைய நவீன பொறியாளர்களின் கற்பனைக்கு எட்டாத தொழில்நுட்பம் இது.

அமெரிக்க பொறியியல் வல்லுநர் கில்பர்ட் லாவேன் (Gilbert Lavine) தனது ‘Irrigation and Agricultural Development of Asia’ நூலில் மேற் கண்ட தொழில்நுட்பத்தை எப்படி சிலாகிக்கிறார் தெரியுமா?

‘‘மிதமான சாய்வு தளமாக உள்ள நிலப்பரப்பில் மேல் வரிசைப் பயிர்களுக்கு குறிப்பிட்ட அளவுக்கு முதலில் நீர் பாய்ச்சப்படுகிறது. பிறகு சுழற்சி முறையில், அடுத்த வரிசை களில் அமைந்த பாத்திகளுக்கு படிப் படியாக நீர் அளவைக் குறைத்து பாய்ச்சப்படுகிறது. மேல் பாத்திகளுக்கு ஊற்றப்படும் நீர், கீழ் பாத்திகளுக்கும் வழிந்தோ, கசிந்தோ வரும் என்பதால் நீர் அளவு குறைக்கப்படுகிறது. இதனால் எல்லா அடுக்குகளிலும் உள்ள பயிர்களுக்கும் போதுமான தண்ணீர் கிடைக்கிறது. எல்லா பாத்திகளுக்கும் சம அளவில் தண்ணீர் பாய்ச்சாமல் தண்ணீரை சிக்கனமாகவும் பயனுள்ள வகையிலும் பயன்படுத்த முடிகிறது. மிகவும் சிக்கனமான, பயனுள்ள இந்த நீர் மேலாண்மை வளரும் நாடுகளில்கூட புழக்கத்தில் இல்லை!’’ என்கிறார் அவர்.

ஒரு அமெரிக்கப் பொறியாளருக்கு தெரிந்த அருமை நமக்குத் தெரியாமல் போனதுதான் வேதனை.

இவ்வளவு சிறப்பு வாய்ந்த சென்னானேரியை பார்க்க பணகுடி கிராமத்துக்கு சென்றோம். ஏரியின் பெயரைச் சொல்லிக் கேட்டால் ஊரில் யாருக்கும் தெரியவில்லை. அப்படி ஒரு ஏரியே இல்லை என்றார்கள்.

கடைசியில், ஜெபக்குமார் என்ற பள்ளித் தலைமை ஆசிரியர், ‘‘சென்னா னேரி என்ற பெயரை எல்லாம் மக்கள் மறந்து பல ஆண்டுகள் ஆகிறது. பராமரிப்பும் இல்லாமல் பாழாகிக் கிடக்கிறது ஏரி’’ என்றார். நம்மை ஏரிக்கு அழைத்துச் சென்று காட்டினார்.

கடல்போல பரந்திருந்தது ஏரி. இப்போது பெய்த மழையில் ஏரி நிரம்பி இருந்தாலும் உள்ளே சீமைக் கருவேல மரங்கள் ஆக்கிரமித்திருந்தன.

வெளிநாட்டு பொறியாளர்களையும் வியக்கவைத்த தொழில்நுட்பக் கால்வாய்கள் மண்மூடிப் போய் அனாதையாய்க் கிடந்தன. மதகுகளும் பராமரிப்பின்றிக் கிடந்தன.

‘‘ஏரி முழுக்க தண்ணியிருந்தும், என்ன பிரயோசனம்.. பெருசா பாசனம் ஒண்ணும் இல்லீங்க’’ என்று அங்க லாய்த்தார் அங்கு வந்த உள்ளூர்க்காரர்.

எப்படி இருக்கும் பாசனம்? நாம்தான் கண் இருந்தும், பார்வையற்றவர்களாக அல்லவா இருக்கிறோம்!

Source….டி.எல்.சஞ்சீவிகுமார்….www.tamil.thehindu.com

Natarajan

Message for the Day…” God is Everywhere and is all Powerful …”

Sathya Sai Baba

I have often said, “My Life is My Message”. Avatars make such a proclamation only to demonstrate their Divinity. They are children among children, men among men, and women among women, so that they may respond to everyone’s joy and sorrow, console them and infuse confidence and courage into their drooping hearts. Avatars appear among humans since birds, beasts, trees, etc. have not slid into unnatural ways. It is only human beings pursuing the mirage of worldly happiness and sensual pleasure, who have forgotten the task for which they came to earth. God assumes human form only to restore Dharma and lead you back into the path of virtue and wisdom! Hence God is pleased with the rigorous adherence to Dharma. Practice righteousness, it will fill every moment of your life with bliss and the joy of self-realisation. God is everywhere. He is all-powerful. He sees everything. He resides in every heart and listens to every agony and prayer. Have faith in God.

” Is that Want or Need…” ? ….A Money Lesson for all of us…

Dad

Kathleen Elkins

It was about 1997 when my dad first gave me the,
Is that a want or a need? talk.

I was a kindergartner who really wanted chocolate milk at the Soda Shop, a local diner in my hometown of Davidson, North Carolina.

The speech went over my 6-year-old head, but the conclusion of the message stuck — never ask for chocolate milk at a restaurant.

Order water because it’s free.

I learned that afternoon that chocolate milk qualifies as a want, while water qualifies as a need.

As I got older, I started to figure out how other things fall under these two categories. I learned, for example, that those new pair of Sambas I’d been eying counted as a want, but tennis shoes counted as a need, as I travelled for competitive tennis tournaments every weekend.

At first, I was guided by my dad and his definitions of “wants” and “needs,” but eventually I started to formulate my own definitions. I noticed that the chocolate milk column grew exponentially quicker than the water column — luckily for childhood me, I knew not to dare touch the “want” column.

Sure, it was helpful to develop this frugal lifestyle centered around “need-buying” as a high schooler and college student, but my dad’s lesson has become more valuable than ever upon entering the “real world,” where in order to stay afloat with minimal income in an expensive city New York City, you have to distinguish needs and wants.

What this distinction does, is it makes you a diligent and conscious spender, a habit that takes time to form — a habit that a personal finance book or class can define, but can never trulyteach.

That 1997 chocolate milk lesson looms over every purchase I make. I first determine whether or not I’m buying a want or a need, and if it’s a want, I weigh the pros and cons before mindlessly spending.

Of course, there’s always a time and place for a chocolate milk — the occasional splurge keeps you sane — but for the most part, I’ll be the one with the glass of water.

Source…….KATHLEEN ELKINS in http://www.businessinsider.com

Natarajan

Message for the Day…” Immerse Yourself in Spiritual Practice to keep Yourself Away from Worldly Worries…”

The almanac might indicate that ten units of rain will fall, but even if you fold that news sheet ten times and squeeze, not a drop of rain can be extracted. Almanac’s purpose is to give information about rain. Rain is in the clouds above. After learning from scriptures, if you immerse yourself in spiritual practice, then the world and its worries will not affect you. It is only when you are far from practice that you experience suffering and feel pain. As you approach the marketplace, you hear a huge indistinct uproar. But when you enter it, you can clearly distinguish each conversation. So too until the reality of the Supreme (Paramatma) is known to you, you are overpowered and stunned by the uproar of the world! But when you practice sincerely, everything becomes clear and the Divine reality awakens within you. Until then, you will be caught up in the meaningless noise of argumentation, disputation, and exhibitionist flamboyance.

Sathya Sai Baba