Srirangam Ranganathaswamy Temple Navarathri Golu At 1000 Pillars Mandapam…

Srirangam Golu at 1000 pillars mandapam
This Annual Year (Jaya varusha) Sri Ranganathaswamy Temple Committee has organised for Golu for the first time at Srirangam Sri Ranganathaswamy Temple Srirangam. The Navarathri Golu display (alankaram) took place during the Navarathri from 24th september 2014 at 1000 Pillar Mandapam ( Ayiram Kaal Mandapam) at Srirangam. The Golu Display was scintillating to the eyes of Devotees of having darshan of  many perumals and  models of  Divyadesam.Lot of astikas after having darshan of Periyaperumal and Sri Ranga Nayagi Thayar visited the golu display and enjoyed the Vaibhavams of Divyadampatis.
Some bhaagavathas  welcomed for keeping golu display and few raised voices, stating its against the Agama Sastras and not done on olden  days (Vazhakkathil illadhadhu). Inspite of  Golu display is agreeable or not, many astikas who visited  got  mesmerized by the beautiful  arrangements with lightings done for  Golu  toys ( bommai) display at 1000 pillar mandapam  at Srirangam.
These are some of the photographs taken during the Golu Display at Srirangam.
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Photography : Sri Jagannathan R 
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Natarajan

” Pain in the Neck …” !!!

Treating Neck Pain At Home
Do you wake up some mornings with a very stiff neck? There could be a variety of reasons for the intense pain, but before we get into the causes and symptoms, it’s important to understand some basic anatomy first.

The neck is located at the uppermost section of the spinal column. It contains seven sets of vertebrae, also known as cervical vertebrae. The neck contains many sensitive nerve endings, making it a powerful erogenous zone,

By the end of this article, you’ll be more familiar with the causes and symptoms of neck pain, and have a better understanding on how to treat the pain at home.


Main Causes of Neck Pain

  • Shooting pain that radiates down your arms.
  • Injuries related to sports.
  • Sitting for long hours slumped over a computer desk.
  • Whiplash from vehicle accidents.
  • Sleeping in the wrong positions.
  • Pillows that don’t fully support the neck.
  • Stress can induce neck pain.
Common Symptoms  Related Diseases and Disorders
Muscle sprain Meningitis
Difficulty swallowing Osteoarthritis
Arm numbness Osteomyelitis
Dizziness Whiplash
Lymph node swelling Herniated disc
Headache Laryngitis
Shoulder pain Neck cancer
Back pain Fibromyalgia
Pinched nerve Polymyalgia Rheumatica

Recommended Treatments You Can Do At Home 
Hot and Cold Therapy –  Heat therapy can be used to alleviate neck pain. There are two main types of heat therapy, which consist of dry heat and moist heat. Heating pads contain dry heat, while steamed towels constitute moist heat. Electric heating pads keep a constant heat level as long as they are fully charged. The therapeutic benefits of heat therapy help reduce joint pain, muscle spasms and arthritis, all common contributors of neck pain.
hot cold
You can begin the heat therapy process by applying a heating pad between 15 to 20 minutes every 2 or 3 hours. Ice packs may be applied to the neck for the same duration as the heating pad. The ice pack drastically reduces inflammation and soothes the affected areas. There are also single-use heat wraps that last up to 8 hours, which can be used as an alternative to heat pads.
Perfect Posture Exercise – Remember when your parents told you to stand up straight? There’s perfectly good reason behind that. Standing in an upright position greatly improves posture and spine health. There is an exercise you can perform at home to help build perfect posture:
Stand with your back against a wall, while keeping your heels just a few inches away. The heels are the only part of the body that does not come in contact with the wall. Walk away from the wall and back to check that your posture is upright. Repeat process throughout the day.
Isometric Neck Exercise – Isometric exercises play a vital role in maintaining a strong and healthy neck. This particular exercise is performed against the resistance of your neck, keeping your head in a static position. Here’s how to perform an isometric exercise:
Begin by sitting in a relaxed position with your hands touching your forehead. Your palms are used to resist the pressure, as you lean in towards your forehead. Place your right hand to the right side of your head, and let the left side resist the pressure being applied. Make sure you switch sides after.
The next step is to press both hands against the back of your neck, and resist your head from going backward. To complete the exercise, you’ll want to press your left hand against the right side of your face as you try to turn your head to look over your right shoulder. Don’t forget to switch sides.
Range-of-Motion Neck Exercise – In order to complete the range-of-motion exercise, you should slowly turn your head to the far right, pause a second, and return it to the center position. Do the same for the other side.
Drop your chin down slowly toward your chest, while holding for a brief static moment, then relax. You head should be back up in the center position now. Gently tilt your head toward your left shoulder, while holding for a moment, and gradually return to the center position.
Pillows Can Make the World of Difference – Last but not least, are pillows. There are certain pillows that are ideal for preventing neck pain. Water-filled pillows are used to alleviate neck pain, and give you a good night’s sleep.
Orthopedic pillows are used to support the curvature of your neck, whereas, water-filled pillows, support the neck by redistributing the weight. The main function of each pillow is to keep your neck in a neutral position when you sleep. Make sure you choose a comfortable and firm mattress as well.

A Few Extra Tips 

  • Get a remedial massage
  • Go for a swim
  • Consider acupuncture treatment
  • Try aromatherapy as an alternative approach

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Natarajan

Message For the Day…” Wherever You Go . The Divine Feet will Protect You…”

You may encounter any number of losses and difficulties in life. You may undergo a lot of suffering. But, you should never give up truth, faith and love. Loss, suffering and difficulties are like the waves in the ocean of life. They just come and go. But the water of the ocean is permanent. Hence develop the faith of ‘water’, i.e., Divinity. The power of the divine name is unparalleled. Do not take it lightly. God’s name is the real diamond. Keep it safe and secure. Do not ever be bothered by pain and suffering, losses and difficulties. Your thoughts are like the passing clouds. Once you seek refuge in the lotus feet of the Lord, never give it up. Wherever you go, the divine feet will protect you. If you install the divine name firmly in your heart, your life will become sanctified. That is devotion (bhakti). That is your power (sakthi). That is liberation (mukti). 

Sathya Sai Baba

“மூன்று ரூபாய் மூலிகை …”

  • உள்படம்: தனலட்சுமி
    உள்படம்: தனலட்சுமி
  • வல்லாரை - ஆகாசக் கிழங்கு
    வல்லாரை – ஆகாசக் கிழங்கு

மலைக்கோட்டையைப் பார்த்துக்கொண்டே, திருச்சி பெரிய கடைவீதியில் நடந்து சென்றால் ஆங்காங்கே பச்சைப் பசேலென மூலிகைச் செடிகள் குவித்து வைக்கப்பட்டிருக்கின்றன. அவற்றின் முன்னால் அமர்ந்திருக்கும் பெண்கள் பெரும்பாலும் வயதானவர்களாக இருக்கிறார்கள். இவர்களைச் சுற்றிலும் நிற்கும் மனிதர்கள் இயற்கையோடு தங்களை இணைத்துக்கொண்டு வாழப் பழகியவர்கள். ஆம், அங்கு பச்சை நிறத்தில் குவிந்து கிடப்பவை எல்லாம் நம்மில் பலர் மறந்துபோன நாட்டு வைத்தியத்துக்குப் பயன்படும் மூலிகைச் செடிகள்.

இந்த வீதியில் நூறாண்டுக்கும் மேலாக மூலிகைச் செடிகள் வியாபாரம் நடக்கிறது. இவற்றை விற்பனை செய்பவர்களில் தனலட்சுமி பாட்டிதான் சீனியர்.

“நெஞ்சு சளிக்கு தூதுவளை, இடுப்பு, கை கால் வலிக்கு முடக்கத்தான், வாயுவுக்கு வாதநாராயண இலை, தலை பாரத்துக்கு நொச்சி இலை, தலைமுடிக்கு கரிசலாங்கண்ணி, வறட்டு இருமலுக்கு முள் முருங்கை, ஞாபக சக்திக்கு வல்லாரை, திருஷ்டிக்கு ஆகாசக் கிழங்கு, தலையில் பேன், பொடுகு நீங்க குமுட்டிக் காய்” என அடுக்கிக்கொண்டே போகும் தனலட்சுமி பாட்டிக்கு 60 வயது.

தனலட்சுமியின் சொந்த ஊர் திருச்சியில் இருந்து சில கி.மீ தூரத்தில் இருக்கும் குட்டி அம்பலகாரன்பட்டி. 10-ம் வகுப்பு வரை படித்திருக்கும் இவர் சரளமாக ஆங்கிலம் பேசுகிறார். மேற்படிப்பு முடித்து முத்துலட்சுமி ரெட்டி அம்மாள் போல் எம்.பி.பி.எஸ். ஆக வேண்டும் என்பது இவரது கனவாக இருந்திருக்கிறது. ஆனால், அப்பாவின் பிடிவாதம், தனலட்சுமியின் மேற்படிப்புக்குத் திருமணம் என்ற வடிவில் முற்றுப்புள்ளி வைத்துவிட்டது. அன்றோடு டாக்டர் கனவும் காணாமல் போய்விட்டது.

கணவர், குழந்தைகள் என நகரத் தொடங்கிய வாழ்க்கைக்கு இடையே திடீரென கணவர் இறந்துவிடவே, என்ன செய்வதெனத் தவித்துக் கிடந்தார் தனலட்சுமி. அவருடைய அப்பத்தா, அம்மா, அத்தை ஆகியோர் வழிவழியாகப் பார்த்துவந்த மூலிகை வியாபாரம் கைகொடுத்தது.

மூன்று தலைமுறைகளாக மருத்துவ குணம் கொண்ட மூலிகை இலை, தழைகளை வயல்வெளிகளில் தேடிப் பறித்து வியாபாரம் செய்துவந்த குடும்ப பின்னணியைக் கொண்டவர் என்பதால் எந்த வியாதிக்கு என்ன மூலிகை என்பது தனலட்சுமி பாட்டிக்கு அத்துப்படி.

இவர் மட்டுமின்றி 10-க்கும் அதிகமான பெண்கள் இங்கு மூலிகை வியாபாரம் செய்கின்றனர். வாரத்தில் திங்கள், புதன், வெள்ளி, சனி ஆகிய நான்கு நாட்கள் மூலிகை பறிக்கச் செல்லும் தனலட்சுமி, செவ்வாய், வியாழன், ஞாயிறு ஆகிய மூன்று நாட்கள் வியாபாரம் செய்கிறார். அதாவது பறித்த அடுத்த நாள் வியாபாரத்துக்கு வந்துவிடுகிறார்.

லால்குடி, உள்ளிப்பட்டி, ஓலையூர், திருமயம் உள்பட பல ஊர்களுக்குச் சென்று வயல்வெளிகள், தண்ணீர் செல்லும் வாய்க்கால் எனத் தொடர்கிறது மூலிகைச் செடிகளுக்கான தேடல். முட்புதரில் மண்டிக்கிடக்கும் தூதுவளையைப் பறிப்பது சவாலான விஷயம் என்றாலும் இவருடைய வாடிக்கையாளர்கள் பெரும்பாலும் பரிச்சயமானவர்களாக இருப்பதால், குறிப்பிட்ட மூலிகையைக் கேட்டால் அதனை மெனக்கெட்டுப் பறித்துக்கொண்டு வந்து தருவதை வழக்கமாக வைத்திருக்கிறார்.

திருச்சி வட்டாரத்தில் பிரபலமான பல நாட்டு, சித்த வைத்தியர்களுக்கு மூலிகைச் செடிகள் வழங்குவதும் இவர்தான். கிராமங்களில் நம்முடைய பாட்டிகள் செய்த கைவைத்தியம் காலப்போக்கில் நகரங்களில் வியாபாரமாகிப் போய்விட்டது. ஆனால், இந்தப் பாட்டியிடம் முடக்கத்தான் முதல் முள் முருங்கைவரை பத்து ரூபாய்க்குக் கிடைக்கின்றன. வல்லாரை சிண்டு மூன்று ரூபாய்தான். கையில் இருக்கும் காசைக் கொடுத்துவிட்டு சவுரி வேரை எடுத்துச் செல்லும் பெண்களும் உண்டு.

எப்படிக் கட்டுப்படியாகிறது என்று கேட்டால், “நான் என்ன காசு கொடுத்தா இதையெல்லாம் பறிச்சுட்டு வாரேன். இயற்கையா வளரும் இந்த இலை, தழைகள் எல்லோருக்கும் சொந்தமானது. எங்க முன்னோருங்க எனக்கு இதைத்தான் சொல்லிக் கொடுத்தாங்க. வாழ்க்கையை ஓட்ட எனக்கு பெருசா பணம் தேவையில்லை. மூலிகை பறிக்கச் செல்ல பஸ்ஸுக்கும், சாப்பாட்டு செலவுக்கும்தான் காசு வேண்டியிருக்கு. எனக்கப்புறம் இதை எடுத்துச் செய்ய எங்க வீட்ல யாரும் இல்ல. இத்தனை மகத்துவம் வாய்ந்த, மருத்துவ குணம்கொண்ட மூலிகைச் செடிகளின் அருமை அடுத்த தலைமுறைக்குத் தெரியுமாங்கறது சந்தேகம்தான்” என்று சொல்கிறார் தனலட்சுமி. சுற்றியிருக்கும் பசுந்தழைகள் அவரது பேச்சுக்கு இசைவாகத் தலையசைக்கின்றன.

படங்கள்: ஜி.ஞானவேல்முருகன்

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Natarajan

Message For the Day…” Whatever You Think , Speak or Do, Consider it as the Command of God…”

While performing your duties in your house or outside, constantly remind yourself, “Whatever I do, think or speak, everything belongs to God.” The proper attitude should be, ‘Sarva karma Bhagavath preethyartham’. Take for example, the process of cooking. You add different ingredients to the dish being cooked in definite proportions and try to make them tasty. But the real taste comes only when the job of cooking is done as an offering to God. The food becomes divine when it is offered to God. On the other hand, if the various items are cooked with the attitude, ‘I am doing this job as a routine; I am cooking these items for my family members to partake’, it does not reach God. Hence undertake every act in your life as an offering to God, chanting His Name. Whatever you think, speak or do, consider it as God’s command, God’s work.

Sathya Sai Baba

Virgin Galactic disaster: Survivor Pilot’s Version…

THE pilot who miraculously survived the Virgin spaceship disaster has revealed how he was blasted from the wreckage of the disintegrating rocket ship and plummeted nearly ten miles back to Earth.

Having suffered serious injuries, the experienced test pilot only regained consciousness halfway into his fall but was composed enough to give a thumbs-up to colleagues in a passing aircraft to show he was alive.

Peter Siebold spoke for the first time about the tragedy that killed his close friend, copilot Mike Alsbury, revealing he blacked out as the craft broke up around him at 50,000ft but was saved by his emergency parachute.

Siebold, 43, a married father of two, said: “I must have lost consciousness at first. I can’t remember anything about what happened but I must have come to during the fall. I remember waving to the chase plane and giving them the thumbs-up to tell them I was OK. I know it’s a miracle I survived.”

Perished ... Mike Alsbury was a close friend and colleague of Peter Siebold.

Perished … Mike Alsbury was a close friend and colleague of Peter Siebold. Source: AP

Survivor ... Peter Siebold can’t remember much of what happened that day. 

Survivor … Peter Siebold can’t remember much of what happened that day.  Source: AP

The Mail on Sunday reported that despite his injuries, Siebold — who is yet to speak to crash investigators — returned home to his family on Monday, just three days after Sir Richard Branson’s SpaceShipTwo tore apart.

He gave his amazing account of survival to his father, Dr Klaus Siebold, who visited him yesterday at his modest ranch home in Tehachapi, California, on the edge of the Mojave Desert where the spaceship crashed.

CRASHING DOWN: Is this the end of Branson’s space dreams?

PILOT IDENTIFIED: Michael Alsbury named as the man who perished.

LONG ROAD AHEAD: Investigation may take a year

Dr Siebold, who is also a pilot, travelled to California from his home in Seattle to see his son. He said Peter was in good spirits despite suffering serious injuries, including a shattered shoulder.

Both pilots were strapped into standard pilot seats and wearing thin flight suits and emergency parachutes when SpaceShipTwo was released from its mothership WhiteKnightTwo shortly after 10am on October 31.

Explosion ... These three images show the space craft’s demise.

Explosion … These three images show the space craft’s demise. Source: AP

The craft’s rocket was ignited at 50,000ft (15.24km). The pilots, wearing oxygen masks, were pinned against their seats by gravitational forces as the craft accelerated at more than 1500km/h.

Then disaster occurred. Preliminary investigations suggest that the rocket ship’s folding wings — designed to slow it down and achieve safe speeds during landing — deployed early, causing the ship to break up due to the tremendous turbulence around the craft.

Alsbury was trapped in the cockpit but Siebold was thrown clear of the wreckage or somehow unbuckled his seatbelt. He then plunged towards Earth at speeds topping 193km/h. Witnesses reported seeing Siebold descending with part of the base of his seat still attached. It is likely that his oxygen mask, attached to a portable tank, remained in place. But at that altitude, the sudden decompression and extreme G-forces would have caused him to black out in seconds.

His emergency parachute deployed t about 20,000ft. It is not known if he pulled the cord or if it unfurled automatically. Both pilots were wearing parachutes calibrated to open automatically at a certain height in the event they became unconscious during an emergency.

Incredible ... Siebold has no idea how he managed to exit the space ship, given it has no

Incredible … Siebold has no idea how he managed to exit the space ship, given it has no ejection seat. Source: AFP

Dr Siebold, 79, explained: “He doesn’t know how he managed to exit SpaceShipTwo. They don’t have an ejection seat. They have a panel they take out and they have to crawl towards the hole and jump out. But the plane broke up suddenly. I’m sure he was unconscious because he could not have maintained consciousness at 50,000ft.

“He doesn’t remember anything from the actual crash. He came to during the descent. He must have woken up about halfway down. When he was on the way down the chase plane was circling him and he was waving and giving the thumbs-up to indicate he was all right while he was dangling from the parachute.

“He’s recovering at home. He broke the head of the humerus bone that sits in the right shoulder. He’s got a rib and lung contusion and there is an issue with his eyes because of the cold. It was around minus 60 degrees up there.

“It’s a medical miracle he survived considering the temperature, the lack of oxygen and the barotrauma [injury caused by a sudden change in pressure].”

The pilot’s horrified wife, Traci, and children 12-year-old Alexandra and Nick, nine, were standing with the family of Mike Alsbury as the tragedy unfolded.

The body of Alsbury, 39, was found still strapped into his seat on a desert road by construction workers. His parachute did not deploy. His wife Michelle said she had “lost the love of my life”.

Dr Siebold said: “Mike’s children and my grandchildren were all watching the flight so the emotional impact of that is tremendous.

Mike, second from right, was a friend and neighbour of Siebold.

Mike, second from right, was a friend and neighbour of Siebold. Source: Supplied

“Mike was a friend and neighbour. Their children are the same age and friends. Peter is asking himself whether he could have done more and why he got out and Mike didn’t? Traci is a strong woman. She’s drained but very much in charge.

“She’s protecting Peter and she’s holding up incredibly well most of the time. He’s on pain medication, which is making him tired and confused.” Dr Siebold, who split with Peter’s mother Barbara when his son was five, spoke proudly of teaching his son to fly: “Flying was the only thing Peter was ever really interested in. I flew privately — that was my recreation — so he grew up with it. It’s what we did together. We would go to the airport after school.”

At 16, Siebold studied aviation at California State University and landed a job with Scaled Composites — the company conducting last week’s test flight for Virgin Galactic — before he graduated.

“He worked as an engineer and pilot, starting from the bottom and working his way up,” Dr Siebold said proudly.

Siebold began working as a test pilot and engineer with Virgin Galactic at the start of its space program a decade ago.

“He told me straight away he was involved with Virgin Galactic,” his father continued. “Safety was a great concern but I had total confidence in his piloting skills.

“Peter would say, ‘These aeroplanes fly just beautifully.’ He was never worried about the safety aspect of it.”

Big sky dreaming ... Sir Richard Branson vowed to become an astronaut by the end of the y

Big sky dreaming … Sir Richard Branson vowed to become an astronaut by the end of the year. Source: AP

The October 31 flight was so routine that Dr Siebold had no idea his son was piloting the pioneering craft that day until his panicked daughter-in-law phoned.

“I picked up the phone oblivious to what had happened. I said, ‘Hi Traci, how are you?’ cheerful as usual and she said, ‘It’s serious. Peter had an accident. We don’t know exactly but it looks like he hurt his shoulder and he’s on his way to the hospital.’

“We were worried but the main thing was we knew he was alive.

“I hope he’s going to recover enough to be able to fly again. That’s his life. We’re focusing hour to hour rather than day to day.”

Yesterday, it was revealed that 24 passengers who have paid $A290,000 each for the chance to go into space — alongside celebrities including Angelina Jolie and Kate Winslet — have demanded their money back.

Virgin Galactic chief executive George Whitesides claimed it was unsurprising passengers had pulled out, adding: “I think what is relevant is that the vast majority have said, ‘Don’t give up, keep going, we’re with you’.”

Before the accident, billionaire Sir Richard Branson vowed he and son Sam would become astronauts by the end of this year and the first space tourist flights would begin next spring. But the Virgin Galactic project has been beset by years of delays and safety fears, including previous accidents with SpaceShipOne which necessitated a redesign of the ship’s engines and fuel.

The investigation into this month’s crash is now likely to delay any commercial flight for at least another year. But Branson has vowed to press ahead with the project, while acknowledging the risks taken by his test pilots. Last night, Mr Whitesides paid tribute to Siebold, saying: “It will be regarded as one of the most amazing test flight survival stories of all time.

SOURCE:::: Peter Sheridan IN NEWS.COM.AU

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” Hello Uncle….Hello Aunty …” !!!


Illustration by Satwik Gade
The HinduIllustration by Satwik Gade

On being pushed up in the seniority stakes after marriage, no matter what your age.

We all know that age carries clout in India. As the website indianchild.com says, “Respect for elders is a major component in Indian culture”. In ancient times, this meant that youngsters would touch the feet of elders in greeting, talk to them deferentially and fetch things for them. But the modern guideline for respecting elders in India is crisper: simply address them ‘uncle’ and ‘aunty’.

I discovered this truth early in my marriage, at the tender age of 24. An older couple and their three-year-old daughter were staying in the ground floor of our apartment building. On our first visit to their house, the girl smiled sweetly at us and said, “Hello uncle; hello aunty’. My wife and I found it endearing to be addressed like this by the little one. Two days later, we were trudging up the stairs to our flat when the door of the apartment on the second floor opened and a man walked out. He politely moved out of the way to let us pass and said, “Hullo uncle; hullo aunty.” I looked at him closely. He had a thick moustache and a three-day stubble that made him look older than me. Yet he was calling me ‘uncle’ and his only excuse was that I was married!

“Hullo,” I said coldly and offered my hand. “I’m Paddy. And you?”

As he shook hands with me, his smile became friendlier. I thought he had recognised his error and would now address me by my name. “I’m Ajit, uncle,” he said. “I just finished my B. Com and am looking for a job.” Maybe he needed a broader hint. “I’m a graduate engineering trainee at Telco,” I said, subtly conveying that I had an engineering degree and had just got a job, and was, therefore, not more than two years older than him. “That’s great, uncle,” he said. “My dad works there too, at the forge.” After that initiation, my wife and I became reconciled to being addressed as ‘uncle’ and ‘aunty’ by men and women who did not look much younger than us. We would return their greetings graciously and later, in the privacy of our bedroom, have a quiet laugh together. A few years later, on another staircase to another flat in another city, we met another young man.

At six feet five inches, he towered over us and, in the dimly lit corridor, looked a shade dangerous. I remember thinking that if I had met him in a dark, lonely alley, I’d have handed him my wallet and watch without waiting to be asked. But, as he greeted us, it was obvious that he had met my wife, “Hello akka(elder sister),” he said, “nice to see you again.” I smiled with pleasure at his ability to impart respect without making my wife feel ancient. As I beamed at him, I noticed how pleasant and gentle he was and wondered how I could have thought he looked dangerous.

“And is this your husband?” the fine fellow continued. As my wife nodded, he turned to me and offered his hand. “Hullo uncle! So nice to meet you at last.”

“Nasty specimen,” I said to my wife when we entered our flat. “Doesn’t he look like a villain.?”

“No!” she said. “I think he looks sweet and innocent.”

I realised that as long as we had shared the rewards of seniority equally and had been able to laugh together at the foibles of youth, things had been bearable. But now it appeared that I might overtake my wife on the path to seniority. I felt a shiver go down my spine. What if, over the years, I got promoted from ‘uncle’ to thatha (grandfather) while she remained akka? Luckily, that didn’t happen. Apart from the occasional akka thrown her way, we’ve collected an equal quota of ‘uncles’ and ‘aunties’ from an array of fellow Indians in different places and at different times. Just last week, returning from an outing, we saw a couple in their late forties struggling with their shopping at the entrance to our apartment. The man was balding and, among the few hairs left on his head, the colour grey dominated. My wife and I helped them by picking up a few bags and carrying them to the lift. “Thank you so much,” the man said as the lift came to a stop. I began to smile to imply ‘it was no trouble’ when he continued, “It’s so kind of you, uncle.”

“I think I have more hair on my head than you,” I wanted to say but he had left the lift. Two days after this I was talking to my 26-year-old son in Mumbai. “You won’t believe this, appa,” he said. “In the lift today, I met a man in his thirties and his three-year-old son. The boy called me ‘uncle’! I felt very old.”

“Don’t worry,” I told him. “Once you marry, the boy’s father will also call you ‘uncle’!”

Paddy Rangappa is a freelance writer.

E-mail: Paddy.Rangappa@apmea.mcd.com

Keywords: After marriage lifeseniorityhuman Interest

SOURCE:::: Paddy Rangappa in http://www.thehindu.com

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Detroit Gets Court”s Nod to exit Bankruptcy !!!

Detroit won U.S. Bankruptcy Court approval on Friday for a road map to end its fiscal free fall and revitalise a city sinking under a huge debt load and dysfunctional government.

Judge Steven Rhodes confirmed the city’s plan to shed about $7 billion of its $18 billion of debt and obligations and plough $1.7 billion into improvements, finding it both fair to creditors and feasible to implement.

“The city has worked honestly, diligently, and tirelessly to accomplish precisely the remedy that the bankruptcy code establishes for municipalities,” Mr. Rhodes said.

He acknowledged the anger the bankruptcy fuelled among many Detroit residents and urged them to look forward.

Keywords: DetroitU.S. Bankruptcy CourtDetroit bailout

SOURCE::::www.thehindu.com

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BOTTOM LINE :::: Kindly read my earlier post on Detroit with a simple click on the following link and read the story …Post Published on July 19 2013.

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https://natarajank.com/2013/07/19/detroit-once-the-seat-of-auto-industries-is-bankrupt-today/

 

 

” Silence is the Thing, amid the Din…”

The noise and confusion that reigns in the world around us.
The noise and confusion that reigns in the world around us.

A French black-and-white silent movie, The Artist, won top honours at the Academy Awards in 2012. It had to happen. There is so much eloquence in silence. Remember the Charlie Chaplin genre of films? Are they coming back? I am no movie buff. But violence and noise are things humankind should shun. And silence being golden is a good break, and we are in dire need of it. The cacophony all around is killing.

We watch on television the noise and confusion that reigns in the world around us. Everybody has something to say but nobody wants to listen. There is zero tolerance.

We watch programmes on TV where the anchor and a panel of experts discuss and analyse issues. They begin nicely enough, but when the debate gets heated, sparks fly and everyone begins to talk simultaneously. Even the anchor has a problem controlling them. The one with most lung power out-speaks others. We are left numb.

Thank god we have the option of switching off the TV to get instant relief. Today’s music is also all noise. Where are the lyrics and the soft and soothing voices? Thank god for classical music — we still can listen to them and derive soul satisfaction.

I admire the silence of the West. Their neighbourhoods are so quiet. One can drink deep of such silence, especially when one is on a walk absorbing a lot of things. I love my India alright, but our strong point is not silence. We may well be one of the noisiest countries on the planet. In the bus, or in queues, in movies theatres, restaurants or even when they go for walks, people talk so loudly that they will wake up entire neighbourhoods — especially early in the morning. Now with dogs abounding on every street, if one dog starts barking, others follow it up with a chorus.

Even children don’t lag behind. I remember watching kids at play in a neighbourhood, abroad. There, like the adults the kids hardly ever scream or shout. Only Indian children scream their throats out.

This happened when I was once holidaying in the U.S. in Silicon Valley. A Japanese lady complained to the office of an apartment complex about an Indian family. The parents were off to work, and the grandparents had come for a holiday and they were teaching the kids slokas. Everytime the kids recited back what had been taught, the grandparents and the kids clapped with all their might, creating a ruckus.

The Japanese lady said: “That is the time my baby is fast asleep and my neighbours are yelling their heads off. The baby is startled into waking up and I am unable to finish my house work.” Being in the adjoining building, I too had heard the kids reciting the slokas and thought it to be laudable. The grandparents, I thought, were spending quality time with them, but they could have kept the decibel level low.

Once upon a time fire-crackers were lighted only during Deepavali. Now they are set off on birthdays, weddings, elections and what have you. Accompanying them on such occasions is loud film music. The world, as Wordsworth wrote, ‘is too much with us’. We are drowning in a welter of noise and other negative factors like road rage, violence, fisticuffs and streetfights. We see so much pent-up anger in people on a number of issues waiting to explode. The word ‘kolaveri’ said it all.

Remember the ‘Tower of Babel’ where people were shouting themselves hoarse in a diversity of tongues and nobody wanted to hear the other? We thought it was mythical, but no, it was real enough. All the chaos is back, it seems. As they say there is nothing new under the sun and history has a way of repeating itself. Things have to come full circle.

Keywords: Silencenoise pollutionnoise tolerance

SOURCE::::: Prema Ramakrishnan in http://www.thehindu.com

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Message For the Day…” Chant the Divine Name of God …”

Human life is highly sacred, noble and divine. It should not be wasted in unworthy pursuits. Take to the sacred path and sanctify your time by chanting the divine name. There is no need to allocate a specific time or place for Namasmarana. You can do it wherever you are and whatever you are doing. One needs to pay tax for water, electricity, etc., but there is no tax for Namasmarana. Nobody can stop you from doing it. It is very simple, yet most effective. Many people do not realise its immense value as it is so easy to practise. They think incorrectly that God can be attained only through severe austerities. Chant the divine name without troubling yourself or causing trouble to others. Cultivate love for God. Do not criticise or ridicule anybody. Give happiness to all by sharing your love selflessly. This is true spiritual practice. Follow this simple path, experience ananda and sanctify your lives.

Sathya Sai Baba