Watch this Couple Travel 60 Years into the Future….!!!

 

Using the power of makeup, a couple travels 60 years into the future.

In this tearjerker, a soon-to-be-wed couple takes a seat in the makeup chair. They’re not prepping for their wedding, but rather the rest of their lives– using stage makeup and prosthetics, a team of artists showed what the happy couple would look like as they aged. It’s pretty emotional– the couple gets a “preview” of their lives as 40-year-old parents, 60-year-old retirees, and an elderly man and woman having spent their whole lives together. The whole experiment ends with much emotional crying and vow-writing. It’s sappy and wonderful.

Source: Field Day  and http://www.you tube.com

Natarajan

” இதோ அந்த அம்மா லக்ஷ போஜனம் செய்திருக்கா ….பல லக்ஷ தீபம் போட்டிருக்கா …”

“ஏதோ ஒரு கோயிலில் லக்ஷதீபம் போட, நீ திரவியம்

கொடுத்திருக்கே. லக்ஷம் தீபத்துக்கு எண்ணெய் – திரி

போட்டு உன்னால் ஏற்றவே முடிந்திருக்காது”

சொன்னவர்; ஸ்ரீமடம் பாலு.

தொகுப்பாளர்;டி.எஸ்.கோதண்டராம சர்மா

தட்டச்சு;வரகூரான் நாராயணன்.

ஓர் ஏழைப் பாட்டி.பெரியவாளிடம் அபார பக்தி.

கையிலிருந்த சொற்ப பணத்தைக் கொண்டு மிகவும்

சிக்கனமாக வாழ்க்கையைக் கழித்துக் கொண்டிருந்தாள்.

மடி ஆசாரம் பார்ப்பாள். ஏராளமான பக்தி.

தினமும் பெரியவர் இருக்கும் இடத்தைச் சுத்தம் செய்வாள்.

கோலம் போடுவாள். தீபம் ஏற்றி வைப்பாள்.

இரண்டு புடவைகள் தான் அவளுடைய ஆஸ்தி.இன்னொரு

புடவை வாங்கக் கூட அந்தப் பாட்டியிடம் பொருளில்லை.

ஒரு பக்தர் அரிசிக் குறுணையும்,வெல்லமும்

பெரியவாளிடம் சமர்ப்பிந்திருந்தார்.அவற்றை நல்லபடியாக

விநியோகம் செய்ய வேண்டுமே?

பாட்டிக்கு பெரியவா உத்தரவு போட்டார்கள்.

“காஞ்சிபுரத்தில் உள்ள எல்லா எறும்புப் புற்றுக்களிலேயும்

கொஞ்சம் கொஞ்சம் போட்டுட்டு வா. அரை ஆழாக்கு

வீதம் போடு…” என்றார்கள்.

அந்தப் பாட்டியும் பக்தி சிரத்தையுடன் அலைந்து திரிந்து,

பல எறும்புப் புற்றுகளில் அரிசிக் குறுணையும்,

வெல்லமும் போட்டு விட்டு வந்தாள்.

அந்த வேலை முடிந்ததும் பெரியவா அந்தப் பாட்டியைக்

கூப்பிட்டார்கள்.

பெரிய மாலை போலத் திரிநூல் இருந்தது.

ஒரு டின் நிறைய எண்ணெய் இருந்தது.

“திரிநூலை கட் பண்ணி ஒவ்வொரு கோயிலுக்காகப் போய்,

எவ்வளவு விளக்குக்குப் போட முடியுமோ, அவ்வளவுக்குப்

போடு.ஒவ்வொரு நாளும் இரண்டு,மூன்று கோயில்களுக்குப் போய் விளக்கேற்றினாலும் போதும்” என்றார்கள்.

பாட்டிக்குப் பரம சந்தோஷம். பரம சிரத்தையுடன் நாள்தோறும் சில கோயில்களுக்குச் சென்று பெரியவா உத்தரவை நிறைவேற்றி வந்தாள்.சில நாட்களில் இந்தக் கைங்கரியம் நிறைவு பெற்றது.அந்தச் செய்தியையும் தெரிவித்தாள் பாட்டி.

பாட்டியின் பணிகள் முடிந்த சில நாட்களுக்குப்பின்,

ஒரு பெரிய மனிதர், ஆடம்பரமாக மடத்துக்கு வந்தார்.

பெரிய மனுஷத் தோரணை, அகங்காரம்.

“ஸஹஸ்ரபோஜனம் செய்துட்டு வந்திருக்கேன்.

லட்சதீபம் போட்டிருக்கேன்…..” என்று தற்பெருமை

தொனிக்கப் பெரியவாளிடம் சொன்னார்.

பெரியவாளுக்கு அவருடைய அகம்பாவம் புலப்பட்டது.

தர்ம காரியங்கள் செய்துவிட்டு அதைப் பற்றி பேசிக்

கொள்வது புண்ணியத்தைத் தராது. தர்மம் செய்தவருக்கு

நற்பலன்கள் கிடைக்காமல் போய்விடும்.

வினயத்துடன் சொல்லியிருந்தால் பெரியவா

சந்தோஷப்பட்டிருப்பார்கள். ஆனால்,அந்தப்

பெரிய மனிதர் அகம்பாவத்துடன் பேசினார்.

பெரியவா சொன்னார்கள்.

“இங்கே ஒரு பாட்டி இருக்கா. அந்த அம்மா
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லக்ஷபோஜனம் செய்திருக்காள்.

பல லக்ஷதீபம் போட்டிருக்காள்….”

ஆணவப் பணக்காரருக்கு சற்று திடுக்கிட்டது.

‘யார் அந்தப் பாட்டி…அவ்வளவு பெரிய பணாக்காரி?’

என்று தெரிந்து கொள்ள ஆவல் பிறந்தது.

பெரியவா அந்தப் பாட்டியை அழைத்து வரச் சொன்னார்கள்.

“இவள்தான் அவ்வளவு பெரிய உத்தமமான காரியம்

செய்தவள்…”

அழுக்கான கிழிசல் புடவையைக் கட்டிக்கொண்டு

வந்து நின்ற பாட்டியைப் பார்த்து, பெரிய மனிதர்

அயர்ந்து போனார்.பாட்டியின் நெற்றியிலிருந்த

வெள்ளை வெளேரென்ற திருநீற்றுப் பூச்சு,

அவளுடைய இதய சுத்தத்தை விளாக்கினாற்போலிருந்தது.

பெரியவா சொன்னார்கள்.

“ஸர்வ ஜீவனிலும் பகவான் வியாபித்திருக்கிறார்.

பிரும்மா முதல் பிபீலிகம் (எறும்பு) வரை பகவான்

இருக்கிறார். மனுஷ்யாளிடத்திலும் இருக்கிறார்.

“நீ ஆயிரம் பேருக்கு அன்னம் போட்டிருக்கிறாய்.

ஆனால், இந்தப் பாட்டியோ பல லக்ஷம் ஜீவன்களுக்கு

(எறும்புகளுக்கு) ஆகாரம் போட்டிருக்கிறாள்.

“ஏதோ ஒரு கோயிலில் லக்ஷதீபம் போட, நீ திரவியம்

கொடுத்திருக்கே. லக்ஷம் தீபத்துக்கு எண்ணெய் – திரி

போட்டு உன்னால் ஏற்றவே முடிந்திருக்காது. இந்தப்

பாட்டி, பல கோயில்களுக்குப் போயிருக்கிறாள்.

பக்தி சிரத்தையாய் அகல் வாங்கி,எண்ணெய் ஊற்றி,திரி

போட்டு தன் கையாலேயே ஏற்றியிருக்கிறாள்….”

கேட்டுக் கொண்டிருந்த பிரமுகர் தலைகுனிந்தார்.

பெரியவாளிடம் பவ்யமாகவும்,அகங்காரமில்லாமலும்

பேசவேண்டும் என்பதைப் புரிந்து கொண்டார்.பின்னால்

பல பக்தர்கள் வந்து நிற்பதைப் பார்த்து சற்றே நகர்ந்து

இடம் கொடுத்தார்.

சிறிது நேரம் கழித்து, பெரியவாளே அந்தப் பெரிய

மனிதரைக் கூப்பிட்டு, உட்கார வைத்து,பல சமாசாரங்கள்

பேசி, பிரசாதம் கொடுத்தனுப்பினார்கள்.

அடக்கம் கற்றுக்கொண்ட அவர், ஆனந்தமாகத்

திரும்பிச் சென்றார்

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Natarajan

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

” Some Thoughts on Thought …” !!!

What is the speed of thought?

It feels instantaneous, but how long does it really take to think a thought?

Just how quickly are those thoughts bouncing around in there? Image credit: shutterstock

By Tim Welsh, University of Toronto

As inquisitive beings, we are constantly questioning and quantifying the speed of various things. With a fair degree of accuracy, scientists have quantified the speed of light, the speed of sound, the speed at which the earth revolves around the sun, the speed at which hummingbirds beat their wings, the average speed of continental drift….

These values are all well-characterized. But what about the speed of thought? It’s a challenging question that’s not easily answerable – but we can give it a shot.

What’s a thought? Photo credit: Fergus Macdonald

First, some thoughts on thought

To quantify the speed of anything, one needs to identify its beginning and end. For our purposes, a “thought” will be defined as the mental activities engaged from the moment sensory information is received to the moment an action is initiated. This definition necessarily excludes many experiences and processes one might consider to be “thoughts.”

Here, a “thought” includes processes related to perception (determining what is in the environment and where), decision-making (determining what to do) and action-planning (determining how to do it). The distinction between, and independence of, each of these processes is blurry. Further, each of these processes, and perhaps even their sub-components, could be considered “thoughts” on their own. But we have to set our start- and endpoints somewhere to have any hope of tackling the question.

Finally, trying to identify one value for the “speed of thought” is a little like trying to identify one maximum speed for all forms of transportation, from bicycles to rockets. There are many different kinds of thoughts that can vary greatly in timescale. Consider the differences between simple, speedy reactions like the sprinter deciding to run after the crack of the starting pistol (on the order of 150 milliseconds [ms]), and more complex decisions like deciding when to change lanes while driving on a highway or figuring out the appropriate strategy to solve a math problem (on the order of seconds to minutes).

Even looking inside the brain, we can’t see thoughts. Photo credit: Duke University Photography Jim Wallace

Thoughts are invisible, so what should we measure?

Thought is ultimately an internal and very individualized process that’s not readily observable. It relies on interactions across complex networks of neurons distributed throughout the peripheral and central nervous systems. Researchers can use imaging techniques, such as functional magnetic resonance imaging and electroencephalography, to see what areas of the nervous system are active during different thought processes, and how information flows through the nervous system. We’re still a long way from reliably relating these signals to the mental events they represent, though.

Many scientists consider the best proxy measure of the speed or efficiency of thought processes to be reaction time – the time from the onset of a specific signal to the moment an action is initiated. Indeed, researchers interested in assessing how fast information travels through the nervous system have used reaction time since the mid-1800s. This approach makes sense because thoughts are ultimately expressed through overt actions. Reaction time provides an index of how efficiently someone receives and interprets sensory information, decides what to do based on that information, and plans and initiates an action based on that decision.

Neural factors involved

The time it takes for all thoughts to occur is ultimately shaped by the characteristics of the neurons and the networks involved. Many things influence the speed at which information flows through the system, but three key factors are:

  • Distance – The farther signals need to travel, the longer the reaction time is going to be. Reaction times for movements of the foot are longer than for movements of the hand, in large part because the signals traveling to and from the brain have a longer distance to cover. This principle is readily demonstrated through reflexes (note, however, that reflexes are responses that occur without “thought” because they do not involve neurons that engaged in conscious thought). The key observation for the present purpose is that the same reflexes evoked in taller individuals tend to have longer response times than for shorter individuals. By way of analogy, if two couriers driving to New York leave at the same time and travel at exactly the same speed, a courier leaving from Washington, DC will always arrive before one leaving from Los Angeles.
  • Neuron characteristics – The width of the neuron is important. Signals are carried more quickly in neurons with larger diameters than those that are narrower – a courier will generally travel faster on wide multi-lane highways than on narrow country roads.
    • Neuron characteristics – The width of the neuron is important. Signals are carried more quickly in neurons with larger diameters than those that are narrower – a courier will generally travel faster on wide multi-lane highways than on narrow country roads.

      Nerve signals jump between the exposed areas between myelin sheathes. Image credit: Neuron image via www.shutterstock.com

      How much myelination a neuron has is also important. Some nerve cells have myelin cells that wrap around the neuron to provide a type of insulation sheath. The myelin sheath isn’t completely continuous along a neuron; there are small gaps in which the nerve cell is exposed. Nerve signals effectively jump from exposed section to exposed section instead of traveling the full extent of the neuronal surface. So signals move much faster in neurons that have myelin sheaths than in neurons that don’t. The message will get to New York sooner if it passes from cellphone tower to cellphone tower than if the courier drives the message along each and every inch of the road. In the human context, the signals carried by the large-diameter, myelinated neurons that link the spinal cord to the muscles can travel at speeds ranging from 70-120 miles per second (m/s) (156-270 miles per hour[mph]), while signals traveling along the same paths carried by the small-diameter, unmyelinated fibers of the pain receptors travel at speeds ranging from 0.5-2 m/s (1.1-4.4 mph). That’s quite a difference!

      • Complexity – Increasing the number of neurons involved in a thought means a greater absolute distance the signal needs to travel – which necessarily means more time. The courier from Washington, DC will take less time to get to New York with a direct route than if she travels to Chicago and Boston along the way. Further, more neurons mean more connections. Most neurons are not in physical contact with other neurons. Instead, most signals are passed via neurotransmitter molecules that travel across the small spaces between the nerve cells called synapses. This process takes more time (at least 0.5 ms per synapse) than if the signal was continually passed within the single neuron. The message carried from Washington, DC will take less time to get to New York if one single courier does the whole route than if multiple couriers are involved, stopping and handing over the message several times along the way. In truth, even the “simplest” thoughts involve multiple structures and hundreds of thousands of neurons.
      • And they’re off! Photo credit: Oscar Rethwill
      • How quickly it can happen

        It’s amazing to consider that a given thought can be generated and acted on in less than 150 ms. Consider the sprinter at a starting line. The reception and perception of the crack of the starter’s gun, the decision to begin running, issuing of the movement commands, and generating muscle force to start running involves a network that begins in the inner ear and travels through numerous structures of the nervous system before reaching the muscles of the legs. All that can happen in literally half the time of a blink of an eye.

        Although the time to initiate a sprint start is extremely short, a variety of factors can influence it. One is the loudness of the auditory “go” signal. Although reaction time tends to decrease as the loudness of the “go” increases, there appears to be a critical point in the range of 120-124 decibels where an additional decrease of approximately 18 ms can occur. That’s because sounds this loud can generate the “startle” response and trigger a pre-planned sprinting response.

        Researchers think this triggered response emerges through activation of neural centers in the brain stem. These startle-elicited responses may be quicker because they involve a relatively shorter and less complex neural system – one that does not necessarily require the signal to travel all the way up to the more complex structures of the cerebral cortex. A debate could be had here as to whether or not these triggered responses are “thoughts,” because it can be questioned whether or not a true decision to act was made; but the reaction time differences of these responses illustrate the effect of neural factors such as distance and complexity. Involuntary reflexes, too, involve shorter and simpler circuitry and tend to take less time to execute than voluntary responses.

      • How well can we gauge our own speed of thought? Image credit: William Brawley

Perceptions of our thoughts and actions

Considering how quickly they do happen, it’s little wonder we often feel our thoughts and actions are nearly instantaneous. But it turns out we’re also poor judges of when our actions actually occur.

Although we’re aware of our thoughts and the resulting movements, an interesting dissociationhas been observed between the time we think we initiate a movement and when that movement actually starts. In studies, researchers ask volunteers to watch a second hand rotate around a clock face and to complete a simple rapid finger or wrist movement, such as a key press, whenever they liked. After the clock hand had completed its rotation, the people were asked to identify where the hand was on the clock face when they started their own movement.

Surprisingly, people typically judge the onset of their movement to occur 75-100 ms prior to when it actually began. This difference cannot be accounted for simply by the time it takes for the movement commands to travel from the brain to the arm muscles (which is on the order of 16-25 ms). It’s unclear exactly why this misperception occurs, but it’s generally believed that people base their judgment of movement onset on the time of the decision to act and the prediction of the upcoming movement, instead of on the movement itself. These and other findings raise important questions about the planning and control of action and our sense of agency and control in the world – because our decision to act and our perception of when we act appear to be distinct from when we in fact do.

In sum, although quantifying a single “speed of thought” may never be possible, analyzing the time it takes to plan and complete actions provides important insights into how efficiently the nervous system completes these processes, and how changes associated with movement and cognitive disorders affect the efficiency of these mental activities.

The Conversation

Tim Welsh is Professor of Kinesiology and Physical Education at University of Toronto.

This article was originally published on The Conversation.
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Natarajan

 

Message For the Day…” Which Will Help in the Upkeep of Your Body and Mind …” ?

Sathya Sai Baba

People crave worldly happiness; this craving itself is the disease, and sufferings are but the drugs we take. In the midst of these, one rarely entertains the desire to attain the Lord. However, it is necessary to analyse and discriminate, for the spirit of renunciation is born out of such analysis. Without enquiry, detachment cannot be obtained. Miserliness is like the behavior of a dog; it must be transformed. Anger is the first enemy of a spiritual aspirant. Untruth is even worse – it destroys all the vital powers. Theft ruins life; it makes the priceless human life cheaper than rotten food. Moderate food, moderate sleep, selfless love, and fortitude will help in the upkeep of the health of both your body and the mind. Whoever you are, in whatever condition you may be, do not give room for dispiritedness! Be fearless and remember the Lord with unshaken faith and without any ulterior motive, all suffering and sorrow will fall away.

Laughter the Best Medicine….!!!

 

Two 90 year old men, Mike and Joe, have been friends all of their lives.

When it’s clear that Joe is dying, Mike visits him every day. One day Mike says, “Joe, we both loved cricket all our lives, and we played cricket on Saturdays together for so many years. Please do me one favour, when you get to Heaven, somehow you must let me know if there’s bat and ball there.”

Joe looks up at Mike from his death bed,” Mike, you’ve been my best friend for many years. If it’s at all possible, I’ll do this favour for you.

Shortly after that, Joe passes on.

At midnight a couple of nights later, Mike is awakened from a sound sleep by a blinding flash of white light and a voice calling out to him, “Mike–Mike.”

“Who is it? asks Mike sitting up suddenly. “Who is it?”

“Mike–it’s me, Joe.”

“You’re not Joe. Joe just died.”

“I’m telling you, it’s me, Joe,” insists the voice.

“Joe! Where are you?”

“In heaven”, replies Joe. “I have some really good news and a little bad news.”

“Tell me the good news first,” says Mike.

“The good news,” Joe says,” is that there’s bat and ball in heaven. Better yet, all of our old friends who died before us are here, too. Better than that, we’re all young again. Better still, it’s always spring time and it never rains or snows. And best of all, we can play cricket all we want, and we never get tired.”

That’s fantastic,” says Mike. “It’s beyond my wildest dreams! So what’s the bad news?

“You’re in the team for this Saturday’s match !!!”
Face with stuck-out tongue and winking eyeSmiling face with open mouth and smiling eyes
Friends rock! heaven or hell Thumbs up sign😀😀

source….unknown….input from a friend of mine…
Natarajan

படியுங்க ….கடிதான் ….இருந்தாலும் சிரியுங்க …!!!

பல் டாக்டரை பார்க்க போனேன் ,
அங்க லேடி டாக்டர் இருந்தாங்க…
திரும்பி வந்துட்டேன்
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ஏன் என்றால் நாம் எந்த
பொண்ணுகிட்டயும்
பல்லைகாட்டி நிற்க
கூடாது பாருங்க…!

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நபர் 1: தண்ணியில இருந்து ஏன் மின்சாரம் எடுக்கறாங்க?

நபர் 2: அப்படி எடுக்கலைன்னா குளிக்கும் போது ஷாக் அடிச்சிரும் … – எடிசனின் நெருங்கிய நண்பன்

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****** கல்யாண வீட்டில் செருப்பை தொலைத்தவன்
எழுதிய கவிதை *********

“உள்ளே ஒரு ஜோடி சேர்ந்துவிட்டது”

“வெளியே ஒரு ஜோடி தொலைந்துவிட்டது”


வாழைப்பழம் என்ன‌ விலை?
ஒரு ரூபா சார்!
60 பைசாவுக்குத் தரமாட்டிங்களா?
(நக்கலாக‌) ” அதுக்கு வெறும் தோல் தான் கிடைக்கும் ”
“அப்ப‌ இந்தா 40 பைசா,, பழத்தை கொடு ! தோல‌ நீயே வச்சுக்கோ


எந்த ஆம்பிளையையும் பொய் சொல்ல வைத்து விடும் ..மனைவியின் இந்த கேள்வி?
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“.ஏங்க நான் அழகா இருக்கேனா?”

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ஜட்ஜ் : “கூண்டில் ஏறாமல் எதற்காக நடந்துகொண்டே சாட்சி சொல்கிறாய்..?”

குற்றவாளி: “நீங்கதானே எஜமான் நடந்ததை நடந்தபடி சொல்லச் சொன்னீங்க.

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Source…input from a friend of mine…

Natarajan

 

Message for the Day….” Do Not Waste Money…Do Not Waste Food…Do Not Waste Time…Do Not Waste Energy…Do Not Forget God…”

Sathya Sai BabaI want you to exercise control over five vital things in life. (1) ‘Do not waste money.’ Realize that misuse of money is evil. If you wish to keep a photo of Bhagawan, have only one. Why waste your money on buying too many? (2) ‘Do not waste food.’ Realize that ‘Food is God.’ (3) ‘Do not waste Time.’ Time is God. Time wasted is life wasted. (4) ‘Do not waste energy.’ Understand that when you see, speak, hear, act or think energy is expended. In all these activities do not waste your energies unnecessarily. (5) ‘Do not forget God’, at any moment whatever you may be doing. God is present wherever you may go. He is with you, beside you and around you always. Hence there is no need for you to go to some temple to pray to God. Your heart is your temple. Turn your vision inward and understand the Atmic Principle.

 

Message for the Day…” No Weapon More Effective than Patience…”

In this world, there is no penance higher than fortitude, no happiness greater than contentment, no good deed holier than mercy, and no weapon more effective than patience. Devotees should consider the body as the field and good deeds as seeds. Then with the help of the heart as the farmer, cultivate the name of the Lord to reap the harvest – the Lord Himself. Like cream in milk and fire in fuel, the Lord is in everything. Have full faith in this. As is the milk, so is the cream; so also, as is the spiritual discipline, so is the direct experience (sakshatkara) of the Lord! As a consequence of taking up the Lord’s name, four distinct fruits will be experienced by sincere seekers. They are: company of the noble, truth, contentment and control of the senses. Through whichever of these gates one enters, whether one is a householder, recluse, or a member of any other class, one can reach the Lord without fail. This is certain.

Sathya Sai Baba

Message for the Day…” Make Your Conscience Your Guide and Preceptor…”

You come to Puttaparthi to strengthen your relationship with the Divine. Hold on to it firmly. Put into practice at least one thing you learn from here. It is not enough to chant the names of God. God must be installed in the heart. Make your conscience your guide and preceptor. That will promote true devotion. All external paraphernalia will not help you. There are four mottos which all devotees should follow: (1) Avoid bad company (2) Welcome association with good persons (3) Remember always the transient and the permanent, and (4) Ceaselessly engage yourself in meritorious acts. It is through the above that you become good. Remember, the essence of all scriptures is: ‘Help ever; hurt never.’ If the above basic rules are followed, all countries will be happy and peaceful. Like India, every country is a part of the mansion of planet earth. When we have this broad vision, humanity will be one in spirit.

Sathya Sai Baba

” Confessions of a confused Indian engineer… !!!

A guy who loved English literature but settled for electrical engineering and later, an MBA, pours his heart out…

When I started writing this article, I felt that such a topic might sound enormously blasphemous. I mean, it almost seems like a deliberate attempt to malign the second favourite national profession in our country (the first one is being a doctor). So, before you ask for my address, so that you can come over to beat me up, let me assure you it’s only mypersonal story. No coincidences whatsoever!

The first time I actually felt that it was high time to decide what to do with my life, I was in Class 8. Belonging to the ICSE board, we had to state our choices of stream in Class 9 itself. ‘Good people study commerce, great people study science, losers study humanities,’ everyone around said.

Except my father… he is a chartered accountant. J

I can still remember the heartbroken look on my father’s face, when I showed him the form with ‘Science’ written against ‘Stream of Choice’. Obviously, he would have loved his son to be in the same field as he was. But to think of it, had my father followed the footsteps of my grandfather, we would all be farmers today! Literally, ploughing in the ‘field’!

The first confusion started here.

I took up science because I loved physics and maths. But I equally loved English literature and history. This did raise some eyebrows. How could a sane person possibly love Science and Humanities at the same time?

Years passed and school was over. I went along with the herd mentality, sitting for every single engineering entrance exam I could find.  Medical was never an option (I could never see blood, so no confusion here!). I managed a decent rank and now it was time to decide a branch. This was relatively easy: I hated IT or computer science, the hot-selling electronics was houseful, and so I settled with electrical engineering.

But, it was fun. There were some amazing subjects like maths, mechanical engineering, power systems; and some horrible subjects too, whose names I don’t even remember. Being the President of the Tech Club at my college, I got lot of opportunities to conduct events, arrange activities and hone my technical and leadership skills. People looked up to me. Life was good, and it looked settled.

And one day it happened. It was third year and companies flooded in for placements. It was time to decide what to do next. M Tech? Nah! IT job? Never! Core Company? Err. May be!

And then I asked myself: ‘Dude, are you ready to spend the next 40 years of your life with motors, generators, transformers, transmission lines, substations and power systems?’

My inner voice replied: ‘No’.

I was stuck. What was I going to do with my career? What would happen to the electrical engineering learnt (rather digested) in four years? More importantly, what else could I get into, that I would love doing?

The immediate crazy answer was — Bollywood. But then the reality set in and my mind showed me three beautiful letters — M B A. To cut a long story short, I took a shot at CAT, made it to a premier B-School in Mumbai, and switched to marketing!

Now, when I sit back and retrospect, I feel that instead of engineering, I could have done an Honours course in economics or maybe a BBA, rather than looking like one of the ‘Gadhas’ Aamir Khan spoke about in 3 Idiots. But then I realise that I need to look ahead and forget.

Forget the injustice done to the learning of those four years. Forget the hurdles faced during job searches while switching from one field to another. Because after 40 years, no one in this world will be even bothered about why you did, what you did.

At that stage, you will be answerable to only one person.

And that person will be YOU.

And that person will ask you whether you gave in to peer pressure or did what you loved.

Please follow your heart, it’s never too late. Cheers!

Illustration: Dominic Xavier/Rediff.com

A sufficiently confused corporate professional, Pramit has been working as a Sales & Marketing Professional in the Software Product Industry for the last three years. A trained singer, Toastmaster, and theatre actor at Bengaluru, he seizes every opportunity to gain cheap publicity and limelight, whenever he is not working, eating and sleeping.

Source….www.rediff.com

Natarajan