“As one gets older, one is drawn towards home’….

In a special series, Rediff.com looks at India through the lives of her people.

Today: Mohammed Taufiq, a waiter for 36 years at Kolkata’s famous Coffee House.

A fan of Manna De, he encounters at least 50 to 100 new faces every day — including Satyajit Ray once — but all he wants now is to return to his village after retirement.

Mohammed Taufiq has worked in Coffee House for 36 years

It seems like it was yesterday when I walked into the Indian Coffee House at College Street.

I have been working here as a waiter for 36 years.

There are 54 of us in the College Street branch whereas there are 12 in the Jadavpur branch. We work in two shifts. At times, when quite a few waiters don’t turn up at work, I work double shifts with a short 30 to 40 minute break.

Earlier, my salary wasn’t much. But now, it has improved. I get about Rs 10,000 a month. With tips, I make up to Rs 12,000 approximately. As Coffee House provides me free accommodation and meals, I manage to save most of my earnings that I transfer to my wife’s bank account.

This place is always buzzing with new people. I get to see at least 50 to 100 new faces. There are also quite a few regulars.

I have noticed that the younger ones (those in their late teens or early 20s) always order either a samosa or sandwich; the middle-aged ones (between 30 and 45) ask for fish fry or cutlets and those past 45 stick to only coffee (either espresso or ordinary).

Coffee House, Kolkata
I have had a chance to see many famous people at Coffee House — filmmakers Satyajit Ray, Mrinal Sen, Aparna Sen, Anjan Dutt; singers Manna De; actors Soumitra Chatterjee, Madhabi Mukhopadhyay, Anup Kumar; writers and poets Sunil Gangopadhyay, Sakti Chattopadhyay, Samaresh Majumdar…

The day (Satyajit) Ray was here, I heard whispers from here and there. I had not seen him earlier. To make sure, I rushed to our office that had a portrait of him.

It was HIM indeed!

I felt the same when I saw Soumitra Chatterjee for the first time. Later, he became a familiar face at Coffee House.

There has not been much change here. But time has left its imprint — the place looks a lot older now. I like it this way. It goes well with my graying hair.

I have also seen the nature of customers change with changing times.

Earlier, people used to be kinder, more patient. But now they are always in a hurry. They are ruder.

100-150 new customers come to Coffee House every day

The day I wore this waiter’s headgear, I was told to be impersonal and never get close to my customers.

However, in all these years, I could never just be a waiter or an indifferent onlooker.

The other day, a couple of college students, two boys, came to Coffee House. They ordered a plate of samosa and two coffees.

When the bill arrived, they took out all the money from their wallets and started counting. I overheard one saying, ‘Aaj hente bari firte hobe (I will have to go home on foot).’

The boy was my youngest son’s age. He could have been my son. How could I let him walk back home after a tiring day at college?

On the pretext of cleaning the table, I sneaked a ten rupee note under the plate that afternoon.

Time has really flown! I vividly remember the day I arrived in Kolkata from my village in Bihar. Our five-member family was very poor and my father desperately needed an earning member.

My parents could not pay my fees and I was withdrawn from school in Class 9.

A friend of my father suggested I should come to Kolkata. He brought me to Coffee House and introduced me to Zahid Hussain, a senior accountant.

He was my trainer, friend and guide.

Since then, this Coffee House has become my second home and Zahidbhai my second family.

Coffee House at College Street

When I am off duty, I take a stroll around this part of the city, watch movies or listen to the radio.

‘Coffee House-er sei addata aaj aar nei, aaj aar nei (How I miss the long chat sessions with my friends at the Coffee House),’ I hum these lines (sung by the late Manna De) to myself often.

I need to be on my feet more than 8 to 10 hours at a stretch. It’s tiring and my legs hurt a lot at night. In fact, the pain keeps me up at times.

I had seen a doctor who says rest is the only medicine for me. I cannot afford that at the moment.

The only time I get to stretch my legs is when I visit my native place. I get about 30 days of paid leave in a year.

Earlier, I used to go home twice a year. Now I make three to four trips. As one gets older, one is more drawn towards one’s home.

When I am at my village home, my youngest son, who stays with my wife thee, massages my feet every night. He is studying at a college about two kilometres away. He cycles to and fro.

I have four sons and a daughter. Three of my sons are working, two of them in Kolkata (the eldest one is an electrician and the other one works as a zari worker). My third son works in a burqa-making factory in Bengaluru.

My daughter got married a few years back. She lives with her family in Bihar.

My family has visited me a few times and I have taken them on a tour of the famous spots of Kolkata — the Victoria Memorial, Princep Ghat, Maidan, Birla Planetarium, Indian Museum etc.

My youngest son dreams of visiting Mumbai some day. He wants to see the bungalows of Amitabh Bachchan and Shah Rukh Khan.

I have been setting aside a part of my salary for the last few years. Once my son clears his Class 12 examination, I plan to sponsor his Mumbai trip.

My wife and I have been staying apart for so many years. Once I retire, which is only 5, 6 years away, I want to spend time with her.

Life has been a long struggle against poverty. Post-retirement, I want to relax, I want to be with my wife.

I spent my life as a waiter. But I want my children to have a better future. Can’t our government ensure that?

A native of Bihar’s Aurangabad district, Mohammed Taufiq likes modern Bengali songs. He spoke to Indrani Roy/Rediff.com during his break at the Coffee House on College Street.

Photographs: Abhiroop Dey Sarkar.

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Message for the Day…” Love for Love’s sake is eternal…Love is God…”

Sathya Sai Baba

You have to seek love only through love. The Gopikas prayed: “Oh Krishna, play Your sweet flute and sow the seeds of love in the desert of loveless hearts. Let the rain of love fall on earth and make the rivers of love flow.” The rivers of love must flow continuously. It is enough, if you can understand this one principle of love. This love is everything. Treat this love as the be-all and end-all of your life. Do not direct your love towards material objects. If you continue to love for love’s sake, then such a love will be eternal. It is not the body that is to be loved, but the principle of love. All the names and forms are evanescent and impermanent. Love directed towards temporary objects or beings is physical, whereas love for love’s sake is eternal. Love is God. You must attain Divinity with such love.

This 96-Year-Old Is Fulfilling His Dream to Study by Enrolling for a PG Course …

A 96-year-old man from Patna has shown the world that age should never be a barrier for those who want to learn. And then learn some more. The man got himself enrolled for a MA (Economics) course at Nalanda Open University, to fulfil his 77 year old dream of studying economics.

Age is just a number, they say. And with his zeal to live life to the fullest, and the desire to study as much as he wants, Raj Kumar Vaishya has proven that this phrase can be turned into an actual fact.

This 96-year-old man was admitted to the Master’s course in Economics at Nalanda Open University (NOU) in Patna on Tuesday, for the 2015-16 session.

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Vaishya was born on April 1, 1920 in Bareilly, Uttar Pradesh. And this post-graduation course has been a lifelong dream for him.

It was more than 75 years ago that Vaishya had last visited a college as a student. In 1934, he passed matriculation from the Government High School in Bareilly and then moved on to complete his graduation from Agra University in 1938. After this, he successfully obtained a Bachelor of Law (LLB) degree in 1940. But that was it for the man who wanted to study further. He got a job as a law officer with the Christian Mica Industry at Koderma, and hence, could not opt for the post-graduation course that he really wanted to take up at that time.

Since the past 77 years, he had been carrying around that dream of getting an MA degree for himself. He retired from service as general manager in 1977 and returned to Bareilly. Following this, he moved to Patna to live with one of his sons, after his wife passed away. He has three sons and all of them have retired from their jobs.

Six months back, Vaishya expressed his desire to take up the MA course in front of his son and daughter-in-law. They feared it would be very difficult for him at this age, but he assured that he would be able to handle it.

Thus, Prof Santosh Kumar, his son who has retired from the National Institute of Technology, Patna and his daughter-in-law Prof Bharti S Kumar, who is a retired professor of Patna University, met the officials at NOU and explained the situation.

They agreed to enrol him in the current course. Not just that, they even came to visit Vaishya to hand over his identity card and course materials, at his residence in Rajendra Nagar.

Ras Bihari Prasad Singh, NOU vice-chancellor, said that Vaishya simply proves that age is no bar in acquiring knowledge and formal degrees.

Raj Kumar Vaishya’s happiness knew no bounds when he had the course material in his hand. “I have always been interested in economics…I wanted to do MA in this subject only,” he told India Today.

 Source….Tanaya Singh….www.the better india.com

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” ஷேமமா இரு…உன் கடமையை செய் …”

ஒரு பக்தரின் குடும்பத்தில் கஷ்டங்கள் தொடர்ந்து வந்து கொண்டேயிருந்தன. குடும்ப தலைவர், ஒரு ஜோசியரிடம் தன் ஜாதகத்தை கொடுத்து விவரம் கேட்டார். ‘எக்கச்சக்கமா கிரக தோஷம், நவக்ரக ஹோமம், பெரிய அளவிலே செய்வது தான் பரிஹாரம்’.

பெரியவாளுடைய அனுமதியை பெற வந்தார் பக்தர். ‘ஜோசியர் சொன்ன படி நவக்ரக ஹோமம் செய்தால், நல்லது ஏற்படா விட்டாலும், நிச்சயம் கெடுதல் ஏற்படாது’ என்று சிந்தனைக்குரிய ஒரு பதிலை கூறி விட்டார்கள் பெரியவாள்.

பக்தருக்கு குழப்பம். ஹோமம் செய்வதா? வேண்டாமா? பெரியவாளை மறுபடி கேட்கலாம் என்றால், பெரியவா அங்கே இருந்தால் தானே? பதில் சொன்ன உடனேயே, சடக்கென்று புறப்பட்டு அந்த இடத்தை விட்டு போய்விட்டார்கள்.

பக்தர், பெரியவாளின் கைங்கர்யபரர்களிடம் ‘பெரியவா சரியான முடிவு சொல்லலையே?’என்று புலம்பி நச்சரித்தார்.அவருடைய தொல்லை தாங்காமல், ஒரு சிஷ்யர் பெரியவாளிடம் போய் பக்தரின் ஆதங்கத்தை சொன்னார்.

பெரியவா சொன்ன பதில்….

1. எல்லோருக்கும் அவரவர்களுக்கான கடமைகள் உண்டு. இவன் வீட்டில் தாத்தா, பாட்டி, இருக்கிறார்கள். அவர்களை சரிவர கவனித்து போஷிக்க வேண்டும். அது முக்கியமான தர்மம்.

2. வீட்டு வாசலுக்கு வந்து பிச்சை கேட்பவர்களுக்கு கூடுமானவரையில் தர்மம் செய்யணும்.

3. தாகத்துடன் வருபவர்களுக்கு தண்ணீர் கொடுக்க வேண்டும்.

4. ஏழைகளையும், சமையற்காரர்களையும், தொழிலாளிகளையும் நிந்தனை செய்யகூடாது, பிரியமாக நடத்த வேண்டும். –

இதில் இருந்து, அக்குடும்ப தலைவர் இந்த நற்செயல்களை செய்யவில்லை என்பதை ஊகித்து அறிய முடிகிறது. அந்த சீடர், பக்தரிடம் போய், ‘உங்கள் கடைமைகளை எல்லாம் தவறாமல் செய்து வந்தாலே போதும். குடும்ப கஷ்டம் எல்லாம் போய்விடும். ஹோமம் செய்ய வேண்டிய தேவையே இருக்காது’ என்று பக்குவமாக சொன்னார்.

பக்தருக்கு நெஞ்சில் முள் குத்திற்று. பெரியவாளிடம் மறுபடியும் வந்தார். தன் துஷ்டத்தனங்களை ஒப்பு கொண்டார். ‘பரம்பரையா வந்தது. பெரியவா அனுகிரகத்தாலே, நல்ல வழிக்கு திரும்பணும். சரணாகதி பண்றேன்’.

பெரியவாள் மனம் உருகி போய்விட்டது.

‘க்ஷேமமா இரு’.

அது சரி, அந்த குடும்பத்தின் பரம்பரை இழிகுணங்கள் பெரியவாளுக்கு எப்படி தெரிந்தது?

ஸ்வாமியே சரணம்

Source….www.periva.proboards.com

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Picture of the day….

Buddhist Monk Feeds Tiger

Founded in 1994, Wat Pha Luang Ta Bua, a Theravada Buddhist temple in western Thailand, is also known as “Tiger Temple.” This forest temple/animal sanctuary is, in fact, home to many wild animals, the majority of which are Indochinese tigers. As of July 2014, the total number of tigers living at the temple has risen to 135. Though the temple has fallen under scrutiny for years and even been accused of animal mistreatment, Thai officials have found no evidence. In fact, the temple’s monks have established an extraordinarily unique relationship with the nearby tigers, allowing the big cats to freely wander the temple grounds alongside them.

As wild tigers become increasingly rare in the forests of Asia and the very future of the species remains uncertain, the Tiger Temple continues to rescue these majestic beasts.

Source…..www.all-that-is-interesting.com

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Better Tech, Upgraded Stations – Japan to Help Indian Railways Revamp Its Look and Feel…..

Indian Railways is all set for a $140 billion investment plan, which will be executed over the next five years to modernise the system. And in this, we are going to get a lot of help from Japan as well.

If all goes as plan, we might soon be welcomed by some really modern and world class railways stations in India, all equipped with features that will enhance the railway experience for commuters.

As a part of its railway station development plan, Indian Railways has identified 400 stations which will be upgraded with the help of private investment. And for this, Japan has agreed to be a part of the process and to help us reach there.

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Picture Credit: Keshav Mukund Kandhadai/Flickr

In July this year, the Union Cabinet chaired by PM Narendra Modi had given approval for redevelopment of 400 stations by involving private parties using the Swiss Challenge method. In this method, open bids are invited from interested parties and the best proposal is accepted by an expert committee. India will soon host a Japanese delegation which is going to come in with the aim of studying the opportunities for industries in this development plan.

In meetings with Japanese Prime Minister Shinzo Abe and Deputy Prime Minister and Finance Minister Taro Aso, Railway Minister Suresh Prabhu discussed the ways to strengthen cooperation between the two countries in terms of the rail sector. These meeting included discussions on the participation of Japanese railways and Japanese companies in the development of different areas of Indian Railways, with a focus on technological modernization and upgradation.

Here are the things on which the two countries will be working together:

  • Modernising the railway stations.
  • Japan will assist Indian Railways in achieving its zero-accident mission.
  • They will also help in solving the issue of sanitation by working on the development of waterless and odourless toilets in trains and station.
  • They will provide assistance in development of a legal framework for high speed railways in India as well.

The zero-accident mission, which was chalked out keeping in view the increasing number of train accidents, will include renewal of tracks, construction of more railway bridges, development of accident proof coaches, better signalling and more.

“Once we implement it fully, the accident rate will go down and speeds will improve, facilities will improve, quality of service will go up and revenue will increase. Customer experience will go up significantly,” Suresh Prabhu had earlier informed The Hindu.

To begin with, Research Designs & Standards Organisation (RDSO), which is the research wing of Indian Railways, will sign a MoU with Railway Technical Research Institute of Japan. As per the memorandum, Japan will conduct research work for upgradation of our stations.

The plan is that Railways will invest $140 billion in infrastructure upgradation in the next five years. For this, the Railway Minister also held meetings with heads of leading financial institutions in the country.

Source…..Tanaya Singh…www.thebetterindia.com

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5 Things You Should Know About J Manjula – DRDO’s First Woman Director-General ….

J Manjula, a recognized scientist, will now be heading the Electronics & Communication Systems cluster, one of the seven main clusters of DRDO.  Here are six amazing things to know about the reputed scientist.

J Manjula, , has become the first woman to lead a very important cluster of  Defence Research and Development Organisation (DRDO).

Manjula has been appointed as the first woman Director General and she will be heading the Electronics & Communication Systems cluster. Already a known name in the field of science, she will be one of the seven DG’s who are heading different clusters within the DRDO.

Here are some interesting facts that you should know about the lady –

1. Manjula is an alumna of Osmania University, Hyderabad and a practising electronics and communications engineer. She joined DRDO in 1987 after working for some time in Electronics Corporation of India Ltd.

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Photo: DRDO

2. Before the recent appointment, she was leading Defence Avionics Research Establishment (DARE), which is an establishment of DRDO, as a Director since July 2014.

3. The recognised scientist is also the recipient of DRDO award for “Performance Excellence”; the Scientist of the Year award, 2011; and the India Today Woman Summit award of 2014. –

 

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Photo: focusnews.com

4. She has worked with the Integrated Electronic Warfare cluster of DRDO’s Defence Electronics Research Laboratory (DLRL) Hyderabad, for 26 years.

5. She has successfully designed fast signal acquisition receivers, high power RF systems, responsive jammers and controller software for various systems that have been introduced in Army, Navy, Air Force and Paramilitary forces.

DRDO works in a hierarchical format with a Director General, S. Christopher who was appointed a few months ago, and seven DGs heading the various clusters. And Manjula has taken charge from yet another distinguished scientist, Dr. K.D. Nayak.

Source…Shreya Pareek….www.the betterindia.com

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There Is Something Unique at This Year’s Global Investors Meet. And You Must Check It Out….

The Global Investors Meet in Chennai has begun, and this time, it has something unique. Some great products made by jail inmates of Tamil Nadu will also be at display during the event to showcase the amazing talent of the inmates.

The two-day long Global Investors Meet (GIM) in Chennai kick-started on Wednesday, Sept. 9, and is expected to attract investments of about Rs. 1 lakh crore for Tamil Nadu.

But this year, GIM is bringing a lot more to the table than just crores of investments. The global meet is also displaying products manufactured by jail inmates in Tamil Nadu.

The meet which is being organised at the Chennai Trade Centre has textile products, soaps, phenyl, tags, wax, boots and other products which have been manufactured by the prison inmates, on display.

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Photo for representation only. Source: www.prisons.tn.nic.in

The prisoners in the Tamil Nadu jails are given training in many things. These include LED bulb making, candle making, bread making, four-wheeler and two-wheeler repair, computer hardware training, sanitary napkin making, music, information and communication vocational technology, paper manufacturing, fashion designing, tailoring, cooking, carpentry, screen painting, drawing, wiring and much more.

Additional director-general of police, J K Tripathy talked about the amazing products made by the jail inmates at the event.

He also said that the products are competitive and cheaper when compared with those of other leading manufacturers.

In case you are in Chennai, and want to check out these awesome products, be a part of GIM. Read more about the event here.

Source….Shreya Pareek….www.the betterindia.com

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This 15-Year-Old Takes on Cyber Bullies. And Makes Them Rethink Their Actions Too. …..

ReThink is an innovative technology that detects cyber-bullying, or hurtful and bullying words – on text messages, emails, social media communications and any app that uses a keyboard – and gives a chance to the person writing them to rethink his or her actions. The developer is a 15-year-old adolescent who deserves kudos for her mature thinking and innovation.

Trisha Prabhu was just 13 when she heard about an 11-year-old girl who jumped off her town’s water tank and committed suicide because she was repeatedly cyber-bullied. The incident had a deep impact on her.

I was shocked, heart-broken and angry. How could a girl younger than myself be pushed to take her own life? This was unacceptable! I knew I had to do something to stop this from ever happening again,” says Trisha, now 15, who lives in Naperville in the US.

Trisha started working on the project when she heard about a girl's suicide due to cyber bullying.

The incident reminded Trisha about the time she too was cyber bullied. “I had received offensive messages about my wardrobe choices. I am what you’d call thick-skinned, so I just brushed it off and moved on. But after reading this story, I realized that many adolescents get really affected, especially if the cyber-bullying is repeated and targeted,” she says.

This is when Trisha started researching the issue of cyber-bullying and found that more than 50% of adolescents who go online are cyber-bullied. Victims suffer from depression, low self-esteem and anxiety and are often afraid to go back to school; they eventually drop out. Over 38% of the victims suffer from suicidal tendencies.

It was during her research that she read an article, which gave her the idea that can potentially change the lives of hundreds of adolescents who are cyber-bullied.

“The article said an adolescent brain was like a car with no brakes. No pausing! No thinking! Just acting! It’s all too well-known that adolescents make impulsive, rash decisions. I further researched this topic to identify why adolescents make impulsive decisions. There is a part of the brain called the pre-frontal cortex. It is the part that controls decision-making and is not fully developed until the age of 25,” she explains.

The revolutionary idea and how it works

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She then thought: What if these kids are given a chance to reconsider before they actually post a message on social media? What if they are given a warning to think about their actions? This mature thinking gave birth to the revolutionary idea of ReThink, a software that filters offensive messages and gives a person a chance to change them before posting.

The software has patented, sophisticated context-sensitive filtering that detects hurtful messages as they are typed and pops-up a non-intrusive alert that gives adolescents a second chance to pause, review and rethink before sending that hurtful message.

The app, called Rethink – Stops Cyberbullying, can be downloaded for free from the Google Play store. Parents can also download the app and install it on their young children’s phones and computers to enable them to rethink the posts they make.

The software works on all apps and platforms — including text messages, social media, emails, etc. — any device that uses a keyboard.

“The ReThink solution not only helps the victim, it also helps the bully change his or her behavior. It helps kids develop key decision making skills on and off the internet. ReThink allows teens to become responsible digital-citizens,” says Trisha.

The astonishing results

Trisha's initiative has shown 93 percent success rate.

Trisha tested the prototype on about 1,500 users, all adolescents, and the results were amazing. Over 93% of the time, adolescents changed their minds and decided not to post offensive or hurtful messages after they received notifications or alert messages from ReThink.

“I think this was a huge success for me. Parents and teachers often find themselves trying to resolve bullying situations AFTER bullying has occurred. But this software will address the issue at source and not after the damage is done,” she says.

What seems like a simple yet powerful solution wasn’t easy to implement since Trisha is still a school student. She had familiarize herself with technology to create this app, and work while managing her hectic school schedule simultaneously. “I loved every bit of it though,” she quickly adds.

The app, which has been downloaded by about 100 people so far, still needs more recognition and Trisha hopes more children and parents will use it on their digital devices.

Her innovation won her a spot as a Google Science Fair 2014 global finalist, and also won several other awards. The award money that she received from these competitions went towards refining her prototype.

The future

In the future, Trisha wants to make ReThink available on iStore as well. Her goal is to roll out ReThink to all adolescents, schools, libraries, and communities for free.

“If I make a positive difference in the lives of many in the next 10 years, I would consider myself to be on the right track. I would love to continue on my path to social entrepreneurship and be a change agent for issues that are affecting our society. I definitely would continue to work on unravelling the secrets of the brain and understanding how they affect behaviour,” she says.

As for other young innovators like her, she has a powerful message for them too: “You don’t have to wear a white lab coat or have Albert Einstein’s hair to be a scientist. Just look around yourself, find a problem that you are passionate about and take on the cause to solve the issues. As Steve Jobs said: simple is much harder than complex, original much harder than derived. In the end, when you get there, you can move mountains.”

You can download the ReThink app here. Want to know more about her work? Contact her at contact@trishaprabhu.com – or check out her website.

Source….Shreya Pareek…www.thebetterindia.com

Natarajan

Dry Weather Reveals Amazing River With Thousands of Shiva Lingas….

Recently, due to dry weather, the water level of the Shalmala river in Karnataka receded, revealing the presence of thousands of Shiva Lingas carved throughout the river bed. Because of these uncountable carvings, the place gets the name “Sahasralinga” (thousand Shiva Lingas).

Sahasralinga has become an important pilgrimage place. On the auspicious day of Mahashivaratri thousands of pilgrims visit Sahasralinga to offer their prayers to Lord Shiva. Each Lingam in the river has a matching carving of Nandi (the Bull carrier of Lord Shiva) facing it.

Shiva Lingas have been worshipped by Hindus for thousands of years. It represents divine power and energy. The worship of Shiva Linga was not confined to India only. Carvings of Shiva Lingas can be found throughout the world in nearly every ancient civilization.

Sahasralinga is a most beautiful place. It is located near Sirsi, in the state of Karnataka. It is on the way to Yellapur from Sirsi, around 17 kms from Sirsi. After Bhairumbe you will have to get down at a bus-stop called Hul Gol bus-stop and walk towards Hul Gol. From the main road it is a distance of around 2 kms.

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Source….www.zonnews.com

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