Joke For the Day….A Business Advice …!!!

 

Joke: Solid Business Advice

A boat docked in a tiny seaside village. An businessman tourist complimented the local fisherman on the quality of his fish and asked how long it took him to catch them.
“Not very long,” answered the fisherman.
“But then, why didn’t you stay out longer and catch more?” asked the businessman. The fisherman explained that his small catch was sufficient to meet his needs and those of his family.
The businessman asked, “But what do you do with the rest of your time?”
“I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, and take a siesta with my wife. In the evenings, I go into the village to see my friends, play the guitar, and sing a few songs… I have a full life.”
The businessman interrupted, “I have an MBA from Harvard, and I can help you! You should start by fishing longer every day. You can then sell the extra fish you catch. With the extra revenue, you can buy a bigger boat.”
“And after that?” asked the fisherman.
businessman
With the extra money the larger boat will bring, you can buy a second one and a third one and so on until you have an entire fleet of trawlers. Instead of selling your fish to a middle man, you can then negotiate directly with the processing plants and maybe even open your own plant. You can then leave this little village and move to the city, Los Angeles, or even New York City! From there you can direct your huge new enterprise.”
“How long would that take?” asked the fisherman.
“Twenty, perhaps twenty-five years,” replied the businessman.
“And after that?”
“Afterwards? Well my Friend, That’s when it gets really interesting,” answered the businessman, laughing. “When your business gets really big, you can start selling stocks and make millions!”
“Millions? Really? And after that?” said the fisherman.
After that you’ll be able to retire, live in a tiny village near the coast, sleep late, play with your children, catch a few fish, take a siesta with your wife and spend your evenings doing what you like and enjoying your friends.”
Source…..www.ba-bamail.com
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A Pilot”s Story…Flying High , @ Home and @ Work…

(Credit: Justin Jinn/Panos)

Credit: Justin Jinn/Panos)

Priti Kohal’s love of flying began when she was a 16-year-old living in Mumbai. But her passion for planes started sitting in the driving seat on the open road, not wide-open skies.

As a teenager, Kohal, now age 45, would take her parents’ car, unbeknownst to them, for joy rides around town. She loved being in control of the vehicle and the freedom that came with it.

“I just loved the thought of getting away,” she said.

When Kohal turned 18 and officially received her driver’s license, her passion for driving intensified. “It was great to be able to do things on my own without having anyone ferry me around,” she said. “After the car I moved on to faster modes of transportation.”

Kohal earned her pilot’s license in 1994 and since 1996 has been a pilot with India’s Jet Airways — she’s one of 600 female pilots in India — and she’s been a captain since 2009.

There are only 4,000 female pilots worldwide, versus 130,000 male pilots, according to the International Society of Women Airline Pilots. Kohal’s doctor mother and engineer father taught her and her sister that they weren’t any different from men and could do anything they wanted as long as they had fun doing it.

This family support has helped her excel, but many women entering traditionally male-dominated professions in India encounter more obstacles. Kohal says she hasn’t run into sexism, but other females in the airline industry have and continue to face hurdles simply because of their gender. In 2009, Air India fired ten female flight attendants for being overweight. GoAir, a budget airline in India, said in 2013 that it only wanted to hire small, young females to be flight attendants in order to save money on fuel by keeping the weight of the plane down. And there are stories in the media and social media of notes being left on flights, or complaints being made, by passengers upset that they’ve flown with a female pilot.

However, Kohal never thought twice about being in the airline business. “I never considered being a pilot different from being an engineer or a teacher,” she said. “There were no limits for what we could do.”

Short flights, long days

When her children were younger, Kohal only flew one- or two-hour flights. She woke at 03:30, fed her baby, put him back to sleep and then headed off to the airport by 04:00. She’d work her flight and usually be home by 10:30, having the remainder of the day to spend with her children. By sticking with this system and meticulous planning, Kohal said she has never missed an important milestone or a school meeting for her children, now ages 14 and 11.

When her children were young, Kohal flew early morning. (Credit: Courtesy of Priti Kohal)

When her children were young, Kohal flew early in the morning and was home by 10:30. (Credit: Courtesy of Priti Kohal)

Contrary to how it might appear, being a pilot is a “very good career” for managing home and work life, Kohal believes, but it takes strategic planning. She decided to choose her flights so that she could spend time at home with her children. As long as someone doesn’t mind getting up in the wee hours of the morning, they can be home for long stretches of the day, she said.

As Kohal’s children have gotten older, her schedule has changed a bit, too. She’ll now captain long-haul flights, but tries to be away from home no more than four nights each month. The sacrifice: Kohal doesn’t get to see her husband, who is also a pilot and captains Boeing 777 planes for Air India, as often as she used to. He’s typically away for four days at a time, and then he’s off for six days. When he’s home, she spends her evenings with him — “all six nights are booked for my husband,” she said — but when he’s away, she can do as she pleases.

“It’s freedom for me,” when he’s in the air, she said, with a laugh. “I can do what I want for those 16 hours and he can’t reach me.”

When both are away, Kohal’s parents, who are retired, look after the children. Indian families tend to have strong support systems, she said. When grandkids are young, grandparents are happy to help, but when they are older there’s an expectation that children, in turn, will help their ageing parents.

Having that (wider family) support is important because it eases up an entire part of your life that you would have to constantly monitor,” she said.

Priti Kohal balances her schedule with her husband's. (Credit: Courtesy of Priti Kohal)

Priti Kohal balances her flight schedule with that of her husband, who is also a pilot. He travels more than she does. (Credit: Courtesy of Priti Kohal)

A disciplined approach

These days, Kohal’s typical routine goes something like this: She wakes up at 05:30 and gets ready for work, arriving at 09:00 where she receives her flying assignment. She typically flies for a few hours a day — unless she’s taking an overnight flight. That means she can be home by 14:30. After an hour nap, Kohal is wide-awake to greet her kids when they get home from school.

The family has dinner by 20:30 and bedtime for the children is at 21:30, without exception.

“One aspect of being a pilot is that rules can’t be broken,” Kohal said. “You can’t mess up when you have to be stabilised at 1,000 feet. So I have some hard rules at home. They have it tougher than I did when I was younger.”

She’s usually in bed by midnight, but when her husband is away and she doesn’t have to fly the next day, Kohal will stay up reading until 02:30. “That’s my time,” she said.

Hard work pays off

Kohal attributes her success to one thing: hard work. For instance, only 0.1% of people pass the pilot’s entrance exam — and it’s given only twice a year. She was the only one to pass in her class.

Kohal has accomplished nearly everything she’s set out to do, but looking at her situation, she doesn’t think that she’s done anything extraordinary. Many educated women in India have successful careers, she added.

“Anything you set your mind to do, you just do it,” she said. “Tomorrow it will be something else.”

Source….Bryan Borzykowski in www. bbc.com

Natarajan

” How to Beat Stress and Come out of that sinking feeling….”

Don’t let all those things happening at your workplace get you down. Read on to find out how you can beat stress.

It’s Monday morning and the start of a new week. You get up from the bed with a sinking feeling.

The new boss shouts at you before others, he is never content with the work you do, and quick to pounce on you at the tiniest error.

But this job means a lot to you. You have a housing mortgage on your shoulders.

You are in your mid 40s and it would be extremely difficult to find another job.

Stress spirals into depression

The physical symptoms of stress shows on you: the stomach tightens into a knot, the heart races in panic, breathing becomes shallow and your palms go damp.

The food is tasteless and you worry even in sleep.

There is an emotional quotient too.

A stressed employee suffers from a hurt morale, bruised ego, fears and insecurity.

Instead of job satisfaction there is job revulsion.

If not checked, it could spiral into a depression or a nervous breakdown.

Here’s how to manage your stress:

Don’t make it worse:

Your stress is not going to go away by smoking all the day.

It makes you fall prey to self-pity and seek solace from cigarettes and alcohol.

Don’t crib about your boss to colleagues:

If you are stressed it is better not to spill out the angst to others in the team by painting oneself as a victim or the boss as a devil.

You could lose a lot in the long term including your job.

Identify the sources of stress:

Once you know the cause behind it you need to address it.

Determine how you are going to deal with it and whether it’s something that can be fixed or managed.

Being aware of your own stress level is a worthwhile objective.

Instead of being reactive to situations, try to observe your mind and the emotions as stress in the environment meets you.

Don’t be afraid to talk to your boss or top management about your stress source.

See the big picture:

Experts say that one experiences stress when s/he feels that the situation is out of control.

That vulnerability activates the stress hormone and wears down your confidence and concentration. The first step is to identify the stress factors.

Take breaks:

In today’s fast-paced work environment many people spend their entire day at their desk, even working through lunch.

This may cause heightened stress levels besides strain for the eyes!

Experts advise you to take short breaks, stretch arms while seated in the chair, let eyes wander to the furthest end of the room for respite from staring a computer monitor for hours, have coffee or tea at the pantry or even listen to favourite songs over the headphone.

Short breaks help you in calming your nerves.

Relax at home.

Your lifestyle outside the office plays a big part.

Experts say getting enough sleep, supportive friends and family can help maintain a more stable state of mind.

There are stress relievers like exercise, yoga and music.

Take up a hobby and you’ll find the office blues lose their potency to torment you.

Photograph (used for representational purposes only): Dadang Tri/Reuters

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Message For the Day…” Correct Your Defective Vision and You will experience God in all things…”

Sathya Sai Baba

Love is Divine. You must love all. More so, impart your love even to those who lack love. Love is like mariner’s compass. Wherever you may keep it, it should always point towards God. In every action in your daily life manifest selfless love. Divinity will emerge from that love. This is the easiest path to God realization. But why are people not taking to it? This is because they are obsessed with misconception relating to the means of experiencing God. They regard God as some remote entity attainable only by arduous spiritual practices. God is everywhere. There is no need to search for God. All that you see is a manifestation of the Divine. All the human beings you see are forms of the Divine. Correct your defective vision and you will experience God in all things. The power of love is immeasurable. Hence, develop and practice the sense of the spiritual oneness of all beings.

 

” அசையாத சிவனும் அசைவது அம்பாளால் …

அசையாத சிவனும் அம்பாளால்தான் அசைந்து காரியத்தில் ஈடுபடுகிறார் என்று வருவதை சயன்ஸ்படி கொஞ்சம் விளக்கிப் பார்த்தால், ‘மாட்டர்’ என்று பதார்த்தத்தைச் சொல்கிறார்கள். அதன் சுபாவம் ‘இனர்ஷியா’ என்கிறார்கள் அதாவது சலனமில்லாமல் போட்டது போட்டபடிக் கிடப்பதுதான் என்கிறார்கள். அதனால் ‘இனர்ட் மாட்டர்’ என்றே சேர்த்துச் சொல்வதாக இருக்கிறது.

ஆனாலும் அப்படிப்பட்ட `இனர்ட் மாட்டர்` பல தினுசில் சலனப்பட்டு, பல தினுசில் ஒன்று சேர்ந்துதான் பிரபஞ்சம் உண்டாயிருக்கிறதென்று நன்றாகத் தெரிகிறது. அப்படியானால் ஏதோ ஒரு பவர், சக்திதானே சலனமில்லாத `மாட்டரை` சலனிக்கும்படியாகப் பண்ணியிருப்பதாக ஆகிறது? அந்தச் சலனமில்லாத `மாட்டரை` தான் சிவன் என்றும் அதைச் சலனிக்க வைக்கும் சக்தியைப் பாரசக்தி, அம்பாள் என்றும் சொல்லியிருக்கிறது.

நிச்சலனமான சிவனும், கிரக நட்சத்திரங்களில் ஆரம்பித்து அணுவுக்குள் உள்ள பரமாணுவரை எல்லாம் சதா சலனித்துக்கொண்டே இருப்பதற்குக் காரணமான சக்தியும் பிரிக்க முடியாமல் ஒன்று சேர்ந்திருக்கிறார்கள் என்பதை அவர் ‘மாட்டர்’, அவள் ‘எனெர்ஜி’ என்று சயன்ஸ் அடிப்படையில் விளக்கிச் சொல்லலாம். இணைபிரியாத இரண்டு பேர் என்றாலும் அவர்கள் அடிப்படையில் இரண்டுகூட இல்லை, ஒன்றேதான் என்பதையும் அடாமிக் சயன்சில் ‘மாட்ட’ரே ‘எனர்ஜி’யாவதாகச் சொல்லியிருப்பதைக் காட்டி உறுதிப்படுத்தலாம்.

ஆனால் ஒரு வித்தியாசம், பெரிய வித்தியாசம். என்னவென்றால், அங்கே ஒரு மாட்டரை எனர்ஜி ரூபமாக்கிய அப்புறம் மாட்டர் இல்லாமல் போய்விடும். இங்கேயோ சிவனும் சக்தியும் எப்போதுமே சாச்வத சத்யமாக இருக்கிறார்கள். சக்தியோக எனெர்ஜி வெளிப்பட்டுக்கொண்டே இருக்கும்போதும் சிவ `மாட்டர்` அழியாமலே இருந்துகொண்டிருக்கிறது.

ஆனால் ஒரு வித்தியாசம், பெரிய வித்தியாசம். என்னவென்றால், அங்கே ஒரு மாட்டரை எனர்ஜி ரூபமாக்கிய அப்புறம் மாட்டர் இல்லாமல் போய்விடும். இங்கேயோ சிவனும் சக்தியும் எப்போதுமே சாச்வத சத்யமாக இருக்கிறார்கள். சக்தியோக எனெர்ஜி வெளிப்பட்டுக்கொண்டே இருக்கும்போதும் சிவ `மாட்டர்` அழியாமலே இருந்துகொண்டிருக்கிறது.

ஏனென்றால் இங்கே ‘மாட்டர்’ என்பதே ஜடமாக இல்லாமல் உயிரான ‘ஸ்பிரிட்’டாக இருக்கிறது. அழியாத, அழிக்க முடியாத ஆத்ம தத்துவமாக இருக்கிறது. சைதன்ய பூர்ணமாக இருக்கிறது. ஜடத்திலேயே ஆரம்பித்து ஜடத்திலேயே முடிந்துவிடும் சயன்ஸ்படியான மாட்டருங்கூட இந்த சைதன்யத்திலிருந்து வந்ததுதான். இப்போது மெள்ள மெள்ள ஐன்ஸ்டீன், சர் ஆலிவர் லாட்ஜ், எடிங்டன் போன்ற பெரிய சயன்ஸ் மேதைகள் அந்த சைதன்ய ஆதாரத்தின் பக்கமாக சயன்சைத் திருப்பி விட்டிருக்கிறார்கள்.

ஆனாலும் அதை லாபரடரியில் எக்ஸ்பெரிமென்ட் பண்ணி நிரூபிக்கவோ, அநுபவிக்கவோ முடியாது. மதாநுஷ்டானத்தினால்தான் அதன் நிரூபணமும், ப்ரத்யக்ஷ அநுபவமும் கிடைக்கும். சயன்சுக்கும் மதத்துக்கும் மாறுபாடுகள் இருந்தாலும் ஒப்புவமை காட்டும்படியும் அநேகம் இருக்கின்றன. ஐன்ஸ்டீனின் ரிலேடிவிடி தியரியிலிருந்து நடந்துள்ள அணு ஆராய்ச்சிக் கண்டுபிடிப்புகள் மத சாஸ்திரங்கள், குறிப்பாக அத்வைத வேதாந்தமும் சாக்த நூல்களும் சொல்வதற்குக் கிட்ட வந்துகொண்டிருக்கின்றன.

லோகத்தில் ‘டைம்’, ‘ஸ்பேஸ்’ என்பவை உள்பட எதுவுமே தன்னுடைய ஆதாரத்திலேயே சத்தியமாக இருப்பதல்ல, ‘ரிலேடிவா’க இன்னொன்றைச் சார்ந்தே எல்லாமும் ஒரு ஓட்டத்தில் ஓடுகிறபோது அந்த ஓட்டத்தின் தொடர்ச்சியாலேயே அததுவும் சத்தியம் மாதிரி நடைமுறைக்கு இருக்கிறது என்பதுதான் நான் புரிந்துகொண்ட மட்டும் ‘ரிலேடிவிடி தியரி’.

பிரம்மம்தான் ஒன்றேயான ஆதார சத்தியம். அதைச் சார்ந்திருப்பதாலேயே சத்தியம் மாதிரித் தோற்றம் அளிக்கும்படியாக மாயை கல்பித்துக் காட்டுகிறதுதான் இந்த லோகம் பூராவும் என்று அத்வைதம் சொல்கிறது. அந்த மாயையாகவே அம்பாளை சாக்த சாஸ்திரங்களும் குறிப்பிடுவதாகச் சொன்னேன். மாயா தத்துவம்தான் ‘ரிலேடிவிடி’ என்று கொள்வதற்கு நிறைய இடமிருக்கிறதல்லவா? இந்த ரிலேடிவிடிக்கு ஆதாரமான ‘அப்சொல்யூட்’ என்னவென்று சயன்ஸ் கண்டுபிடிக்கவில்லை.

மத நூல்களும் தத்துவ சாஸ்திரங்களும் அதைத்தான் பிரம்மம், சிவன் என்கின்றன. மதம் ‘ரிலிஜன்’, தத்துவ சாஸ்திரம் ‘ஃபிலாஸஃபி’ என்று ஒரு பாகுபாடு சொல்லப்பட்டாலும் நம்முடைய மதத்தில் இந்த இரண்டும் பிரிக்க முடியாமல் சிவ-சக்திகள் மாதிரி ஒன்று சேர்ந்துதான் இருக்கின்றன. புத்தகத்தில் சொன்னது மட்டுமில்லை, அந்த அப்சொல்யூட்டை மகான்கள் ஆத்ம ஸ்வரூபமாக அநுபவித்தும் இருக்கிறார்கள். அதுதான் உயிருக்கெல்லாம் உயிராக இருக்கும் ஒரே உண்மையான உயிர்.

அதாவது ஒன்று மத்தியிலிருப்பது, மற்றது சுற்றியிருப்பது என்பதற்குப் பதில் இரண்டும் பேர் பாதி என்று சொல்லியிருக்கிறது. அதுதான் அர்த்தநாரீச்வர ஸ்வரூபம் – வலது பக்கம் பாசிடிவ் ஸ்வாமி, இடது பக்கம் நெகடிவ் அம்பாள். இப்படிச் சொல்வதிலும் புஷ்டியான காரணம் தெரிகிறது. என்னவென்றால், இடது பக்கம்தானே இருதயம் இருக்கிறது?

தேகம் பூராவுக்குமே அதுதான் சக்தி தருகிறது. ஒரு தேகத்தில் இடது பக்கத்தை விடவும் வலது பக்கம்தான் ஜாஸ்தி பலத்தோடு, ‘பவ’ரோடு காரியத்துக்கு உதவுவதாக இருக்கிறது. வாகாக வேலை செய்ய வலது பக்கம்தான் உகந்ததாக இருக்கிறது. வலது கையால் செய்ய முடிகிற மாதிரி இடதால் முடியாது.

வலது பக்க வியாபாரத்தை மூளையின் இடது பக்கம் கன்ட்ரோல் பண்ணுகிறது என்றும், இடது பக்க வியாபாரத்தை மூளையின் வலது பக்கம் கன்ட்ரோல் பண்ணுகிறது என்றும் தெரிகிறது. அதாவது ஜாஸ்தி சக்திகரமாகக் காரியம் பண்ணும் நம்முடைய சரீரத்தின் சிவ சைடுக்கு அப்படி சக்தி கொடுத்து கன்ட்ரோல் பண்ணுவது மூளையின் சக்தி சைடே என்றாகிறது.

Source…www.tamil.thehindu.com
Natarajan

“அரைக்காசு அம்மன்….”

ஆடி மாதம் என்றாலே சக்தி வழிபாடுதான். நடைபாதை அம்மன் என்றாலும், பெரும் கோயில்களில் உள்ள அம்மன் என்றாலும் கோலாகலமாகக் கொண்டாடப்படுவது இந்த ஆடி மாதத்தில்தான். இது பெண்களுக்கான மாதம்

என்றே சொல்லலாம். புற்றுள்ள அம்மன் கோயில்களில், பெண்கள் புற்றுக்குப் பால் வார்ப்பதும், அம்மனை ஆராதிக்கும் வண்ணம் குலவை இடுவதும் வழக்கம்.

வீதிதோறும் உள்ள அம்மன்களுக்குக் கூழ் காய்ச்சுதலும், நைவேத்தியத்திற்குப் பின் அவற்றை ஏழை, எளியோருக்கு வழங்குதலும் வாடிக்கை. இவ்விழாக்களில் வாண வேடிக்கையும் உண்டு. பிரமாதமான அலங்காரங்களில் வீதி உலா வரும் அம்மன், விடிய, விடிய ஊர்க்காவலில் இருப்பவள் என்கிறார்கள்.

சின்னஞ்சிறிய கிராமங்களில்கூட விநாயகர் சன்னிதியும், மாரியம்மன் கோயிலும் இருப்பது சர்வ சகஜம். அருகம்புல் விநாயகருக்கு உரியது என்றால், வேப்பம் தழை அம்மனுக்கு உரியது. அம்மை நோய் கண்டால் வேப்ப இலைகளையே அம்மனின் பிரசாதமாகக் கருதித் தலையில் சூட்டிக்கொள்வர். இல்லத்தின் வாயிலில் கட்டித் தொங்க விடுவதன் மூலம் மேலும் நோய்க் கிருமிகள் இல்லத்தில் அண்ட விடாமலும், வெளியே பரவி விடாமலும் காப்பது வழக்கம். இல்லத்தில் வேப்ப மரம் இருந்தால் ஆடி மாதத்தில் அதனையே தெய்வமாகப் பூஜிப்பதும் உண்டு.

அரைக்காசு அம்மன்

புதுக்கோட்டை மன்னர்களில் சிலர் திருக்கோகர்ணம் திருக்கோயிலில் உள்ள அன்னை பிரகதாம்பாளைக் குலதெய்வமாகவும், பலர் இஷ்ட தெய்வமாகவும் வணங்கிவந்தனர். அந்நாளில் இந்த அன்னைக்கு நவராத்திரி விழாவினை மன்னர்கள் விமரிசையாகக் கொண்டாடுவார்கள். அப்போது அன்றைய தினத்திற்கு மட்டுமல்லாமல் பல நாட்களுக்கும் அன்னம் கிடைக்க வேண்டும் என்பதற்காக அரிசி, வெல்லம் போன்ற பொருட்களையும், அம்மன் பொறிக்கப்பட்ட அக்காலத்தில் புழக்கத்தில் இருந்த அரைக்காசு ஒன்றையும் சேர்த்து மக்களுக்கு அவர்கள் தானம் செய்து வந்தனர்.

இந்த நிலையில்தான் மன்னர் ஒருவரின் முக்கியமான பொருள் ஒன்று தொலைந்துவிட்டது. எங்கு தேடியும் கிடைக்காத அந்தப் பொருள் கிடைக்க வேண்டும் என்று திருக்கோகர்ணம் பிரகதாம்பாளிடம் பிரார்த்தனை செய்தாராம் மன்னர். தான் வணங்கும் இந்த அரைக்காசு அம்மனே அதனை மீட்டுத் தர வேண்டும் என்று கூறி பிரார்த்தனையை தீவிரப்படுத்தினார். அவர் பிரார்த்தனை பலித்து, தேடிய பொருள் கைக்கு வந்தது என்பது நம்பிக்கை.

அதற்கு நன்றி தெரிவிக்கும் விதமாக, வெல்லத்தைப் பிடித்து வைத்து பூஜை செய்துள்ளார். பின்னர் அந்த வெல்லப் பிரசாதத்தைத் தானும் உண்டு, பக்தர்களுக்கும் வழங்கினார். அதனால் அரைக்காசு அம்மனை வேண்டினால் தொலைந்த பொருள் கிடைக்கும் என்ற செய்தி நாடு முழுவதும் பரவியது. அந்த பழக்கம் இன்றும் நடைமுறையில் உள்ளது.

Source….www.tamil.thehindu.com

Natarajan

“All Human Beings Carry Divinity Inside Themselves….” Says A P J Abdul Kalam …

‘This can lift us out of confusion, misery, melancholy and failure, and indeed guide us when it is contacted.’

‘For us to ignite our spirituality, we need to look inward and transcend our egos. We need to recognize, connect with and integrate the eternal spirit within,’ says A P J Abdul Kalam in his latest book, Transcendence.

President A P J Abdul Kalam, right, with Pramukh Swami Maharaj.

I have vivid memories of my childhood in Rameswaram, but one memory particularly stands out, and comes to mind occasionally. As a ten-year-old boy, I recall seeing three contrasting personalities meet from time to time in our home: Pakshi Lakshmana Shastrigal, the Vedic scholar and head priest of the famous Rameswaram temple; Rev Father Bodal, who built the first church on Rameswaram Island; and my father, who was an imam in the mosque. These three would sit in our courtyard, each with a cup of tea; and they would discuss and find solutions to the various problems facing our community.

Reflecting on this, I can see that my father and his religious counterparts in Rameswaram were expressing a long-standing cultural trait. India has shown a healthy propensity for integrating diverse ideas and reaching a consensus, for thousands of years. And I cannot help but feel that the example of those inter-religious meetings at my family home is most worthy of emulation. Because now, throughout the nation and the world, the need for such frank and genial dialogue among cultures, religions and civilizations is more urgent than ever.

Starting with my father, Jainulabdeen, I have been blessed with some great teachers, who appeared at different stages of my life. My father taught me to view one’s role in life as that of an instrument or vessel, through which one takes with one hand and gives with the other. “There is only one light, and you and I are holes in the lampshade,” he would say.

My father lived a simple life as it unfolded before him but never lost sight of the underlying divinity. Throughout my life, I have tried to emulate my father in this regard. My experiences of eight decades have validated the teaching I received from him.

I do believe that all human beings carry divinity inside themselves, and that this can lift us out of confusion, misery, melancholy and failure, and indeed guide us when it is contacted.

As a young engineer, I worked with Dr Brahma Prakash. He taught me how tolerance of others’ views and opinions is essential in building teams and accomplishing tasks that are beyond the individuals’ capacities.

He taught me that life is a precious gift, but it comes with responsibility. With this gift, we are expected to use our talents to make the world a better place, to live an ethical and well-balanced life, and to prepare for the spiritual life, which is eternal.

Dr Brahma Prakash changed the way I saw the world. He once told me, “Kalam, if you see this world as mean and rude, it will interfere with your concentration. Negative thinking is similar to carrying twenty bags of luggage on a trip. This baggage will make your trip miserable, and progress will be slow.”

As a project director, I worked with Professor Satish Dhawan, who taught me that a good leader takes the responsibility for the failures of his team, but gives the credit of his success to his colleagues.

His academic accomplishments were awesome. He had a Bachelor of Arts in mathematics and a Bachelor of Science in physics, followed by a Master of Arts in mathematics. These were augmented with a Bachelor of Engineering in mechanical engineering, a Master of Science in aerospace engineering.

When I asked him the secret of his brilliance, he told me: “Academic brilliance is no different than the brilliance of a mirror. Once dust is removed, the mirror shines and the reflection is clear. We can remove impurities by living pure and ethical lives and serving humanity, and God will shine through us.”

Later, I met Jain muni Acharya Mahapragya, who made me realize the affirmation of a divine life upon earth and an immortal sense in mortal existence. He taught me that our consciousness is the birthplace of our ethics. He said, “We know something is right when our consciences are clear. Our consciences are our true friends.”

Together we wrote Family and Nation and articulated two steps to the process of listening to our conscience — to become self-aware so that we can connect to our conscience, and to act on what our conscience says.

A P J Abdul Kalam with Pramukh Swami Maharaj.

I met Pramukh Swamiji, my ultimate teacher, unwittingly. Fate and my curiosity had drawn me to him. Earlier, as principal scientific advisor to the Government of India, I had visited Bhuj to review the rehabilitation work in the aftermath of the earthquake.

There, on 15 March 2001, I met Sadhu Brahmaviharidas, a disciple of Pramukh Swamiji. He asked me a startling question which elicited a spiritual response. He asked: “After the detonation of the first atomic bomb, Robert Oppenheimer remembered the Gita: ‘Time I am the shatterer of the world.’ What came to your mind after you detonated India’s first atomic bomb?”

I was puzzled by this question, and said, “The energy of God does not shatter, it unifies,” to which he replied, “Our spiritual leader, Pramukh Swami Maharaj, is a great unifier. He has unified all our energies to regenerate and restore life from the rubble of damage.”

I was moved and expressed my desire to meet such a swami. What began as a chance introduction became a divine destiny.

Over several years and multiple meetings with Pramukh Swamiji, I realized that a divine life can have no base unless we recognize the eternal spirit as the inhabitant of this bodily mansion, and integrate all of which the eternal spirit is comprised.

That all those living on this planet Earth — around me, away from me, in my country, in other countries; even other species and vegetation and minerals — are all different forms of a great unity.

At the most elementary level, all nature is one. Only one noble material weaves constantly different garbs. The nascent convergence of Nano-Bio-Info-Cogno technologies is testimony to this. How can we ensure that this convergence leads to human good and not harm; to the benefit of the marginalized and poor and not to merely an influential few?

With these thoughts on my mind, I travelled to Sarangpur, Gujarat, on 11 March 2014 to see Pramukh Swamiji. This was our latest meeting. We met in a garden inhabited by peacocks, surrounded by beautiful flowers.

In an emotionally and spiritually charged atmosphere, Swamiji held my hand for ten minutes. No words were spoken. We looked into each other’s eyes in a profound communication of consciousness. It was a great spiritual experience.

I have had a few spiritual experiences even earlier. On 30 September 2001, I survived a helicopter mishap. That night, I had a very vivid dream. I saw myself in a desert on a moonlit night, surrounded by miles of sand. Five great men, namely Emperor Ashoka, Mahatma Gandhi Albert Einstein, Abraham Lincoln and Caliph Umar, communicated a mission to me for igniting the minds of the young with hope.

On 28 April 2007, in the cave on Philopappos Hill — the place of imprisonment and self-sacrifice of the great soul Socrates — I saw in my mind’s eye a powerful streak of lighting.

Out of the dark corners of the cave came four apparitions, walking towards me in white robes. Foremost among them was Socrates, who said in a soft voice, ‘Thinking is freedom.’ Next came Abraham Lincoln who said, ‘No human being can be a slave of another.’ Then I saw Mahatma Gandhi, who said, ‘Eliminate violence in all human missions, let peace prevail.’ Finally, I saw Galileo Galilei, who said, ‘Truth is beyond human laws.’

President A P J Abdul Kalam with Pramukh Swami Maharaj. Also seen: Then Gujarat chief minister Narendra Modi.

But at the garden in Sarangpur with Pramukh Swamiji, there was a difference. On the earlier two occasions, I felt that perhaps my own imagination was at play. This time, Pramukh Swamiji was holding my hand. I became oblivious to the people around us, and was drawn into a kind of timeless silence.

I felt that his was the hand of transformation that could bring a change that the world needed today. In these moments, a world vision based on Mother Earth was intuitively communicated to me.

Pramukh Swamiji is Gunatit Satpurush, a spiritual person. He has transcended the ephemeral and the modes of nature. I felt as if through Pramukh Swamiji a divine message was transferred to me about something endowed to mankind by God almighty, but forgotten by humanity.

In a revelatory flash, I realized that the struggle between happiness and unhappiness that had so far been the story of human existence — and the struggle between peace and war that had been the history of the human race — must change.

I heard in the silence of his grip on my hand, “Kalam, go and tell everyone that the power that would lead us to eternal victory amid these struggles is the power of good within us. Communicate to mankind the vision of a harmonious world. This vision would be greater than any other goal ever aspired to by humanity.”

A harmonious world may seem an impossibly utopian vision. But with the guidance of the Divine, and in acknowledging the unity of all creation — and with the helping hand of such transcendent souls as Pramukh Swamiji — the impossible may be achievable. And a harmonious world begins with a harmonious inner world — an unavoidably spiritual quest.

For us to ignite our spirituality, we need to look inward and transcend our egos. We need to recognize, connect with and integrate the eternal spirit within.

There are four steps for this: Search in the right place, Remove the dust, Open your inner eye and See your destiny waiting for your effort to be realized.

Accordingly, I have written this book in four parts. The book starts with my spiritual experiences in the presence of Pramukh Swamiji. The second part reflects on the social work undertaken by the Bochasanwasi Shri Akshar Purushottam Swaminarayan Sanstha (BAPS) under the stewardship of Pramukh Swamiji. The third part shows the way ahead for humanity, with a vision of the fusion of science and spirituality. The fourth part calls for creative leadership, which is essential for the realization of this vision.

The spirit of inclusiveness of BAPS offers a seed to build a glorious crystal of a peaceful and prosperous world, where all civilizations coexist harmoniously and accommodate each other.

Pramukh Swamiji has already made an example, by creating a reflective society living through its cultural heritage. He has taken the glory of India to Africa, Europe, America and the Far East in the form of magnificent Swaminarayan temples, strong fellowship of devotees and well-wishers that encompasses millions world wide.

Let it now expand into public dealings — transparent governance and ethical business — based on truth. Driven by the convergence of Bio-Nano-Info-Eco-Cogno technologies, human beings will have unprecedented power.

A vision is required to ensure that living conditions at the bottom of the social pyramid will improve across social, political and economic boundaries.

A P J Abdul Kalam with Pramukh Swami Maharaj.

When this book was almost complete, my elder brother A P J Muhammad Muthu Meera Lebbai Maracayer called me from Rameswaram one morning after fajr prayers. Such a call so early in the morning initially worried me, but I was relieved upon hearing his cheerful voice. He asked me, “Tell me, brother, what is the most important thing you are doing these days?” I had told him about this book. I expressed my doubt to him: Whether it is appropriate for me as a Muslim to write about the leader of another religion.

I have much respect for my brother Maracayer’s judgement. He is fourteen years my senior and had lived a very pious life, grounded in Islamic religion and service. He said, “Kalam, when Prophet Muhammad, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, arrived in Medina, there were Jewish and Christian tribes living there. He entered into a treaty with them within a larger framework dealing with inter-Muslim relationships. One of the clauses laid down in the treaty required that each party hold counsel with the other. Mutual relations shall be founded on righteousness; sin is totally excluded.”

My brother concluded by asking me to go ahead with the book, and share with everyone details of the pious and virtuous life of Pramukh Swamiji. Thus, the book was finally completed.

I dedicate this book to all the righteous people of the world wherever they are. The Swaminarayan temples and Akshardhams are indeed the sanctuaries of pious and virtuous living. They are abodes of peace and beacons of hope, rescuing people from the bottomless pit of self-indulgence, and, through service, reminding them of their true selves and allowing them to become wholesome human beings.

An increasing number of people, particularly in the developed world, are finding freedom from superficial relationships, trivial communications and the constant noise that pervade the modern world, in the counsel and guidance of BAPS saints.

May this divine presence increase!

Excerpted from Transcendence, by A P J Abdul Kalam and Arun Tiwari, with the kind permission of publishers, Harper Element, an imprint of HarperCollins Publishers.

IMAGES: President A P J Abdul Kalam with Pramukh Swami Maharaj. Kind courtesy: Trancendence.

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Natarajan

 

Message for the Day….” The Trinity is Present in the form of Three ‘gunas’ in Every Human Heart…”

The true meaning of Guru is, ‘One who is beyond attributes and forms, the Supreme Self (Brahman)’. When this Self is within you, where is the need to search for a Guru? A teacher who teaches others has had a teacher himself. The one who has noGuru above him is the true Guru. The Sanskrit stanza which hails the Guru as Brahma, Vishnu and Maheshwara and asParabrahman is misinterpreted. The right approach is to consider Brahma, Vishnu and Maheshwara as the Guru. These three are symbolised by the three gunas or attributes: Brahma is Rajas, Vishnu is Satwa and Shiva represents Tamas. The whole cosmos is constituted by the three gunas and the gunasare present in you. The Trinity are present in the form of the three gunas in every human heart. Hence, you are your ownguru. You need not seek him elsewhere. You have to feel at all times your inherent divinity, which is also present in everyone. When you help or feed someone you must feel that the Divine in you is feeding the Divine in others.

Sathya Sai Baba

Meet Siddharth Jayakumar Whose Life Changed after a Meeting with ” People’s President”…

Siddharth Jaykumar (left) says Dr Kalam "taught him to be a good human being"

Siddharth Jaykumar (left) says Dr Kalam “taught him to be a good human being”

Former Indian president APJ Abdul Kalam died on Monday at the age of 83. He was known for his humble and friendly nature and touched many lives during his illustrious career. BBC Monitoring’s Vikas Pandey speaks to Siddharth Jaykumar, whose life changed after meeting the former president.

Mr Jaykumar still remembers every detail of his first meeting with Dr Kalam on 2 December, 2005.

The president had written to him after reading his story of “grit and determination” in an article on web portal Rediff.com.

Mr Jayakumar has cerebral palsy, but he overcame the odds to get a degree in economics and become an executive in a private bank.

Dr Kalam, who was the president at the time, was impressed with his story and wanted to meet him.

Start of friendship

The banking executive vividly remembers how he was mesmerised with Dr Kalam’s humble nature when they met for the first time in the southern Indian city of Chennai (Madras).

“I did not feel even for a second that I was meeting the president of India. He told me he was proud of what I had achieved. He encouraged me to continue doing well in life,” Mr Jaykumar says.

That was the start of a “friendship” that lasted for more than a decade.

“I really don’t know what to say. All the memories of the times spent with him are coming back to my mind and heart,” he says.

The 35-year-old still remembers that he was surprised and amazed when Dr Kalam shared his story with the world in a speech on the International Day for Persons with Disabilities in December 2005.

The two interacted several times after their first meeting, but Mr Jaykumar fondly remembers one “unplanned encounter” three years ago.

“I had gone to listen to him at an event in Chennai. He recognised me from the stage and broke the protocol to come and meet me in the crowd,” he remembers.

He adds that the incident explains why people loved him so much, earning him the unofficial title of the “people’s president”.

‘Great human being’

He broke protocols to meet people, specially children, wherever he went and always wore his infectious smile.

This was in stark contrast with most Indian politicians who usually follow strict rules and stay behind layers of security.

He is also known as India’s “missile man” for his contributions to the country’s satellite programmes, guided and ballistic missile projects and nuclear weapons programme.

He loved sharing his experiences and knowledge with young minds through his books and speeches.

And that is what he did until his last moments. He suffered a cardiac arrest while giving a lecture at a management institute in Shillong, Meghalaya.

He inspired a generation of Indians and Mr Jaykumar feels proud that he knew him personally.

“He was a beautiful human being. He inspired me to share my experiences with the world,” he says.

Mr Jaykumar suffered great difficulties in his childhood. Doctors had “diagnosed him as mentally retarded”.

He also faced problems in getting admissions at schools and colleges. But he says he loves winning against difficult situations.

Dr Kalam too liked this quality and encouraged him to study further and inspire others.

Mr Jaykumar today is a well-known motivational speaker, but he never forgets to thank Dr Kalam.

Mr Jaykumar has given more than 130 motivational talks in different parts of the country

Mr Jaykumar has given more than 130 motivational talks in different parts of the country

 

“I always mention him and his stories in my talks. I became a better human being after meeting him. I also became more visible after he mentioned my story in his speech in 2005,” he says.

He adds that Dr Kalam taught him a valuable lesson in life that “no matter who you are, you must be a good human being above everything else”.

Mr Jaykumar says that he will now honour “his friend’s” wish and write a book.

“I think I will definitely write a motivational book in honour of a great president, a great scientist, but above all, a great human being and a friend,” he says.

 

The banking executive adds that he still takes refuge in Dr Kalam’s teaching whenever he faces difficult situations.

“He changed my life in so many ways. Professional success aside, I give him more than 100% credit for making me the person I am today. He taught me to dream,” he says.

Many agree that Dr Kalam’s legacy lies in the people he inspired and nurtured.

It’s hardly surprising that there are many like Mr Jaykumar who are feeling that “one of their own” has died.

Source…..www.bbc.com

Natarajan

Epsom Salt….A Miracle Worker For Your Home Garden…!!!!

Epsom Salts Help Your Garden Grow

 

epsom salt gardeningNot only are epsom salt something you should keep in your kitchen, they are also a miracle worker for gardening enthusiasts. Adding epsom salt to your garden can enrich your soil with additional nutrients (like magnesium), increase your vegetable output, and speed up your plant growth. There are so many benefits to adding this salt to your gardening routine.
1. Enrich your roses – Roses benefit from epsom salt immensely. It provides them with magnesium, which is vital for chlorophyll production and seed germination. By adding this salt, the rose bush produces more vibrant blooms with richer colors and darker foliage, and the plant grows stronger. The plant’s inflow of sulfur, nitrogen and phosphorus improves too.

What to do: When planting a rose bush, soak the roots in a ½ cup salt diluted in one gallon water beforehand. Sprinkle a tablespoon of salt in the hole in the ground and cover this with a thin layer of soil. During the growing season, you can sprinkle a tablespoon of salt per foot of plant height to the base of the plant once a month before watering.

2. Grow healthier tomatoes and peppers – Both these plants use up a lot of magnesium while growing, so adding epsom salt – which are easily absorbed into the plant – offers gardeners a cheap source of magnesium for their crops. The Epsom salt helps in other ways too: The plants are stronger, produce more fruit, with less blossom rot, deeper color, and more flavorful vegetables. Gardeners also report sweeter and healthy-sized vegetables.

What to do: When planting a new tomato or pepper plant, dig a hole, place one tablespoon of salt in the hole and then cover with a thin layer of soil. You can position the plant on top of this. During the growing season, you can give the plants a liquid treatment every two weeks: Mix 1 tablespoon in a gallon of water and water the plants with this mix. Using warm water can make it easier to dissolve the salt.

3. Cultivate better flowers and stronger blooms – Experienced gardeners swear that adding epsom salt to their flower gardens benefits the plants. They cite that the added nutrients make their plants healthier, grow stronger flowers and feature blossoms with improved color and texture. Start by adding the Epsom salt to the soil when planting new flower-bearing plants, and after that treat the plants with a liquid solution (same method mentioned in #3) every two to three weeks.

flowers

4. Nurture better azaleas and rhododendron – Add some Epsom salt to help these flowering plants produce more buds. The supplement of sulfate from the Epsom salt also helps prevent the plants from turning yellow. Every two to four weeks you can apply 1 tablespoon per 9 square feet, making sure to cover the root zone.

4. Nurture better azaleas and rhododendron – Add some Epsom salt to help these flowering plants produce more buds. The supplement of sulfate from the Epsom salt also helps prevent the plants from turning yellow. Every two to four weeks you can apply 1 tablespoon per 9 square feet, making sure to cover the root zone.

5. Grow greener grass – Adding epsom salt to your lawn can supplement the grass with minerals that make the grass healthier, greener and grow stronger, enabling the plant to withstand any harsh environmental factors. Adding this salt can help with the germination process and the seed growth in the early stages. What to do: Use a spreader, or dilute the salt in water and apply with a sprayer. It’s recommended that three pounds be applied per every 1250 square feet.

plant6. Help fruit trees flourish – It is a long process for a tree to bear fruit, but adding the salt to its soil helps the plant reap better-tasting, nutritious and more attractive fruit. It can also help improve photosynthesis, and make the tree more weather and disease resistant. You can treat the trees three times a year with 2 tablespoons per 9 square feet, applied over the root zone.

Magnesium deficiency problems

7. Prevent palm trees from getting “frizzle top” Frizzle top is what gardeners call the palm trees with yellow or light green leaves at the top. It looks as if the plant is having a bad hair day, hence the name. You can remedy this by applying epsom salt at the base and then spraying the leaves and crown with a liquid mixture (1 tablespoon mixed in a gallon of water).

8. Stop leaves from curling – Another problem plants incur due to a lack of magnesium is that their leaves begin to curl. If this is the case, you can drench the soil with a mixture of 1 tablespoon salt dissolved in 1 gallon of water, or just sprinkle salt into the soil before watering.

9. Avoid yellowing bougainvillea and gardenia leaves. These low maintenance plants are beautiful additions to a garden. However, due to their heavy flowering or if their soil pH is slightly off balance, they can suffer from low levels of magnesium, which results in yellowing blooms or foliage. You can fix this by sprinkling ½ cup of salt in the ground around the plant roots.

10. Put an end to yellowing leaves – When plants lack magnesium or sulfur, their foliage often turns yellow. Epsom salt’s technical name is magnesium sulfate, which makes it the perfect fix for this problem. Plants such as ferns, cycads, and elephant-ear plants benefit from richer foliage coloring with Epsom salt treatments. Add epsom salt to soil fertilizer once a month and, if you want to solve the problem more quickly, you can spray a solution of 1 tablespoon per gallon directly onto the plant leaves.

plant

11. Help with transplant shock – If you move a plant to a new location or from a pot to the ground, the roots can get damaged and shock can occur. Help the plant adapt more easily to its new environment by adding epsom salt, which facilitate chlorophyll production. Water after planting with a solution of one gallon water mixed with one tablespoon of epsom salt.

12. Keeps slugs away – epsom salt can offer a non-toxic way to rid your garden of unwanted pests. Sprinkling them will keep slugs and snails from nibbling on your plants leaves and fruit, making your garden safer for animals and children, because you didn’t add pesticides to the soil.

13. Easily remove tree stumps – epsom salt can help you drain a tree stump, so that it is easier to remove it. Drill holes in the top of the stump, with three to four inch gaps in between, and fill these with the salt. You can also pour it on any exposed roots to dry them out as well. Add water after filling the holes with the salt – it can take several tries to completely dry out the stump, but the salts speed up the process.

14. Help remove a splinter – It’s easy to get a splinter when working in the garden, even when wearing gloves. They can be irritating and painful, but epsom salt can help with this too. Soak the affected area with a mixture of 2 tablespoons of the salts dissolved in a cup of water. This solution will increase the skin’s osmotic pressure, and help draw the splinter out on its own.

15. Kill weeds – Create a homemade weed killer that can efficiently destroy weeds but won’t damage your growing plants. Mix 2 cups of epsom salt with 1 gallon of vinegar, and add a few squirts of liquid dish soap into the solution. Store this in a spray bottle and apply to any destructive weeds.

Source….www.ba-bamail.com

Natarajan